The Daughters of Ahlulbayt - Sayed Saleh Qazwini

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[0:00]team um foreign thank you foreign [Music] [Music] foreign cabin [Laughter] [Music]

[2:54]thank you foreign [Music] [Music] foreign [Music] foreign foreign it is too

[4:56]often that we see in societies and in different cultures that the

[5:03]role of woman is undermined this is something that you see in

[5:09]ancient civilizations pre-islamic Arabia and in other civilizations the Romans the Chinese

[5:19]the Persians many other cultures used to undermine the role of women

[5:25]you find in many cases female were treated women were treated as

[5:32]second and third class citizens and they were not given their rights

[5:36]and they were not given the respect that they deserve and the

[5:42]Quran sheds light to how some of the pre-islamic Arabs would treat

[5:49]their daughters and would treat women in their lives for some when

[5:53]they had a daughter in the pre-islamic Arabs when they had a

[5:58]daughter they would feel the shame they would feel as if something

[6:02]horrible has happened to them and Allah mentions this in the Quran

[6:12]when they tell him your wife has just given birth to a

[6:19]female then they would become angry they would become upset they would

[6:27]try to hide their face from people around them because of the

[6:31]bad news that they just deserved should he hold on to this

[6:38]daughter with shame or should he bury this news and bury this

[6:46]newborn child and the soil and this is something that was somewhat

[6:52]common meaning that they would bury a newborn as soon as the

[6:57]child is born if they find out that they don't want this

[7:00]child they would bury this child and they would kill the child

[7:04]basically and Allah talks about this in another verse in the Quran

[7:12]the one who is buried alive the one who has been killed

[7:17]she asks on the day of judgment why is it that I

[7:21]was killed why is it that I didn't give get a chance

[7:27]to live when Allah is The Giver of Life now of course

[7:29]we're talking about these ancient civilizations that used to do this one

[7:33]of the reasons was because they were afraid of poverty they were

[7:38]afraid that they're going to be poverty and Allah says in the

[7:41]Quran do not kill your children because you're afraid of poverty the

[7:52]razak the sustenance came to you and it also comes to your

[7:55]children as well the same way God gave you God is going

[7:58]to give your children some people think that they are the ones

[8:00]who give the razak now ironically we're talking about this thousands of

[8:08]years ago it used to happen but until today abortion is something

[8:12]that is very common and of course there are many reasons why

[8:19]sometimes people abort sometimes in very very rare cases it could be

[8:23]justified for example if a lady has been raped if a lady

[8:29]has been assaulted and this causes extreme type of pain and her

[8:33]life is going to become miserable it becomes haraj some Scholars say

[8:36]perhaps in some cases it would be allowed but most cases it's

[8:43]not because of assault it's not because of rape it's not because

[8:46]of these reasons that are mentioned it's because I it's not convenient

[8:49]for me I don't want to live my life right now I

[8:53]don't want to have to deal with this child right now or

[8:54]because I'm afraid of poverty so the same reasons the same reasons

[9:00]that used to take place hundreds and thousands of years ago now

[9:04]we see that one of the main teachings that the religion of

[9:09]Islam brought in the Quran brought is respect for genders male and

[9:18]female they're both equal in the eyes of Allah you know unfortunately

[9:22]today why do we have this big problem where some people they

[9:26]have a gender identity crisis some guys they want to change themselves

[9:30]into women or some woman they want to change themselves into men

[9:34]because Society has put in the minds of people that one gender

[9:40]is superior to other that one gender is better than another and

[9:44]people they they have this insecurity so they say no then in

[9:47]order for me to be respected in order for me to feel

[9:52]my sta my self-worth I have to come and change my gender

[9:58]when Allah says verily the best in the eyes of God is

[10:11]the one that has the most Allah does not favor men over

[10:16]women and Allah does not favor women over men today there are

[10:20]some people either they say some races are better the white race

[10:23]is better than the black race for example or the black race

[10:29]is better than the white race or the German the the are

[10:32]the the German race is better during Hitler's time so you see

[10:38]that this type of thinking this is negative Allah says there's no

[10:42]races there's no gender no age whatever it is you're all equal

[10:47]in the eyes of Allah and this is the beauty of Islam

[10:49]this is one of the reasons Islam is such an attractive religion

[10:54]however we see some Muslims they pray five times a day they

[11:00]go to Hajj maybe they praise they give their homes and their

[11:04]zakats and they do everything but there are still some things that

[11:07]they don't follow a hundred percent when it comes to the Quran

[11:10]you find some cultures today religious people they discriminate between their sons

[11:17]and their daughters they discriminate between men and women have you seen

[11:22]this before this is very common even with religious people it happens

[11:26]and for example I think most of the women will agree with

[11:32]this if a lady if a boy misbehaves they say malish you

[11:35]know he's a he's a boy it's okay they have to misbehave

[11:39]otherwise he's not going to be a he's not going to be

[11:42]a boy but if a girl does something wrong then it's the

[11:45]end of the world this is also not right and now of

[11:49]course as a parent the parent is supposed to be vigilant with

[11:52]both their sons and their daughters yes we understand and we comprehend

[11:55]that you have to be extra secure over your daughters because the

[12:01]chances of assault because of the chances of pain the consequences could

[12:06]be more severe but that does not mean that some people they

[12:10]say you know what my son let him do whatever he wants

[12:14]it doesn't matter I'll let my son do whatever he wants come

[12:17]back home at 2AM come back home 3 A.M whatever it does

[12:21]it doesn't matter he's a boy it's okay he's a man some

[12:24]people have the ideology so this is wrong when it comes to

[12:30]raising and disciplining your sons and daughters they have to be treated

[12:34]equally now sometimes as we understand the circumstances are different and we

[12:40]have a Hadith we have narrations that talk about the value of

[12:45]raising daughters today we want to talk about raising daughters because we're

[12:49]going to talk a little bit about the life of sukena the

[12:51]daughter of Imam Hussain who According to some narrations today is her

[12:56]death anniversary the daughter of Imam al-qadam and the sister of Imam

[13:02]who also these days and several of the daughters of the Elizabeth

[13:06]they had a very important role and we see that there is

[13:11]uh there is a reward in raising if someone is able to

[13:17]raise their daughters properly in a good way there's such a huge

[13:23]reward for that because Society they used to look at having as

[13:26]a daughter as have a burden this is a burden on your

[13:30]shoulder what am I going to do with this so rasulullah he

[13:32]would say I am the father of daughters rasulullah did not have

[13:37]sons rasulullah had daughters and he was and we see other prophets

[13:43]they also were prophets that had daughters if someone raises three daughters

[13:59]three daughters raising them properly Jannah Paradise becomes Paradise becomes obligatory upon

[14:08]this person Allah what if someone raised two daughters two daughters you

[14:16]raise them in a good manner they they pray they fast they

[14:20]do everything correctly foreign what about if someone raised one daughter in

[14:32]a good way in a perfect way where she she grows up

[14:39]protecting her majesty her Chastity her faith meaning that even if you

[14:46]are able to raise one daughter you raise her properly then heaven

[14:51]will become wajib upon you um having daughters is a hasana and

[15:03]having having Sons it's a blessing you receive the reward as soon

[15:13]as you have a daughter but having Sons you're going to be

[15:20]asked about of course we understand from this Hadith Allah if you

[15:24]raise Sons or daughters if you raise them properly you receive the

[15:28]reward but the reward that you receive for the daughter you will

[15:31]receive it right away you will receive it right away so we

[15:38]see that there's a lot of encouragement in the Islamic literature and

[15:46]the Hadith of the bait of raising daughters and having daughters you

[15:50]know today you see some people for example if they found out

[15:53]they were doing the gender reveal these you know you see all

[15:59]of these videos on YouTube on gender reveals a lot of times

[16:02]accidents happen in this as well sometimes you see some people they

[16:08]get very disappointed they find out that they're having a daughter they

[16:11]find out that they're having a son suddenly they see that you

[16:14]see that their face they start frowning they become upset and they

[16:19]their mood just changes you have to know that whatever Allah gives

[16:23]you some people Allah gives them Sons Allah says in the Quran

[16:30]some people Allah gives them Sons some people Allah gives them daughters

[16:36]and some people Allah gives them both and some people Allah does

[16:40]not give them Allah knows what is what is the best believe

[16:47]me we have a lot of narrations from rasulullah from the acid

[16:54]bait sometimes we complain about why did God do this to me

[16:56]and why did God not do this to someone else why did

[16:59]God make someone rich and why did God make someone poor for

[17:02]example there is Hadith it says that Allah made this person Rich

[17:05]because Allah knows that the only way this person will be on

[17:12]the right track is if this person has money and another person

[17:14]these are Menin these are believers that God wants to bless their

[17:17]lives and sometimes another person Allah kept them limited having less income

[17:22]because Allah knows that the only way this person will be today

[17:27]in person is if they have less money or the moment they

[17:32]have more money than they might probably turn away from Allah so

[17:35]Allah knows what's best and we should always say alhamdulillah for whatever

[17:41]Allah has given us and we should not question the will of

[17:46]Allah now we see that the role of daughters you see the

[17:50]prophets they had daughters and there were other prophets there were other

[17:58]prophets that are mentioned in the Quran that had daughters one of

[18:02]them is Prophet saw aib prophet sawib he had two daughters he

[18:09]didn't have any sons and Allah sent for him Musa runs away

[18:17]he's a fugitive he runs away from Egypt and he is running

[18:23]away he needs a place he needs shelter he goes to a

[18:26]place a watering well Allah mentions the story in the Quran he

[18:29]sees people they're collecting water and there's these two young daughters these

[18:32]two young ladies they're not getting near the water because there's so

[18:37]many men there he was strong he comes in with one hand

[18:40]he pulls the water out and he gives them the water and

[18:44]they go and they take the water then the daughter of the

[18:51]two daughters of shribe they go back to their father and they

[18:53]tell him we found this young man he looked Pious he looked

[18:58]very religious then one of them he sends one of his daughters

[19:17]afraid he had nowhere to go these two daughters because he helped

[19:21]them because he he was there for them he supported them he

[19:26]did an act of kindness Allah brought him to shaib and he

[19:32]lived under the protection of and he marries one of the daughters

[19:42]one of the daughters of she tells her father let him work

[19:47]for you because he seems like he's an honest person he's a

[19:49]good person these are two qualities if you want to have someone

[20:00]as for example for your daughters to marry or someone to work

[20:04]for you someone to to have these are two qualities I mean

[20:09]someone who's trustworthy and someone who also is strong strong in personality

[20:14]strong and strong in character and like Prophet Musa strong and muscles

[20:20]as well something we don't have so here we see that we

[20:24]see that the prophets they had daughters he also was a father

[20:34]of a daughter you look look at the role of Fatima Fatima

[20:37]Today some people they say you know the the daughters of the

[20:43]prophets they were just in the house no one knows them no

[20:45]one no one hears their voice no one knows anything about them

[20:49]they have no influential role in society and Community that's not true

[20:52]look at the daughters of they're the ones who brought Musa to

[20:57]Prophet Allah talks about Imran while she's modest while no one sees

[21:11]her no one sees her she has the modesty and the Chastity

[21:13]but at the same time she has The Bravery where do you

[21:17]find this it's really hard to find someone that is able to

[21:19]have both of these usually if someone has bravery and they come

[21:25]out they might lose on their modesty was able to have both

[21:29]and this is why Fatima had a very important role in the

[21:33]community and Society during the life of rasulullah she was a teacher

[21:37]she was an educator she was a person that would give sadaka

[21:40]and charity and teach people and after the life of rasulullah after

[21:43]the death of the Prophet these days last week we mentioned these

[21:48]days are the days she would come out and she would speak

[21:54]she came out and she spoke several times one time she goes

[21:59]to the houses of the foreign and the ansar they came to

[22:20]visit her and bukhari bukhari mentions she died while she was angry

[22:28]with Abu Bakr meaning that this was such a big thing but

[22:32]such a big event that bukhari mentions it and she made it

[22:37]very clear there's Hadith that says they came to visit her they

[22:40]came to try to seek her acceptance and she would turn her

[22:45]face and she would not she would she would not want to

[22:47]welcome them and not want to see them and of course the

[22:52]same bukhari also mentions my dissatisfaction and the pleasure of Fatima and

[23:03]Allah has angered by the anger of Fatima now we see another

[23:07]daughter the daughter of this past two months we're remembering the role

[23:18]of the family of Imam Hussain and Imam Hussain and all of

[23:21]that we would not have known anything about Imam Hussain if it

[23:25]was not for zainab there came a Time where people could not

[23:31]say why because they would punish anyone who mentions the name of

[23:38]Imam Ali it was sanctioned you can't say the name of so

[23:42]what would they say the people when they want to say this

[23:45]is the Hadith from Amir they would say now on the fifth

[24:08]of a day a day like yesterday or today is the death

[24:14]anniversary of Hussain now of course she was a very Pious lady

[24:27]a very great lady and she lived after Imam Hussain she lived

[24:32]until year 117 after hijrat that means she lived 56 years after

[24:36]Ashura and she lived to tell the story of Imam Hussain of

[24:41]course there's another there's other daughters of Imam Hussain one of them

[24:45]which she died in sham then there's Fatima Hussain there's other daughters

[24:50]of Imam Hussain but from the greatest of the daughters of Imam

[24:53]Hussain According to some narrations was Hussein he truly loved her there's

[25:02]her mother was and there's a there's a Hadith or there's a

[25:11]poem from Imam Hussain in which he says he says by your

[25:27]life I love a home that has I love them and I

[25:34]give all my wealth and no one could come and blame me

[25:39]for spending on them now according to narrations her name was probably

[25:44]Amina or Amina and sukena is the kunya the imams of the

[25:52]alibate they would give sometimes you see some of the mothers of

[25:55]the imams they have a name and they have a kunya what's

[26:01]up something that they are known by for example um some imams

[26:11]they have a kunya and some people it's must have to call

[26:16]even your your children or whatever give them a kunya as well

[26:20]so the kunya of mean s from sukoon Tranquility because she was

[26:30]so calm she was so calm she was so tranquil that is

[26:37]because she had that sukun in her and there's an interesting Hadith

[26:43]I read today it says that one of the sons of Imam

[26:49]al-hasan alaihissalam he comes after the death of Imam al-hassan this is

[26:56]he comes to Imam Al Hussain asking to marry one of his

[27:02]daughters Fatima or sukena there's two daughters Fatima and sukina so al-hasan

[27:09]he comes to Imam Hussain he tells them I want to marry

[27:11]one of your daughters he's his uncle and he comes and he

[27:13]wants to marry him so Imam Hussein he tells him he tells

[27:24]him Mary Fatima and he ended up marrying Fatima Hussein because she

[27:35]resembles my mother Fatima he says Mary Fatima because she resembles my

[27:41]mother Fatima Amma feed as for her faith the whole night she

[27:54]is praying and worshiping and during the day she is fasting and

[28:02]in her looks she resembles the that is how she how much

[28:10]she's how beautiful she is then he says as for my daughters

[28:22]she is drowning in her love and attachment to Allah so she

[28:29]is not wife material basically look at the look at the Fatima

[28:32]she's praying her whole night and she is worshiping she is she

[28:38]is marry her but as for sukhaina meaning that sukhena is even

[28:44]a level further than what Fatima is going even a level further

[28:48]than that so there was a quote we see that there was

[28:52]a close attachment between Imam Hussain and sukena and in his last

[28:59]words and saying farewell he saws okina crying on the day of

[29:03]Ashura and he tells her saying foreign these are the words of

[29:32]farewell had with his daughters okay and of course she delivered sermons

[29:37]in kufa and and Sham and later on she lived many years

[29:42]telling the story of Imam another daughter of the imams we're talking

[29:48]about the daughters of the al-bait is a very great and Pious

[29:57]lady she is buried in calm calm and that is over 30

[30:11]some children but these two Fatima and matsuma and Imam they shared

[30:19]the same mother and of course their father is Imam al-qadam this

[30:24]great lady she died when she was 28 years old she migrate

[30:30]she came all the way from Medina she she was traveling to

[30:34]go to Horizon to go see Imam because Imam the last couple

[30:39]years of his life he was forced to live in Exile he

[30:44]was forced to live in in uh in so she was going

[30:47]to see her brother and on the way and come that is

[30:52]where she passed away at the age of 28.

[30:56]now subhanallah sometimes some people their lives no one knows anything about

[31:01]their lives but Allah gives that Karama Allah puts that blessing this

[31:07]lady said all of the scholars and the Maharaja and the ulama

[31:10]those who live in home every day they go and they visit

[31:17]her Shrine and they all feel the blessings of being every day

[31:23]we would go before the class and after the class we would

[31:29]go and we would visit the the grave and the shrine and

[31:32]there's a Hadith there's narrations whoever visits of course here whenever you

[31:46]see this Hadith whoever does this they have Paradise Whoever has three

[31:49]daughters or two daughters or one daughter and all these that we

[31:52]mentioned this doesn't mean that this is just that's all that you

[31:56]need no but this is one of the conditions this is one

[32:00]of the means to Paradise so one of the means is the

[32:03]ziara of Masuma and another Hadith says whoever visits the grave of

[32:18]my aunt and Gom and he knows and she knows their haq

[32:21]and the role then this person has the paradise and she is

[32:28]known as this is one of the titles that is given to

[32:32]asaida Fatima in a few days we will be commemorating the shahada

[32:40]anniversary of Imam and in the house of Imam al-ascari there were

[32:49]also women and there was a lady that played a very important

[32:52]role in the birth of his son Imam and Mahdi and this

[32:57]is hakima hakima she is the daughter of Imam the daughter of

[33:05]Imam al-jawad and the sister of Imam al-hadi the um the aunt

[33:10]of Imam she is a daughter of an Imam a sister of

[33:15]an Imam the aunt of an Imam when the Imam when the

[33:20]12th Imam was born akima was there and she narrates the the

[33:24]tradition and the events that took place in the birth of Imam

[33:31]Allah in the birth of Imam al-madi she says I was at

[33:37]the house of my my nephew on the eve of the 15th

[33:39]of sha ban and I was about to leave he tells me

[33:42]stay oh my dear Aunt stay because tonight is going to be

[33:49]born she says who I don't see any signs of pregnancy she

[33:53]tells her not just is pregnant she didn't know now she is

[33:58]a lady and she sees not just all the time but she

[34:03]didn't know so he tells her yes Allah has hid the pregnancy

[34:07]of not just the same way Allah the pregnancy of the mother

[34:14]of Musa the mother of prophet Musa no one was able to

[34:17]tell that she was pregnant until she gave birth they couldn't tell

[34:23]because they were trying to the the Israelites were trying to kill

[34:26]any newborn child that was born and this was the same that

[34:32]benil Abbas they were doing with the son of Imam alaskar this

[34:35]is why Salam passed away and he passes away in the year

[34:45]260 after Hijra on the 8th of the eighth of also in

[34:49]a few days we commemorate the martyrdom anniversary of Imam al-hassan the

[34:55]narration says that he was poisoned he was poisoned by the Abbas

[35:01]Khalifa and as soon as the Imam alaihissalam showed signs that he

[35:05]is ill as soon as he showed sign signs of illness the

[35:12]Khalifa he sent guards and spies in the house of the Imam

[35:14]of course the Imam was living in Samara under house arrest right

[35:19]by the Palace of the of the Khalifa at that time because

[35:21]they were monitoring the Imam as soon as he showed signs of

[35:27]illness he sent these guards 24 hours there in the house of

[35:30]the Imam he says they're they're doctors they're coming to take care

[35:32]of you but of course they were spies so they were there

[35:38]so because they wanted to know who is going to be the

[35:43]next person after Imam al-askar when he dies who's going to be

[35:46]the next person that's going to be the Imam who are the

[35:50]Shia going to follow after so they were there monitoring and several

[35:54]days about a week passes until the 8th of Allah was passing

[35:59]away the narration says that he was able to leave them and

[36:04]he goes in a room and he goes into that room where

[36:06]his youngest son or his his only son Imam al-mahdi was there

[36:11]and no one had seen him he was in algebra even in

[36:14]the house of the Imam people did not know that there's this

[36:18]child in the house and the Imam alaihissalam passes away passes away

[36:23]then of course they come and they wash the body of the

[36:27]Imam and they're ready to do the Salah the Hadith says that

[36:29]the uncle the brother of Imam al-ascari the uncle of Imam and

[36:36]Matthew his name is jaffar and they call him the liar and

[36:38]this shows that sometimes you could be the son of an Imam

[36:42]the brother of an Imam but you could be astray jaffar he

[36:45]comes and he wants to lead the prayer and the house of

[36:50]the Imam he wants to lead the prayer over the janaza they

[36:54]say that this young child the five-year-old child who was Imam he

[36:58]comes and he pushes him away gently and he tells him it

[37:01]is my right to pray over my father and he does the

[37:05]Salah and he goes away he goes away they follow him they

[37:11]can't see him and that begins his occultation began immediately after the

[37:20]death of Imam and then they were unable to see him and

[37:29]these these were some of the events that took place in the

[37:33]shahada of Imam al-hasan we ask Allah to grant us the ziara

[37:43]and the shafara of the imams and the family of the imams

[37:47]and Imam al-hasan Alaska tomorrow during the Friday prayer we will talk

[37:53]a little bit more in depth about some of the ahadith and

[37:58]some of the lessons from the life of Imam alaskar let us

[38:02]raise our hands Allah foreign

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