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The Difference Between Dating And Marriage - Sayed Saleh Qazwini

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[0:03]except upon their spouses and the ones who they can build a

[0:11]legitimate relationship with then there's no blame for them on that fema

[0:16]nibita anyone that transgresses and goes outside these boundaries then this is

[0:25]transgressing the boundaries of allah and tries to satisfy their intimate desires

[0:38]outside marriage then it is considered haram in the religion of islam

[0:43]now some people they come and they say but it's just an

[0:45]innocent relationship it's not a big deal it's just an innocent relationship

[0:50]nothing's going on it's not allowed in the religion of islam why

[0:55]why is it not allowed why is that does the religion of

[1:01]islam say only through marriage you can build an intimate relationship the

[1:07]answer is that when you get married you are bringing allah subhanahu

[1:12]ta'ala as a third party that is making two halal upon one

[1:17]another when you get married you are acknowledging that you have to

[1:21]be committed to the relationship when you get married you are acknowledging

[1:24]and you are signing that now you have responsibilities and duties to

[1:29]your to your spouse to your wife to your husband and dating

[1:33]is there a commitment and dating is there a law that says

[1:38]that you have to do this and you have to do that

[1:40]you have to show this respect if there's a cho if there's

[1:42]a child who takes care of the child who who protects who

[1:46]sustains who provides there is no law there is no law and

[1:51]the chances of oppression and injustice taking place are going to be

[1:56]much higher why does allah want us to get married and we

[2:01]do the big tab or the nikah or the why because we're

[2:05]acknowledging that allah is in this and when we acknowledge that allah

[2:11]is in this relationship then that means we acknowledge that there are

[2:14]rules there are requirements there are duties the husband has duties the

[2:19]wife has duties every single person has a responsibility to in the

[2:23]in the relationship but when you're dating when you're just having a

[2:25]relationship just for the fun of it there's no laws there's no

[2:31]respect and there's no laws of taking care of one another of

[2:35]dealing with the challenges of one another marriage forces a person to

[2:43]commit it forces a person to be responsible the husband has duties

[2:46]towards the wife the wife has duties towards the husband but when

[2:50]there's no marriage then you don't know what your responsibilities and duties

[2:57]are and when people are just friends and building intimate relationships that

[3:02]are outside the boundaries of marriage the chances of injustice are going

[3:06]to be much greater you know right now there's a phenomenon or

[3:10]something that they talk about in the west

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