The Fish and the Marriage Argument! Inspirational Stories

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By Sheikh Mohammed Al-Hilli

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[0:00]this particular story of the existence of a particular King who had

[0:07]a my silly wife said her name was Queen Shaheen cannot recall

[0:13]the name of the king one day he said I want a

[0:19]competition for the best fish to be presented to me somehow in

[0:23]this discussion fish has been mentioned a few times so which sailor

[0:28]can bring me the best fish so when when particular sailor brought

[0:34]him a huge fish he said I'm going to give you one

[0:36]thousand gold coins that was the best his wife came to him

[0:42]the queen and said to him one thousand gold coins is too

[0:44]much why are you giving that much yes give less he said

[0:49]but I've already given it I can't take it back she said

[0:53]I'll tell you how to take it back he said how she

[0:56]said tell him I was looking for a male fish ask him

[1:00]first is it male or female if he says female says I

[1:04]was looking for a male and if he says it's male say

[1:05]I was looking for a female fish yes and as a result

[1:09]take your money back so he calls the sailor he says to

[1:14]him this fish that you gave me what kind of fish is

[1:16]it male or female he said your majesty it's Unique it's neither

[1:21]male or female the King was so impressed he gave him another

[1:29]one thousand so now this wife is angry instead of taking back

[1:34]the Thousand now it's two thousand he is walking with the two

[1:41]bags one thousand one thousand one coin drops from the back he

[1:45]starts looking for it one out of two thousand gold coin everywhere

[1:49]she looks at him and says you they think I am my

[1:51]silly you are you have 1999 gold coins and one gold coin

[1:58]you he looks at tenses your majesty it's not the one gold

[2:03]queen I'm looking for it's the fact that this gold coin has

[2:07]the picture of my king I don't want anyone to step on

[2:09]it the king Smiles gives him another one thousand sometimes not having

[2:17]generosity or Karam yes is a problem in marital relationships and in

[2:23]family setups meaning that for example one of the beautiful things to

[2:28]do in marriages specifically in marriages is to surprise each other with

[2:32]a gift to how do tahabu yes there are people today who

[2:37]don't understand there are what is called as Love Languages meaning there

[2:40]are ways people love to be loved not always it's about saying

[2:45]to somebody that you love them or for example spending time with

[2:49]them or for example having the physical touch yes holding them sometimes

[2:54]he's giving them gift and the best gift sometimes are unexpected gifts

[2:58]when it's given when the person doesn't expect it at all it

[3:04]shows genuine love in this particular way isn't it sometimes in this

[3:08]uh marital setup what we find is couples who have lived so

[3:12]long together they have they forget these some gestures yes look at

[3:16]them I mean when he came home in a state that you

[3:21]know she wasn't comfortable he said to her what can I do

[3:23]she said don't worry he said no no tell me she said

[3:25]you know I want a pomegranate how can you get a pomegranate

[3:28]in Madina it was not the season yes and it was very

[3:33]difficult but Ali's love for Sayed that was such that whatever it

[3:35]takes I will find you one yes whatever it takes I will

[3:39]look and go and you know the story yes here it is

[3:40]recommended as an important quality between husband and wife and that is

[3:49]to ensure that sometimes even tell us on the day of Friday

[3:53]a recommendation is for the father to bring some sweets to the

[3:57]family yes we are told one of the quality of those who

[4:01]are protected from fish is what so many things you do it's

[4:11]there in reward it is when you feed people sweets subhanallah I

[4:14]was looking at this I said alhamdulillah sugary Sweet Tooth we have

[4:21]yes it's good to feed people sweets now today dentists will say

[4:24]what are you doing yes but very why I'd say it's an

[4:28]it's a metaphor for placing happiness because usually when you eat sugar

[4:31]if you feel happy yes when you place this happiness in the

[4:35]hearts of Believers yes which pleases Allah so it protects from the

[4:39]squeezing of the Grave right so imagine the happiness that would bring

[4:43]about between husband and wife by surprising her or surprising him with

[4:46]a gift not only birthday not only anniversary I know some meaning

[4:49]will say please let's start with those because those are forgotten usually

[4:56]yes at least those and then surprised but all are necessary

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