Our Responsibilities Towards Our Mothers - Sayed Ali Khalkhali

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[0:11]all right mentioned on seven separate occasions respect goodness kindness towards the

[0:30]parents after the important duty of obedience and worship none other than

[0:41]Allah the next most important duty that he mentions to us isana

[0:51]is to show goodness and kindness towards one's parents he mentions the

[0:58]important between us and the relationship between us and Allah that direct

[1:05]relationship and the next most important duty that we all have is

[1:09]that relationship that we should have towards our parents and in two

[1:16]verses in particular Allah after reminding us of this kindness and goodness

[1:25]towards parents if the highlights of the two parents the roles and

[1:32]duties of the mother he States foreign that's in particular the great

[1:54]honorable status of the mother needs to be highlighted but also he

[2:01]reminds us that of the goodness and the son that we showed

[2:06]to both our parents remember your mother carried you when no one

[2:14]else carried your mother carried you and fed you from the warmth

[2:23]of her love from the nutrients and from the best care that

[2:28]could be given and she went through the pangs of difficulties Quran

[2:35]times of hardship and she gave birth to you as a newborn

[2:41]in this world again times of difficulty and hardship but out of

[2:51]love and care for the newborn she went through all the difficulties

[2:56]out of love for Allah and a love for that newborn baby

[3:02]but it did not stop there she continued to show her care

[3:08]and love she continued to feed you those early years the infancy

[3:15]is the mother feeds and gives the best of nutrients best of

[3:24]proteins antibodies and everything to take care and the feeding of that

[3:30]newborn baby and in fact you find that the ahadith mentioned the

[3:34]importance and the status of the mother and the Quran Allah reminds

[3:42]us of the love towards the mother the instrumental role that the

[3:51]mother has in the upbringing of the child the instrumental role the

[3:57]mother has during those nine months of pregnancy that she goes through

[4:04]difficulty sacrificing food drinks and other things medication even knowing what food

[4:12]and drink is good for the child she would take it for

[4:17]the fetus she'll take it food or drinks or anything that may

[4:25]be harmful to the fetus she will avoid even if it means

[4:28]that she would go through more difficulties if she's going through some

[4:36]illness during the moment of her pregnancy and the doctors say you

[4:39]can't take this medication why can I not I've usually taken him

[4:42]I've taken it before they would say because it will be harmful

[4:45]towards thee the fetus would the mother take it no out of

[4:52]love for that fetus out of love for that baby out of

[4:58]love for the one that is growing within her she provides the

[5:02]best of support the best of care even her surroundings she tries

[5:11]her best to give it the best of surroundings energy sleepless nights

[5:18]moments of difficulty and hardship but she knows it will be the

[5:24]best for the care and love that she has for the newborn

[5:27]for her son for her daughter in fact many times parents may

[5:37]think or may consider that when it comes to that newborn baby

[5:41]the father the mother we both have a role in the newborn

[5:45]baby of course both have a role but the role of the

[5:50]mother has been highlighted in the Hadith the role of the mother

[5:55]and the rewards of the mother has been mentioned many times sometimes

[5:59]people may say yes not process the biological process of a baby

[6:08]of the fertilization it was one cell from the male and oneself

[6:14]from the female so we should be rewarded 50 50 50 we

[6:21]are both involved in the Fertilization in the process in the fetus

[6:29]in the growth well in fact scientists say that maybe you may

[6:35]think that is oneself from one to another but the mothers role

[6:40]in the protoplasms in the nutrients in the growth and the additional

[6:48]requirements the essential requirements that are needed for the growth of the

[6:56]fetus shows that there is more share that the female and the

[6:59]mother has in what in the growth of that fetus parents went

[7:06]to a court case regards to the custody of a child father

[7:13]and the mother and they said that this baby of us once

[7:18]said I need this is my child and it's for me I

[7:23]should keep it and the other said no it's mine I should

[7:25]keep it so the judge said to the father why do you

[7:31]think that you should have it he said well I was the

[7:35]one that brought it to existence I was the one who was

[7:38]the origin and I release it to this world and started to

[7:44]say the biological process that look I am the one who should

[7:47]have the custody of the child the mother was very smart in

[7:55]her response she said You released it after a few seconds of

[7:59]production I kept it within me after nine months and released it

[8:04]in this world You released it whilst it was a few the

[8:09]weight of it the mass was it was a few I kept

[8:13]it when it was kilograms and kilograms and heavy within my womb

[8:18]you release it out of your pleasure and desires out of your

[8:26]shower I release it in this world out of my love and

[8:29]care for the baby and newborn in the sense that the mother's

[8:37]care for the newborn the mother's care for the child has been

[8:41]mentioned so many times in the Hadith in the verses of the

[8:44]Quran that's when akman came to the holy prophet said ya rasulullah

[8:50]who shall be extra kind and caring towards and the holy brother

[8:58]wanted to rank and state the highlands highlight the status of the

[9:03]mother he said um and after who he said um your mother

[9:11]he said then after who he said um three occasions then who

[9:14]then he said yo your father also kindness and goodness towards the

[9:20]father on another occasion the man came he said ya rasulullah what

[9:24]are the rights of my father and what are the rights of

[9:29]my mother the heart the duty and care towards the mother and

[9:34]the care towards my father he said your father must be obeyed

[9:41]throughout your life you must obey and be good and kind towards

[9:44]your father he said what about my mother he said your mother

[9:49]he said if all of these single particles of sand in the

[9:59]desert and all of the drops of rain that have been blessed

[10:02]in this earth if you are to try to collect them and

[10:06]count them you'll never be able to repay a single day that

[10:13]she carried you within her womb you'll never be able to repay

[10:17]that goodness and exam that your mother had towards you that's why

[10:24]a man he carried his mother on his shoulders carried her towards

[10:28]the holy city of Makkah and performed the tawaf around the holy

[10:33]Kaaba and then asked Imam and asked foreign between a son between

[10:47]a daughter between a child and their mother some people the mother

[10:53]asked them can you go to the grocery down the road he

[10:55]makes excuses can you do this today can you do all the

[10:59]excuses and then when he does the good work and exercise says

[11:01]look mom I've done this good work for you as if he's

[11:06]done a great favor the man carried his mother one round performed

[11:12]the response came not to one moment of painful contraction that she

[11:23]went through that she gave birth to you will never be able

[11:31]to return the love and care that our mother has given towards

[11:34]us that's why on these nights on these days we need to

[11:42]honor and always honor our parents show love and care and these

[11:44]nights some days when we remember the mother of the um we

[11:51]need to remember the rights of a mother the love of the

[11:59]mother the care towards the mother how much highlight the importance of

[12:06]love and care towards the mother and sometimes we are sidetracked sidetracked

[12:15]in what sense that those people who try to say look you

[12:20]don't need to show care towards your mother you don't need to

[12:23]love your father stop loving your mother stop loving your father as

[12:27]if that love of the mother and father is something that is

[12:33]conditional no the love of the mother the love of the father

[12:36]towards their son and daughter is unconditional out of love towards their

[12:41]son out of love towards their daughter they'll give everything to provide

[12:47]the best I read the recently and it was something that I

[12:50]really wanted to share in various versions the story you may have

[12:56]heard a young man recently married whenever he would go towards his

[13:04]wife's house and see the Mother-in-law he would notice the mother-in-law has

[13:08]so much love towards her daughter his wife and every few weeks

[13:14]you'd see that the mother would would overflow with showing her love

[13:20]and care towards her daughter this is natural the cared the love

[13:24]the expression and this husband thought what's going on why is she

[13:32]loving my wife so much and I want to exchange this love

[13:35]and try to remove the love the mother has towards the daughter

[13:41]and I want her to only love me my wife to only

[13:43]love me not to love her mother and stop loving her mother

[13:48]stop caring for her mother and this sometimes you find these kind

[13:52]of attitudes sometimes are praying into some of our communities we need

[13:59]to be careful the love of the mother the love of the

[14:03]father is something that has no bounds unconditional show the care show

[14:08]the love so this young man he went to the local pharmacy

[14:13]and he said look I've got a favor you know I have

[14:20]a mother-in-law she loves her daughter so much I don't want you

[14:24]to give me something maybe I can add it in her food

[14:27]that would reduce the love that she has towards the ear daughter

[14:34]he said let me think about it for a moment he went

[14:38]he came back he said I've got something it's like a poison

[14:41]you can add it into the herbs and the spices and every

[14:46]day you add it and you'll see some change in the behavior

[14:49]but there are some conditions he said sure what are the conditions

[14:54]he said first condition you don't put the full dose into the

[15:00]meal because they'll be suspicious they'll realize you've given her something second

[15:04]condition is you during this time show the best of you don't

[15:14]lose your temper you be good towards her you be kind towards

[15:18]her you be patient towards her you be persevering you show all

[15:25]of the goodness towards her so sure that's a deal he took

[15:31]the bottle and slowly slowly every few days you'll put something through

[15:36]the meal of hers some added spices and after some weeks him

[15:43]being good towards her he noticed that she was in her she

[15:49]was always very good and he was still being good and he

[15:52]would add a bit more he would see that her response was

[15:56]great and she would show the great nobility and great humor and

[15:59]he would also you'll be patient any moment that there would be

[16:01]if you he'll be patient and say it maybe she'll get ill

[16:05]in a few days maybe she'll leave this world and he would

[16:09]see but after some time he would notice that no even though

[16:12]he was still really good and showing goodness she would overflow in

[16:16]her goodness she would show her smiles she would always be that

[16:21]good natured that she had towards the daughter was the son-in-law he

[16:26]went back to the Pharmacy or to the shop that he went

[16:30]to he said oh man can I ask you not to give

[16:36]me any more doses that you were refitting in this bottle he

[16:39]said why he said I'm worried that you gave me this and

[16:44]it will make her ill and she may pass away because in

[16:49]the last few months has been amazing towards me she's been really

[16:54]kind she's been really caring she's been really sweet I don't know

[16:57]it may be something in this in this bottle that you've given

[17:01]me that's changed her attitude and she's become a really amazing lady

[17:06]he said no what I gave you was no poison what I

[17:10]gave you was not what you thought I actually gave you some

[17:17]vitamins within this but what changed was your attitude towards her what

[17:22]changed was your attitude towards her and you saw the beauty and

[17:31]her in her love and her care towards you and this is

[17:33]what we need to always be that we need to always be

[17:39]the best one always caring always reciprocating the love that's why you

[17:46]find the teachings of the Muslim would state that Allah foreign is

[17:57]pleased with the one who pleases their parents and Allah is full

[18:04]of anger and wrath displeased with the one who displeases their parents

[18:10]in fact we have a narration that states [Music] being good towards

[18:19]one parents it's great and to be kind and good towards your

[18:32]parents a man came to the holy prophet he said ya rasulullah

[18:38]I wish to come in those Journeys that you are there I

[18:43]wish to come with you but I have an elderly mother I

[18:48]need to stay with her I need to feed her I need

[18:52]to take care of her she is feeble and weak and sometimes

[18:57]I need to even carry her the holy prophet said staying beside

[19:02]your mother has more thawab than the front lines in the army

[19:08]of those who wish to be with rasulullah in the Jihad that

[19:13]the sawab that you being beside her is even greater and we've

[19:17]all heard of the story of Oasis who wish to see rasulullah

[19:22]he was from Yemen but his mother was asking him to stay

[19:28]and requested for him to stay beside him until she gave him

[19:35]that permission for one day he went and couldn't see rasulullah rasulullah

[19:39]was outside the town he thought to himself should I continue to

[19:43]obey my mother who says stay for one day and come back

[19:48]or should I stay I yearn for rasulullah he returned because he

[19:52]knew of the promise that he gave to his mother he returned

[19:55]and the holy prophet would respond that there is that fragrance of

[20:00]Jannah from the one who came from Karan from weisel the fragrance

[20:07]of Jannah that love that a mother has towards their son that's

[20:12]love that the mother has towards their daughter that's all they want

[20:18]is the best towards their daughter they want their best of care

[20:22]towards their beloved ones that's why we need to be careful of

[20:29]the shameful Behavior of the disappointing behavior of Disturbing Behavior that sometimes

[20:37]we see outside that they recommend for example that one should what

[20:44]have no care anymore or forget about your parents neglect them once

[20:50]in a while think about them no Islam constantly reminds us the

[20:55]importance of praying for your parents praying for your parents in your

[21:02]duas constantly Wally Day always ask Allah those who are alive amongst

[21:11]them amongst us to pray for them and try our best to

[21:13]serve them show our goodness and kindness towards them those who have

[21:19]passed away may Allah bless them and constantly ask Allah foreign brothers

[21:42]and sisters may have remembered of this nice moral anecdote a young

[21:54]boy has so many lessons in this it was unfortunately ashamed of

[21:59]his mother wherever his mother would follow him he would put his

[22:06]head down and discuss something why is my mother with me why

[22:09]is she coming to the Palm why is she coming to the

[22:13]ceremonies with me why is she coming to school pick me up

[22:15]his mother had one eye one eye and the other she was

[22:24]blinded he couldn't see she had one eye but whenever the sun

[22:30]would be disrespectful she would continue to be full of kindness and

[22:34]care towards the Sun he grew he got married he left the

[22:42]city that his mother was after some years the mother came to

[22:50]knock on his door and asked to see his son his beloved

[22:58]one as soon as he opened the door to see it was

[23:01]his mother he slammed the door and said it seems you've got

[23:07]the wrong address she left she returned home after some time he

[23:17]received a letter it is his graduation reunion ceremony he thought let

[23:23]me go to the graduation reunion he looked into the party in

[23:30]in the graduation he noticed his mother was not there he felt

[23:34]happy she's not going to embarrass me she's not going to be

[23:38]full of disappointment I'm going to be happy now my mother's not

[23:41]here every day she used to come to this school every day

[23:45]she used to come to the college and I felt embarrassed from

[23:47]her after the graduation ceremony he went to his home his old

[23:59]home to think and remind himself of his childhood he opened the

[24:06]door he saw his mother had collapsed on the floor and there

[24:10]was a letter in her hands my dear son for years and

[24:19]years and years I saw you growing the light of my eyes

[24:24]my Noor of my eyes my delight and you are ashamed for

[24:30]me you embarrassed from me let me tell you my beloved Son

[24:35]when you are born you had the problem with your eyes so

[24:43]I sacrificed my eyes and gifted it to you a surgery took

[24:45]place and the eye that I had was transplanted and given to

[24:55]you I sacrificed my eye my eyesight for you to have a

[25:00]future full of eyesight foresight Insight in this world and he fell

[25:08]down ashamed of his past ashamed of his disgusting manners and disturbing

[25:14]manners we need to remind ourselves brothers and sisters the care and

[25:21]love towards our mother the care and love that towards their mother

[25:28]the care and love that our holy prophet Muhammad who was an

[25:41]orphan the care that he had towards his mother a love that

[25:47]he had towards his mother Amina Amina the care and love foreign

[26:13]were full of love and honor towards their mother towards their parents

[26:21]On A Night Like This days like these where we remember the

[26:27]the year of rasulullah when we remember rasulullah the love that he

[26:36]had towards Salaam who gave away her wealth for Islam who gave

[26:45]away everything that she had for rasulullah her beloved husband everything that

[26:53]I have is for your path for the path of Allah she

[27:01]was the first to embrace Islam and give her support not only

[27:05]her moral support not only her material support but everything within her

[27:12]for the sake of Islam for the sake of Allah a true

[27:20]Blessed Mother nights like these rasulullah and passed away and he had

[27:30]to place her within her cobra say the Khadijah had given everything

[27:34]away that even a caffeine of her own rasulullah asks Allah that

[27:43]say the Khadijah has given everything from Herman from her wealth away

[27:48]that even a Kevin of hers she had no foreign and condolences

[28:06]a Heavenly Kevin to shroud the say the Khadija Allah say the

[28:16]Khadijah was buried in the city of Mecca rasulullah and the remembers

[28:24]of the family of rasulullah of say the Khadija beside her mourning

[28:29]and grieving on the 10th of the holy month of Ramadan foreign

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