Youth Struggles

11 المشاهدات· 24/08/10

Shaykh Dr. Usama Al-Atar
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Lecture by Dr. Usama Al-Atar
ISIA - Edmonton
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[0:00]rahim alhamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen Bob ill holla at the edge marimba

[0:09]Columbia evil mousseline from Isola to a salam ala Ashraful ambia what

[0:21]say ye dil mousseline habibi illa Allah mean al mustafa a below

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[0:43]sown in almont avi aladin audible AA an who know me to

[0:49]serve Allah he was a mob at Papa Jeff ill hadith Sharif

[0:58]an imam al hassan el mujtaba sallallahu alehiwassallaam oh ho ali-a no

[1:07]in nakhon SI ho ho o me voy un sacco Articuno Kaiba

[1:10]home in a hurry pattalam ull family Mia's total men come photofunia

[1:18]to vuelva a movie vent a sadhaka milan al imam al mustafa

[1:29]so lovato masala solanum omidvaram hamid these days are the days of

[1:36]the 10th imam al imam al hadi salamat alehiwassallaam Haleh the 10th

[1:43]nor and the light of Amana from a lil betta la tabla

[1:48]he was a la la and the reason I say we're in

[1:52]the days of the Imam is because there is a tradition a

[1:54]narration that stays he was born on the second day of Rajab

[2:00]which is today and another tradition that says he was martyred on

[2:03]the third day of Rajab he died on the third day of

[2:07]Rajab which is tomorrow so that's why it's we're in the days

[2:09]of imam al hadi alehissalaam so today coincides with one of the

[2:13]narrations of his birthday tomorrow is with one of the narrations of

[2:18]his martyrdom and they were fat salam ala he I lay this

[2:22]Imam of course he became an imam at the age of eight

[2:28]his father de ma ma jawad sallallahu alehiwassallaam Holly who was killed

[2:33]as the youngest Imam at the age of 25 so he knew

[2:38]mammal haji ali salon became an imam at the age of 8

[2:40]years old and this is no surprise in fact an imam o

[2:46]globo alayhis salaam because lee mammal jawad also became an imam at

[2:49]a young age as well so mr magoo bali salam was asked

[2:53]who is going to be the Imam after you he said this

[2:58]my son they told him he's a child he said haven't you

[3:00]read the Quran where allah subhana allah says smell of manure hain

[3:03]vah artena holy Mesabi goes to ya salam ala holly yeah yeah

[3:12]yeahs fidel kita Bobby powah were attained a hawk Mesabi ax oh

[3:16]yeah here take the scripture which is referred let a lot and

[3:20]we've given him the signs of prophethood the signs of Naboo hokum

[3:28]the knowledge the helm from a young age of course according to

[3:32]our belief a prophet is born as a prophet and Imam is

[3:36]born as an imam so is born as muscle infallible and all

[3:38]of our Imams when they are born they are in the state

[3:45]of sujood and recite an ayah of the Quran so he said

[3:48]that doesn't matter at a young age or old age his history

[3:52]mom after me imam al hadi alehissalaam also became an imam at

[3:55]the age of 8 years old now imam al hadi of course

[4:00]had a difficult life you know in today's language we may say

[4:08]he had a rough life a rough life how so he was

[4:11]summoned with his father to Baghdad by by the abbess's my mom

[4:18]and javed ali salam is buried in baghdad he was summoned to

[4:22]Baghdad with his father now he was a little boy at the

[4:26]time he had to go to all these difficulties and the migrations

[4:29]and then his father was killed when he was a boy at

[4:33]the age of 8 years old which is not easy it's difficult

[4:35]to have a father who's lost especially if the father is I'm

[4:41]assume any mom like you wanna geohot I think he set up

[4:43]so he died there then he came back to medina and he

[4:51]resumed the responsibilities of the e mama then he was summoned to

[4:55]come back at the age of about twenty one he was about

[4:59]twenty twenty-one years old he was summoned to come back to samara

[5:02]this time by Al Matawa killer abbasi said now you have to

[5:06]move so he they brought him in samagra and the city or

[5:13]the particular place where he was kept was known as Alaska referring

[5:17]to the military so he was kept in a military confinement so

[5:23]he was under constant surveillance difficult time and then after 14 years

[5:29]of oppression with Elmo tuaca del abbasi came the killers after him

[5:35]and he lived for seven years after the after that under the

[5:39]oppressions of these abbasi Caleb's one after the other and by that

[5:42]time the Turkish people started getting control of the power so the

[5:51]Calif himself had no control anymore after Alma tawa killer ab bas

[5:53]in fact the turkish p pull those army people they killed them

[5:57]with our kill they killed him as he was drinking alcohol as

[6:01]he was having his alcohol they drink him and they cut him

[6:04]into pieces and his flesh fell right into their alcohol that he

[6:09]was drinking the wine that he was having and interestingly the title

[6:14]they give to this whatever killin abbasi is the one who is

[6:18]mahi soon and never will you know the one who revived the

[6:21]tradition of the holy prophet I don't know which tradition of the

[6:24]holy prophet that this matter of I've you know other than the

[6:26]oppression against the Shia the followers of a little bait that was

[6:33]he was famous for and trying to destroy the shrine of a

[6:35]shrine of Imam Hussein alehissalaam that's that's what that's what he's famous

[6:41]for bloodthirsty leader that wasn't whatever kilowatt bus and this is how

[6:46]he died Subhan Allah and we'll come to some of the difficulties

[6:49]this Alma taught killer abbasi summons and imam al hadi alehissalaam to

[6:57]some of his gatherings and we'll come to that in charlotte wrote

[7:00]the discussion so he lived with that then seven years afterwards until

[7:04]basically he was poisoned by one of those are basically lives by

[7:07]the name of allah mohammed al abbasi and he dies at the

[7:12]age of about 40 to give or take at the age of

[7:16]14 so his life was a very tough life very rough losing

[7:18]a father at a young age he had to travel from one

[7:24]place to another place military confinement constant surveillance he was being called

[7:31]to these modulus of Amitabha kill and those abbasi corrupt abbasi lay

[7:36]leaders now how did he react with all this and given the

[7:39]fact that he died at the age of 42 which means most

[7:42]of his life he spent as a kind of youth man you

[7:46]know at a young age as most of his life was a

[7:51]youthful life at the age of 42 how did he respond to

[7:52]all these struggles and that's what we would like to take a

[7:58]look at today the youth and their struggles and let's take a

[8:02]look at the life of the Iman how did he manage to

[8:05]cope with some of the struggles such that we can draw some

[8:08]lessons from him in our lives now the youth constantly are the

[8:16]ones who bring change to a society they have this momentum so

[8:22]that's why it's important for a person or for a leader to

[8:28]attract the youth bring them in order for a person to attract

[8:31]them to bring man he must understand their mentality you must understand

[8:35]how they're thinking in order to understand how they're thinking you must

[8:40]understand the time they're living the time that they live in is

[8:46]different from time to time and that which requires a leadership that

[8:51]understands this dynamic of the time so that he or she can

[8:53]understand how this youth is thinking thinking and how to interact with

[8:57]them otherwise if we keep thinking about the u.s.

[9:01]let's say 50 60 years ago their time you know they did

[9:04]not have all the internet was nothing to existence back then you

[9:08]know just yesterday yesterday i was listening that maybe even this morning

[9:13]on the radio yesterday today anyways they're talking about canadians you know

[9:18]they're amending the copyright laws the copyright laws are being amended now

[9:21]they say the last amendment to copyright laws was made back in

[9:27]1997 now not too long ago if you think about it you

[9:32]know we're talking about 15 years ago but they say of course

[9:35]a lot of things have changed since 1997 no since 1997 internet

[9:39]was not a big thing back in 1997 was just starting internet

[9:44]in fact not many people who can have here the email addresses

[9:46]back in 1997 few people had all this technology think people had

[9:50]what they call their pen pals you know the pen pals you

[9:54]know on the internet you say like what are pen pals what

[9:57]is all this you know nonsense nonetheless many professors at universities I

[10:00]remember they did not have email addresses back then you know I

[10:04]would go to university said you have an email i said no

[10:06]what email address know you want me you have to come to

[10:09]my office no the horn so we're not talking really loud that

[10:11]long ago but that time internet was not an existent all this

[10:17]downloads and everything was not an existence at the time so they

[10:21]say although the cop right laws were amended back in 1997 now

[10:25]we need to amend them again we need talent because so much

[10:30]has changed since 1997 so within 15 years you can imagine how

[10:33]much has changed and involved that the laws have to be rewritten

[10:40]and revised again and again so imagine the youth and what they

[10:43]have gone through over the past 15 years ago 15 years ago

[10:44]if you find someone with a cell phone especially these cell phone

[10:48]they look like a brick I don't know if you've seen them

[10:49]you know that the bricks people used to carry a brick you

[10:52]know you need someone to carry it with you for you you

[10:53]know those cell phones if someone you see with that wow mashallah

[10:58]you know like this is like this guy is out of this

[11:00]world you know this today you'll find a person who's maybe it

[11:05]on a five-year-old with a cell phone in his hand in his

[11:07]pocket you know or some of these gadgets in his pocket today

[11:10]they're in fact maybe you'll go to the delivery room you find

[11:14]his born with one in his hand you know they come with

[11:19]what they come together for the package so now our children you

[11:21]know you tell them those people who are born after the year

[11:23]two thousand you know when they started to will get aware of

[11:27]things as to the age of the Internet you tell them that

[11:28]you know what back in the 90s there was no internet they

[11:33]say how did you guys live how did you live with no

[11:37]internet I mean how was it even they don't even understand and

[11:39]it's true if you think about it you have to write a

[11:43]letter you posted and you wait like a month six months later

[11:45]you get the reply back and it's like you know a day

[11:48]of Eid when you receive a letter in the mail from someone

[11:50]you love you know today how you doing how are you amen

[11:53]and then you don't have time you know you put like you

[11:55]know initials and then apply within two minutes I'm okay today text

[11:58]messaging and all this life has evolved when was the last time

[12:02]you received the letter and the mail from someone you know beside

[12:05]bills you know bills ear unfortunately side bills when was the last

[12:09]time we're receiving letters these days you know so life has evolved

[12:14]a person who wants to sit down and really lead these you

[12:16]must understand this is the life they're living I cannot come down

[12:19]with them and discuss what them about it shows about 50-60 years

[12:24]ago and that's why imam al haji ali salam monday a man

[12:26]by the name of Edna sook eat Evan was sick eat every

[12:30]no sir keith was a scholar of language very well known famous

[12:33]he's got many books on language well very well respected everybody respects

[12:37]him in terms of language evidence to keith was a follow-up of

[12:41]the imam salam ala holly this man one day asked le monde

[12:47]el haji ali salaam he said yep Nagisa Leela why is it

[12:51]that musa alayhis salaam came with a different miracle from ISIL Islam

[12:58]Lisa came with a different miracle from the Prophet sallallahu ala who

[13:02]and why is that the case how come Musa came with the

[13:05]serpent and the hand that for example glows and so on so

[13:11]forth this magic ASA alayhis salaam came with the revival of the

[13:14]dead and curing the blind and the Deaf our holy prophet he

[13:20]came with the Quran why is that difference how come he said

[13:24]the abbe Nesirky every generation has its time has it's basically the

[13:31]advancements that it has has the knowledge of the time every generation

[13:38]is different and therefore the miracle that comes must be addressed to

[13:43]that particular time addressing the needs of that particular generation at the

[13:48]time of musa alayhis salaam you had people who were well versed

[13:55]and magic people who knew tricks it is said that you know

[13:58]on the day when they had a competition between musa alayhis salaam

[14:01]and the magicians what the magicians did is they had ropes they

[14:07]dip these robes into mercury those of you have seen mercury it's

[14:11]a very shiny metallic looking element so they dip them in mercury

[14:14]and they chose a day that was a sunny day sunny when

[14:20]the Sun hits off mercury it reflects that reflection appears as something

[14:25]is moving that's what nothing is moving is just a trick so

[14:28]that magicians knew this trick they dip them in mercury people didn't

[14:34]know this trick and they threw their ropes the ropes appeared to

[14:38]the eyes of the people that they are moving is just you

[14:41]know a trick a scientific trick that the magicians new alert musa

[14:47]alayhis salaam game notes was not a trick his cane all of

[14:52]the sudden turned into a snake it is said the size of

[14:56]the snake was you know it went to the dome of around

[14:58]had a palace his palace had a dome one end of the

[15:02]jaw was in one end of the dome and the other end

[15:05]was on the top other end of the domed was a giant

[15:06]snake was not some network was not a joke and went and

[15:10]ate all the snob it said even around basically he got so

[15:13]scared that you know he didn't adjust you know he just got

[15:18]and all this man run away from him all his army to

[15:22]said there was six hundred thousand people on that day trying to

[15:25]witness this event from guards and people and so on so forth

[15:28]o Allah if Allah gives us a tow Fiat and the month

[15:32]of Ramadan last month of Ramadan we started talking about surat paha

[15:35]that have co-op strap aha this month inshallah we'll continue with the

[15:39]texture of sauropod sha allah gives us to feel this coming month

[15:43]of ramadan so we'll get to that in shallow those details but

[15:45]people realized this is not much and that's why the first ones

[15:51]to believe in farnworth the magicians they were the first one this

[15:53]is not magic we know what magic is all about this is

[15:56]not magic so this was his time so he spoke the language

[15:58]that they understand that's why the magicians became the first believers and

[16:02]musa alayhis salaam he understood asa ali salam on the contrary came

[16:06]at a time when medicine was excelled if asa had come with

[16:11]a snake that comes and turns into for example to a stick

[16:14]that changed a snake people said you know what is this there's

[16:17]no relevance here you're not you're not from this era you're not

[16:21]from this time this now our problem is not this or problem

[16:23]is now we've got issues that we cannot cube despite our advancements

[16:28]can you flew a blind person can you kill a deaf person

[16:31]said yes I can evening lots of Hannah wa'ta'ala so he does

[16:36]at the time of our holy prophet it's different people were excelled

[16:40]in eloquence in language and poetry the prophet comes with something that

[16:46]completely different from poetry it's not poetry yet it is not the

[16:50]words of a human being according to the cover of Croatia then

[16:55]unbelievers of Polish those who are well-versed in the knowledge of Arabic

[16:57]and poetry they say this is not poetry we know poetry and

[16:59]so they were silenced and 1400 years later until today a no

[17:04]one has come up with the copy or a very slight look

[17:08]of on until today nobody and this is one of the miracles

[17:10]of the Quran daughter Paula it's a book that's everlasting no one

[17:15]can meet this challenge so it tells him happiness a kid then

[17:19]told imam al hadi alayhis salaam he tells him so what about

[17:28]today today what is the thing that we can judge people by

[17:31]what is the miracle of today what is the thing the language

[17:37]of today musa has language was magic he saw was medicine the

[17:40]holy prophet was the quran and so on so forth today what

[17:45]is the language that we can talk to people with he said

[17:48]a lot and luckily the mind he said harder Allah he'll jawa

[17:54]said this is indeed the answer the mind today is the language

[17:57]of the enter let you talk to intellectuals we talk to people

[18:00]a language that they understand so you have to understand why did

[18:06]he use the intellect he said because the the wise person immeuble

[18:10]minion alehissalaam says an eloquent person is not the one who speaks

[18:14]big words an eloquent person is the one who speaks a language

[18:20]the audience understands this is an eloquent person how could an eloquent

[18:25]person judge his audience who has happened that's really smart man that's

[18:29]a smart person when he looks at the audience he says I

[18:32]have an audience or all University students in their PhDs now I'm

[18:35]going to address them different from when I'm addressing for example people

[18:39]who are in grade 5 in kindergarten for example over a five

[18:45]different mentality I have to speak to them differently one who can

[18:48]speak to the five-year-old to the ten-year-old and to the 25 year

[18:52]old was in the University for example and studying he is a

[18:55]smart person and intellectual man this is this is a a lot

[18:57]that would determine all this so i will email haji ali assalaam

[19:03]is saying basically to open circuit him the circuit you have to

[19:07]address people with the language they understand every era has a new

[19:12]language and the one who must come to this leadership position must

[19:16]address these issues of the time cannot speak of past eras so

[19:23]in this day and age what are some of the problems that

[19:27]the youth are experiencing and how do they stem well today a

[19:35]lot of the youth unfortunately are having issues one with religion take

[19:42]religion why is religion important how is the legend going to affect

[19:45]me in my life this Quran was revealed 1400 years ago how

[19:51]is it going to affect me in my life hello bait out

[19:53]for 1400 years how are they go and affect me in my

[19:58]life how is this important that's one once they've left religion once

[20:03]they forgotten about religion now you've got drugs and alcohol people have

[20:08]vacuum when they go through a problem when they go through a

[20:11]stress how do they release the stress and what a man would

[20:16]turn to allah subhan allah ta'ala somebody who doesn't have a la

[20:19]semana de alan his life who does he turn to it turns

[20:22]to these things which he things are going to resolve his problems

[20:24]alcohol makes me forget makes me forget alcohol makes you forget for

[20:31]a temporary time when it intoxicates you drugs make you forget when

[20:35]it intoxicates you it does not solve the problem the problem has

[20:37]not gone away so that's why a person wakes up from his

[20:40]intoxication and says let me go back to that world again and

[20:45]goes back and so on so forth and that's how the problem

[20:48]starts they have this issue some of the youth have issues with

[20:54]the environment they're living in we have to understand this environment we

[20:58]have to understand what do they need what do they require so

[21:01]that we can solve these issues see the quran says bismillahi rahmani

[21:08]raheem odor o Allah sibilia be cable Hekmati while more ever till

[21:13]hassana watch ideal home Belleci here asin when you call people to

[21:17]a las vanuatu the path of allah there are ways methodologies all

[21:23]i mentioned three of them first hikma wisdom what is wisdom was

[21:28]the means you use logic logic that course is not valid not

[21:35]faulty logic but rather a logic that has deductive reasoning based on

[21:40]sound arguments based on valid argument those of you have studied the

[21:44]logit you know there is sound argument there is a valid argument

[21:46]then there are invalid arguments and so on so forth so all

[21:51]these where you have a premise which is one premise one is

[21:53]true premise two is true and therefore the conclusion is true and

[21:57]not only is it true it's valid as well it sound the

[21:59]argument makes sense this is all exist when you talk to intellectuals

[22:06]this is the language you speak when you talk to intellectuals this

[22:09]is so Imam Ali Ali Salameh speaking to administer key to mr.

[22:13]keep off the island so he spoke to him in such a

[22:16]language and such a language which makes sense to him he understood

[22:19]it however not everyone has that kind of caliber and that kind

[22:25]of understanding not everyone understands you know the logic and logical arguments

[22:28]other people are no are more emotional more emotional emotional things make

[22:35]more sense to them so while Maya a vital hisana first hickman

[22:42]Marvel hasana is as a positive admonishment what is the positive man

[22:47]is the second class of people where you don't talk to them

[22:52]in logic but rather on emotions emotional things that's why LOL bait

[22:57]Alima salam also use this gate of emotions because they knew majority

[23:00]of people fall under this category majority of people that's why i

[23:04]will bait always recommend the remembrance of imam hussain alehissalaam talk about

[23:08]imam hussain let people cry over him a percent alehissalaam why this

[23:12]appeals to their emotions it appeals to their emotions some people you

[23:18]talk to them about the reason for the revolution of imam hussain

[23:22]why did he rise what did imam hussain stand for what happened

[23:29]on the day of ashura in terms of salat of imam hussain

[23:31]not leaving the salat for example praying even when he's in the

[23:34]state of war how imam hussain alehissalaam dealt with his enemies all

[23:39]this is logical but some people that may not really they may

[23:45]not understand so then you go to the emotional side how his

[23:49]family was for example tormented they were taken as prisoners the thirst

[23:53]of imam hussain alehissalaam people cry for this then they inter I

[23:57]they feel this man you know they started moshi she become emotional

[24:00]with him so they bond with him through this means so that

[24:05]is fine that is fine as well and some people know they

[24:10]want to come and argue they don't want to discuss with you

[24:13]in a logic of emotion they just want to speak and you

[24:17]have some people like this in fact many of the discussions you

[24:20]have between the followers of a lil betta ulema the scholars of

[24:23]a lil bait and those who go and follow the path of

[24:27]a lil bit holly holm estella you'll find the scholars of a

[24:30]lil bit will use the language of reason we'll use the language

[24:35]of logic weed for example a book called layali peshawar the LEP

[24:40]shower the early Peshawar and read a book called the straight path

[24:44]the mirage art it's beautiful discussion between Ireland from the Shia Hamid

[24:50]head and danelle mahadji art in the case of El Mirage are

[24:51]the straight path ireland from the leader well as her a sunni

[24:58]mothership abdul rahman and wish we look at the beautiful discussion that

[25:01]one took place between them academic this is the reason we believe

[25:04]in this in this in this in this the island well as

[25:07]hug will say yes ok I accept this argument now what about

[25:10]this and this and this and then say geography Dean would respond

[25:15]back and forth until their leader well as I said okay I'm

[25:18]convinced now I also am a follower of this method have they

[25:22]made up of a lil betta lovato life was a lot more

[25:23]an image married along so la la so now fellas the arguments

[25:31]makes sense this is the way it is same thing with layali

[25:34]peshawar Subhan Anwar Athena Shivaji the author he is sitting in a

[25:37]discussion in a scientific academic discussion between himself and the opposition that's

[25:43]when you have people who are logical but you have some people

[25:46]who know logic unfortunately no matter what you tell them they just

[25:52]have no Italian not happen they just want to argue with you

[25:55]in that case in that case Allah says with those third kind

[26:01]of people you know those who don't use the logic those who

[26:04]don't have the emotions or use that then watch ideal home bility

[26:07]here assen never lose your temper when you discuss with them don't

[26:13]lose the etiquette and the protocols of the discussion they will try

[26:16]to provoke you and you've seen sometimes these days especially with the

[26:20]internet and with a satellite you'll see sometimes how you have some

[26:23]people who they argue they discuss when you try to bring present

[26:28]to them logical arguments they start swearing at you attacking you personally

[26:30]you know this is not the why are you attacking me let

[26:35]answer my questions but no they don't answer the question they're trained

[26:39]not to answer this is the way they trained so this is

[26:44]a way for those people Allah says you know what I did

[26:47]home bility here assen when it comes to the youth you got

[26:52]to use these methodologies with them there are ways some youth use

[26:55]use logic with them some you to use emotions with them and

[26:57]some who just wants to argue we just want to argue you

[27:01]have to make sure you use your control and you you know

[27:05]you can't you can't stop yelling at them tell them what do

[27:07]you understand you don't know anything which unfortunately sometimes happens you don't

[27:12]tell this to the people daddy lumba lady here assen i told

[27:15]them you know what let's discuss this issue the understanding that you

[27:19]have maybe we can enhance it maybe we can revise it and

[27:25]so on so forth and part of the problem programs and sisters

[27:29]part of the problem is in many parts of the world today

[27:36]people are told especially the youth they are told you are completely

[27:42]independent you're independent don't let anyone control you in fact some students

[27:48]and school right one and two the teachers tell them don't let

[27:51]your parents control you don't let anyone control you you make up

[27:54]your mind this is your personality you show your personality so the

[27:59]group the youth grows to be thinking that you know what I

[28:04]am completely independent I make my own decisions nobody has for example

[28:09]a right to interfere with my life we say hold on a

[28:12]second you know this approach no problem independence is a good thing

[28:18]but within moderation Islam says in moderation independence does not mean you

[28:24]don't accept advice from someone especially the parents a person you know

[28:29]back in the old days 56 years ago for example a youth

[28:31]would grow up with his family in the house same house you

[28:37]find the used for example is working in the summer with his

[28:39]parents in the same shop so he grows up maybe working in

[28:44]the same family profession to work in the same room he'll go

[28:47]to pick up the same profession of his father okay or maybe

[28:50]what will happen is for example suppose the father was a tailor

[28:55]father's a tailor for example he will become a tailor as well

[28:58]but then he will evolve after becoming a tailor maybe he'll go

[29:01]and to become establish a factory for clothes something that you know

[29:07]he understand but now he's progressed that's the second generation the third

[29:10]generation has son might continue working in the factory but would go

[29:16]and get for example a business degree so with the business degree

[29:19]comes back and tries to enhance this factory you know and move

[29:22]it on so on so forth this was someone today you'll find

[29:26]that not necessarily the case the father has a profession the Sun

[29:29]Mase I am I like something else completely different so I want

[29:32]to work in the summer for example and research oh I want

[29:36]to work in for example a particular store particular shop will take

[29:40]the profession a problem that's it but listen to the advice of

[29:42]the people advice that's that's independence should not be complete independence in

[29:48]the sense you know that there is a saying that says what

[29:53]age comes wisdom with age comes wisdom you know about talking about

[29:55]the experience and all their person definitely has experience so when a

[29:59]person comes to advise this younger generation the younger generation should try

[30:04]to accept some of the advice that doesn't mean which control their

[30:07]lives you know we make them like robots I say you study

[30:09]medicine helaas finish otherwise I will get a fatwa from the booster

[30:17]head against you I feel hold on a second you know I

[30:19]want to study psychology what psychology what are you going to do

[30:24]with it or biology biology you'll be washing test tubes what is

[30:29]this so sometimes you know with that kind we give them the

[30:32]freedom we give them the independence to make their own decisions but

[30:39]it's not what out with complete you know independence still with guidance

[30:44]and we find some parts of the world today the society society

[30:47]we live in in fact they find that they the parents even

[30:52]have grown up in this idea the child becomes 18 year olds

[30:54]they kick them out of the house call us now you've become

[30:56]independent get out get out in Islam we don't have such a

[31:01]thing you keep looking after them look after them teach them educate

[31:04]them until they're ready to face society then you go let them

[31:10]go as I said like the hadith says after 14 years make

[31:13]him an advisor advise him you don't control everything what has life

[31:19]but you take his opinion you tried to cultivate him in the

[31:23]society doesn't mean you control him now that's advice which is different

[31:26]that's one second problem is we have the problem of freedom freedom

[31:30]you're free to do whatever you like freedom freedom you can do

[31:37]anything you want we say freedom is okay a problem but freedom

[31:40]with the limits limits today a person says I want to go

[31:46]and drive anyway I want red light I don't want to stop

[31:48]you know freedom I live in a free country so why are

[31:53]you limiting me the way I Drive stop sign how can I

[31:58]have a sign controlling my freedom assign it's not even a person

[32:01]a sign says stop why should I stop it's not even a

[32:06]person I don't want that i want to be free I want

[32:08]to drive anything yeah we stole this individual you can do this

[32:11]you're going to be harming yourself and the people the society so

[32:17]for your safety for your liberty for your freedom and for their

[32:21]safety and liberty and the freedom of others you must have rules

[32:25]we must have restrictions you cannot have just complete freedom aslam says

[32:30]same thing there are some rules and restrictions to be followed you

[32:35]cannot have complete freedom for example Islam comes and says there was

[32:39]a job you have to have a job and in fact in

[32:42]an article that was published back in the year 2000 so this

[32:44]was 12 12 years ago and the new york times in the

[32:47]new york times i have it anybody's interested i can show it

[32:51]to you later this was published in the year 2000 in the

[32:54]New York Times in it you know the article is titled family

[32:59]care the problem with kids today today's parents some say you know

[33:03]the parents they say play a big role in today's kids for

[33:05]example on the upbringing here is what one teacher says and I'm

[33:10]going to quote her very briefly this teacher said basically she's a

[33:13]middle school teacher you know her name is Vicki man Vicki man

[33:16]has two daughters one at the time was 11 and other that

[33:22]others 13 years old she said I tell my children my daughters

[33:27]after she said that the children at the school of her daughters

[33:36]they order protest protesting that why can't we wear strap you know

[33:40]strap or whatever you know the spaghetti strap or whatever is called

[33:43]dress when we go to the school how come we can't wear

[33:47]so we're protesting this is against our freedom so that's this teacher

[33:51]herself says when I saw my children getting involved in this I

[33:54]was shocked these kids at the age of 11 and 13 are

[33:59]already protesting to wear things like this in school so this is

[34:01]what she has to say I don't think parents are involved mrs.

[34:06]man says I assume they just give the kids money to go

[34:09]shopping at the mall and they come home with clothes meant for

[34:15]older kids for all the girls the parents think it's fashionable and

[34:18]they think of themselves as hipper than their parents were so they

[34:23]don't Institute rules no rules so there are the parents you know

[34:29]they give the money to the children and they let them go

[34:30]do whatever you want buy your clothes and we're not gonna interfere

[34:33]with you like our parents interfered in our lives enjoy we're not

[34:36]gonna bother okay so this is what she has to say she

[34:40]tells her own children this is mrs.

[34:42]man who herself is a teacher she does her own children that

[34:46]they cannot wear clothes that quote unquote advertise a young body so

[34:53]what what you're saying okay and my girls go along with me

[34:57]because I give them a reason so we have to get them

[35:02]rules which is that it is inappropriate for girls to dress in

[35:07]such revealing styles so this is bad 12 years ago I don't

[35:10]know where mrs.

[35:10]Mann is today you know after 12 years to see what happened

[35:14]to the schools and what the girls are wearing today but freedom

[35:17]is good but within limits here you have a teacher a school

[35:21]teacher and a parent saying you know you have to have limits

[35:25]you have to have restrictions you can't just let it go so

[35:27]freedom is ok but not complete freedom because that can cause problems

[35:34]so we have independence complete independence which stems from lack of understanding

[35:39]second is freedom complete freedom now you have a youth who grows

[35:46]up and this no experience not much experience in life all the

[35:50]freedom what will happen now this youth will come up with questions

[35:54]we have to understand now this youth is coming in this era

[35:58]the era of internet social networking websites and all these videos that

[36:02]he can upload on the internet and this is the time he

[36:06]is coming from so let's sit down and discuss with him when

[36:09]this youth has a question about the existence of Allah subhana Allah

[36:13]we must sit down and confirm his belief sepideh we must address

[36:18]their questions the way we address them by making these institutions and

[36:25]institutions that accommodate the youth as centers which are community centers not

[36:32]just places of worship of rituals which will istic institutions we think

[36:37]of a mask as Thursday night I come to mask friday i

[36:41]come to jumeirah and then I don't need to bother with it

[36:43]until next week thursday night and friday jonathan loss that's it you

[36:46]know this is this is the way this is what a masker

[36:47]sport if you take a look at the profits message it he

[36:51]used to sit down with people in the community and would actually

[36:55]educate them he would take the other people go on a picnic

[37:01]sometimes educate them in the picnic so he made he turned the

[37:03]mask into a community center to a place where they attend regularly

[37:06]because it's not just a place of ritualistic rituals praying salah no

[37:10]it's a place where it accommodates the youth this day and age

[37:16]we have internet used for example like movies we can watch movies

[37:19]that are Islamic movies which exist mashallah these days they're all watching

[37:24]the series that aren't coming you know many series and much all

[37:27]day they speak to you about them I'm of toffee toffee and

[37:30]so on so forth and all these things people are talking about

[37:32]them so we can sit down and look into them let them

[37:36]be educated we can educate them through these possible to do these

[37:40]lawful means by accommodating their needs and their wants in this day

[37:48]and age when it comes to resorting to drugs and alcohol we

[37:51]need to sit down to the you and tell them listen listen

[37:57]you have a responsibility just because you may have had a rough

[38:01]upbringing it doesn't mean you blame it on the society and you

[38:04]blame it on the community and then you go turn on to

[38:08]these places this mosque these centers these institutions they provide more than

[38:14]just a lecture they provide more than just us a lot and

[38:20]a gathering they provide a spiritually cleansing experience you know one day

[38:24]a mammal about an alley salami Mombasa Ali Salah one day he

[38:26]met one of his companions this companion is describing imam ali baba

[38:30]ali saleh of which home we had you know his birthday a

[38:35]couple days ago and more yesterday in fact he says imam al

[38:38]barco alehissalaam when he used to meet me he would come and

[38:43]greet me as if he hasn't seen me in a year and

[38:49]then when I ride my animal you know the camel he would

[38:50]wait until I ride and then he rides and then he would

[38:54]go with me until we arrived at the place where we want

[38:59]to go I would descend and then he would descend and he

[39:01]would come and shake my hands again and again talk to me

[39:06]as if he hasn't seen me how are you how is the

[39:07]family how are things and I tell him you have not a

[39:12]soul Allah you're doing things which like you know extremely you know

[39:16]welcoming extremely you know accommodating you know you're giving me shaking my

[39:20]hands and so on so forth so many times he said do

[39:25]you know when to mini meet shake each other's hands the time

[39:28]when they let go of each other's their sins fall as the

[39:34]leaves fall from the trees in the fall in autumn their sins

[39:37]all fall down imagine you come to the center how many men

[39:42]you meet how many hands you shake how much Bubba ked you

[39:45]get all this will have an impact and effect on one's life

[39:50]on one Stephie on one's actions these things will have an effect

[39:54]this is what a center provides in addition to the lectures in

[39:59]addition to their traditions of Enlil debate alayhi wassalam that's extremely important

[40:04]we cannot say that you know what I don't get any benefit

[40:08]and they don't accommodate me in this place so I will not

[40:11]go and blame it on the people it's easy to blame others

[40:16]but we have to take the stand and will they teach us

[40:22]that even if you are in a bad environment imam al haji

[40:25]ali salam one day was invited were not invited he was summoned

[40:28]he was forced to come to Elmet our killer a bus he

[40:33]was suffered summoned at night Metallica was in a gathering of alcohol

[40:36]and all his dino companions he makes him a meal had he

[40:42]come sit next to him and he gives him a glass of

[40:45]wine while a audible mamelodi salam ala I imagine how much difficulty

[40:48]they went through a mammal Holly tells him you know what this

[40:51]this never mixes with my flesh or blood it's never mixed he

[40:56]tells them then sync to me saying to me is drunk he

[40:58]said I don't sing it says well he said but I can

[41:05]recite poetry few poetry recital okay recite poetry for me then he

[41:08]gave him some poetry bar to a la pelea at Valley Tahoe

[41:14]soham volleyball vigilant at home on hulu beautiful verses of poetry which

[41:18]says that those people some people were living in these great palaces

[41:21]of theirs being served by all the you know servants and having

[41:25]such a luxurious life then when they died we stood on their

[41:31]grave and we asked o grave what happened to those people what

[41:35]happened to their beautiful crowns they're comfortable beds where are all these

[41:41]so the grave responds back and says they are now lying on

[41:48]the sand on the dirt and now the worms are feeding on

[41:52]them these beautiful faces these handsome faces are now food for worms

[41:57]many times they spent eating and drinking and now they've become food

[42:03]they're eaten and they being basically drank that's it finished this is

[42:10]their life Metallica started crying when he heard this start crying on

[42:15]here on this and he said I apologize for what I did

[42:17]to you go back now Imam was forced to go to such

[42:21]but did he sit down with them did he say okay you

[42:25]know what I'm forced to come here so I have no option

[42:28]let me be with them how many of our youth get invited

[42:30]to office parties i say i have no choice i have to

[42:34]go there's alcohol there i have to go what can I do

[42:38]well say no say sorry you know at least you're not like

[42:40]him a meal ha già was forced to come you're not forced

[42:42]to come nobody is bringing you with a sword like a mammal

[42:44]haji ali salam bread come you know tell them solely my religion

[42:48]doesn't allow me I apologize I can't alcohol sorry not on people

[42:54]they say you know my colleagues go to have lunch they have

[42:57]they have lunch and for example they want to have dinner or

[43:03]an office party and they're having alcohol what do i do tell

[43:05]them serving with alcohol I'm sorry I can't go there these parties

[43:08]when there's music being played and all this nonsense that's you know

[43:13]the Haram music so I can't make you I apologize I'm sorry

[43:15]why not this is my religion call us this is the way

[43:20]it is and if you do so you realize one of them

[43:21]what manin one of them many he was accepted into an interview

[43:28]for medical school he goes to the interview there and to reviewers

[43:31]they came to shake his hands couple them were ladies he said

[43:34]I'm Shirley my religion doesn't allow me doesn't allow me to shake

[43:38]the hands I'm sorry now many years would say you know what

[43:40]this is an interview for medical school cos it's ok let me

[43:45]shake the hands in fact some people for to meet a banker

[43:47]at the bank a lady for a mortgage they shake the hands

[43:50]you saw fellows no problem yeah they need your business they don't

[43:52]need their business there are many other competitions they need your business

[43:55]so no no let me I know it's embarrassing tell them this

[44:00]is my religion I'm sorry so he told them I'm sorry my

[44:02]religion is allow me two months later he received a mail of

[44:06]acceptance letter of acceptance into this medical school and now he's mashallah

[44:12]was finishing up his school of medicine one of the reasons in

[44:15]my humble opinion for his toffee is because he did not he

[44:17]followed the path of Allah the pleasure of Allah we cannot keep

[44:22]on blaming it on the society that we live in the environment

[44:25]we live in we have to really take a role of leadership

[44:30]as you to follow the path of a little bait alayhi wassalam

[44:32]we sit down with our youth we discuss with them we listen

[44:37]to them let them present their ideas let's accommodate them let's get

[44:42]them involved if they make mistakes that's okay we teach them we

[44:46]guide them but we can't always suppress them and it is up

[44:51]to us we can keep on blaming society there was one lady

[44:55]who was thrown onto the street at the age of 13 or

[45:00]14 know her mother threw her on the street it's a real

[45:03]story on the street at the age of 13 or 14 she

[45:08]said I didn't know what to do don't know what to do

[45:13]13 years old I'm on the street she said later I realized

[45:16]when I grow up I realized that my mother had mental issues

[45:21]mental problems so anyway she threw me on the street at the

[45:23]age of 13 now what do i do said I spent some

[45:28]days on the street and the street some people started approaching me

[45:34]telling me well you had a nice young lady on the street

[45:38]you know you can do something the Haram go to the cinder

[45:40]haha and you can make a lot of money she said no

[45:46]that's wrong I could never do something like this at the age

[45:52]of 13 then she said I found a room in a house

[45:53]boom they rented me a room so I started working studying and

[46:00]paying the rent for this room slowly slowly I finished my high

[46:05]school then I went through college I got a degree and now

[46:12]she's working after many years now she's become a mother herself and

[46:14]she worked in a profession where she says I want to help

[46:16]people this lady was not even a Muslim and now she's a

[46:22]Muslim alhamdulillah she found the path of Islam and she converted to

[46:25]Islam to the men have over a little bait alehiwassallaam this life

[46:30]of this lady is a proof that a person has cannot blame

[46:36]society she was thrown on the street so Allah will tell other

[46:38]people on the street why she followed the proper path and you

[46:44]guys did it how come don't say my family my life the

[46:47]rough life I had him a mill had you had a Goff

[46:51]like to but he didn't succumb of course some people say he's

[46:55]an imam he's a monsoon well this lady had a rough life

[46:57]she did not succumb to the drugs to the alcohol so we

[47:01]have to tell our youth such stories to tell them that you

[47:05]know what you have to also take responsibility you have to take

[47:10]charge and the hadith that the Prophet that imam hasan alehissalaam mentioned

[47:15]at the beginning that you guys may be used today and they're

[47:19]young but time will come when you will become the leaders of

[47:22]the society the community so learn become knowledgeable and if you find

[47:30]it difficult to memorize the knowledge the hadith then write it down

[47:33]and keep it in your home's to refer to it on a

[47:38]regular basis and that's what imam al hadi wants of us he

[47:40]wants us to learn to be educated that's what he lived for

[47:46]at the age of 42 he was poisoned it has said that

[47:54]imam alas Kelly alehissalaam came out and he was basically wearing simple

[48:01]clothes crying and tears and he said my father has been poisoned

[48:05]has been killed sorry mom Alaska alehissalaam preyed on the janazah of

[48:10]his father he does Salah tell me it because only a monsoon

[48:14]can pray over them assume then the janazah the body of the

[48:17]Imam was brought out and the halifa of his time al Mohammed

[48:22]he prayed over the janazah as well but the party mom Alaska

[48:24]had a parade already on the janazah and then imam al hadi

[48:29]salam ala allah was buried in his house which today now since

[48:33]a McGraw and millions of zawar go to his Yara we have

[48:38]this case and we tell in Alaska alehissalaam you took care of

[48:41]burying your father imam al hadi salam ala hele but who was

[48:46]there on the day of ashura for a beer Abdullah hell for

[48:49]saying alehissalaam who was standing on the body of a B Abdullah

[48:52]he'll say insa la la la zeinab sallallahu alaihe came to the

[48:59]body of Imam Hussein a body without a head she stood there

[49:02]and she cried the above the law oh brother Abdullah look at

[49:16]your women and your children look at your orphans the tents are

[49:20]up in flames and then she stood on a nearby hill that's

[49:26]today known as tell losing abiye she turned towards Medina and said

[49:33]assalamu alayka ya dada havasu la la ha de jose new cafe

[49:36]lava mobile yo mama luba Ramon that you agreed oh oh my

[49:43]grandfather llaves ooh la la come and take a look at your

[49:45]grandson happy orbital lying here on the plains of a cappella three

[49:53]days three days the body was lying there and told the 13

[49:56]day of muharram imama sajjad alayhis salaam comes to the body of

[50:01]a beer Abdullah Al Hussein he finds a group of many Assad

[50:05]standing there he tells them what are you guys doing they say

[50:08]we wanted to bury those people but we can't identify them there

[50:14]are bodies without heads he said help me then they bury all

[50:17]the companions in one grave then they barely Habiba namaha I'm on

[50:21]another one and then they dig the grave of a beer all

[50:26]day long he hugs the body of his father he says assalamu

[50:34]alayka Alberto a salon zuzu receiving a phone assalaamu Allen Battier action

[50:47]and hot I or my father look at what we have endured

[50:55]and suffered after you he buries imam and hussein alayhis salaam then

[51:00]he goes and he looks for the baby abdullahi oralius vava he

[51:05]brings him on the chest of imam hussein following the will of

[51:11]imam hussein saying to him all my son bury my baby over

[51:14]my chest bury him on my chest he was killed on my

[51:19]chest so bury him also on my chest and he buries him

[51:24]there and then he turns towards the river before oh he serves

[51:29]berryessa to bring me am at a reggae he says what do

[51:33]you need it for he says bring it to me they bring

[51:37]him a rug he goes to the arms and hands over B

[51:38]and for the bus he picked up the right hand of a

[51:45]bull puddle he kisses it he says assalamu alayka llamar o my

[51:52]uncle I wish you are here to see what zeyneb is going

[51:55]through at this time I wish I could come and help us

[52:02]and rescue us but how could you when you have no hands

[52:06]he put the hands on this rug he put the pieces of

[52:08]herbal formula bus and and then he buried him in the pins

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[52:25]assalamu alayka ya bah when I lay here on your own was

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