The Marriages of Imam Ali after Sayeda Fatima - Sayed Saleh Qazwini

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[3:38]Dear brothers and sisters, first of all, we offer our condolences to

[3:46]the imam of our time on the demise of the on the

[3:53]demise anniversary of ladybi and also to the sh and lovers of

[4:01]alah and also to you my brothers and sisters.

[4:02]Uh so today before uh our lecture I'm going to as a

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[4:58]I know that last year actually this year for Arabin they supported

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[8:51]of the shaban uh that they have this topic of thanking Imam

[8:59]Zamon because we know that all the blessings that we receive they're

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[9:09]He is the owner of this maj who has invited us and

[9:11]we are so blessed that have accepted among all of these people

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[9:40]going to cover what are the items that they are offering and

[9:45]how we can uh contribute to those projects if you are interested

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[9:50]So based on the experience that they learned from the previous kadir

[9:54]they are going to increase that number of 3,000 to even more

[9:58]to more uh shelters to other states as well if it's possible.

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[10:27]And for 15th of Shaaban, uh they provide uh some decorative flags,

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[10:36]And again, you can see some of the samples in the back

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[10:40]Uh so they sent it to all of the Shia centers throughout

[10:46]the United States.

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[10:50]one of the websites and we contacted all of those centers and

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[11:39]the titles of Imat Sharif.

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[11:49]some video animations talking about the names of the Imam.

[11:51]As far as know there are 400 names and the titles of

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[11:58]aadis from B have they are connected with the imam with explanations

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[12:12]this uh identity provides and also uh they have a tollfree uh

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[14:39]end I have two announcements for our uh program.

[14:42]So one uh the first one is the program that is for

[14:47]the birth anniversary of say zah tomorrow.

[14:50]This is a trivia program for the family.

[14:52]So that you can go through the link which is provided in

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[14:55]Make your the teams and then inshallah attend for that program which

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[15:03]p.m.

[15:02]tomorrow.

[15:03]And then the other announcement is that there is a tabar provided

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[15:10]Inshallah at the end you can help yourself and have that.

[15:12]So inshallah without further ado uh we invite our dear salah for

[15:19]the podium so that we can listen to the speech and enlighten

[15:23]our hearts with salawat and Muhammad.

[15:40]Before I begin, I would like to ask everyone to recite surah

[15:46]fata for the soul of my my father's aunt who just passed

[15:51]away as I was sitting here uh in Kbala.

[15:54]She her sons were killed by Saddam and she was patient her

[16:04]whole life.

[16:01]Let us recite fata for her soul.

[16:46]So Allah F for a thousand.

[17:26]All the for the love of Bani.

[18:12]the wife of and the mother of Abbas.

[18:25]After the martyrdom of Fatam, was left with orphans and he had

[18:38]to move on with his life because life demanded that.

[18:47]The circumstances that he was living in demanded that move on.

[18:53]Although he remained attached to Fat Zaham until the end of his

[19:03]life and his sorrow and his grief for Lady Fatma continued night

[19:09]after night as he said when he was saying his farewell to

[19:14]her.

[19:15]He says, he says, "As for my nights after you, oh fat,

[19:27]they will be sleepless nights.

[19:32]And as for my sorrow, it will be everlasting." But had to

[19:39]move on.

[19:41]And therefore, He had to get married after the martyrdom of Fatam.

[19:49]Of course, while he was married to Fatah did not marry anyone

[19:59]else and he did not think about marrying anyone else just as

[20:04]did not marry anyone when he was with Khadijah because they had

[20:11]that completion in their spouses.

[20:13]However, after the martyrdom of Fat Zaham ended up getting married and

[20:22]this was because of the advice and the will of Fatham she

[20:30]told in her will in her will one of the first things

[20:35]that she tells him she tells him She says, "And after me

[20:54]marry my niece Amama because she will take care of my children."

[20:58]And then she says, "And every person, every man, every woman needs

[21:05]to get married." And she tells M, "You're a man.

[21:06]You're going to have to get married." And lived for over 30

[21:13]years.

[21:14]After the death of Fatham and in following the will and the

[21:22]was of Fatham ended up getting married and this is why historians

[21:28]say that he ended up marrying not at the same time of

[21:35]course eight wives.

[21:34]There were eight wives that he married.

[21:37]Some of them they would die or some of them they would

[21:43]not last.

[21:44]But from the most notable of the wives of Ali after Fatim

[21:49]was the first imat and the eldest daughter of and she told

[22:09]marry my niece after me a mama a mama she was sometimes

[22:15]it is narrated that he would pray and he would carry her

[22:22]in her in his prayer while he's praying he carries her and

[22:25]he goes down in his sujud and he's carrying her and the

[22:29]Muslims they saw him showing that affection and that love to that

[22:34]girl to that young daughter and she was the granddaughter of Sam

[22:39]and she remained ained with Min until year 40 when Amir was

[22:46]martyed.

[22:47]She was the wife of Amir Min.

[22:49]Now of course there is a discussion on whether she had children

[22:52]or not.

[22:53]Some say that she did not have children and Allah wanted the

[22:57]progeny of Sam to be only through.

[23:06]So this is one.

[23:11]Second lady that married was bin.

[23:18]She was the wife initially she was the wife of Jaffarb Abu

[23:26]Talibar and she migrated with Jaffar.

[23:30]Jaffar was one of the first Muslims the brother of Im Ali.

[23:35]And when commanded a small group of the Muslims to migrate to

[23:43]Abisinia to Africa, Jaffar along with his wife Asma they migrated there

[23:49]and there in Africa Asma gave birth to Abdah Jaffar who ended

[23:57]up marrying Zabam.

[23:59]Then when they came back to Medina, he was killed.

[24:06]The brother of he was killed in the battle of Mut fighting

[24:10]the Romans.

[24:11]And after Jaffar died, Asma was married to Abu Bakr.

[24:19]Now someone might come and say why would she go and marry

[24:25]at that time when a lady if her husband passes away a

[24:28]lady would get married.

[24:31]she would get married soon after after the because a man or

[24:35]a woman would not be able to survive on their own.

[24:39]So Abu Bakr he came and he married Asbin and he fathered

[24:46]Muhammad ibn Abi Bakr.

[24:48]Muhammad Ibak he was born his father is Abu Bakr but he

[24:55]was a staunch defender and follower of Ali.

[25:00]In fact, he was raised by Amir Min.

[25:06]And this is why Muhammadbin appointed him to become the governor of

[25:09]Egypt when he had the and Muawia killed him.

[25:13]Muawa killed him in a very horrible way and he was from

[25:18]the Sahabah of Allah and he is the son of Abu Bakr.

[25:24]Abu Bakr is his father and Asma is his mother.

[25:25]But today you don't you don't see anyone talking about Muhammadb Abi

[25:30]Bakr.

[25:31]You see they talk about for example Muawi the uncle or you

[25:36]see they talk about others but Muhammadb Abu Bak he was a

[25:41]follower of and after the death of Abu Bakr married.

[25:50]So Asb was the wife of Jaffar the brother of Amir Min.

[25:56]Then she becomes the wife of Abu Bakr.

[25:59]Then she becomes the wife of Muin and Muhammadb Abi Bakr is

[26:02]raised in the home of Mu.

[26:05]And this is why when we were talking about the majus of

[26:09]Fatam, the lady that was in the home that was narrating the

[26:13]events that took place with Fat Zaham was Asma.

[26:18]Asma was very close to the home of Fat Zaham and she

[26:24]was helping take care of Fatham and Asma she had a child

[26:32]a son from and that was Ali and Ib Ali was one

[26:38]of the shada of Kbalah on the day of he was killed

[26:40]along with the brothers of Im Hussein and he's the brother of

[26:49]Im Hussein His mother is Asma.

[26:50]A third wife of was Jaffar otherwise also known as Alhan.

[27:00]And this is why one of the sons of Amir is Muhammad

[27:06]Hanafi.

[27:07]They call him Muhammad the son of Alan.

[27:10]She she was the wife of and there's a lot of discussion

[27:17]regarding how married her some say that it was during the wars

[27:26]during the when after the death of the prophet Abu Bakr began

[27:30]to wage war against certain tribes that did not give him allegiance.

[27:37]There were certain tribes they said noasool Allah did not appoint you

[27:42]appointed so therefore we are not going to give you our zakat

[27:46]and that's why they call them the zakat wars after one opinion

[27:52]says that her and her family they were captured but they were

[27:58]Muslim they were Muslim they were captured and they were brought to

[28:02]the uh she was brought as a sabya as a prisoner her.

[28:08]So then some people say how could marry her when she was

[28:11]a Muslim.

[28:12]Here one hadith from imbak he narrates from jabbdsi.

[28:18]He says that when she came al kept her until her family

[28:24]and her relatives came to Medina and then asked her family for

[28:28]permission in marrying her.

[28:31]Then al married her and he gave her mah.

[28:36]He did not take her as a captive of war.

[28:40]And she became al-Hafi, the mother of Muhammad Hanafi, who Muhammad had

[28:45]a very big role after the martyrdom of Im Hussein.

[28:48]In fact, Imam Zin did not have a role out in the

[28:54]public because his father has just been killed.

[28:56]The one who was the spokesperson of Bani Hashim for a brief

[29:00]time was Muhammad Hanafi.

[29:03]Of course, Muhammad Hanafy did not have the ti of joining Im

[29:08]Hussein.

[29:08]And Kbalah whereas the other brothers, they did join Im Hussein.

[29:13]And from amongst the other wives of after was who is the

[29:27]lady that we are remembering tonight and the 13th of Jamai in

[29:32]the year 64 after Hijra is her martyrdom anniversary.

[29:37]And the story within is that he tells his brother, he tells

[29:46]his brother, the older brother of had knowledge in in the family

[29:56]trees and in the descendants and in the lineage of the Arabs.

[30:02]So he tells he tells him He says, "I want you to

[30:14]find me a wife that was born from brave men that comes

[30:17]from a very brave family." So tells why are you looking for

[30:25]usually when a person is looking for a wife, they don't look

[30:27]for bravery.

[30:30]That's not something that people look for.

[30:31]So tells him She it tells him so that I am granted

[30:40]from her a child or children that will be in my aid

[30:47]and in the aid of my son Hussein on the day of

[30:52]Ash.

[30:53]What does this mean?

[30:52]This means that number one he's already planning for the day of

[30:59]and he's already planning to bring supporters and victors to Im Hussein

[31:06]on the day of Ash.

[31:06]Number two, this means that when you marry someone, you are going

[31:12]to have children that will have the qualities.

[31:16]These qualities and these traits, they are inherited.

[31:21]You find someone for example that's brave that means bravery is going

[31:25]to be passed on in their children.

[31:27]You find someone that is generous generosity is going to be passed

[31:31]on in their children.

[31:33]It's not just the genetic physical traits that get passed on.

[31:36]We all know that the phys the physical genetic traits do get

[31:39]passed on.

[31:41]But the moral traits, the traits, these traits of bravery and strength

[31:47]and iman, they are also passed on.

[31:52]And even though he passes on the best genes and the best

[31:57]traits, but he knows that the father is only 50% of the

[32:03]marriage.

[32:01]He knows that the father is only 50% of the equation.

[32:05]So you have to also make sure the mother and the father

[32:11]they are both passing down these noble and honorable traits.

[32:15]And this is why he was looking for a very noble lady.

[32:20]and he brings him he tells him there is a lady by

[32:25]the name of and he ended up marrying her and he named

[32:34]her he gave her that title means the mother of the children

[32:43]why because her name was Fatima and on the wedding night the

[32:50]narrations say that tells her, "Oh, Fatima, what do you what do

[32:53]you want?

[32:54]It's your wedding.

[32:53]Is there something that you ask of me?" She tells him, "Yes."

[32:59]Oh, I have one thing I want to ask you.

[33:02]And that is I don't want you to call me by my

[33:07]name Fatima because that might break the hearts of Hassan and Hussein

[33:11]and Zab and they have lost their mother Fatima.

[33:16]Who am I to come and take the position of Fatima Zaham?

[33:19]I am the servant of the children of Fatima.

[33:26]So he named herin the mother of the children, the mother of

[33:32]the boys and the children.

[33:35]And she gave four children.

[33:40]Four boys.

[33:39]Four boys.

[33:42]The first was Al Abbas.

[33:43]and Abdullah and Jaffar and Abbas Abdah and of course today people

[33:55]come and say he named his son that means he likes no

[34:01]man was a name was an Arab name at that time and

[34:08]he himself he says he says I named my son after the

[34:15]great companion there was a great companion of by the name of

[34:27]M.

[34:25]So this is a brief history of the marriages of now just

[34:33]to connect with history.

[34:38]People when they hear this they hear that he had this wife

[34:40]and he got married here and this lady she married and people

[34:43]come and say that in the past marriage was so easy.

[34:49]People they get married right away.

[34:54]It was something that was very easy.

[34:56]Today marriage is not as easy.

[34:57]Today marriage is very difficult.

[34:59]And this is the reality.

[34:59]Today right now there are a growing number a very high percentage

[35:07]of people.

[35:06]For example in the United States 26% of US adults aged 35

[35:15]to 44 have never been married.

[35:17]And 40% of all US adults 18 and up were single in

[35:26]2021.

[35:24]So there's a high number of people that either have never get

[35:31]gotten married or they're getting older and older and they are not

[35:36]married.

[35:37]And this is it's called or someone who's a spinster meaning they

[35:41]they remain and they reach older ages and they are not married

[35:48]and you see that for example in some European countries like Finland

[35:54]like Denmark like uh Germany Norway Sweden over 50% of the population

[36:00]in some cases or close to 50% of the population is not

[36:07]married.

[36:08]Now, sometimes some people are unable to get married because they have

[36:13]a valid excuse.

[36:12]And sometimes people delay their marriage on purpose.

[36:17]There's no valid excuse.

[36:18]You tell them, "Why don't you get married?" They say, "Oh, I

[36:22]want to travel.

[36:21]I want to have fun.

[36:24]I want I don't want to settle down." And they delay it

[36:28]themselves.

[36:29]Not because there's an excuse.

[36:30]And this thinking and this mindset is wrong.

[36:35]It could become haram.

[36:36]If someone falls in haram and does haram as a result of

[36:44]them not being married, then getting married becomes waj upon them.

[36:47]It becomes something that's obligatory.

[36:50]So this is why from an Islamic perspective, marriage is regarded as

[36:54]something that is sacred.

[36:58]Marriage is regarded as something that is a sacred foundation and marriage

[37:08]according to the of is the of.

[37:18]So here we see there are many narrations, many verses.

[37:27]In another verse, Allah subhana wa ta'ala describes marriage as one of

[37:33]the signs of God.

[37:41]So what does marriage do?

[37:46]Marriage it fulfills the needs the human basic human needs.

[37:49]We have social needs.

[37:52]Don't we need to interact with someone?

[37:56]Don't we need to have a partner?

[37:59]Don't we need someone that we can discuss our life with?

[38:02]That's what marriage it solves.

[38:03]That right now you see in prisons if they want to punish

[38:09]someone they come and they put them all alone.

[38:11]We are not meant to live alone.

[38:13]But today there are many people that wake up alone, they sleep

[38:16]alone, they live alone, they eat alone.

[38:18]And this has many problems.

[38:21]It will have many problems.

[38:22]If someone is not strong enough to deal with that, it becomes

[38:25]very difficult and very challenging.

[38:28]So this is why every person needs a companion in life.

[38:34]And he would turn to he would turn to he says.

[38:47]So this is number one.

[38:50]Number two, marriage it provides a solution to some of the needs

[38:55]that we have and from amongst the natural needs that Allah subhanahu

[39:01]wa ta'ala has created everyone with is the physical desires.

[39:04]This is not something that is this is something that is Allah

[39:08]subhanahu wa ta'ala has created us with.

[39:10]It becomes it becomes unethical and immoral when these desires are dealt

[39:16]with outside the parameters of the family.

[39:20]When it is dealt with outside of the home, then it becomes

[39:25]something that is obstructing something that is destructive to societies and communities

[39:28]and families.

[39:30]However, if these desires are dealt with in the right, legitimate, they

[39:35]are channeled correctly, then this is something that is healthy and this

[39:42]is something that is that is halal and right.

[39:44]This is why in Islam relationship any relationship outside of the bounds

[39:53]of marriage is considered unethical and immoral.

[39:56]As soon as you do the as soon as you do the

[40:00]marriage, it becomes halal, it becomes it becomes encouraged.

[40:05]It increases your your theab of your salah 70 times more.

[40:09]Allah subhanana wa ta'ala will bless you and honor you.

[40:12]But if a relationship is outside the bounds of marriage, then it

[40:16]becomes haram.

[40:17]Why?

[40:16]Because marriage is having a contract.

[40:18]Marriage means having an agreement.

[40:20]Marriage means assuming responsibility.

[40:23]It means that the husband assumes the responsibility and the role and

[40:29]the task and the wife also has roles and responsibilities.

[40:32]So this is something that is achieved through marriage.

[40:40]And number three and finally is that marriage is a means to

[40:45]build a family.

[40:45]Today every single person has the desire to pass on their genes.

[40:52]Every single person has a desire to have a legacy that continues

[40:55]in this life.

[40:57]We know that we're going to die.

[40:59]We know that we end up leaving.

[41:00]Now, of course, there are many ways that we could leave a

[41:02]legacy.

[41:03]One way is one way is by having charitable projects.

[41:08]This is a legacy.

[41:11]This will remain for you and you will receive and sodak.

[41:13]But one of the ways is through having a righteous child, a

[41:21]righteous son or daughter that will remember you, that will recite fat

[41:25]for you, that will be there for you.

[41:27]And this is something that every single person wants to have.

[41:30]And he wanted that legacy.

[41:36]And this is why he sought after.

[41:38]Now we know in life we are surrounded by nature and nurture.

[41:46]A lot of things in nature affect us and a lot of

[41:51]things through nurture that means we add towards our family and in

[41:56]your family your children are affected by nature the surroundings and the

[42:00]genes and they are also nurtured love.

[42:04]You see Omulan she gave that natural passing down of the genes

[42:10]her and they passed down the those good genes the genes of

[42:16]bravery strength and iman to their children but she also nurtured the

[42:21]love of the in her children and this is why four of

[42:28]the children of were killed on the day of ash four of

[42:31]them she has four sons and all four of them were killed

[42:36]on the day of Ashi.

[42:39]In fact, she trained her children, she raised her children to have

[42:45]that love for Muhammad Muhammad and to love on the day of

[42:51]nine children of were killed and four of those were the sons

[42:55]of this is why the poet he says When do nine from

[43:16]the children of Ali including Im Hussein were killed on the day

[43:23]of Ash and seven from the brother of Ali.

[43:28]She was heartbroken.

[43:30]And when the news came to her, when the news came to

[43:36]her that her children were killed, she began to cry.

[43:41]Just like every mother, if she hear if she hears that her

[43:44]children have been killed, she begins to cry.

[43:48]And it is something that is very heartbreaking for her.

[43:53]But then Banin she had one concern and that concern was Abdah

[44:01]Hussein because she has raised her children to give and sacrifice their

[44:06]lives for the sake of Aba Abdah Hussein.

[44:09]So when the when the bearer of the news came to her

[44:14]and tells her, "Oh Ban, you have lost your son Jaffa." She

[44:21]tells him, "Tell me about my son Hussein." He tells her, "You

[44:23]have lost your son." She tells him, "Tell me about my son

[44:26]Hussein." He tells her, "You have lost your son Abdullah." She says,

[44:32]"Tell me about my son Hussein." Then the bearer of the news

[44:36]tells her you lost your son Abbas.

[44:43]His arms were cut off in the battlefield.

[44:46]She tells him, you have broken my heart.

[44:50]Tell me about my son Hussein.

[44:55]Then he tells her Oh, yes.

[45:10]Abdullah was also killed.

[45:12]She went, she used to go to the bak cemetery and she

[45:18]used to make these graves, four graves.

[45:20]And then she would move them.

[45:23]She would brush them and she would say, "My sons are sacrificed

[45:26]for Abdah Hussein.

[45:54]She says, "Don't call me Omulan anymore.

[45:57]I am Omulan, but all my sons are gone from me.

[46:02]All my sons have been taken away from me." Marwan.

[46:08]He used to walk by and he used to see Omul Banin

[46:13]crying for her sons and crying for Im Hussein and he would

[46:16]cry when he sees the tears of Allah All we recite surah

[47:13]for all of the especially the mothers that lost their children.

[47:18]There are mothers that lost their children.

[47:22]This aunt of ours, we used to always talk with her and

[47:25]she would always remember her children that were killed by Sah.

[47:28]And this is something that is heartbreaking for any mother.

[47:32]I ask you all to once again recite for our dear aunt

[47:38]and for all of the and the and all of the

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