Tea with Sugar | Ali Reza Panahian

Tea with Sugar


The most important, effective feature in parents for training children with a good and firm character is patience. Patience is bitter. But like a bitter tea, we can have it with sugar. Then it will become tasty too. If patience is accompanied by a bad temper, bad mood, depression, and complaining, not only it won’t have a positive effect on children, it will have a negative effect too.
The mother or father, especially the mother, because she has more of an emotional effect, if she starts complaining in front of her children, although that suffering or problem may not be that important for the mother, it will make the whole world dark for her children. Then it will not be that easy to stop that child from looking negatively at everything.
Psychology emphasizes that a mother shouldn’t complain in front of her children. Several spiritual diseases will immediately be created in her children. It is possible mothers complain about some things in front of their children. The mother forgets it two hours later. But, the child won’t forget it for 20 years. He or she will always have this memory and feel unsafe. After or with patience, what is important for the parents to transfer to their children through their behaviour, is gratitude.
The children will understand their parents’ weak point themselves. Parents shouldn’t unburden themselves to their children.
A child will understand these things himself. If not today, he’ll understand tomorrow. Dads say, “Your mom is wonderful.” This child will become excellent. It is not important who the mother is. Children understand if, for example, their father’s behaviour is bad. They understand this. If not today, they’ll find out tomorrow. But, the mom should say, “Your dad is wonderful.” What will happen?! Wow!
Gratitude along with tolerating hardships and being patient. Not only tolerating hardships, but also saying, “Thank God!” This is the most important issue that effects a child.
[From the series of speeches under the topic of, “The special importance of patience in training children.”]


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