Parents, a Condition to Answered Prayers - Sayed Saleh Qazwini - Ramadan Night 7 - MYC Program 2016

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Recorded 6/12/2016 at the Great Revelations Academy in Dearborn, MI

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[0:00]smilla rahmanir rahim alhamdu lillahi rabbil alameen o salatu salam ala ashraf

[0:09]alam ba even more saline habib allah allah allah mean a bell

[0:21]cozumel Mustafa Muhammad Saleh mad voila elevator hey abhi na po en

[0:28]la la la a la vaquita Hill creams malaha rahmanir raheem RAB

[0:37]bana a Tina fat duniya hasanat an awful karate hasana when we

[0:44]look at the doors of the elevate holly holm salam and the

[0:53]doors of rasulallah and these applications that are in the quran we

[1:02]see that they teach us a few very important points first of

[1:08]all the doors they teach me how to speak to allah subhanahu

[1:18]wa'ta'ala what should I ask for in what language should I speak

[1:22]to allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala and what tone should I speak to Allah

[1:27]if I want to know what is the best door to ask

[1:33]for myself the best door is available in the Quran these are

[1:37]the dawes of the prophets these are the supplications of the prophets

[1:43]of allah and allah mentions what certain prophets used to say at

[1:48]certain moments when you look at what the prophets say they are

[1:51]the knowledgeable they are complete they know Allah subhana Allah and therefore

[1:57]you see that there does they make more sense for example the

[2:04]door abana atina padonia hasanah waffle karachi hasanah this is a door

[2:10]in the Quran it's a very general statement but it's very inclusive

[2:17]when we do da we say o Allah I want a car

[2:22]o Allah I want this job I want this I want that

[2:26]we ask for specific things but when we look at the doors

[2:29]mabini antenna dunya hisana oh Allah give me a good life hisana

[2:36]and this life waffle authority hassana and in the afterlife let it

[2:39]be a good life whoa Cana I thought Bernard and save us

[2:42]from the Hellfire we see that the das they instruct us to

[2:52]pray for certain things when we look at the dawes of the

[2:56]a debate when we look at the das in the Quran Allah

[3:00]subhana Allah tells us what we should pray for and we should

[3:05]take a la his advice when Allah tells us what we should

[3:07]pray for because this is where he would give and this is

[3:11]what he would answer and this is the type of the odd

[3:12]that a loss of hannah harto Allah would answer allah subhana allah

[3:21]says in the quran one of the gods that we all should

[3:25]do is that we should pray for others we should pray for

[3:33]people around us we should pray for our community we should pray

[3:36]for our society this is one of the ways where allah subhana

[3:42]allah will the chances and the likelihood of your da being accepted

[3:47]for yourself will be much higher when you do to offer others

[3:52]this is one of the requirements for an accepted prayer for accepted

[3:56]da you pray for others Allah subhana Allah will answer you because

[4:02]scholars say one of the best type of a flock the best

[4:08]type of morality that one could have is at a look by

[4:11]a flock a la etapa de la jolla where you take the

[4:18]qualities of Allah subhana Allah and you try to implement those qualities

[4:22]in your own life what I mean when we say Allah subhana

[4:26]metana he is the most generous don't we say Allah has the

[4:33]most generous Allah subhana Allah he will see that if you are

[4:37]generous he will be generous towards you if I'm asking Allah Allah

[4:43]give me this and give me that but i'm stingy and I

[4:45]don't give to this person and that person Allah is going to

[4:49]say if this person doesn't give why does he expect me to

[4:52]give him if I say o Allah forgive me for all of

[4:57]my sins forgive me for this and that but then when people

[5:02]ask me to forgive them I refuse to forgive them then a

[5:05]loss of high note on I will not forgive me whenever we

[5:12]should pray we should also pray for others and I'm al-hasan alehissalaam

[5:16]he narrates that I saw my mother Fatima in the middle of

[5:21]the night she was standing and she was doing gosh she kept

[5:28]praying and praying all night but I never heard her praying for

[5:31]us I never heard her praying for herself I heard her praying

[5:37]for the neighbors I heard her praying for the people around us

[5:41]for our community so he says that after my mother finished her

[5:44]prayer I asked her Oh mother I didn't see you pray for

[5:50]us I saw that you prayed for the neighbors she tells him

[5:54]yamuna and jar thumb at da oh my dear son we pray

[6:01]for the neighbors and then we pray for ourselves we learn from

[6:06]this that this is the type of dada allah subhana allah likes

[6:09]to be asked allah subhana allah wants to see that you are

[6:13]merciful towards other people that you are loving towards other people that

[6:19]you are generous towards other people once he sees that from you

[6:22]Allah will say I am more generous than this person because Allah

[6:25]is more generous than they're all of us Allah is more compassionate

[6:28]than us once he sees that we have those qualities the chances

[6:37]of mercy will be much more now when we speak about people

[6:44]around us we also have to pray to the closest people to

[6:48]us and then we go further from the circle Allah says Allah

[6:56]born hola Velma roof when you do da do to offer the

[6:58]closest people to you do da for your family do the art

[7:04]for your parents do to offer your children a la cara Boone

[7:10]11 motto if you also do da there around you there in

[7:12]your community but they are also very close to you show love

[7:18]to them show compassion to them and this is why when we

[7:21]see the Quran we see a loss of hannah to Allah numerous

[7:28]verses numerous verses Allah mentions the Doha for the parents and the

[7:33]DA of the parents one of the most important conditions and requirements

[7:40]for your dog to be accepted is that you have to be

[7:46]in a good relationship with your parents and Allah subhana Allah instructs

[7:51]us to perform da for our parents and one verse Allah says

[7:55]Allah benefit early well you I the day away little mini Naomi

[8:02]a formal has up when you do da don't plan to go

[8:08]to Paradise bite for it by yourself when you go to Paradise

[8:11]try to take as many people with you but been a fairly

[8:17]well II while a day o Allah forgive me and forgive my

[8:19]parents when L manin and the believers and the mean and the

[8:28]menards yo male yo mayor Omaha job the hadith from Russell at

[8:32]last he says that whenever you do da a la ha McFarland

[8:35]mini no Alma not o Allah forgive the believing men and believing

[8:41]woman for so Allah says that Allah subhana otona well first of

[8:46]all forgive every single movement and mope Mina probably not all of

[8:50]their sins but Allah forgive them and second allah subhana allah will

[8:55]give you the reward for praying for every single person it's an

[8:59]easy statement all you say o Allah forgive all of the believers

[9:04]Allah will give you the reward for the number of the believers

[9:07]this is the mercy of Allah subhana metana in another verse allah

[9:12]says waffles Lahoma Jenna had the Lehman arama vulnerable Hama Hama come

[9:23]out of A&E sahira Allah says lower yourself worth of Lahoma Jenna

[9:30]had done lower yourself humble humble yourself for your parents humble yourself

[9:37]bring yourself down what floor mat jaana had done the word though

[9:41]it means humility humility Allah subhana Allah does not want you to

[9:45]humiliate yourself in front of anyone but when you humble yourself towards

[9:51]Allah this is a sign of glory for you also a loss

[9:56]of Hannah Tyler says when you do that towards your parents this

[10:00]is a sign of honor and this is a sign of glory

[10:02]for your wife of Lana Jenna had the liminal I'm out of

[10:08]compassion walk a lot bill hamouma come out of beyond your Sevilla

[10:12]and say o Allah forgive them and have mercy on them the

[10:18]same way they had mercy on me when I was young the

[10:24]same way they had sleepless nights for me when I was crying

[10:28]when I was hungry when I needed to be changed it's difficult

[10:31]especially for the mother you see some nights the mother does not

[10:38]sleep at all if the child is sick she becomes sick if

[10:41]the child is crying she cannot sleep she cannot rest she cannot

[10:48]do anything Allah subhana Allah wants us to appreciate every single person

[10:54]that has done anything good to us from society and our parents

[10:59]and also most importantly Allah subhana tana and this is why when

[11:04]we look at the doors of the a debate when we look

[11:08]at the dawes of rasulallah we see that in addition for asking

[11:12]for themselves in addition for asking for paradise and asking for dunya

[11:16]and asking for a cara we see that the das they pray

[11:22]for others and most importantly they pray for the parents and the

[11:27]family and Abu Hamza the Imam says of Mohammed fairly well Wally

[11:35]de Oro mama Kamala Bay Aneesa hero watch damnable a sanyasin and

[11:41]webos a yoga Lana a beautiful da hah praying for your family

[11:46]this is one of the conditions for a prayer to be accepted

[11:52]if you want your prayer to be accepted we do doha for

[11:56]others we pray for others we care for others it is narrated

[12:03]and caring for others we should not discriminate who's we should care

[12:08]for we should not be prejudiced who we care for we should

[12:13]not be prejudiced and discriminate who we show love and compassion to

[12:20]today we need to show the world the essence of Islam we

[12:23]need to show the world the a flock of the eyelid beta

[12:28]M salaam the debate discriminate when it came to giving to others

[12:33]Allah subhana Allah and one verse surah tellenson he says yok mu

[12:36]not Pamela hobby miss Keene and way a team and what a

[12:43]Syrah the a debate they were fasting for three days and every

[12:46]day at the time of breaking the fast the first day a

[12:52]poor person the second day an orphan the third day a non-muslim

[12:57]as he a war prisoner came and knocked the door each one

[12:59]of those days they gave they didn't discriminate this is a Muslim

[13:03]this is a non Muslim Prophet Ibrahim alayhi salam it is narrated

[13:12]that Prophet Ibrahim every day when it's time to eat he used

[13:15]to go and stand in front of his home and he used

[13:18]to wait for someone who was passing by he would bring them

[13:23]and he would eat with them this is the a flock of

[13:24]Prophet braheem at a sternum and the hadith says that this was

[13:29]one of the reasons how he became hallelula the friend of Allah

[13:34]because of that quality because of that act a very social act

[13:38]and act as caring for other people so the hadith says that

[13:46]one day he brought someone he came he SAT with that person

[13:50]Ibraheem said bismillah in the name of Allah that person didn't say

[13:57]anything Prophet Ibrahim told him aren't you going to say bismillah say

[14:02]the name of Allah before you eat that person said I don't

[14:05]believe in Allah I don't believe in God he told them everything

[14:11]that you have your life your dad's your food your sustenance everything

[14:14]is from Allah say the name of Allah that man refused he

[14:17]said I don't want to say the name of Allah so Abraham

[14:20]he told him then you're not eating with me since your not

[14:24]mentioning the name of God who gave you everything you're not going

[14:29]to eat with me the man said ok you invited me to

[14:33]eat and now you're telling me to leave I'll leave he laughed

[14:37]allah subhana allah speaks turb rahim allah tells him Oh Ibrahim this

[14:43]man I've been feeding him and providing for him his whole life

[14:51]not one day that I expect him to come and thank me

[14:53]did I come and ask him to thank me condition on me

[14:58]giving him and providing for him now one time you want to

[15:02]feed this person one meal and you ended up kicking him out

[15:09]Allah subhana Allah taught Abraham through the story that show mercy to

[15:15]people around you show mercy to everyone around you so but I

[15:18]him he goes and he brings that man and he feeds him

[15:21]and then he tells him that this is what my lord told

[15:27]me the man he begins to believe in Allah Subhan otona but

[15:30]the moral is that we should care about people around us and

[15:38]most importantly we should care for the members of our society for

[15:45]our family and this is why when we look at the dawes

[15:48]of the a debate when we look at the verses in the

[15:52]Quran we see that the people that we are most indebted to

[15:58]they are our parents they are our family allah subhana allah says

[16:02]in the Quran and one verse was sign a lin sanity while

[16:05]a day here sana allah says we have asked i will see

[16:13]ya hey will ordered the man to show a son towards his

[16:20]parents to show ass on em I'm Assad appalling salam he says

[16:23]a son it means that you don't let them ask you for

[16:29]something you go and you do it for them you you see

[16:33]what they need before they ask you this is a son when

[16:35]it comes to everyone all members of society allah subhana allah says

[16:40]treat them with equality you have to treat with every everyone with

[16:43]equality that means if someone did something wrong to me I have

[16:47]the right to go and do something wrong to that person but

[16:50]not when it comes to my parents do I have the right

[16:54]to go and answer back or do something wrong if they did

[16:58]that wrong thing to me know because we are ordered to treat

[17:05]them with ahsan Wallace anal in sanibel a lady here sana a

[17:09]mulatto a mohawk or Hanwha vato loco ha whoo ha whoo hoo

[17:13]fasala voz a la una Shara ha ha Malaga Malaga urban asana

[17:22]a lot bo journey and ash korrina matter ash korrina meta Colletti

[17:28]an ant Allah Allah Allah Allah day one manasa hunter vova allah

[17:36]subhana allah describes that once a person matures that is when they

[17:40]begin to understand you see many people they've matured but they still

[17:46]don't show respect to their parents they still don't show respect to

[17:49]their family and you know when is the time that your family

[17:54]is in need of you the most not when they're young not

[17:59]when they could walk not when they could go and get their

[18:01]own cup of water that time they're very independent they're not going

[18:04]to need you at that time the time that they're going to

[18:08]need you is once they get older this is why Allah also

[18:11]instructs for that time Allah says in the Quran walk of Arabic

[18:20]Allah turbo duel I ah why build Wiley dania son Allah has

[18:23]decreed that you do not worship anyone other than him and then

[18:27]the second order immediately after taheed after believing in Allah and not

[18:33]associating a partner with Allah the second order a lot doesn't say

[18:39]and that you pray that you go to Hajj that you fast

[18:41]Allah says wobble holiday in San second immediately after to hate is

[18:49]the o'clock towards the family and then Allah says in my blog

[18:55]nan de quelques bar high drama ok Lahoma philotic on Lahoma orphan

[19:01]wallet and her mama waka lahoma olam karima once they're older once

[19:09]they're at an old age once they're fragile Amaya blodne under Kalki

[19:19]bar philotic allama often do not even say off you know sometimes

[19:24]when someone asks you to do something that just that sound that

[19:27]we make off why do I have to do that a mom's

[19:31]anal Aberdeen alehissalaam he says if there was something that was less

[19:35]than that Allah would have mentioned it in the Quran Allah does

[19:40]not say and don't curse at them don't talk back at them

[19:44]it's just that sound that you make that off that one says

[19:49]that's the least thing that anyone could do Allah orders in the

[19:52]Quran in a book that came 1400 years ago this is the

[19:58]book of a clock this is the book of civilization this is

[20:01]the book that teaches you how to live your day-to-day lives this

[20:06]is the religion of Islam for some people religion for them it's

[20:10]just I pray to God and I ask for I ask for

[20:15]heaven I ask for the afterlife that's one that's one factor of

[20:18]religion another factors the socialization Islam religion it teaches me how to

[20:24]care for people around me how to care for my family how

[20:30]to care for my society how to show love and o'clock towards

[20:34]everyone around us and this is the most time that we need

[20:41]to implement the teachings of Islam especially during these days where every

[20:46]day you hear someone committed a crime in the name of the

[20:49]religion of Islam and today we all woke up to hear that

[20:54]over 50 people were killed by someone who's claiming to be a

[20:57]Muslim the religion of Islam does not condone this act of terror

[21:05]this act of murder if you have enemies if you have people

[21:07]that you disagree with that's not the way that you go and

[21:12]you deal with it if that was the way we would have

[21:15]seen that the life of rasulallah the lives of the added bait

[21:18]they would have been completely different the religion of Islam it does

[21:25]not condone and it condemns this act of terror that we see

[21:29]going on today just yesterday just one day out of the year

[21:34]we finally hear the name of Islam being mentioned in a good

[21:36]way because of maha Muhammad Ali the next day someone had to

[21:42]go and bring back bring down the name of Islam once again

[21:45]this is why it is our duty to show the a flock

[21:50]of the religion of Islam to everyone around us to the non-muslims

[21:55]to the Christians to the Jews to people of other religions and

[22:00]through the asan through the social social rules of the religion of

[22:05]Islam you will be able to invite others Allah doesn't necessarily ask

[22:11]you to go and speak and give a speech and convince people

[22:14]to join the religion of Islam no a la just wants you

[22:19]to be a good Muslim if you do that people will see

[22:24]their flock of a true Muslim it is narrated that one of

[22:27]the Companions of Imam sadak by the name of Zecharia been Adam

[22:34]this man was a Christian he saw the Imam in Medina and

[22:37]he converted to the religion of Islam and he followed the path

[22:44]of Imam asada khali salam so this man Zakaria he tells the

[22:48]imam i'm going back to Kufa i'm going back to my city

[22:52]and my mother is a Christian my mother is not a Muslim

[22:54]now that I've joined the religion of Islam how should I treat

[23:01]my mother how should I treat my family the Imam asked them

[23:05]does she eat pork he said no she does not eat pork

[23:10]then the Imam told him then you could eat from the food

[23:12]that she provides for you and you could eat from the food

[23:17]because she's buying it from a Muslim market at that time I'll

[23:19]qu the city of kufa she's buying it from a Muslim market

[23:25]if she's cooking food eat from the food and then the Imam

[23:26]instructed him he tells him you have to show the best o'clock

[23:33]towards your mother you have to take care of your mother show

[23:36]love and respect towards your mother so this man he goes back

[23:44]to his mother and he begins to take care of his mother

[23:46]his mother was old he would go and he would feed her

[23:50]he would go and he would wash her feet he would make

[23:52]sure that she is clean he would make sure that she does

[23:57]not need anything so she tells him oh my dear son I

[24:02]saw that you have changed you are not like this with me

[24:04]before I saw that you've become different he tells her yes this

[24:12]is because I saw a man who taught me and he told

[24:14]me that this is how I should be with my mother I've

[24:19]joined the religion of Islam and I saw Jack far I've been

[24:21]I saw jafra bin muhammad asad och he tells me Jeff I

[24:26]saw Jack for Assad that he tells me that this is how

[24:31]I should treat my mother she tells him is he a prophet

[24:33]this man he tells her no he's not a prophet but he's

[24:38]a son of a prophet he's from the descendants of a prophet

[24:41]and he teaches her about the religion of Islam she accepts the

[24:45]religion of Islam and she passes away a few days later this

[24:49]man he goes and he tells him I'm side of the story

[24:53]and the amount of side that becomes very happy with what this

[24:56]man has done and the Imam tells him that your daughter's for

[25:00]yourself will be accepted once you begin to show good a flock

[25:07]towards the people around you specifically your family specifically your mother and

[25:13]your father one day a man he asked rasulallah sallallahu ala who

[25:18]I live what are my obligations towards my parents what sort of

[25:23]la replied la tenshi amana when you walk you show respect to

[25:30]your father you show respect your father do not walk it in

[25:33]front of your father lat em chi a mama well a tous

[25:38]tes abla do not be a reason where people will curse your

[25:42]father you know in some cultures you see that when people they

[25:47]want to curse at someone they're not going to curse that person

[25:49]the curse their mother and their father so I sort of last

[25:53]says don't do anything where people are going to curse your father

[25:56]because of your actions your father didn't do anything your mother didn't

[26:00]do anything but because of your actions people are going to curse

[26:06]and talk bad about your parents well I tad jealous kabla do

[26:09]not sit before your father did not sit before your mother give

[26:13]them the bus seat give them the best place to sit well

[26:18]I Ted that hobus man and do not call your father your

[26:21]mother by their name every father every mother they like to be

[26:28]called Baba mama dad mom this is what they like to be

[26:30]asked this is what they like to be called calling them by

[26:39]their aim it's a sign of disrespect so this is what rasoolullah

[26:42]sallallahu ala who I lay teachers this is what Rasul Allah teaches

[26:46]us and this is their flock of the religion of Islam one

[26:51]day a man he committed a crime he committed a sin and

[26:55]he came to rasulullah sallallahu ala he tells us or LA or

[27:02]assad allah i have committed a terrible sin I want Allah Subhan

[27:05]O 2 i'll add to forgive me i want allah to forgive

[27:10]me for my sins what should i do teach me something yesterday

[27:13]we mentioned how one of the ways for a lot to forgive

[27:17]you as to go next to the sort of la you ask

[27:21]Russell a lot to forgive you ask a lot so Allah asks

[27:24]a lot to forgive you and you do a stick far next

[27:27]to us or Allah Allah will forgive you this man Russell Allah

[27:33]he taught him another way he taught him a second way for

[27:36]his sins to be forgiven Russell Allah asked them are your parents

[27:42]alive the man he said my mother has passed away but my

[27:50]father is alive so I sort of mattel's him if you are

[27:56]a lot to forgive you then go and serve your father for

[27:58]the rest of your life and for the rest of his life

[28:03]serve your father Russell Allah does not tell him you have to

[28:05]go and pray you have to go and do so many other

[28:09]things he leaves everything he tells him go and serve your father

[28:12]and Allah will forgive your sins the man he heard from rasulallah

[28:16]the order and he turned around and he left assad allah there

[28:23]are Muslims sitting around him he tells the Muslims he tells his

[28:27]companions he tells them if his mother was alive Allah would have

[28:31]forgiven him much quicker meaning that serving your mother it's a sign

[28:39]that will allow forgive you much quicker but since your mother since

[28:43]the mother has passed away go and serve your father this is

[28:47]the o'clock of the religion of Islam and another story a man

[28:54]he came to rasulallah after had kjetil wada a solid LA he

[28:59]performed the hajj with all of the Muslims over a hundred thousand

[29:06]muslims after the end of the Hajj after everyone wants to leave

[29:10]go back to their homes a man he came carrying his mother

[29:15]on his shoulders carrying his mother on his back at that time

[29:20]they didn't have wheelchairs they didn't have any of these you know

[29:24]the tools that we have today he came carrying his mother on

[29:30]his back he tells us on a la hora sort of law

[29:32]I performed the Hajj I did the Umrah I stood an artifact

[29:37]I went to minna I did that I me I did all

[29:42]of the acts of hedge with my mother on my back I

[29:44]carried her I walked all the way with my mother on my

[29:50]back have I fulfilled my duties and my responsibilities towards my mother

[29:57]my sort of law sallallahu ala replied that you did not do

[30:03]what you did not go through the pain of one contraction that

[30:08]your mother went through one contraction one hour one minute and the

[30:13]labor that you will not be able to pay back your mother

[30:18]for one contraction that she went through for one pain one moment

[30:21]of pain that she went through also the law tells him continue

[30:25]to serve your mother until she passes away the problem the difference

[30:31]is there are some people that serve their parents once their parents

[30:37]are older there are people that take care of their family once

[30:40]their families older but there's a very big difference between the mother

[30:45]the father when they take care of a child and a son

[30:50]or daughter that take care of their elderly parents what's the difference

[30:55]the difference is that when your mother when your father take care

[30:59]of you when they have sleepless nights because of you they have

[31:03]hope to see you get older they hope that you're going to

[31:09]get older and they have hope that you're going to have a

[31:14]very successful future but when the when the son or daughter's taking

[31:17]care of their parents when they're taking care of their grandparents when

[31:21]they're taking care of the adults what did they say they say

[31:24]I'll take care of them but sooner or later this is going

[31:28]to stop they're going to pass away they're going to die and

[31:31]I'm not going to have to deal with this anymore even the

[31:34]one that shows the most love towards their family eventually this is

[31:39]the son of hayat you believe that the adults the older ones

[31:43]they're going to die out first so this is why allah subhana

[31:49]allah says that you will never be able to repay your parents

[31:52]and this is why allah instructs the muslims the believers to show

[32:01]ahsan and show respect towards the parents not only because it's a

[32:05]social thing it's a good thing to do but because it will

[32:07]improve your life a few nights ago when we were speaking about

[32:13]the kadarin when we were speaking about the destiny we spoke that

[32:16]there are certain things that change someone's destiny one of them is

[32:19]kindness and s an towards the family and I hadith from rasulallah

[32:26]he says man sera who he who wishes to have a long

[32:29]life Mansa rahu and your med fear hombre y as dado fiesta

[32:37]he who wishes or she who wishes that their lives will be

[32:41]longer and his sustenance her sustenance will increase fally MC Barwin be

[32:50]led was Sue Ellen narrow hem a let this person be borrow

[32:54]ly ladeane meaning that you're always your parents are always satisfied with

[33:00]you and this is something that will bring good luck in this

[33:05]life it will bring Baraka towards this life and towards the afterlife

[33:09]we have a chapter in the Quran by the name of surat

[33:16]al-baqara the chapter of the cow you guys know why it is

[33:18]called the chapter of the cow there's a story behind this the

[33:25]story is that there was a man from Benny Ezra Ian a

[33:27]young man who was a businessman he had a business of buying

[33:35]and selling one day a group of people they came and they

[33:40]wanted to buy something from him he wants to go to open

[33:47]the container to open the storage to take out that thing that

[33:50]they're buying he sees that the key is not with him the

[33:56]key is with his father he goes to take the key from

[34:00]his father he sees that his father's sleeping the father sleeping and

[34:06]the key is with the father he decides should I wake up

[34:09]my father and ruin his sleep and I will be able to

[34:15]make money or should I let these people go and the reserve

[34:19]the sustenance will come later he decides that he's not going to

[34:23]wake his father up he said who cares it's not a big

[34:29]deal this is one transaction later on someone else will come and

[34:31]buy from me even though it was a big transaction his father

[34:34]wakes up and he realizes that this young man his son he

[34:38]missed out on a transaction because he did not want to ruin

[34:40]his father sleep his father was sleeping he wanted to keep his

[34:45]father comfortable he wanted to keep his father sleeping so his father

[34:51]becomes happy and he has mercy towards his son he goes and

[34:54]he gives them a cow that they had they had probably a

[34:59]cow one or two he gives him that cow that they had

[35:06]meanwhile in Bene Israel in that community there was a murder that

[35:10]took place this is a story in the Quran there was a

[35:16]murder that took place the people they wanted to find out what's

[35:20]there they they wanted to find out who was the who was

[35:25]the perpetrator who was the murderer they didn't know there were no

[35:30]signs so they come to prophet musa le salon and they tell

[35:33]him o Musa you speak to Allah you talk to your Lord

[35:38]ask a lot to tell us who the murderer is so prophet

[35:44]musa alayhis salaam he speaks to Allah and then Musa replies with

[35:48]God a moose alico me he in la jolla menachem and thethe

[35:52]bajo baqara Musa replies he tells them Allah orders you to slaughter

[36:01]a cow slaughter a cow and then you will find out who

[36:05]was the murderer now here Benny syl they kept asking prophet Musa

[36:13]what kind of a cow ask your Lord what kind of a

[36:14]cow there are millions of cows so Allah keeps replying and making

[36:22]it narrower and narrower first he said for example it's any cow

[36:26]that walks on the earth an account and then it became more

[36:28]specific it had to be a yellow cow it had to be

[36:32]this type of cow I had to have specific signs they went

[36:36]and they looked around it turned out to be that cow the

[36:38]cow that the father had given the Sun they came and they

[36:44]tell him we want to buy this cow from you he tells

[36:49]them why do you need this specific cow you could buy any

[36:51]other cow they they tell him that we have this case of

[36:56]murder and this is what Allah has ordered Allah ordered us for

[36:59]this specific cow so he goes to his mother his mother tells

[37:05]him jack up the price don't sell it cheap they need this

[37:07]specific cow don't sell it cheap he kept raising the price and

[37:10]raising the price until his mother told him let them fill that

[37:17]cow with gold and jewelry and silver and then they could have

[37:21]it this man he became rich because they needed to buy the

[37:27]cow and they gave him all of the money that they could

[37:31]so that they could take the car because of what because of

[37:33]one s on a whole chapter in the quran surah al-baqarah by

[37:38]the name of by the name of the cow of course this

[37:40]is just a portion of the whole the whole chapter it's it's

[37:43]mentioned the story it has to do with someone who was kind

[37:48]with his pet with his parents then they go and they killed

[37:50]the cow and then they take a piece of flesh and they

[37:54]put it on the on the deceased person the person he wakes

[38:00]up from the dead from his death and he points to his

[38:03]cousin he says this person killed me then they find out the

[38:08]murder was solved the crime was solved because of that story and

[38:12]this is a story that's mentioned in the Quran so we see

[38:17]that if you are good with your parents if you have good

[38:20]luck towards your family allah subhana allah will give you and on

[38:25]the other hand if someone is not good with their parents okla

[38:27]why the Dane this is something that will bring the punishment in

[38:32]this life and in the afterlife allah says in the quran well

[38:38]lavina and balloon the LA men body me thought there's a covenant

[38:42]with allah allah says respect me show respect to Allah thank Allah

[38:46]and thank your parents the ones who break that me that that

[38:54]covenant why hakuna MA amar la hobby and you son and they

[38:57]cut off the relationship that Allah has ordered for you to build

[39:01]that relationship for you to keep that relationship Allah says way of

[39:10]Sedona hola a que l'homme Alana Walla home suid are those people

[39:14]are the cursed ones in a hadith from mr sardick alehissalaam he

[39:18]says manada reliable nadaram not eaten he who frowns he who looks

[39:28]at his parents with a very bad luck never a market an

[39:32]angry look man navara la abue a navara marketin muhammara le monde

[39:43]la la la la minho sala a mom seduces you looks at

[39:46]his parents in a frowning way in a very upsetting way and

[39:51]they have approached him they have done something wrong Allah will not

[39:55]accept his prayers because Allah says even if they are mushrik even

[40:00]if there are non-muslims and the Quran he says you still have

[40:05]to respect them don't obey them if they're telling you to do

[40:07]obey them in the haram to do something wrong but you still

[40:13]have to show the best signs of respect now one fifth question

[40:16]a question of jurisprudence is it why jib for me is the

[40:20]obligatory upon me to obey my parents the answer is no not

[40:29]necessarily I have to make sure that my parents are not upset

[40:31]with me but I'm not required to obey every single thing that

[40:37]they tell me unless if I disobey them in that specific thing

[40:39]then and they become angry with me then it will become Haram

[40:43]but for example your father tells you you could go to this

[40:47]school or you could go to that school but he says I

[40:49]recommend you go to the school the father is not going to

[40:54]get mad if you decide to do something else or sometimes the

[40:57]parents they recommend for their children to for example do some things

[41:02]you know this person he came and he proposed marry this person

[41:07]except to marry this person do you have to listen to that

[41:10]order no because this is something that has to do with yourself

[41:13]and we see that sometimes the parents they have expectations that are

[41:18]unrealistic that are very far and it's very difficult to follow that

[41:25]expectation and follow that order it's not how long it's not haram

[41:31]what is haram according to the hadith and according to the jurisprudence

[41:36]is to upset your parents however you have to always try struggle

[41:41]to keep your parents happy sometimes for example you tell your parents

[41:46]I want to come to the masjid I want to pray but

[41:50]then you also have an option to stay at home and take

[41:52]care of your sick mother to take care of your sick father

[41:57]to take care of your family maybe your mother's not going to

[41:59]ask you to stay but if you stay this is something that

[42:04]will make her happier more recommended than going in the mustard and

[42:08]praying with everyone staying home and taking care of the family is

[42:13]more recommended even when it comes to sometimes a watch of Act

[42:21]one day the Muslims they were go out they were going out

[42:23]during the time of the Prophet for jihad to defend the Muslims

[42:26]the Muslims were being attacked us on a lie he ordered that

[42:31]the Muslims go out there was a man he came and he

[42:35]told the Rasul Allah I want to come and join you but

[42:37]there's one problem the problem is that i have old parents my

[42:43]father and my mother they're old and i am the only one

[42:45]I'm the only one that could take care of them I'm the

[42:49]only one that could provide for them or sort of la he

[42:53]told he tells him leave the jihad stay at home and take

[42:56]care of your parents take care of your family this is what

[43:01]Allah expects from you and then rasulallah he says a very beautiful

[43:04]statement he says while levy in FC be a day i swear

[43:10]by allah when lavigne FCB adela on shahama BK o manwë Layla

[43:14]hey Ron min jihadi sauna for your parents to be happy with

[43:20]you for one hour one day one night this is better than

[43:24]jihad for one full year one full year of fighting in the

[43:30]way of Allah making your parents happy sometimes the parents they don't

[43:35]expect much from you they just want you to be around they

[43:36]want you to be with them sitting with them talking with them

[43:38]drinking tea with them this is what they enjoy what sort of

[43:44]law says that that that act that is better than a jihad

[43:51]of one year I will conclude with the story one day during

[43:54]the life of the Prophet there was a man who was dying

[44:00]a young man who was dying so what sort of not heard

[44:03]that this man was going through he was dying he was suffering

[44:08]sort of sort of let's go and visit him let's go and

[44:10]see how he is it supposed to have to go and visit

[44:14]someone when they're sick when they're dying being there for them so

[44:19]I sort of la he goes he sees that this man he

[44:24]cannot speak he's dying so rasoul allah he asked around he sees

[44:29]that this person even rustled lies around him this person can't speak

[44:33]Rasool Allah he asked where's his father where's his mother who out

[44:39]of his parents is alive they tell him the father has passed

[44:42]away but the mother is around he said called the mother the

[44:45]mother she comes he tells her are you satisfied with him she

[44:54]tells him to be honest no I'm not happy with him he

[44:58]tells Russell Allah tells her this is the reason that he cannot

[45:03]say his Shahada this is the reason that he cannot speak at

[45:06]the hour of death there are certain people this is why we

[45:11]always ask Allah Subhan o Tejada and our da o Allah allow

[45:12]me to be able to say the Shahada allow me to be

[45:16]able to speak in the moments of death there are certain people

[45:18]they go quiet of course there are many reasons for that one

[45:25]of the reasons from the story is that this person his mother

[45:28]was not happy with him so I sort of light tells her

[45:33]the only way for this person has sold to be relieved is

[45:38]for you to be satisfied with him she tells him or assad

[45:41]allah i can't i can't he hurt me too much I took

[45:46]care of him I fed him I changed him I saw him

[45:52]grow then once you grew up he began to hit me he

[45:54]began to talk back he began to abuse me he got married

[46:00]he started treating his wife better than he treats me I can't

[46:03]it's been seven years I've been suffering because of what he's been

[46:07]doing so I sort of la he saw that there was no

[46:12]way he tells his companions bring some would gather some what they

[46:18]go and they gather wood then rasul allah tells them light the

[46:23]wood on fire they go and they light the word on fire

[46:25]done rasul allah he tells them carry him and throw him in

[46:30]the fire the mother at that moment she says you're a solid

[46:35]man what are you doing you want to burn my son he

[46:37]tells her you are burning him because you're not happy with him

[46:44]you're not satisfied with him the only way the only passport that

[46:47]will allow him to go through as if you are satisfied with

[46:53]him she begins to cry and she says I'm happy with him

[46:56]I'm satisfied with that this is the heart of the mother then

[47:02]the man he was able to speak or so the lhasa holla

[47:04]holla holla he teaches him a DA he tells him repeat after

[47:10]me he tells him say yeah man iacobelli alia CEO or so

[47:16]allah first asked them asks him what do you see he says

[47:19]I see something very ugly it's choking me it's on my chest

[47:26]I cannot I can't see I can't say anything sorta sort of

[47:29]la tells him recite this Doha yam and iacobelli olya see why

[47:36]a fool Anil kaffir oakville maniglia see what for an ill kaffir

[47:42]oh he yam and jakub led us here Allah he accepts very

[47:45]little from us Allah does not expect very much from us yeah

[47:49]I'm and jakub LOL yasir our worship is very little compared to

[47:53]allah has done for us yaa manyak bella yasir way a fool

[48:00]Anelka fear but he forgives the many wrongs that we that we

[48:03]have done if the bellman nearly as here except the little that

[48:09]I have done and forgive the many bad deeds that I have

[48:12]done this young man he kept reciting this until rasulallah asked him

[48:17]what do you see now he says now i see a beautiful

[48:20]image coming to me and that ugly image it's gone I see

[48:27]a beautiful image coming to me the man was able to say

[48:29]the Shahada and he passed away at that moment one of the

[48:34]consequences of the are not being accepted not only do I not

[48:40]being accepted one of the consequences of not being able to say

[48:45]the Shahada is angering the parents this is why we are speaking

[48:48]about a series of da the conditions of da this is also

[48:54]one of the conditions of da there are many social issues that

[48:57]controlled that have the keys to our Dodd that have the keys

[49:02]to our prayers it's your prayers are not just you asking Allah

[49:05]and you go and you a press and you talk back to

[49:08]this person and that person if you want your prayers to be

[49:10]accepted you have to set your issues straight with everyone around you

[49:14]and most importantly your family and your parents we ask Allah subhana

[49:23]Allah to keep our parents satisfied with us our family satisfied with

[49:28]us and even after their death sometimes after that after the parents

[49:34]death there's a hadith it says that a group of people their

[49:37]parents died they were bottling wine a day and then they become

[49:43]became out but why ladeane they had after their parents death their

[49:46]relationships of suffered and there's another group of people they had a

[49:50]bad relationship during their parents life after their parents that their relationship

[49:54]became better how by giving charity on their behalf by feeding people

[49:59]on their behalf by reciting Quran for your parents by visiting their

[50:04]graves these are all things that can rebuild your relationship with your

[50:08]parents so we ask Allah subhana Allah to improve our relationship with

[50:12]our parents and as a result of that except our days and

[50:18]our prayers wal hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen la jolla mohammad wallah elevator

[50:23]playa be not a hurry

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