Kids Getting Into Drugs and the Role Fathers are NOT Taking - Haj Hassanain Rajabali

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[0:00]soon I need to do but Allah says I've chosen you I'd

[0:04]give any choice I've given you wisdom Allah says talk to Monticello

[0:08]instrument the Shah or to Linderman Tasha he has given as s

[0:14]that he has elevated us why this isuh Allah says go lead

[0:16]the pack instead of us as a community bickering fighting fault-finding doing

[0:21]Haram in our children now indulging in drugs as I mentioned yesterday

[0:24]let me give you an example of the filthiness of drugs happening

[0:27]in this town a group of youth get together some of you

[0:32]may have heard and they are told when you come to this

[0:33]party take some medications from your parents steal it it's happening in

[0:43]town then all the youth come they steal some medications and the

[0:46]parents they open up all the bottles they put it into a

[0:52]big basket Bowl then everybody must take a pill to shuffle the

[0:57]pills then all in the party needs to take one and then

[1:03]see the effect thirty minutes later this is where we have reached

[1:05]the level of decadence in our community where our young generations today

[1:10]are having parties like this to get high to blast their brains

[1:14]to take kind you know hallucinogenic stuff like where we say LSD

[1:19]they're taking in crystal meth it's become so popular today and then

[1:25]the manufacturers are adding more poisons in it and people are overdosing

[1:28]in one dose they don't know what they're taking and parents are

[1:31]crying what happened my child was in the university first University I've

[1:35]saved my whole life but for them to go to this university

[1:39]it took one little white powder and it wiped them out this

[1:41]is where we should reach we Muslims our children especially in fact

[1:47]no human being should be doing this but the conversation is specifically

[1:51]here within our community that we should at least work within our

[1:54]community to prevent these kind of problems they become prevalent when we

[1:58]forget Allah they become prevalent when we have no vision when our

[2:01]vision is short-lived when our vision is just to become rich and

[2:06]cheat and lie the child who's innocent who's full of wisdom towards

[2:10]Allah starts to get shattered every day you know we have cases

[2:13]where I kids come out of school and they walk home alone

[2:15]mom and dad doesn't even come to pick them up we ask

[2:18]them where are your parents oh they're late so we confront the

[2:21]parents why are you late to pick up your child oh I'm

[2:26]busy I'm busy then we ask the child what do you do

[2:31]sis now I go home I cook on my own we have

[2:31]our own way do you talk to your brother's it no we

[2:35]don't you don't talk to your brother's no yeah you don't even

[2:37]say Salam to them no we don't what is this we see

[2:41]it here we do intervention all the time we're watching this happening

[2:47]in front of our eyes how have we reach this low that

[2:49]our children growing up in the houses where fathers don't even hug

[2:52]their sons did you know that I have sons who I deal

[2:58]with who are so sad who lack any confidence I was in

[3:02]Canada one boy came and shook my hand his hands were so

[3:04]wet I said why are your hands so wet he said I

[3:08]sweat when I'm nervous I swept and I came to say hello

[3:15]to you I'm nervous I said why are you nervous he says

[3:17]I respect you I said when you respect me you don't need

[3:20]to be nervous he says I don't have confidence I said sit

[3:22]down let's talk why don't you have confidence he says I don't

[3:26]know I just I don't think I'm a good person I'm I'm

[3:29]a hopeless person I don't have anything I said who told you

[3:33]this who told you who infused this idea into your mind you

[3:37]know how precious you are you know what your value is he

[3:40]said no one tells me that people tell me I'm ugly people

[3:45]tell me I'm stupid I said excuse me who's there is no

[3:47]ugliness nobody is ugly I've never seen an ugly person ugly is

[3:53]when people lie when people cheat when they hurt others they're ugly

[3:56]in physical state I love the Asuna kulla shay'in Holika everybody's beautiful

[4:01]who is ugly you know there's a girl who suffered all her

[4:05]life true story in she reached 30 years of age she finally

[4:12]revealed it that when she was 8 9 years of age she

[4:13]was climbing up a school bus the school bus driver said hey

[4:18]ugly get on quickly we're getting late just that sentence Hey ugly

[4:23]get on we're getting late it bothered her so much for the

[4:29]rest of her life until thirty years of age she could get

[4:31]out of it we don't realize the power of speech we don't

[4:37]realize that as parents if we do not infuse confidence into our

[4:41]children if we do not hug them if we do not take

[4:44]that extra time that when the child is talking even if it's

[4:46]nonsense listen to it pay attention say no problem except what they

[4:54]say there's a lot of message when a child they may be

[4:59]you know babbling it's not babble it's hot it's truth we have

[5:03]no time for them so this child is growing up in a

[5:09]house neglected because parents are busy building empires where they forgot that

[5:13]their empire is themselves I like women for Sakuma muscles Yaya alladhina

[5:18]amanu alaikum enforce a comb look at your souls you've forgotten it

[5:22]we're forgetting it brothers and sisters just a hug I tell his

[5:26]stories I don't have time tonight but if I share stories of

[5:31]broken families I got your father I said if you ever hugged

[5:33]your son said no why not well my father never hugged me

[5:38]I said it's time for you to hug him people think what's

[5:41]the solution to my son's problem should I send to you no

[5:43]specialized school psychiatrist maybe psychologists give them some drugs make him good

[5:51]the greatest solution is a smile and a hug look at the

[5:59]child's smile be wise show them I'm here to support you caress

[6:02]them hug them as a parent hold them and say what do

[6:05]you need don't look down upon them when they make a mistake

[6:09]be very careful to pass judgment don't pass judgment talk to them

[6:14]have dialogue with them tell them how can I bring you closer

[6:18]how can I make you understand you know how sad it is

[6:20]when I see children walking on the streets today where they are

[6:24]walking with home alone because Mom and Dad have no time they

[6:26]go home and they cook their own food you know a sense

[6:29]like an orphan in a house the parents are there it's more

[6:32]painful at least the orphan knows my parents are dead but when

[6:35]your parents are alive and they ignore you it's worse than being

[6:37]an orphan this is happening you know all of this leads to

[6:42]destruction of society when we walk around our towns tree how many

[6:48]people smile generally go to the shops go and go on the

[6:50]roads and drive how many people are smiling while driving people are

[6:54]sad I was just in another country in Sydney and you can't

[7:00]one second if the red light you know goes to green people

[7:02]are shooting at you and everybody wants everybody's got road rage in

[7:09]America same thing you're looking this cut up this anger is just

[7:12]explosive and the way do they take out all their frustrations they

[7:15]go watch MMA is they go watch World Wrestling Federation's big studied

[7:20]guys bouncing each other you know beat him kill him yeah well

[7:23]like Romans you know going to watch the Lions eat the Christians

[7:25]yeah because that's the pleasure yeah we've reached that level of abject

[7:28]lowness because we've forgotten Allah he said of being proactive and positive

[7:34]and looking at each other with smile and praying for each other

[7:37]and finding only good judgements and good qualities for each other we

[7:41]are poking fingers at each other and causing stress and so much

[7:44]stress and anger within ourselves that it's very hard to love a

[7:52]loss of a note Allah so Allah Muhammad look you might think

[7:56]what is Karbala what is the solution to our problems this that

[8:00]father there was one father didn't hug his son I don't come

[8:04]and hug him which is I can't you can't go hug your

[8:08]own son she said never don't know how to do it I

[8:09]said come you hug me I'll show you how to do it

[8:13]and he had no problem hugging me so I said why you

[8:19]have a problem hugging your son in his mind I'm a father

[8:21]see I'm the boss and how do I do that the son

[8:27]is crying all I want is my father to look at me

[8:32]and to hug me that's all I want you know we deal

[8:35]with this problem with kids who don't do well in education you

[8:37]don't wonder why they're not doing well why are they not studying

[8:39]somebody says oh you're dumb you know your brain your IQ is

[8:44]low I have never met a child who's dumb there's no dumb

[8:47]child even children who have some kind of issues in their chemical

[8:52]systems in the bodies they're not dumb they're super sharp you just

[8:57]have to tap it bring it out and let them rise this

[9:02]is the regime of Allah so Allah so please my brothers assist

[9:05]tonight I ask us all in this crowd and those who are

[9:10]listening turn to your children children turn to your parents look at

[9:14]them with respect with dignity and harmony kiss them kiss their hands

[9:18]hug them you will lose them and no one is more powerful

[9:23]and precious to us than that go to our parents and look

[9:27]at them with eyes of kindness Allah says in the Quran record

[9:31]Arabic Allah Buddha Allah yeah or bin Walid aeneas sana we have

[9:34]enjoying oneness to you towards Allah and that you be kind to

[9:39]your parents this is this is the only verse in the Quran

[9:41]with no heed is connected with parents there's no other words like

[9:44]that that's how powerful parents are doing we're harsh with our parents

[9:50]parents are harsh with the children they have their own problems and

[9:53]then they throw it on Society this collection leads to destruction leads

[9:57]to lack of faith when you ask children to pray they said

[10:01]why should I pray my parents don't get along they are divorcing

[10:03]each other they are constantly fighting in the house I had a

[10:05]boy in town tell me I'm an atheist I said why are

[10:09]you an atheist he says I I've done my research I said

[10:14]sit down let's talk about your research no I want to learn

[10:17]ten minutes later I says wow you are so off base in

[10:24]your research but I admire you for the work you've done you're

[10:27]young and you're smart but tell me the real reason why you're

[10:34]an atheist come on then he blurts out this is my parents

[10:36]fight every day every day I would come home and pray to

[10:42]God let them not fight let them not fight but this fighting

[10:44]is not stopping so I realized there is no God see see

[10:49]the reaction you know why people become atheist by the way I'm

[10:52]on the front line with atheists atheists are not bad people they're

[10:57]conscious people they're people who want to do good for two reasons

[11:03]one when they came within religion they were abused either they were

[11:07]looked down upon they were lied to or people with power abused

[11:13]them and it happens even sexual abuse they got it it hurt

[11:17]them one number two when they asked for understanding they looked down

[11:23]upon they belittled they are pushed condescendingly you know if a person

[11:28]who's not very come doesn't come much to the Masjid and then

[11:33]he shows up people say Oh what happened you lost your way

[11:35]why are you here today we have this habit why don't we

[11:39]welcome them since my shell I'm so happy to see you long

[11:43]time we've been missing you welcome make them feel good the presence

[11:45]of I should I go to that Center they are all making

[11:47]condescending remarks against me I'd rather go to my non-muslim friends who

[11:53]I more respect for me than to come here when people are

[11:55]pontificating like they're angels with God isn't that the same as he

[11:58]beliefs he listed the same thing he thought he had so much

[12:00]knowledge Allah said let me expose him and watch when I expose

[12:05]him that the minute I asked him to submit what does he

[12:07]do he refuses when he refused he became very arrogant and in

[12:13]his arrogance he said I lost my status because of many Adam

[12:16]I want to destroy Bani Adam and Allah asks enjoy bliss what

[12:19]do you want he says for the Aesthetica love will merge mind

[12:24]a lie become inhuman mala seen by your authority I will take

[12:28]them all fooled them all so what

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