Islam and Clothing Etiquettes - Sayed Ali Khalkhali

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[0:11]all right the month of Ramadan for us to fast in order

[0:24]for us to try our very best to gain taqwa to gain

[0:29]God consciousness God awareness to be of those who have true taqwan

[0:37]their lives those who Allah says that those who have taqwa fidget

[0:46]they'll be rewarded with Gardens of paradise and rivers flowing those of

[0:54]they are victorious they are successful Allah the month of Ramadan we

[1:08]wish to gain that one and have takwa in response to her

[1:19]mom who asks him for practical advice and lessons how to gain

[1:25]taqwa at first he mentions the verse in the Quran that Allah

[1:29]is with those who have taqwa Allah with those who perform good

[1:35]The Good Deeds the good doers then he wants more her mom

[1:43]wants more step-by-step process of how to have taqwa what should I

[1:47]do in my life that I am a muttapi the first thing

[1:54]he mentions they are of those who have great great father they

[2:01]have great Noble qualities the people of taqwa and he mentions number

[2:08]one regards there are those who watch but when they speak they

[2:16]speak direct to the point good speech concise and good words when

[2:23]they speak then he mentions the second characteristic and sign of those

[2:36]who have taqwa was he mentions regards to the attire s their

[2:51]clothing is moderate modest in their clothing Allah mentions regards to libas

[3:01]regards to clothing and he mentions in Surah number 7 verse 26.

[3:08]Adam number one Allah addresses all of mankind every single human being

[3:21]Allah is addressing them every single son of Adam Prophet Adam that's

[3:30]what yeah o sons of Adam o children of Adam oh Humanity

[3:42]at Large we have revealed and bestowed upon you and we have

[3:52]sent down for you clothing that clothing is one of those things

[4:00]essential needs of a human being that Allah has revealed for us

[4:09]has gifted for us without even asking Allah has sent to us

[4:17]clothing and for the reasons that you'll mention in the Quran in

[4:21]this verse like without me even asking Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has

[4:28]provided me with the essential need of oxygen of air Allah has

[4:32]bestowed and provided me with thee food nutrients this is one of

[4:42]the essential needs one of the essential needs is clothing levas ikum

[4:50]and then he mentions the aims of the clothing why one should

[4:59]clothe themselves number one in this verse says to cover your nakedness

[5:05]to cover your private parts to cover your shamefulness to cover those

[5:12]areas that need to be covered and this is not again remember

[5:19]it's not for only the meaning or the Believers all of mankind

[5:22]universally from the day of prophet Adam existed in this earth there

[5:30]was a necessary need to cover themselves to cover that body to

[5:38]not roam around and walk around nakedly the nakedness fact it was

[5:47]something seen that important to cover themselves use some piece of clothing

[5:53]to to cover and you find this university around the world around

[5:56]the world wherever we are in the world Humanity at large know

[6:02]the importance of clothing know the importance of not walking around around

[6:09]naked whether it's a child or an elder male or female various

[6:18]countries in the world various Nations various backgrounds various religions all realize

[6:28]the importance of covering of clothing some parts of the world it's

[6:37]a crime it's illegal one can't leave their home fully naked for

[6:44]example due to the modesty chastity and you find this is mentioned

[6:49]in the Quran cover your nakedness this is one of the aims

[6:54]of libas a and also Allah says that clothing covering is to

[7:05]what beautify you to give yourself as a source of the ornaments

[7:12]that's one covering cover yourself with those things that are best that

[7:17]are nice Zina in itself that one should clothe themselves and what

[7:24]is mass what is the best form of libas a Allah [Music]

[7:39]mentions that the best form of clothing is there are three stages

[7:53]of covering three stages of clothing one clothing covering to cover my

[7:58]nakedness one form of covering aim is to what to keep me

[8:08]beautiful appropriately dressed nicely dressed and the best form of clothing is

[8:14]what is that clothing of taqwa that clothing that brings me closer

[8:21]in recognition and understanding and awareness of Allah clothing many of us

[8:30]clothe ourselves number one we said want to cover our body we

[8:34]also clothe ourselves wine because it because of the different climate temperature

[8:39]we know what to wear according to the the heat the climate

[8:44]whether it's in a hot climate we start to wear what's appropriate

[8:50]for that climate or whether it's snowing and very close we know

[8:54]to wear jackets and clothing and thermals and those things that keep

[9:00]us oh sometimes we wear some certain types of clothing why to

[9:05]protect ourselves against certain surfaces against certain infections sometimes where certain forms

[9:16]of clothing due to the cultural norms different parts of the world

[9:22]certain clothings are appropriate and addressed different events you find certain clothings

[9:27]are appropriate or dressed therefore therefore you find in Islam Islam mentions

[9:35]that when one wears a clothing in addition to the important aims

[9:44]of clothing one should wear the clothing that is appropriate appropriate when

[9:50]someone's going to a football match when someone's going to a hockey

[9:57]match to play they know what's appropriate for that certain sport they

[10:00]know what they need to wear in terms of the shin pads

[10:02]in terms of the gloves in terms of the helmets and what's

[10:09]necessary again when someone goes to a certain event if it's a

[10:15]important meeting what clothing is important for that meeting what clothing is

[10:22]important for the meeting of myself and my community my friends so

[10:27]number one one should be aware of what clothing is appropriate for

[10:33]that situation that place that I am going number two what clothing

[10:39]is the best for me to wear Sometimes some of us when

[10:45]we want to choose what clothes to wear hours and hours and

[10:50]hours to choose think of these steps what is appropriate what is

[10:55]best for me to wear sometimes people think that when we wish

[11:02]to dress ourselves we should wear that which is not the nicest

[11:06]No in fact where what's best what's nice what's going to be

[11:15]the true image of the true teachings of Muhammad and Allah who

[11:21]wore the clothes which were appropriate clothes that were best number three

[11:28]when we clothe ourselves it should be clean clean clothes tidiness appropriateness

[11:38]also when we are taking consideration about our clothes it should not

[11:48]be of those that are aim in that clothing is to what

[11:54]to attract attention attract attention if someone wears a clothing with a

[12:01]certain message on the clothing and an inappropriate message on him or

[12:06]for example a clothing of hijab they want to cover themselves in

[12:13]hijab but with that hijab there are certain signals or certain messages

[12:20]that actually goes against the actual concept of hijab so not to

[12:26]be of those clothing that want that is aimed to what attract

[12:33]aim towards Disturbed all clothing which are extreme extremeness in our clothing

[12:45]that we go to certain extreme matters and how we clothe ourselves

[12:49]clothing which are appropriate clothing which are best clothing which are clean

[12:56]clothing which are what the lebas that is what that is of

[12:59]moderate modesty clothing that brings me closer in understanding the attire that's

[13:06]necessary for what's the situation that I am in and we need

[13:12]to be very careful of those who perform what I dress to

[13:18]impress I dress not to bring me closer in that clothing in

[13:22]those aims of clothing to bring me closer to Allah but all

[13:28]I do is to clothe myself in those clothes to impress others

[13:33]in order to get more likes on social media in order to

[13:39]see what's the response of others and how they respond makes me

[13:42]happy and if they don't really respond or they don't really think

[13:45]of what I'm wearing is really nice and appropriate I can really

[13:49]annoyed them sir no you find Amir al-muminum when he went to

[13:54]the marketplace he was with kanbar an associate of Amir al-mumin who

[14:01]was a companion of a Miriam who was serving his mawla and

[14:07]he bought two shirts one a bit pricier and one of a

[14:10]lower price after buying these two shirts he provided the price here

[14:20]and he said these two shirts you bought why didn't you keep

[14:28]the one that you both which was pricier for yourself You Are

[14:38]Young you are one of the many you are one of them

[14:40]and I wish to gift to you this shirt again a reminder

[14:45]of Amir Al mummy self-sacrifice he could have worn the shirt himself

[14:49]but he wanted to give that shirt that was nice that's not

[14:59]which was nice and better he gave to his day one he

[15:04]gave to his beloved one what we need to also be careful

[15:07]when it comes to clothing and the etiquettes that Islam teaches us

[15:15]is to be careful about stereotyping and be careful to judge someone

[15:18]according to what they're wearing this is extremely careful that we judge

[15:26]someone or God forbid we look down upon someone due to their

[15:31]dress sense this is unacceptable every single individual is trying their best

[15:38]to wear that clothing inshallah which has those three aims and the

[15:45]movement a Muslim who enters any place with the clothing that they

[15:49]have chosen we should be careful never to stereotype or say to

[15:52]them oh look down upon them according to that clothing that they

[15:58]have I remember reading about bahrul who one day he noticed that

[16:05]there was a party an invitation Gathering and everyone was invited except

[16:12]was didn't have those clothing for that wedding party so he saw

[16:18]everyone was wearing really smartly dressed to that party ceremony and there

[16:23]would be a God by the door who would let them in

[16:29]when they saw the clothing of bahul they noticed that his clothing

[16:32]was ragged and everything they didn't let him in one of the

[16:37]friends of bahul which was seeing the situation he told battle what's

[16:41]wrong why not entering the party he said look at my clothing

[16:45]they're not going to let me in he said don't worry he

[16:49]gave him his clothing he said I've got a few spare and

[16:53]you can wear this clothing as soon as they went to the

[17:00]party to the ceremony again this is a lesson for us they

[17:04]welcome the clothes that he was wearing that's nice clothing and the

[17:09]smart clothing that dress sense that he had and what he was

[17:13]boring he entered the party and when it was the time that

[17:17]they were serving food he put the the food the stew he

[17:24]started to pour down his clothes I said what are you doing

[17:27]this is for you to eat he said because this food they

[17:32]didn't give it to bahalud as a bahrul the person but they

[17:35]gave it to him as the clothing that he was wearing that

[17:41]they didn't give the respect necessary to Benny Adam to an individual

[17:47]due to his due to his due to his Association to the

[17:53]family of the holy prophet rather all they thought that maybe he

[17:57]is a great person because of his clothing sometimes we need to

[18:03]be careful about the stereotyping when it comes to our beloved we

[18:08]should always be welcoming alhamdulillah we have meaning from various backgrounds and

[18:13]this is the beauty of the Islamic culture of accepting and understanding

[18:19]the Great mons and Brotherhood and friendship between one another so the

[18:28]clothing that if it covers oneself clothed themselves is a beauty in

[18:35]itself the external clothing the internal and the moral the physical and

[18:46]the spiritual that that clothing of protection against sin is the best

[18:55]form of clothing whatever clothing we're wearing physically there should be a

[19:02]coating an external coating reminding my internal nafs to stay away from

[19:09]Haram to stay away from sins because there are sometimes people they

[19:13]are wearing the best form of clothing they're wearing the best form

[19:19]of Islamic if you want to put it in stage a speech

[19:20]marks clothing but sometimes sometimes they don't even pray or they don't

[19:27]even fast or they don't have takwa that the clothing most important

[19:35]thing is that we should not always judge a person judge a

[19:44]book by its cover judge a person the true person the true

[19:49]and Son Allah says is the one who has the best of

[19:54]taqwa the best of God consciences when it comes to clothing we

[20:02]need to also be of the rules the fact he rules Jews

[20:04]prudentiary when it comes to Salah for example what clothes am I

[20:10]allowed to wear work clothes am I not allowed to wear what

[20:15]are the bare minimum restrictions limitations in Salah what is Musta have

[20:22]for me to wear highly recommended for example to wear white clothes

[20:30]to wear an ABBA during Salah to wear a turban during Salah

[20:35]highly recommended to wear a ring during Salah to wear clean clothes

[20:41]during Salam to perfume myself drink soda it's so important for example

[20:47]the narration says that one who perfumes themselves with atro during Salah

[20:57]their Salah is Multiplied in the thawam a greater deed just to

[21:02]perfume themselves masha'allah we have these that before this they have a

[21:07]perfume beside their prayer mat This is highly recommended to perfume themselves

[21:11]to wear what is macro during Salah what is macro I need

[21:24]to uh I need to know what to avoid or what's this

[21:29]like during Salah for example to wear clothing that has pictures on

[21:33]it of a human being it's Macro for example wearing clothings which

[21:39]are darker black clothes for men is Macro for example for example

[21:44]wearing clothing that is Haram for example for men still clothes pure

[21:50]silk real silk men should avoid those kind of clothing what are

[21:58]the bare minimum restrictions what are necessary in Salam these are important

[22:04]what for example in regards to Naja Assad in regards to clothing

[22:08]why need to remove what is important regards to the rules of

[22:13]Mubarak that clothing I can only perform Salah in clothes that I

[22:19]had permission to pray with that I have permission to use what

[22:22]is the area that needs to be covered for mail I need

[22:27]to be aware of what are the area that needs to be

[22:29]covered drinks enough for female I need to be aware clothing is

[22:36]important etiquette of Islam the Islamic etiquettes when I go to Hajj

[22:45]when I go to umrah I what do I do I remove

[22:50]these shackles of clothing every single one of us and we need

[22:55]to all wear the cloth of we remove ourselves from the clothing

[23:02]of Dunya to the clothing of ibad of Allah that when we

[23:11]place the Haram around our shoulders and around our body we remind

[23:16]ourselves that I remove myself from those clothes of Disobedience that I

[23:22]disobeyed Allah now I am wearing these Haram this that's how Allah

[23:33]I wish to come to you I call upon you I call

[23:40]and come towards you and your house that Haram that we wear

[23:44]that clothing that cloth of Purity not only in the physical sense

[23:53]but in the spiritual sense that Ya Allah not that I'm coming

[23:58]to your holy household not only I wish to remove myself from

[24:02]the sins of Disobedience but Ya Allah I wish to remove the

[24:11]physical impurity around me that I wish to be a person who

[24:14]wears and clothes themselves in the best of clothing that brings themselves

[24:20]closer to Allah that is that is the libos that we wear

[24:30]when a baby is born the happiness around the parents you find

[24:34]the nurse the first one of the first things they do of

[24:40]the newborn is they clothed the baby they place that blanket that

[24:47]towel around the baby let the baby be in its warmth and

[24:50]its protection and its care and its clothing the first clothing that

[24:55]cloth around the baby so that baby even for a few moments

[25:05]is not left naked it needs to be covered by the Adam

[25:08]every single one of us is covered every single one of us

[25:13]is taken care of in our clothing in our nakedness we are

[25:17]cloth and when we pass away when we leave this Dunya every

[25:25]single one of us are physical clothing is removed and every single

[25:32]one of us are covered in a clothing called the coffin upon

[25:40]every single Muslim every single Muslim that before they are buried the

[25:50]Russell is performed upon that Muslim body and they are covered and

[25:59]shrouded in that cloth of caffeine that cloth of obedience of Allah

[26:04]that Kevin that is the shrouding placed around my body before I

[26:12]am buried that Kevin that every single one of us has a

[26:19]right as a right to be cloth to be clothed Amma there

[26:27]was one member of the Muslim there was one member of the

[26:36]lulbate his body lay on the Sands of karabala his body lay

[26:40]on upon the Sands of karabala he would call out Allah not

[26:47]only physically they would take away the cloth of above Abdullah saying

[26:55]not only they will take away and remove the clothing of above

[27:00]Hussain but even after he passes away and becomes they do not

[27:08]give him the proper rights the hack of the May yet by

[27:16]performing The Russell and the kafan foreign [Music]

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