Chalismo Majlis for Marhuma Shirinbanu (Sheila) Asaria

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Chalismo Majlis for Marhuma Shirinbanu (Sheila) Asaria Saturday 17th December 2022 2:00pm - Opening 2:15pm - Sura Yasin 2:30pm - Surah Mulk 2:45pm - Marsiya 2:55pm - Majlis - Shaykh Mujahidali Sheriff 3:40pm - Ziyarat Ashura 4:09pm - Maghribayn Salaah Please remember Marhuma Shirinbanu (Sheila) Asaria with recitation of Surah Fatiha. Donation link for Wessex Jamaat: http://paypal.me/almahdicentre

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[30:36]of maruma shirin banubai asaria who was formerly known to all of

[30:44]all of us as when she was alive it is amazing how

[30:56]days of this life pass they turn into weeks weeks turn into

[31:04]months months into years it is unbelievable that it is almost forty

[31:12]days since barhuma passed away but then the truth of this life

[31:20]is that we all have to die someday every nafs every soul

[31:34]shall be made to taste death and then you will be compensated

[31:45]in full for your actions on the day of qiyadah on the

[31:50]day of judgment allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says and no soul knows

[32:03]what it will earn tomorrow in this life we don't normally live

[32:12]in present we live in the future whilst we are seated here

[32:18]our minds and our thoughts are thinking about future what we shall

[32:24]do after matilas for example future what will we do tonight what

[32:30]will we do tomorrow and beginning next week holidays for children so

[32:38]what are we going to plan to occupy in them isn't it

[32:44]so although we are present here we are actually living in the

[32:49]future our minds our thoughts are all thinking about what we are

[32:56]going to do tomorrow allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says and no soul

[33:05]knows what it shall earn tomorrow meaning what awaits him tomorrow and

[33:17]no soul knows in which land he will die indeed it is

[33:26]allah who is all knowing and all aware so my brothers and

[33:33]my sisters this is the reality of this life the truth of

[33:38]this life is that we all have to die someday there are

[33:44]those who have preceded us and there are those of us who

[33:48]are in waiting there are those who will die today and there

[33:54]are those who will die tomorrow if the prophets and the were

[34:03]not spared how can we even imagine or think that we will

[34:08]live in this world forever prophet sulaiman we know about him the

[34:15]one prophet who was grand granted by allah with enormous kingdom on

[34:21]this earth practically everything was under his control it is innovative about

[34:29]him that he had instructed the jinn to construct a masjid and

[34:37]he went right on the top of his palace leaning over his

[34:41]staff started watching them looking at them the jain when they saw

[34:49]suleiman standing up and watching them they worked tirelessly to impress him

[34:57]soleiman was there this was his habit and suddenly he heard a

[35:01]voice saying peace be upon you he turned and he saw that

[35:11]the angel of death had arrived so he said to him and

[35:19]peace be with you o the angel of death have you come

[35:28]to visit me or are you here to take me with you

[35:34]the angel of death said i have actually come to take you

[35:41]prophet the great prophet said fair enough allow me to go to

[35:47]my chamber so that i can lie down on my bed and

[35:50]then you take my soul said no soleimah that permission has not

[35:55]been granted he said well then i am standing here leaning on

[36:01]this staff at least allow me to sit down and then you

[36:05]take my soul said solomon it is the will of allah that

[36:09]your soul should be taken in this posture the way you are

[36:13]standing he said that if this is the will of allah then

[36:18]i submit myself the angel of death took away the sword of

[36:25]solomon one of the greatest kings on this earth but the story

[36:31]does not end here it is said that the body of suleiman

[36:36]stood leaning on that staff according to some rewire for six months

[36:43]and according to one rewire which i read this morning for one

[36:47]whole year it just stood and the jinn thought that he is

[36:52]alive so they continued working tirelessly until such time that they completed

[36:57]construction of the masjid and then allah instructed awam to start chewing

[37:04]that stuff and eventually prophet solomon fell down now here comes science

[37:12]and plays its role isn't it how can that be person has

[37:18]died a lifeless body leaning over a staff for six months for

[37:23]eight months for twelve months how can it be possible isn't it

[37:29]because we tend to lean a lot on science anything it has

[37:34]to be proven but science we have no faith in the creator

[37:38]of science he does what he wills all he has to do

[37:43]is be and it becomes there is a tradition of the holy

[37:50]prophet in which he says indeed allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has made

[38:06]unlawful haram for the earth to absorb or to eat the bodies

[38:12]of the prophets therefore the prophet of allah is alive and he

[38:23]is sustained by allah so if a great prophet like was not

[38:30]spared how can we imagine how can we think that we will

[38:35]be living in this life forever there are people who have gone

[38:40]ahead of us and there are those like us who are invading

[38:51]mominid my topic in today's meddlers inshallah will be about the status

[38:57]of parents in islam there is a special request from the family

[39:03]that i should also talk about status of a mother so inshallah

[39:11]my will be divided into two parts the first part we will

[39:16]talk about parents both the father and the mother and in the

[39:21]next part inshallah we will look at the status of a mother

[39:25]as mentioned in the and in the traditions in the beginning of

[39:32]our discourse i recited two verses verses twenty three and twenty four

[39:43]of surah is the seventeenth chapter of the holy quran these verses

[39:49]are very popular and we have heard this time and again especially

[39:55]when a lecturer or speaker is talking about parents he will definitely

[39:59]refer to these verses from the holy quran allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

[40:04]says beautiful verses and your lord has commanded that you shall worship

[40:17]none except him and will do good to the parents and thereafter

[40:26]allah says and if they grow old by your side one of

[40:48]them or both of them then beware be careful do not say

[40:54]even off to them do not say hi to them and do

[41:00]not rebuke them do not shy them and talk to them speak

[41:09]to them with noble words and then allah subhanahu wa ta'ala continues

[41:16]and says look at the words that have been chosen by allah

[41:24]and lower the wings of humility of your mercy before them and

[41:33]say oh allah oh my lord have mercy upon them the way

[41:46]they reared me when i was a child so this is basically

[41:52]the translation of these two verses from the holy quran if we

[41:57]study them carefully and indeed the other verses of the holy quran

[42:03]that talks about parents you will find that there is wealth of

[42:08]information given to us in them concerning our parents when he is

[42:20]discussing these two verses of the holy quran which is under discussion

[42:26]he has raised some very interesting points he says that is the

[42:33]essential part of our belief to believe in absolute oneness of allah

[42:39]subhanahu wa ta'ala and not to ascribe partners to him this is

[42:44]essential part of our belief without tawahid one cannot be a believer

[42:50]or a muslim interestingly in the holy quran there are four verses

[42:58]of the holy quran in which allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has tied

[43:03]his tawahid with ihsan towards but doing good towards what are those

[43:12]four verses of the holy quran in chapter two verse number 83

[43:21]allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says and we took pledge from the children

[43:35]of israel that you shall worship no one except allah and that

[43:42]you will do you will do do good to the parents then

[43:48]again in chapter four verse number 36 allah is dying his with

[43:57]he says and worship allah and do not ascribe any partner to

[44:13]him and then immediately he says and do good to the parents

[44:18]then again in chapter six of the holy quran verse 151 he

[44:24]says to his prophet o my prophet tell the people call say

[44:39]come i will recount what your lord has forbidden you from that

[44:46]you shall not ascribe any partner to him and that you will

[44:49]do to the parents and then finally in this verse verse 23

[44:57]of surah 17 chapter your lord has commanded that you shall worship

[45:08]no except him and do good depends four verses of the holy

[45:14]of quran telling us that we should do ihsan and if you

[45:20]look at these verses allah has tied the essential part of our

[45:26]belief that is together with ihsan being good to be blessed you

[45:34]must have heard about is a special and well preserved tablet in

[45:41]the heavens allah had commanded the pen to write everything which he

[45:49]decrees about which he has decreed about his creation entire creation everything

[45:56]is written what is going to happen from the beginning to the

[45:59]end from day one till the last day is preserved in the

[46:04]tablet and not only that the holy quran in its entirety is

[46:11]also preserved in love and mindfulness love and my fools in this

[46:30]special and well preserved tablet is there is no god but an

[46:37]eye one whose parents are pleased with him then i am pleased

[46:49]with him it is in love and my fools on that special

[46:55]tablet status of parents according to of they have said that the

[47:06]status of our parents try and understand this is somewhat somewhat similar

[47:18]to the status of none other than the one and the only

[47:24]beloved daughter of rasulullah hazrat fatima tuzahra how there are numerous traditions

[47:39]regarding this great lady in which allah has tied his pleasure with

[47:45]the pleasure of this lady the pleasure of allah is in the

[47:53]pleasure of fatima indeed allah indeed in arabic is is for taqid

[48:07]suddenly allah is displeased with whoever displeases father-in-law and he is pleased

[48:20]with one with him with whom father allah is pleased with isn't

[48:27]it and the pleasure of allah is in the pleasure of the

[48:47]parents and the anger and displeasure of allah is in the anger

[48:53]and displeasure of the parents so this is one of the points

[48:59]which makes that the status of of the parents is so high

[49:07]that allah has tied it with his own is the essential part

[49:16]of our belief secondly he says that regardless whether the parents are

[49:24]believers or not whether are muslims or not they have to be

[49:33]respected and has to be done towards them regardless and he says

[49:42]the evidence is there in the holy quran itself in which allah

[49:46]subhanahu wa ta'ala says and if they urge you if they urge

[50:01]you to ascribe any partner to meet that of which you do

[50:05]not have any knowledge then do not obey them make sure that

[50:14]you provide them with honorable company in this life this is the

[50:20]verbs of the holy quran there are people who are muslims but

[50:25]their parents are not probably they have converted they have reverted to

[50:29]islam and their parents are unhappy with them that they have become

[50:34]muslims basically in this verse they are being told they are being

[50:40]guided that if your non believing parents urge you anything ask you

[50:47]to do anything that contradicts the command of allah then do not

[50:52]obey them in that because the command of allah takes preference over

[50:57]everything else but this does not mean that you have to be

[51:01]rude to them you must continue providing them with jafar bin abi

[51:20]atlatib was the brother of imam ali who was killed in the

[51:26]battle of mutab and thereafter asma got married to the first caliph

[51:33]abu bakr ibn kahafa she bore a child a son who was

[51:40]named muhammad after the death of abu bakr imam married her and

[51:47]muhammad bin abi bakr was brought up son of abu bakr brought

[51:52]up by imam ali he grew up to become extremely pious person

[51:57]and supporter of amir rumin this is asma bin pekumis it is

[52:05]reported that when she was married to abu bakr one day she

[52:09]came to the holy prophet and said you rasul allah i went

[52:13]to visit my mother who is not a muslim i tried to

[52:18]explain to her about islam and convinced her to become a muslim

[52:23]but she would not accept it what should i do should i

[52:29]now disconnect myself from her the holy prophet looked at her and

[52:35]said to her asma no no you can't do that continue your

[52:40]connection and your relation with her continue to do good to her

[52:44]for as long as she lives the mother was an un muslim

[52:48]was not willing to but see what islam says that even if

[52:52]the parents are non believers they are non muslim they have to

[52:56]be accorded with respect and the hassan which has been commanded in

[53:01]the holy quran should also be done towards them there are some

[53:05]parents who are not shias but their children become shias isn't it

[53:13]how should one behave i mean if with the the instruction is

[53:17]there then he want for a non shia would be a same

[53:21]one in fact there is a narration about one of the companions

[53:26]of our eighth imam imam ali ibn musa who came to the

[53:32]imam and said to him i have parents i've got my mother

[53:40]who is not your follower she is not a shia what should

[53:44]i do should i keep my connection with her and the imam

[53:48]said that of course you have to keep your relation with her

[53:51]not only that give sadaqah on her behalf and pray for her

[53:56]and make sure that you do good to her for as long

[54:01]as she is alive because my grandfather the messenger of allah has

[54:07]said indeed allah has sent me into this life with rahmah with

[54:15]compassion with mercy and not to go split and promote disrespectfulness against

[54:22]anybody so tawhid doing good has been tied to the tawhid and

[54:30]even if the parents are non muslims or non shias the hassan

[54:36]has to continue with them as well and finally the shooker of

[54:43]allah has also been tied with the shocker of the parents one

[54:50]cannot be grateful to allah unless he is grateful to his parents

[54:59]allah himself is commanding us make sure that you express your your

[55:10]gratitude to me and then immediately says and towards your parents there

[55:18]is a hadith again from our eighth imam ali salaam in which

[55:21]he says that the three things in the holy quran have been

[55:24]commanded with three other things so prayer has been commanded with zakat

[55:30]one who prays but does not give zakat or charity then his

[55:34]prayer is not accepted then he says shakar of allah has been

[55:40]commanded with shakar of divine deign gratitude of divine deign one who

[55:45]is ungrateful towards his parents can never be grateful towards his parents

[55:49]or towards allah and that is being wary of allah has been

[55:56]commanded in the holy quran with meaning keeping good ties and relationship

[56:03]with our relatives in this life therefore one who breaks his ties

[56:08]with his relatives his brothers his sisters his nephews his mates his

[56:13]uncles and his and then such a person cannot be a muktafi

[56:17]cannot be considered as a god willing person however much you see

[56:21]such a person standing in the front light of or having that

[56:26]that sign of torbah on his forehead and wearing rings to impress

[56:32]the people whether it is of aqiq or it is of or

[56:36]whatever it may be to allah it has no importance you know

[56:42]there is a tradition now listen to this very carefully very interesting

[56:45]tradition on the day of judgment a person will be brought it

[56:47]is mentioned in hadith who will have aim to have all deeds

[56:56]perfect in his account he will have prayed he will have fasted

[57:01]he will have gone for everything will be there but allah will

[57:04]command that he should go to the hell he said you allah

[57:10]i did everything which you said i prayed i fasted i went

[57:16]to hajj i gave zakat and you are commanding that i should

[57:20]be taken to the fire of jahannan to the hell fire allah

[57:25]will tell him my servant yes you prayed you fasted and you

[57:32]did all the other actions perfectly but there's one problem he will

[57:38]ask you allah what is that problem they said tell me how

[57:43]did you express your gratitude for my bounties which i sent to

[57:48]you in your life how did you express your gratitude your shooker

[57:52]towards me so the men will start recounting them and say yeah

[57:57]allah when you give me this i said shooker and luck when

[57:59]you me this i said shooker and luck when you gave this

[58:03]you did this to me every time i express my gratitude to

[58:08]you allah at that time will reveal upon him and he will

[58:11]say you have said the truth but still there is a problem

[58:16]that you express your gratitude towards me the bounties which i send

[58:22]to you in your life most of those bounties did not come

[58:27]to you directly they were sent to you through different through different

[58:32]means tell me have you ever expressed your gratitude towards those means

[58:37]that one used to send those bounties to you the allah subhanahu

[58:48]wa ta'ala does not accept that sugar which is void of sugar

[58:55]of people who he used as to ensure that his bounty reaches

[59:00]us and that is why we find that the holy prophet has

[59:04]said one who does not express his shukar his gratitude towards a

[59:15]somebody who does favor to you brings a glass of water for

[59:18]you deserves shukar gratitude tell him who does favor to you you

[59:26]express your shukar to him allah does not accept the sugar that

[59:31]is done to him but not to the so we have been

[59:37]commanded to do what does this entail what does it mean the

[59:46]term in our language refers to favor isn't it in normally in

[59:53]this life when somebody does some good to us we say he

[59:57]has done to us i come and ask for some money from

[60:02]you give me money as a loan it is your i ask

[60:06]you to invite me to your house you invite me this is

[60:09]your for example i ask for a lift from you isn't it

[60:15]so is allah telling us in the holy quran that we should

[60:17]be doing favor to our brothers no baba yeah absolutely not and

[60:23]the interesting bit here is for those of us who understand arabic

[60:27]allah is saying and not that you do a to the parents

[60:35]if he would have used the term it would have meant favors

[60:40]the allah tell us that you do favor so however rich you

[60:45]become in this life don't think that by you know just sending

[60:50]money for the upkeep of your parents it suffices and you have

[60:54]fulfilled your duty no it doesn't work that way islam wants you

[60:57]to do it in a perfect manner in such a way that

[61:01]you yourself are involved physically in doing good towards your parents your

[61:09]involvement has hassan refers to every good act that is done perfectly

[61:15]as designed by allah subhanahu wa ta'ala there are several things it

[61:22]entails one is to obey their commands obey the commands of your

[61:28]parents for as long as they are alive except for those of

[61:33]their instructions that contradict the command of allah you have become prayer

[61:38]is watching yeah if the parents tell you not to pray you

[61:43]can't obey them you have to obey allah you have become fasting

[61:50]has been prescribed upon you your parents tell you eighteen hours in

[61:55]summer you don't fast you are responsible for your action you have

[62:03]to fast but it doesn't mean that you be rude and impolite

[62:06]towards the parents you have to obey the command of the parents

[62:13]this is one of the things that has entails another thing that

[62:18]has an entails is that never never look at them angrily in

[62:26]this life always look towards them with love especially when they attain

[62:32]old age and there is a specific mention about this in the

[62:36]holy quran isn't it that when they grow old by your side

[62:51]one of them or both of them then do not even say

[62:55]oof to them our sixth imam imam alaihi salaam has said that

[63:00]that if there had been a lesser word than oof in the

[63:05]knowledge of allah he would have forbidden us to use that as

[63:09]well for our parents you can't say people when they get old

[63:15]yeah it's like they become small children isn't it they repeat a

[63:22]lot and it agitates isn't it irritates what is this get on

[63:30]going on same same thing every day whoever we grant with long

[63:41]life we cut him we reduce him in creation we take him

[63:46]back we are all going to go through that if we are

[63:49]running with life you see so in old age the parents may

[63:54]be saying something may be doing something that can irritate or agitate

[63:59]us islam is saying that here you have no right to be

[64:04]male you have no right to become angry towards them no absolutely

[64:09]not you can't tell them oh i'm tired no you can't you

[64:15]can't rebuke them whoever you are however much wealth of knowledge you

[64:19]have in this life or strength or however much popular you become

[64:22]in this life no you can't you can't the hadith says that

[64:32]to look at the father with love to look at the mother

[64:37]with love and compassion and to look at both the parents the

[64:45]father and the mother with love and with compassion the reward of

[64:56]this is equal to one hajj and one ummah that has been

[65:00]accepted by allah in this life we spend a lot of money

[65:05]to go for hajj and ummah i don't read hajj is becoming

[65:07]very expensive now it's 5,006 thousand pounds we go we perform hajj

[65:12]yet we are not sure whether allah has accepted are we sure

[65:16]no we are not sure whether it has been we hope that

[65:20]it will be accepted in this hadith that is said that that

[65:23]looking with love to your parents the reward is equal to a

[65:31]and an that has been accepted by allah means to take care

[65:42]of their needs in the best possible manner in such a way

[65:48]that the parents do not need to beg or express their need

[65:55]to you that means you should be aware of what they need

[65:59]baba morayas how can we you know we are so busy in

[66:03]university in the college in school at work how is it possible

[66:07]for us it's possible for us to be aware of the needs

[66:11]of our offices about the rules of our uni and of the

[66:17]college and our workplaces but when it comes to work why because

[66:22]we have parked them aside we do not regard them as important

[66:28]quran says whatever you spend of god whatever charity you give in

[66:38]life listen to this whatever charity you give in life the first

[66:45]recipients are the parents first my brothers my sisters by god i

[66:53]have in my life been in places where i have seen in

[66:58]our community where a son or the sons the children have been

[67:04]blessed with enormous wealth parents have been neglected if the father has

[67:11]died the mother has been thrown into babakani i'm talking about east

[67:14]africa or in indian thrown into babakani literally and the same person

[67:21]coming and giving huge sums of money to the community in millions

[67:31]we in the community know what is happening including the leaders of

[67:35]the community yeah this person is not taking care of his own

[67:40]mother and has thrown it on her own he's put her in

[67:45]is a house meant for the widows which is you'll find this

[67:50]usually in africa and in other places and we make a muralbi

[67:54]out of such people we put bagheri sonia bagheri and honor him

[67:59]and they comment oh pasha but he gave a million dollar you

[68:03]know to build a school or a hospital and a big site

[68:07]and you're finding the news letters that come out from the jamaks

[68:10]or from the federation the pictures how low have we stood at

[68:19]when it comes to the values of islam there is no shame

[68:23]in the eyes of this son and hide of foolishness in these

[68:29]leaders who honor such people hide it attend to their needs but

[68:35]before they even ask you before your mother says i want water

[68:39]the water should be there personally that is the status and not

[68:44]only that you see we are in search of spirituality isn't it

[68:48]we talk a lot about spirituality spirituality spirituality we want our aim

[68:53]is at skies have forgotten the earth we are searching it in

[68:56]wrong places in these small small things the blessings of allah are

[69:01]so huge and so enormous yet they are not looking into them

[69:05]lower the being of humility of your rahma of your compassion before

[69:13]them what does that mean you know one of the meanings i

[69:18]don't know whether you'll believe me or not some people are not

[69:20]going to be happy with me is it when you present before

[69:23]your parents when you come before your parents lower your shoulders before

[69:29]them whoever you are however much wealth you have even if you

[69:35]have become ayatullah when you come stand before them the way a

[69:42]slave stands before the master when you go before the king or

[69:47]the queen or the prime minister you stand in humility isn't it

[69:53]you expressed your humility and humbleness before this before allah says that

[69:58]these are nothing these are nothing the real king and the queen

[70:03]are your parents they are your parents that is where you are

[70:08]and after doing all these don't think that you have fulfilled their

[70:14]rights as long as you live to your last breath they are

[70:18]alive they have passed away you as long as you live to

[70:22]your last breath you have to continue praying for them oh allah

[70:32]have mercy upon them the way they rear me when i was

[70:37]a small child so so far whatever we have discussed concerns both

[70:43]the parents the question is about whose status is greater status of

[70:49]the father or the status of the mother in the holy quran

[70:54]allah has talked about parents together the four verses which i read

[71:00]out in the beginning we saw but there are two verses in

[71:04]the holy quran in which allah is now bringing the high status

[71:10]of mother in the forefront one is in surah umana in which

[71:15]he says and we have enjoined man concerning his parents and then

[71:25]he says his mother carried him in weakness upon weakness and the

[71:37]other words is of surah in which allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says

[71:42]and we enjoined man regarding his parents that he should do a

[71:51]son on them allah says his mother carried him in travail they

[72:04]say in pain and bore him in pain there are the two

[72:09]verses special mention of the mother has come allah the mother ma

[72:18]which they said there is so much to say but the time

[72:21]is not loyal unfortunately so i'll try to be as brief as

[72:28]possible the status of of a mother is so high is so

[72:33]high that a person comes to rasulullah and he says you rasulullah

[72:38]what is the right of the father so in this hadith the

[72:45]holy prophet you have to obey his commands for as long as

[72:50]he is alive this is one hadith in another hadith a person

[72:55]asks what is the right of the father and the prophet mentioned

[73:03]four things he said number one do not call him by his

[73:08]name in the wider society i've noticed it is an honor for

[73:12]them if the children call the parents by their names and islam

[73:17]is not islam is telling us don't do that don't call your

[73:22]father by his name call him respectfully father or papa or or

[73:28]whatever it is number two do not walk ahead of him unless

[73:35]of course a small child and a father wants the child to

[73:38]be ahead it's a different thing but if you are walking with

[73:41]your father islam is saying walk behind don't walk ahead of the

[73:48]father if you go somewhere with your father where you have to

[73:53]sit do not sit before him third thing and fourth he says

[73:58]that do not do any such thing that can become cause of

[74:02]his defamation so these are the rights of the father then the

[74:08]man asked what is the right of the mother and the rewire

[74:14]says in arabic this is a big question you have posed this

[74:24]is the big question you have asked and then rasulullah told him

[74:27]listen if your services towards your mother equals to the particles of

[74:34]the sand in the deserts and the drops of the rain that

[74:38]has fallen on this earth it will not be equal to that

[74:42]one night she can do in her that is mother that is

[74:49]why my teacher used to tell us that you want to understand

[74:51]who a mother is tie two bricks to your stomach and just

[74:57]for one night try and sleep for the whole night try quran

[75:05]is saying the pain with which she carried us and the pain

[75:13]that she delivered us a person carried his old mother on his

[75:19]back and performed the tawaf of the holy kaaba and he met

[75:22]the prophet the prophet saw him in that condition he looked at

[75:25]the holy prophet he was very happy here is the prophet he

[75:28]said you rasulullah ever i fulfilled her rights i have carried her

[75:31]and i performed it all the only prophet looked at him and

[75:35]said you whatever you have done is not equal even to that

[75:40]one scream which she made at the time of her labor whilst

[75:45]giving birth to you you have not repaid her for that as

[75:49]well that is you know the sharia the ihkan when it comes

[75:56]to mother in some places eases in some places literally or salat

[76:06]are of two types and prayers isn't it true when it comes

[76:11]to pray you cannot break even somebody calls you you you can't

[76:15]break you finish the salah unless there is life which is in

[76:20]danger or there is something serious there is a different thing going

[76:23]together but regarding mustahab prayers it is said that if a person

[76:27]is performing his mustahab including salatu tahajjot and if the father calls

[76:35]the is that the person should shorten his prayers to respond to

[76:39]his father not that he hears the sound of his father and

[76:43]he starts in his prayer shorten your prayer but if the mother

[76:50]calls and you are doing prayer break it this is my hope

[76:55]of islam break it and respond to harm such is the status

[77:01]a young man comes to rasulullah when the holy prophet together with

[77:04]the muslims are preparing for jihad full of faith strength and enthusiasm

[77:10]to defend islam in the course of islam said you rasulullah i

[77:13]want to participate said then what is stopping he said i've got

[77:17]an old mother who is uncomfortable with the thought that i should

[77:20]go to the battlefront and fight the holy prophet told him go

[77:29]back and be with your mother for by allah if she finds

[77:33]comfort with your presence for one night it is better than performing

[77:37]jihadu because of allah for one whole year for one whole year

[77:42]better this is the status of air and paradise lies underneath the

[77:51]feet of the mother paradise lies beneath the feet of the mother

[77:59]in another hadith paradise lies beneath the feet of your mothers not

[78:07]only that the holy prophet has said under the feet of your

[78:16]mother is a garden from homes the gardens of paradise and whose

[78:26]martyrdom we are commemorating in these days of she says cling to

[78:34]her feet because paradise lies beneath the feet of your mother listen

[78:44]to this person comes to rasulullah and says i had kept a

[78:51]vow that if it whatever the vow may be that i am

[78:56]going to kiss the door of paradise by the way when we

[78:59]keep vows we should keep vows nothing that we can fulfill i

[79:06]cannot keep a vow over here and that it is fulfilled by

[79:09]the person who's keeping the vow the responsibility should not be thrown

[79:13]on other people i make the meal of reciting 1,000 ahmadiyyajib once

[79:19]whatever i asked to allah i'm granted and i bring 10 people

[79:23]and give them to recite hundred hundred times ahmadiyyajib it doesn't work

[79:27]that way it doesn't okay and it should be something which one

[79:31]is able to fulfill i cannot keep a vow of that if

[79:35]my wish is fulfilled i'm going to walk to karbala it's difficult

[79:38]to walk that's it you can't keep that kind of unless you

[79:43]are in iraq it's a different thing isn't it true or somewhere

[79:46]where you can reach or at the expense of other people if

[79:51]my wish is fulfilled for thirty continuous days i'm going to have

[79:54]chill o'clock at ahmad sami's house for thirty continuous you can't keep

[79:59]that kind of this person comes he had kept a vow i

[80:03]have kept a vow that i'm going to kiss the door of

[80:06]paradise so he said should i do just so that we understand

[80:14]the status of the mother the holy prophet looked at him and

[80:17]he said go and kiss the feet of your mother the man

[80:24]said the know my mother has passed away what should i do

[80:31]the prophet of allah said go and kiss her grave the part

[80:40]where her feet lies your wealth will be fulfilled and it is

[80:49]the grave of the mother that dua'a also accepted no doubt about

[80:53]it when we have any kind of problem and we cannot find

[80:58]solution to it and we become desperate one of the recommendations is

[81:03]that go to the grave of your parents especially the mother and

[81:09]ask dua there ask your mother there that oh mother pray for

[81:14]me to allah and you will see that it will be granted

[81:17]and there are many incidents that have been mentioned but my time

[81:21]is finished so my this is about the parents and this is

[81:28]about the status of a mother was also a mother and we

[81:36]pray to allah to grant her with the mother to elevate her

[81:40]status in and to place her noble soul in the proximity of

[81:46]14 these are the days when we are commemorating the of a

[81:54]mother as well what can be said about this great lady what

[82:01]can be said about her couple of years ago i had gone

[82:08]to africa and then some incident happened and a young man came

[82:14]to me now listen to me and complained he said shut up

[82:20]such and such person belonging to our community has slept my sister

[82:28]has slept in the community i'm an elderly person but he slept

[82:32]my sister whatever the incident it may be and i can feel

[82:37]my blood is boiling and i i want to go and hit

[82:41]him i want to do something to him i count him down

[82:44]i said leave it upon allah and inshallah you will pass this

[82:49]as well but he said that i i i simply can't see

[82:52]him i can't even pass by the place where he is sitting

[82:55]or normally where he is not this is you know what happened

[82:59]at that time it occurred to me that what would have gone

[83:04]through the heart of to the hearts of hassan and hussein when

[83:11]in their lives they would have seen those wretched people with their

[83:15]own eyes slapping their mother bringing wood to burn down the house

[83:21]of the idol of faith what would they have been feeling at

[83:24]that time how the kind of injustice that was committed against when

[83:32]they came to drag abu hassan outside the house hazrat zahra stood

[83:37]behind the door and he she said that to them that all

[83:41]muslims has happened to you don't you know that in this house

[83:45]there is in this house that there are hassan and hussein and

[83:50]the muslim says we do not care whoever is there we want

[83:53]our hassan to come out sayyid fatima was standing behind the door

[83:58]and history tells us that what these wretched people who had come

[84:02]there did to her they kicked the door of the house of

[84:06]fatima so hard that it is said that there was a nail

[84:10]behind the door that pierced into the stomach into the womb of

[84:14]fatima that killed in her janazar on the following day after her

[84:34]burial when the muslims came to know that father mazahara has passed

[84:38]away and she has already been buried they were extremely upset that

[84:42]how come that we were not informed we wanted to participate in

[84:45]the janazah of the daughter of rasulullah after all the only thing

[84:50]which rasulullah had left behind was the daughter of fatima to farah

[84:54]and so they came and they started complaining and they said that

[84:58]we are going to take the grave of fatima remove her body

[85:02]and we will make sure that we pray over her when the

[85:05]khalif of the time heard this he said that some women folks

[85:10]should be brought to dig the grave where abu al hasan amir

[85:13]al mumineen was informed about this is there anyone who will dare

[85:32]to cross this line and touch the grave of fatima and let

[85:37]me see who has got discouraging in here a person moved by

[85:41]the name of samadah and said ali do whatever you want but

[85:44]we are going to bring the body of fatima out and we

[85:47]are going to pray over her the narration says that imam ali

[85:51]alaihi salam lifted this person and view him in the air and

[85:55]saying you have nasawada by allah view you are now going to

[85:59]come forward i am going to irrigate this land with your blood

[86:03]and this is it is here that abu bakr came to ali

[86:06]and he said that leave this man alone and we are not

[86:10]going to do anything which you could not approve of thank you

[88:32]okay that that'll be fine ladies and gentlemen thank you for giving

[88:40]this opportunity to thank jamat for everything they have done for the

[88:46]family the first thing the person on my list is of course

[88:50]mullah munjahid for his wonderful recital and his lecture of course all

[88:58]the reciters who participated today the executive committee for their unwavering support

[89:06]the audio visual team for broadcasting the program not just at the

[89:11]center but streaming globally to our faraway families who couldn't participate in

[89:18]person the incredible volunteers who i always admire actually the list is

[89:28]so long that i have cut it down to short but they

[89:31]are all hardworking people visible and invisible i'm sorry i had to

[89:39]adjust that slightly on behalf of our nieces yasmeen and shamim the

[89:46]daughters of our late sister shilabai they wish to express their most

[89:51]sincere thanks and gratitude to our community at large over the past

[89:58]few weeks supporting the two sisters by accompanying them to kyrgyzstan cooked

[90:06]meals and eaten with the family this has been a great solace

[90:11]during the sad time so we really express our greatest thank you

[90:16]to all of you but finally i must i don't want to

[90:21]embarrass the gentleman but i must thank mohammed visoram for bringing me

[90:28]here today so thank you so much without him i won't be

[90:31]here under the couple of minutes i just want to pay a

[90:35]quick tribute to my sister and it will be just a couple

[90:39]of minutes so be patient with me this is the life of

[90:44]mine abraham god looked around his garden and found an empty place

[90:53]he then looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face

[91:00]he put his arms around you and lifted you to rest with

[91:05]the help of his angels they flew you to your heavenly place

[91:12]god's garden must be beautiful he always takes the best he knew

[91:19]you were suffering he knew you were in pain he knew that

[91:24]you would never get well on earth again he saw that road

[91:30]was getting rough and the hills too hard to climb he closed

[91:35]your weary eyelids and whispered peace be thine it broke our hearts

[91:43]to lose you but you didn't go alone for part of us

[91:49]went with you the day god call you home thank you for

[91:54]your kindness and salwa thank you so much uncle jeff for those

[92:13]words inshallah we'll now hear a few words from sister soraya and

[92:19]hannah manji the granddaughters of mahuma can i please ask that we

[92:24]welcome them with to mankind words cannot describe how much i miss

[94:37]my nanaima but at the same time words cannot describe how lucky

[94:40]i was to know her and to have the chance to build

[94:43]the memories that i have with her in the book the prophet

[94:47]written by kaleel jibran the speaker says when you are sorrowful look

[94:52]again in your heart and you shall see that in the truth

[94:55]you are weeping for that which has been your delight we are

[94:59]the lucky ones we loved her and we have the opportunity to

[95:02]weep for the loss of our delight in knowing her but as

[95:06]her late majesty queen elizabeth the second said we are all visitors

[95:09]to this time this place we are just passing through our purpose

[95:15]here is to observe to learn to grow to love and then

[95:19]we return home nanaima observed nanaima learnt nanaima grew and nanaima loved

[95:25]with all of her heart so now nanaima has returned home our

[95:37]nanaima was a well respected and loved woman not just by her

[95:41]friends and family but by this community too she was a funny

[95:45]and playful person who only saw the best in people in her

[95:50]honour i have written a poem my body laying down family all

[95:57]around me heaven's gate has finally opened as i have the key

[96:03]i see a mirror next to me he whispers time to go

[96:08]so i smile and take his hand to a place we can

[96:13]freely roam the room glowed with purity as we stood there for

[96:20]i knew i would be safe in his loving care gazing down

[96:25]at my family looking so fragile and small but i knew they

[96:30]would have each other and that this was my final call and

[96:35]with them i leave a piece of myself in their hearts for

[96:40]i will always be there and we will never part yet with

[96:44]the love i was given i lived life to its best i

[96:48]couldn't be more grateful but now it is time to rest i

[96:53]turned to a miss milam and said i'm ready salawat

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