Redefining Marriage: Timeless Lessons from the Life of Fatima | Sayed Mostafa Modarresi

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[0:00][Music] for [Music] Salam B [Music] Salam be upon your tearful eyes

[1:22]Salam be upon your slapped face Salam be upon your injured ear

[1:35]Salam be upon your slain [Music] Fe Salam be upon your Lon

[1:49]husband Salam be upon your orphant kids Salam be upon your bruised

[2:03]arm Salam be upon your secret burial [Music] place for [Music] [Music]

[2:57][Music] to hasten in the reappearance of the IM of our time

[3:08]please recite so the reason why we keep the memory of the

[3:26]tragedies that befell the first lady of the universe and the Heart

[3:35]and Soul of and God's finest creation and indeed his Masterpiece and

[3:45]the origin of the Divine Light as referenced in Surah 24 verse

[3:55]33 of the Quran is to seek to reconnect with our faith

[4:04]and to reestablish our connection with our belief system and to restore

[4:12]our value system and to reaffirm our endangered identity and to recommit

[4:23]to our ideals to our principles and to ReDiscover our Rel religion

[4:32]and to ReDiscover the gems embedded in our heritage this is why

[4:42]we're here brothers and sisters in these challenging times our youth are

[4:51]facing immense challenges colossal challenges they are facing a see of ideas

[5:02]and thoughts and ideologies that are alien to our faith alien to

[5:11]our religion and a simple thought can alter our perception of Life

[5:16]a simple thought can reprogram the mind of our youths this is

[5:24]why we need to seek a deeper understanding of our religion brothers

[5:30]and sisters sad famously said that I wish I could force the

[5:36]Shia youth to seek a deeper understanding of religion even if it's

[5:41]by force because standing on Shaky Ground will not help if you

[5:49]are faced with a with a misconception you risk losing everything you

[5:55]Lisk you risk losing your faith sometimes when a youngster comes up

[6:02]to me and he tells me about his Detachment from religion I

[6:10]ask him why the reason is usually lame the excuse that he

[6:17]gives me is ridiculous and I can tell it's because he doesn't

[6:22]appreciate what Allah has given him he doesn't value the wealth of

[6:27]the Shia heritage he doesn't cherish the valuable possession that he has

[6:35]which is more valuable than anything else that you own in this

[6:41]world your faith is more valuable than your credentials your faith is

[6:46]more valuable than your wealth your faith is more valuable than your

[6:50]health your faith is more valuable than anything that you possess in

[6:54]this world and this is why IM famously said to be a

[7:03]victim of a financial scam and to lose all your wealth is

[7:12]not even near than losing your faith the real scam is to

[7:20]be the victim of a religious scam is to be stripped from

[7:29]your religious ideals that's the real scan that people are subjected to

[7:34]in this day and age and this is why we need to

[7:38]seek a deeper understanding of faith and religion from the original source

[7:42]and this is why we are here tonight the original source is

[7:49]Lady fa she envelops the light of the 14 stars as mentioned

[7:56]inah inat one of the most Most Fascinating verses in the Quran

[8:04]all the Muslims recite this verse but not many contemplate the inner

[8:10]meaning of what Allah subhana tala is trying to say he is

[8:16]the light of the heavens and the Earth and then he gives

[8:23]a parable in this Parable which is very intriguing very interesting he

[8:30]gives us the precise address of this light of course this light

[8:37]is the light of guidance he delivers guidance to the people in

[8:41]the heavens and the people that walk on the face of this

[8:47]Earth through this light so where does this light originate where is

[8:51]the address of this light he gives us the GPS coordinate of

[8:56]where this light is the exact address of this light [Music] this

[9:05]light is placed in houses that Allah subhah wa ta'ala sought to

[9:12]elevate this is where Allah has remembered this is how you can

[9:19]reach Allah subhah wa ta'ala this is the Divine Light these are

[9:23]the words of the Quran these are not my words famous writer

[9:33]of the famous an 11th century scholar his his exus of the

[9:40]Quran is reputable respected by the sunnis it's perhaps one of the

[9:44]oldest EX jesis on the Quran he mentions this Hadith in his

[9:49]book he says when this verse was revealed a man gets up

[9:54]and he says obviously this verse is not talking about mosques and

[10:02]centers he's talking about certain houses whose houses are these the prophet

[10:10]said these are the houses of prophethood and Prophets and apostles suddenly

[10:18]Abu Bakr stands up and he points towards the house of fa

[10:22]which was adjacent to the mosque he said B is this part

[10:32]is this house included in the verse the prophet said the Supreme

[10:41]example of the house that encompasses the light of Allah subhana wa

[10:49]taala is the house of Ali and this is why today we

[10:52]find ourselves before an ocean of Virtues the house of fa is

[11:00]in used with virtues it's the house of inspiration it's the house

[11:05]of the Divine Light if we seek guidance in this world if

[11:11]we want to navigate our way in life it's through this house

[11:14]and this is why we've come here tonight to commemorate the tragedy

[11:19]of F and her tragedy is a gateway to what she represented

[11:26]what she personified what she embodied now my topic tonight is about

[11:33]one aspect of the life of fa it's about her marital life

[11:40]and the reason why I chose this topic is because it represents

[11:49]our ideals and principles FAA puts into practice the Quran the teachings

[11:55]of her father and she is the finest role model when it

[12:03]comes to marriage and our marital life secondly because we are suffering

[12:12]in this field brothers and sisters as you all know divorce rates

[12:16]are soaring when I see the statistics it's just mindboggling how one

[12:27]of every two marriages end in a divorce in less than 12

[12:36]years just recently the Iraqi government released the statistics about divorce rates

[12:42]in Iraq it's mindboggling 400 divorce cases per day and I'm talking

[12:48]about a Shia Community a Shia Society I'm not talking about Western

[12:54]Society so where did we get it wrong I mean if you

[12:59]were running a company company with a 50% fail rate and unfortunately

[13:05]I don't have the exact statistic regarding the Shia diasporas in the

[13:12]west but it's at least 50% 50% of all marriages end up

[13:18]in in divorce but I'm sure the number of divorce cases are

[13:24]soaring day after day if you were running a company and this

[13:32]company is losing more than what's what's gaining what would you do

[13:42]you re-evaluate the Strate strategy of this company where did we get

[13:46]it wrong why are there so many divorce rates in the community

[13:53]why when we have a role mod like f when we study

[13:54]her life especially her marital life we realize that were the most

[14:04]successful couple in this field they were the happiest couple in the

[14:11]entire universe and this is a challenge that I'm making today bring

[14:15]me a couple that were like fa and don't tell me we're

[14:20]talking about two infallible individuals the reason why Allah brought them to

[14:26]this world is so that we can relate to them them because

[14:32]they Harbor the same feelings that we Harbor they endure the same

[14:37]pain that we as humans endure FAA had the same urges uh

[14:44]that every other woman has had the same feelings that every other

[14:51]man has and this is why they become a role model for

[14:54]us and when you study their life let me fast forward to

[14:59]the very end yes they were only together for eight years when

[15:04]in his obituary of says they force forcefully separated between us she

[15:17]was taken away from me forcefully this wasn't the age of death

[15:23]for fa she was only 18 FAA on her deathbed she makes

[15:29]a statement that was very rare she says you see the respect

[15:36]in her words she doesn't say oh Ali oh the father of

[15:42]Hass one of the whole marks of their lives was respect once

[15:46]IM Hassan and Hussein were playing together IM Ali was encouraging IM

[15:51]Hussein F was encouraging IM Hassan what was fa saying she was

[15:59]reciting a poem when she was encouraging IM Hassan to beat his

[16:02]brother IM Hussein in a playful way she said try to resemble

[16:11]your father oh Hass look at the respect a mother is teaching

[16:15]her son to be like the father while we see in certain

[16:21]communities when the father wants to talk to his daughter he says

[16:24]don't be like your mother or the mother when she wants to

[16:27]talk against the father she would tell the son don't be like

[16:30]your father do this listen to me while is telling imass to

[16:35]be like her father I've never lied to you in my life

[16:44]and I think the reason why fa was making this statement she

[16:48]wanted to get the seal of approval from because the Hadith says

[16:55]that if if a husband intercedes for his wife to Allah subhah

[17:02]wa ta'ala God will accept his intercession straight straight away he will

[17:07]not further probe into the files of the wife the husband is

[17:10]endorsing his wife Allah subhana T will take her to Paradise so

[17:16]she wanted the seal of approval from I've never lied to you

[17:23]in my entire life I've never betrayed you in my life and

[17:28]this is mind B I've never even disagreed with you in my

[17:37]entire life what no disagreement no dispute no bickering no fighting no

[17:48]arguing whatsoever in the eight years that they live together you might

[17:52]say eight years is nothing the real test is the the 12th

[17:55]anniversary usually most of the divorces happen before the 12th year anniversary

[18:01]but wrong what they went through the hardships that they faced the

[18:07]challenges that they had to endure was like living for 300 years

[18:12]of our life today the wars the poverty what they saw during

[18:18]their lifetime was horrible I've never disagreed with you now we're not

[18:29]talking about a gullible woman a naive woman who is totally submissive

[18:34]to her husband no no no FAA had a strong character she

[18:40]was the daughter of she was a princess if you listen to

[18:43]her sermon in the mosque she went and challenge the government the

[18:47]government of the time the powerful words of fa are resonating till

[18:53]today till today you inherit your father while I the daughter of

[19:09]am not allowed to inherit my father so she had a strong

[19:18]character so fa's uh words here saying that I've never disagreed with

[19:23]you because FAA was a principled woman she had ideals that she

[19:27]adhered to that that's what makes FAA special now you might say

[19:33]that you know this is not a healthy relationship for a woman

[19:38]to be totally submissive to her husband please recite but we find

[19:53]that in describing his relationship with f he says the same thing

[20:01]he said she never angered me in my life in our marital

[20:11]life never once and she never disagreed with me absolute respect absolute

[20:18]Harmony absolute love and I never even once angered she never disagreed

[20:29]with me and every time I would come back home and my

[20:32]heart is filled with anguish because of all the wars because of

[20:36]the uh hostility that the IM faced in his life every time

[20:44]I would look at her without even the need for her to

[20:51]open her mouth and to console me and to comfort me all

[20:58]my anguishes all my pains all my distress would be removed from

[21:06]my heart straight away T give me an example like this give

[21:09]me an example from history modern times ancient times of a couple

[21:14]that lived a life like this give me one example one example

[21:19]will be enough for me and you might say that you know

[21:26]because it's let me just give you one example of what f

[21:31]is talking about of what is talking about and their relationship so

[21:37]FAA Falls between the wall and the door when she regains Consciousness

[21:43]where's Ali she was crushed in defense of Al she opens her

[21:51]eyes where is Ali they took him to the mosque so FAA

[21:55]stands up despite the fact that she was injured the broken rib

[22:01]she was bleeding the aborted pregnancy she was heavily pregnant she leans

[22:10]on the wall and walks all the way to the mosque of

[22:17]only to find that is surrounded by 40 swords suddenly she says

[22:26]by God I will reach the grave of my father and make

[22:30]make a prayer when I make this prayer I will invoke God's

[22:35]Wrath to descend down upon you and by God you will realize

[22:43]that Allah subhah wa ta'ala will quickly fulfill my wish suddenly sent

[22:56]Salman to talk to father to return back to the house so

[23:03]comes oh daughter of your father was a Mercy to Mankind don't

[23:10]be the Wrath to mankind as opposed to your father she said

[23:17]Sal what are you talking about I will not tolerate killing the

[23:24]father of My Children Al this will not happen and I will

[23:30]proceed to the grave of of my father Salman wouldn't be able

[23:33]to persuade fa to go back suddenly he said to her it's

[23:44]your husband that is telling you to go back home she said

[23:52]I will return and I will obey and listen to him while

[23:59]she was Furious while she was angry and she had all the

[24:03]right to reach the grave of and to make that prayer so

[24:10]that Allah subhana wa ta'ala wipes out Humanity from the face of

[24:16]Earth but Ali says please go back I will listen I will

[24:25]obey this is just the final moment of the life of F

[24:31]and I'll site to another example so the two tried to meet

[24:41]faat after the ordeal after the attack on the house and everything

[24:47]but FAA wouldn't give them permission no one day after they look

[24:56]at Ali they say can you talk to want to visit her

[25:02]in my opinion maybe if Ali would have replied by saying no

[25:08]she doesn't want to see you guys they would have said later

[25:11]on that it was Ali that prevented us from meeting her otherwise

[25:14]fa didn't have a problem with us so comes back home he

[25:24]calls her he doesn't say oh free woman you have free will

[25:32]you have the right to uh to say no whenever you want

[25:40]but these two have asked me to ask you to let them

[25:42]inside the house they wanted to speak to you what was the

[25:49]response of fa she could have said when they entered the house

[25:53]the first time they didn't seek permission they raided the house and

[25:59]oh no I will not allow them to enter the house I

[26:04]don't want them to see me I don't want to talk to

[26:07]them she said by the way this doesn't bother me at all

[26:20]even if it's a bit distracting for you guys because I believe

[26:26]the children should be able to come to the mosque to the

[26:28]win because IM Hassan and Hussein were allowed to come to the

[26:31]mosque of one might say that imass Hussein they were imams they

[26:38]were infallible but they used to act like children they used to

[26:41]climb on the back of while he's doing the prophet would prolong

[26:48]his he wouldn't remove them from his back so the children to

[26:53]attend the mosque setting the husia setting is good even if they're

[26:57]not if if they don't pay attention if they don't understand because

[27:01]these words will eventually impact them inshallah please recite a loud so

[27:15]she says to the house is yours and I am submissive to

[27:23]you whatever you sayi you want to let them in the house

[27:27]is yours but I won't talk to them so they come inside

[27:30]they say Salam she doesn't respond imagine these were senior figures in

[27:41]the society not a response no Salam to you too and then

[27:46]said we came to comfort you to apologize if there was beef

[27:55]between us she said I just have a question from you too

[27:58]do you remember when the prophet said the long story mentioned in

[28:07]whoever pleases fa has pleased me and whoever pleases me pleases Allah

[28:14]whoever whoever angers fa has angered me and whoever angers me angers

[28:17]the almighty God he said yes we were there we heard the

[28:23]Hadith and we re relay the Hadith to other people as well

[28:26]they said then bear Witness that I have been angered by you

[28:32]too and I am not pleased with [Music] you and by God

[28:40]I will pray against you after every prayer that I perform now

[28:45]you can leave and they left so the first guy he he

[28:50]stood by the door of fa how can I go this of

[28:54]now applies to to me and you the second man said to

[28:59]him she's a woman he had no respect to woman whatsoever she's

[29:02]a woman you take her words seriously on the day of judgment

[29:10]they all know how serious these words were but she tells if

[29:12]you want to let them in you can let them in the

[29:15]house is yours and I'm submissive to you so these this couple

[29:22]were the most successful in their marital life now the thing is

[29:27]for us to seek inp spiration from their life we need to

[29:34]know what principles that fa abide by did abide by to make

[29:42]this relationship a successful relationship number one Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala needs

[29:50]to be present in our lives everything that you want to say

[29:53]everything that you want to do you need to take Allah subhana

[29:59]into consideration FAA from day one when her father came up to

[30:05]her and said oh f is proposing to you do you want

[30:10]to get married to him she said what does Allah subhana waala

[30:13]say is Allah pleased with me getting married is Allah pleased with

[30:17]me getting married to Al if the aim is Allah subhana wa

[30:24]tala God will take care of you this is why the prophet

[30:29]says to all the husbands he says that you've been entrusted with

[30:36]this relationship with this woman that is entering your life yes it's

[30:40]a binding contract yes there are areas where the wife needs to

[30:46]submit to the husband's will but you shouldn't take advantage of it

[30:49]because you have Allah subhah wa ta'ala over you Allah subh is

[30:52]watching every word that you utter every move you might she might

[31:01]not feel it but sometimes abuse of husbands can destroy the lives

[31:06]of of their spouses of their wives Allah subhana tala is watching

[31:12]and you can't escape the wrath of Allah subhana wa ta'ala oh

[31:18]no you can escape the authorities you can escape everything but Allah

[31:22]subhana wa tala it will come back and and haunt you and

[31:25]haunt you if you mistreat your wife someone will mistreat your daughter

[31:32]and you will feel the pinch when this happens to you so

[31:36]Allah subh is watching over you take Allah subh into into account

[31:41]let me share with you a little story my aim wasn't to

[31:47]deliver a lengthy lecture but I've traveled 14 hours to get to

[31:51]you guys so don't expect me to give me a 20 to

[31:56]give you a 20 minute lecture ABD Kim the founder of the

[32:03]in he was the one that established the house this man was

[32:09]in Sam after the death of his teacher he comes toala establishes

[32:12]a and then after 30 years he's originally from y after 30

[32:20]years he returns to Iran to visit his family members his classmate

[32:25]muhammedi was the of his time in so he goes to was

[32:35]supposed to be a a two-month trip to Iran but he ends

[32:38]up staying in Iran for six months so his classmate sends him

[32:45]a letter saying that I am too busy uh managing the Affairs

[32:52]of the sh as a I want you to return to n

[32:55]to manage the to teach in the to manage the Affairs of

[32:58]the students in his response says that I came to Iran and

[33:05]I realized that the people of Iran are losing their connection to

[33:09]their faith and religion so I thought of establishing a many on

[33:15]the outskirts ofan the capital city in a city called back then

[33:20]was a village small village so I decided to stay and he

[33:24]stayed in for only eight years before his death when he enters

[33:30]the city of or the village of back then his wife becomes

[33:35]blind she loses her eyesight they said to him you're managing the

[33:43]Affairs of the sh in the city you're establishing a house here

[33:47]let her go divorce her he said no this is not loyalty

[33:55]we've been together for 40 50 years and now that she lost

[33:57]her eyes did I leave her and there's no one else like

[34:02]me that can manage her her husband so they said to her

[34:09]at least bring a few servants to you know cater to her

[34:11]needs she said no no no only me only me for this

[34:17]reason he dedicated most of his time taking care of his wife

[34:22]so he teaches in the and only to quickly return to his

[34:27]wife and to see if she needs it you know it's it's

[34:29]different if you're born blind you can manage your Affairs but if

[34:35]you lose your eyesight uh at a later stage in life it's

[34:38]very difficult so he would hold her hands he would take her

[34:43]to the shower he would you know do everything for even cook

[34:46]food for her they said to him you have better things to

[34:54]do more important things to do he said the that Allah subh

[34:58]gave me to establish an entire Seminary for all the sh that

[35:07]will come in the future is because of my service to my

[35:10]life this is why we look at the marital relationship as a

[35:18]fertile ground for three things one it would generate a lot of

[35:23]rewards a lot of rewards the Hadith says one day was helping

[35:32]F in preparing the food in the house yes helping his wife

[35:37]so the prophet comes inside the house and he sees the scene

[35:41]helping out with the food he says Ali only the cream of

[35:49]the crop are given the to help their wives in the house

[35:55]and then he says that spending one hour helping your wife is

[35:59]equivalent to one year of one year of worshiping Allah subhah wa

[36:06]taal praying during the day praying during the night and fasting during

[36:13]the day you would receive by spending one hour helping your H

[36:17]your uh your wife with the dishes with the laundry with the

[36:23]kids whatever and it's also a fertile ground to seek the pleasure

[36:29]of Allah subhah wa tala the Hadith says that if a woman

[36:32]takes a piece of paper the doesn't say a piece of paper

[36:39]something an item from the floor to maintain order in the house

[36:48]to maintain cleanliness in the house this will attract the attention of

[36:53]Allah she's taking just removing at a tissue a piece of paper

[37:03]from the floor the intention is to maintain the the household God

[37:07]will look at that woman this will attract his attention and if

[37:17]Allah subhana wa taala looks at someone will never punish that person

[37:24]with removing a single piece of paper now imagine if this woman

[37:29]is washing the laundry doing the laundry washing the dishes taking care

[37:33]of the children just to uh to maintain that order in the

[37:41]house and to maintain that relationship how much rewards that woman will

[37:47]receive this is why the Hadith says that if a woman is

[37:49]patient in the face of all the challenges that couples face in

[37:57]their relationships on the day of judgment that woman will be able

[38:04]to enter Paradise from any door that she wishes there is the

[38:07]door of jihad there's the door of sa there is the door

[38:10]of the different the eight different doors of paradise that woman will

[38:14]carry the key for these doors so it's a form of also

[38:22]it's a form of it's a fertile ground for T which is

[38:26]the reason why Allah subhana wa taala brought rest of this world

[38:32]you feel the urge to retort back to respond to a word

[38:35]that hurt you but you say for Allah subhana wa tala I

[38:41]will not resp respond the Hadith says that during time of Fury

[38:46]this is not exclusive to the marital relationship this can be applied

[38:52]to every other relationship that we have if you control yourself manage

[38:55]your anger when you are angry Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will control

[39:00]his anger when he is angry at you when you commit a

[39:06]sin and you deserve to be punished severely because you managed your

[39:10]anger there Allah subh will control his metaphorically of course God doesn't

[39:16]have sentiments and feelings like us but he will not punish you

[39:20]because you refrained from venting out when you felt the urge to

[39:26]uh express yourself and you know be negative in a relationship and

[39:31]also maintaining your and ethics theith says that if you maintain your

[39:36]sometimes because of the frictions you tend to uh say things or

[39:44]do things that are inappropriate the says if you maintain your maintain

[39:54]that smile right the Hadith says Allah will give you the Tha

[40:00]of who is spending the night praying to Allah subh tala imagine

[40:04]8 hours 10 hours 12 hours in winter it's more 18 hours

[40:07]you're spending the night praying to Allah why because you have you

[40:13]have you refuse to answer that inappropriate word that you heard you

[40:20]refuse to um to retort back to an inappropriate word that you

[40:28]heard without with you can attain the pleasure of Allah subhana waala

[40:33]with you can reach the Helm of greatness you don't need to

[40:36]go to Z you don't need to go to ha of course

[40:39]you need to perform the obligatory ha but you don't need to

[40:44]you know do all the must all you need to do is

[40:45]maintain your this is the best form of the best form of

[40:50]this is why we see the marital relationship a fertile ground to

[40:56]improve ourselves and to generate all these uh rewards just by being

[41:03]gentle just by understanding what your duty is and how you need

[41:10]to respond and how you need to react of course you need

[41:13]to have the religious understanding you need to know what theab is

[41:18]I remember once you know how sometimes in our conversations we engage

[41:22]we speak behind people's back right the Hadith says that refraining from

[41:30]a single you're sitting in a gathering and you you hear people

[41:34]are talking behind the back of a person you refuse to be

[41:36]with these people even though you enjoy being with them but because

[41:43]it's you know how listening to is like the itself so you

[41:47]you refrain from a single act of theith says that this is

[41:51]equivalent to going to Haj 10,000 times I don't know if you've

[41:59]been to Haj and I don't know if you've experienced the hardship

[42:02]and it's so difficult so much money that you have to spend

[42:07]to go to Hajj refraining from a single so the religious understanding

[42:10]helps you a lot I remember couple of nights ago I was

[42:13]talking to someone who is the care of a of a of

[42:18]of his mother who who is very frail and fragile so I

[42:24]was telling him that the Hadith says that again uh a man

[42:30]goes to the holy city of Medina and then he visits Imad

[42:36]upon his visit he says that I came with a with a

[42:40]sick individual and I want to go visit the prophet he he

[42:42]tells me stay with me take care of me Allah will give

[42:46]you the the theab of visiting the prophet so he said you

[42:51]know I I came all the way from n shab took me

[42:54]like 6 months to come to Medina and I haven't even been

[42:56]able to visit the prophet because of this man he's not letting

[43:00]me visit he wants me to be with him all the time

[43:01]the Imam said to him that by staying with him and taking

[43:06]care of him for you for all the people that have a

[43:07]sick child or taking care of a sick parent listen to this

[43:13]Hadith the Imam said that if you stay with him take care

[43:14]of him Allah will give you the of visiting you don't need

[43:21]to go to visit his son stay with him take care of

[43:25]him you'll get the same th so we're missing we're missing out

[43:27]for those of you that are not married you're missing out on

[43:30]Allah L but if you're married again by acquiring the religious understanding

[43:39]we would you know deal with this relationship differently and I think

[43:46]the relationship is widely misunderstood and this is why we have we

[43:52]see all these divorces happen now F was the joy of IM

[43:54]Ali's life F was everything to the prophet said to him upon

[44:05]his death he said you are leaning on two pillars soon you

[44:11]will lose these two pillars when the prophet died comforted himself he

[44:19]said that this is the biggest Calamity the biggest tragedy but Allah

[44:25]subhana wa ta'ala has ordered us to be patient in the face

[44:30]of calamities and we will be patient but when fa died that

[44:34]broke yes the warrior of the warrior of nothing was able to

[44:41]break but these people realize that if they kill he will be

[44:49]a martyr but they can kill him a thousand times by killing

[44:55]his wife father he comes inside the house he sees fa crying

[45:01]silently while she was on her death bed so he comes up

[45:09]to her he says to her my mistress why are you crying

[45:17]he said to him I'm not crying for myself I'm not crying

[45:24]because of my broken rib I'm not crying because what I had

[45:30]to endure all the calamities that befell me no no I'm not

[45:33]crying for this I'm crying for what will happen to you after

[45:39]me I defended you now with these people the hostility the enmity

[45:43]that they Harbor towards you is so deep that they will not

[45:50]be content with killing me they will kill you they will kill

[45:54]Hassan they will kill Hussein and when Hussein on the day of

[46:00]Ash said why have you you know gathered to shed my blood

[46:06]they said out of hatred towards your father they will not be

[46:11]content with me they say that fa was never seen smiling from

[46:19]the time of the prophet's death until her death never once never

[46:23]once except for two occasions during these two times she broke the

[46:31]hearts of all the with her smiles she smiled right she was

[46:39]ostensibly happy but through the smiles she made all the M cry

[46:42]why the first time was when the prophet was dying he was

[46:49]on his death bed moments before his death because he saw how

[46:54]FAA was distressed he said to her come near me I want

[47:00]to say something in your ears she comes near the Prophet The

[47:05]Prophet Whispers in her ear suddenly she smiles out of Joy they

[47:11]say fa what did he tell you she said that he told

[47:17]me that I will be joining him soon these people my [Music]

[47:21]nation they will raid the house they will break your rib they

[47:26]will do what they will do until you join me you'll be

[47:28]joining me soon so I was happy to hear that I will

[47:33]be joining you the second time was when she saw the casket

[47:39]that was made by Asma inah I'll talk about this tomorrow briefly

[47:43]she made the casket the taboot she brought it inside the house

[47:47]when she saw the casket she smiled now imagine what the kids

[47:53]went through usually you would only see the taboot the casket after

[47:57]a person's death and it's horrible to see your loved one being

[48:00]carried in a casket but the casket was brought before the death

[48:05]of t two three days before her death it was brought inside

[48:09]the house she was happy she was happy while IM Hassan and

[48:14]Hussein were tearful while IM Hussein was crying and this is why

[48:21]these moments were engraved in their minds yes it was Imam Hussein

[48:25]that narrates to us what said after the burial of after her

[48:36]burial said it was very difficult because wanted to bury fa he

[48:47]didn't have a helper usually you have you know all the relatives

[48:49]would come but FAA was very clear in her will no one

[48:58]should attend my burial except for Salman Abu Amar these individuals and

[49:03]these were foreigners these were alien to fa they were not to

[49:08]would go inside the grave there's no one that would hand him

[49:13]over the janaz he would come out of the Grave there's no

[49:16]one inside the grave to to take the janaza of fa after

[49:21]her burial she said I have no patience anymore I don't know

[49:29]what happened to mein even though he was six five six or

[49:38]seven years old but he is the one that narrates these words

[49:43]because this scene is engraved in his mind I have no patience

[49:48]anymore I will continue to to weep I will continue to grieve

[49:55]until my death time approaches until I die and this is why

[50:03]30 years later a man says to why is your beard gray

[50:08]why don't you dye your your beard he says we are still

[50:11]beving we are still lamenting we are still cry crying I will

[50:22]stay awake every night grieving for fa until I die these are

[50:28]the words of I wish if my soul can come out of

[50:43]my body like my tears there's no good in this life after

[50:49]you [Music] oh but I continue to weep and cry so that

[50:58]Allah subhana wa ta'ala shortens my [Music] lifespan [Music] [Music] [Music] for

[51:51]y m oh

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