Night 5 | Ramadan | Sheikh Ibrahim Yassine

23 المشاهدات· 24/03/23

Ahlul Bayt Center of Toledo
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Night 5 | Ramadan | Sheikh Ibrahim Yassine
at the Ahlul Bayt Center of Toledo

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[0:00]foreign mentioned yesterday that I have to repeat the the consequences of

[0:32]committing sins talked about that Allah there are different kinds of sins

[1:02]and these are due to some Acts or or some results due

[1:12]to some Acts Haram Acts like the wrath of Allah when he

[1:23]descends on some people why because of oppression and to mock people

[1:32]and to belittle them and not to be kind to your parents

[1:38]the result of these sins is to receive or to descend Allah

[1:48]to descend the Wrath and the anger of Allah on the people

[1:57]there are some sense that change the blessings or efface the blessings

[2:08]at the same time same thing to oppress people and to not

[2:16]to be grateful to Allah and to not to listen Muslim Allah

[2:41]gave you knowledge you have to be grateful to Allah because he

[2:50]gave you this knowledge what do you do you teach people you

[2:55]guide people give you power energy potential money any blessings from Allah

[3:04]anyway you can help people you do you do that that means

[3:11]you are grateful to Allah and he said you are grateful Allah

[3:18]will continue to bestow upon you all these blessings does not go

[3:36]up expression otherwise you know Allah is not there so you can

[3:42]say he is there in that place because Allah doesn't take a

[3:50]place all right what are they to postpone your prayers you don't

[3:56]pray a time our own time and when you do not believe

[4:04]that Allah will answer your call Allah then will not answer your

[4:09]call you have to be you have to have trust in him

[4:11]you have to be sure that Allah will if there is interest

[4:16]for me in this then Allah will answer my call he might

[4:22]postpone it for some time but be sure he will answer your

[4:29]call and sometimes your Dua is not convenient you don't know what's

[4:34]the consequences Allah put it aside and gives you the reward at

[4:37]the at the day of judgment when he made Dua for Allah

[4:48]to save him it took 25 years to fulfill this Dua for

[4:51]Allah he answered him you know answered his call 25 years later

[4:58]they say theory in some River yet so that's also um hypocrisy

[5:09]hypocrisy no whatever Damon the hypocrite ask Allah doesn't give him anything

[5:20]there are some sense that bring the calamities difficulties ordeals you name

[5:27]it what is it not to help people where you are the

[5:34]only one to help or you know especially those people who are

[5:41]in need to be helped and you are the only one to

[5:43]help for instance you don't help Allah brings the ballad down difficulties

[5:51]problems some people they say I don't know what's going on well

[5:55]look at your history see what you're doing you'll you'll find it

[6:02]well sometimes Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants to test people huh not

[6:07]only because they committed sense no that's another thing he wants to

[6:13]test them how they do he knows but he wants to have

[6:19]some argument against them in the day of judgment if they don't

[6:24]do good all right and to reward them if they apply what

[6:28]they believe in in what what what they believe you know if

[6:36]it's good then Allah tests them sometimes he makes he makes eptilla

[6:43]and brings down difficulties to raise huh um the degree of the

[6:57]person like the epilah of the prophets and The Messengers Ibrahim to

[7:04]kill his son you can't imagine it sometimes how how can I

[7:17]kill my son and not kill him with that like slaughtered there

[7:29]was no Prophet that been hurt like I was hurt even after

[7:37]his death he was hurt with killing his family his Elizabeth and

[7:48]to not to do honorable to forbid evil and to do good

[7:58]ask people to do good when people they live this Duty then

[8:06]Allah will bring down the Bella that's what I I said it

[8:11]in Arabic I didn't say it in English I wanted to just

[8:14]repeat it alhamdulillah now there are things regarding how to raise our

[8:29]kids there are some rules based on some psychiatrist and some psychology

[8:38]studies also there are some Hadith which you know agree with what

[8:45]they arrive to it's consistent with the Hadith really I read in

[8:52]books about these things but I every time I read I I

[8:57]read something I I know that there is Hadith from the prophet

[9:00]about that thing and those people they made a research you know

[9:04]a research for 40 years they say where the Hadith of This

[9:11]research you know the results are set by the prophet 1400 years

[9:16]ago imagine but because we don't you know apply it in our

[9:24]life we don't do these things then we think well those doctors

[9:27]those PhD people are real good they you know they they say

[9:35]these things and they talk about these things it's Hadith it's there

[9:38]but we don't apply it in our life you know every time

[9:44]you have to do something you have to teach something especially the

[9:48]science that you teach it to apply it later on the ground

[9:55]you have to teach it at the same time you have to

[9:57]you know teach it and during practice sometimes like I said yesterday

[10:04]like the soldier of the army you can teach him how to

[10:08]you know use the gun and missiles and whatever on you know

[10:14]computer if you teach him five six years and then suddenly you

[10:17]put you put him in in the battlefield he won't do nothing

[10:22]he'll run away maybe or he will keep himself in that little

[10:26]hole but you have to teach him practically you know training with

[10:35]life ammunition like they said you know to to live the situation

[10:38]same thing and raising our children the same thing and that's why

[10:43]there are they say five languages of love and mercy and compassion

[10:50]how how do you express your feeling to the others if you

[10:57]say to somebody I love you 100 times well okay but but

[11:04]you don't do anything to him to show that you love him

[11:09]you you really love him you don't bring a guest for instance

[11:12]you don't say a good word to him um you don't do

[11:16]any service to him if he needs and so on so this

[11:22]is this is a language that is empty from its essence you

[11:28]know just I love you or I like you but those people

[11:35]they said there are five languages of love what are these languages

[11:41]this languages of love this language is these languages of love um

[11:46]are the language which the kid perceive it immediately and understand it

[11:53]understands this language they say a quality time is a language if

[12:01]you want to express your love to your children your kindness to

[12:06]your children your connection with them give them quality time and it's

[12:13]just the same thing between husband and wife many husbands they go

[12:16]to work and they spend a lot of time outside and when

[12:21]they come home they sit watching TV they think this is a

[12:26]time to to share you know no it's not a quality time

[12:28]it's wasting time you know so all that applies to husband and

[12:36]wife too you know with a larger scale quality time is to

[12:40]deal with kids to sit with them and talk to them and

[12:44]to give eye contact and to talk about subjects and to care

[12:48]about their opinions and to teach them to understand what they do

[12:53]and to you know react with them in a way that as

[12:59]if you are you know given attention High attention you respect him

[13:04]so his self-esteem will go up and he has confidence or she

[13:10]has confidence in herself or herself this is a very important quality

[13:15]time same thing between husband and wife you know many problems many

[13:19]divorces happen because of this especially for those who drive to my

[13:24]truck you know I really experienced that during you know in Dearborn

[13:29]many of our community they go because they can make a lot

[13:36]of money going out of the state from for instance Detroit Dearborn

[13:39]to to Chicago and then there is another one to Arizona from

[13:45]Arizona to Los Angeles and he enjoys driving because they pay and

[13:50]you can make 23 000 sometimes or 17 000 a month so

[13:55]that's tempting and they go for one week two weeks three weeks

[13:58]okay and this report was was done by the Americans I read

[14:07]it two things happened from you know taking this long route divorce

[14:13]and dirtiness people whose skin because they make money he doesn't have

[14:20]time to to go to a hotel or something like that he

[14:22]sleeps in the truck and then you can see some uh you

[14:28]know problem in his skin Dermatology problems and stuff like that in

[14:32]the report but they said divorces you know high level of divorce

[14:37]because of this quality time you have to give your family quality

[14:40]time and some people they came back and they they accused you

[14:45]know their wives of being you know doing something not good to

[14:50]that level why because two weeks three weeks running after money take

[14:54]it easy no take it easy one one week is enough for

[15:01]instance huh you want to make a fortune on you know and

[15:03]then you find your it's not only a wife you have kids

[15:07]you have to give them some quality time sit with them it's

[15:11]just we become like materialistically so and identified with with our life

[15:19]money and everything and then he faces a problem his house is

[15:22]destroyed no money makes him happy and happy or the house makes

[15:31]them happy sometimes he wish not to go to the house the

[15:35]second one is the word of affirmation this is a language the

[15:41]kids understand that kids understand that when you tell him good word

[15:46]you encourage him to do something you praise him in anything instead

[15:50]of you know criticizing him in a negative way that's that's uh

[15:58]that's a very important language the even the wife understands that the

[16:03]husband understands that sometimes a wife doesn't like I mean doesn't care

[16:07]about money or doesn't care about anything else huh but she likes

[16:12]from her husband to say a good word sometimes to her like

[16:17]five six months she's washing dishes and everything and doing all the

[16:22]work and good food and no time one not one time he

[16:26]said please thank you very much that's a delicious food um you're

[16:32]working very hard some people they don't pay attention to that and

[16:35]that's very important our award May gives her you know may give

[16:43]her enthusiasm and love that that is love but you express it

[16:47]the other way this language the woman understands it or the husband

[16:52]too works very hard and when he comes back home she doesn't

[16:56]you know receive him in in a nice way she says why

[17:02]you were late why didn't you do why didn't you bring the

[17:06]thing I I told you to bring you always forget sometimes you

[17:11]know these are we think these are easy but some people some

[17:14]husbands they don't speak they put it in their heart you know

[17:20]and then at the end she finds him married another woman because

[17:25]of this why why did you do that I'm doing everything because

[17:30]they're bad communication not everybody understands that not everybody says come on

[17:37]my wife I want to talk to you about this and this

[17:42]many people are not aware of this so he puts it in

[17:43]his heart or she puts it in her heart she doesn't try

[17:47]to express it so you have to dig that you have to

[17:52]dig it out and see what's going on you have to be

[17:54]knowledgeable about these things word of affirmation very important you know so

[18:00]the third one the third language is the language of service you

[18:06]love somebody you help him kid your kid needs something you help

[18:12]him you be with him he wants to go to the field

[18:16]of soccer or whatever play anything you go with him and you

[18:19]you support him he wants to fix something to do something your

[18:23]wife wants to do something she can't you know sometimes believe things

[18:27]broke in the house for four months and we fix the people's

[18:32]thing huh no service is important too that is a language of

[18:41]love what else um quality time physical touch when you when you

[18:49]play with your kid Yani like wrestling or something not because you

[18:54]are only giving him quality time but because you're touching him you

[18:58]are touching him run the kin when you touch your brother your

[19:05]your your your your sister you know it's it's different when you

[19:08]touch somebody else or your kids or your wife it's something else

[19:12]huh that's that's a physical touch when you sleep with your son

[19:19]and you tell him the story not because you are telling the

[19:22]story he loves because you're touching him you are with him close

[19:26]to him you know that is different and that's when you have

[19:34]a problem anger happens between you and your Ken your Arham just

[19:39]go and touch him or touch her and because a rhyme has

[19:43]something you know unusual everything comes down touch physical touch sometimes husband

[19:53]sits here Matalan in the beginning of the first year she sits

[19:58]next to him and five six months later two feet away and

[20:03]then a one year later two years or five years later she

[20:08]is on the other couches you know and now when he comes

[20:10]to do something I mean to to sit with her she's reading

[20:15]something or she wants to sit next to him everybody looks what

[20:17]do you want this is strange you know that that keeps the

[20:27]the respect and the love continues gives keeps it in a way

[20:35]of a higher level you know these things I'd wanna say more

[20:38]about it if you go online you find all these things these

[20:41]are good said it all physical touch you you find tins of

[20:50]a Hadith about this quality time and Nabi talked about it gifts

[20:57]that's a language people understand it that you love them not only

[21:03]I love you I love you some people don't blink to their

[21:09]wives you know for 10 years 15 years a gift when you

[21:11]bring to her she thinks you you want something else you know

[21:15]why you bring me that gift says bring gifts to your to

[21:24]each other you will love each other brings love and and compassion

[21:29]and mercy a gift that's well known you know it doesn't have

[21:35]to be in Valentine's Day like here or or in the in

[21:38]the holiday or something although the Valentine's Day is not an Islamic

[21:43]but but God again it should be from time to time you

[21:48]know something without any occasion that agitate that that mercy and that

[21:54]love in the house why because you have to establish that love

[21:59]because the kids have to have that base strong Foundation full of

[22:07]love to understand and to receive from parents what do they say

[22:11]and they live in this environment okay so are they five or

[22:21]four five yeah five anyway um if you if you understand the

[22:42]value of our kids and what do they do to us you

[22:50]know in terms of regarding that the other world and regarding that

[22:55]this kid if he becomes a Mormon kid and knowledgeable kid he

[23:00]can he can generate you know that marifa and that knowledge to

[23:07]other people he will be like a messenger of Allah when people

[23:12]look at him they remember Allah they remember Allah said when you

[23:21]when you are with your colleagues with your friends in the high

[23:25]school and you are knowledgeable about about Islam about you know about

[23:32]the the universe you have theory in your head you have Islamic

[23:38]thinking Islamic Doctrine in your head you know the basics why we

[23:46]are here how to prove the existence of God how to prove

[23:51]the Miracle of the Prophet Muhammad when you have all this information

[23:55]everybody will be you know Amazed by what you understand you can

[24:02]benefit the people around you and guide them to the right path

[24:10]instead of going astray your personality your self-esteem will be like light

[24:17]among those people in high school or at the University that's that's

[24:22]a person should be a person a Muslim especially Ashia because we

[24:30]follow a little better Muslim the best creatures in this universe you

[24:35]have to take something from them to be a light be among

[24:38]all those people guiding them you know teach them good manners but

[24:45]you have to be you know like your imams at least doing

[24:52]good praying on time you believe you understand what is the prayer

[24:55]you have the answer immediately when somebody asks you why you fast

[24:59]you have the answer and you go beyond that when you teach

[25:06]yourself you improve your education huh it you you become an area

[25:10]what's area you are the successor of Allah on on Earth why

[25:18]because that's what Allah wants a man worship Allah and guide people

[25:26]to the right path that's the duty of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

[25:31]and that does not contradict with anything you do your business your

[25:38]work your you want to have fun sometimes somewhere else no that's

[25:43]that's all all of that is good but at the same time

[25:45]don't live the most important thing in your life and for your

[25:53]to educate yourself how to be a good person a an a

[25:58]proactive person who agitates the people around you to work in the

[26:05]good path I ask Allah to help us in this and this

[26:13]Duty and to um support us and to give us the potential

[26:18]to be good servant to him

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