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[0:07][Music] muham muhamad illuminate your malalis and your hearts with a loud
[0:30]salawat from mammad and Al Muhammad respected Scholars brothers and sisters over
[0:45]the last few nights we discussed the Hadith of IM where he
[0:53]mentions the most important blessings that we human beings can be blessed
[0:58]with by Allah asael the Imam began by mentioning one blessing and
[1:04]then following that blessing with a more important blessing the Imam said
[1:13]amongst the great benefactions of Allah is abundance of wealth and we
[1:17]discussed that and then the Imam moved on to number two he
[1:26]said and a that is greater than an abundance of wealth is
[1:31]what is being healthy being void of sicknesses and diseases and we
[1:40]discussed that there's another variation of this Hadith where the Imam mentions
[1:43]the same thing but he mentions it in the opposite way he
[1:46]says that one of the most difficult trials that Allah can hold
[1:55]the human being can afflict the human being with is Al the
[2:00]Imam in this Hadith says so the first variation one of the
[2:06]greatest is abundance of wealth now he says the opposite he says
[2:13]one of the greatest trials that Allah can test me with is
[2:16]poverty then the Imam says and what is more is sickness and
[2:27]disease of the body then the Imam and we talked about all
[2:34]of this of Allah subhana tala and also the most difficult you
[2:39]know what is more difficult than being sick you know what's more
[2:45]difficult than having to deal with diseases and illnesses and going to
[2:49]the doctors and surgeries and Medicine he says what's worse than that
[3:01]is when our heart hearts become sick and thus the greatest says
[3:06]after abundance of wealth after you have the health of your body
[3:11]the greatest that Allah can give you is the health of your
[3:18]heart and when we read the Quran we see that Allah subhah
[3:24]wa ta'ala speaks about some healthy heart and others a sick heart
[3:28]for example he says in the Holy Quran on the day of
[3:39]judgment your money and children will not help you only one thing
[3:42]will help you if you come with a healthy heart with a
[3:46]PO heart with a clean heart and in some other verses have
[3:52]diseases in their hearts there's at least I found maybe 12 or
[3:57]13 verses where Allah subhana wa tala does mention that in one
[4:03]verse Allah that live during the time of when a new verse
[4:09]would come down when jbra would reveal a new verse some individuals
[4:15]they would ask a question the Quran says when a new verse
[4:23]come down comes down this new verse which amongst you of the
[4:33]companions of the Prophet did this verse increase their Iman they saw
[4:42]more signs from Allah Asel they saw a miracle or they saw
[4:45]a prophecy or whatever it may been any of the verses that
[4:49]came down so some individuals would ask who amongst you is now
[4:55]at a higher level of Iman because of this new verse the
[5:01]Quran then replies the Quran says there were two types of people
[5:05]around the prophet as for those that believed the Iman really was
[5:12]in their heart those individuals that had Iman a new verse came
[5:22]down from Allah and their Iman became stronger but then there was
[5:26]another group these individuals Allah calls those that had a disease in
[5:34]their heart as for those whose Hearts were ill sick diseased when
[5:44]a new verse comes down what happens the Quran is supposed to
[5:47]be a book of guidance so when a new verse comes down
[5:51]it's supposed to take you closer to Allah and farther away further
[5:58]away from immorality from evil but Allah says some people because their
[6:03]hearts were diseased and Ill when a new verse would come down
[6:06]what would happen when a new verse would come down these people
[6:20]were not Believers these people were evil and when a new verse
[6:24]would come down they would become even more evil so the fact
[6:30]that there's Maneuvers coming down not only does it not help them
[6:33]it makes them worse because now their animosity against the prophet and
[6:37]Islam would intensify their Envy would become more their hatred would strengthen
[6:45]so each verse that would come down a verse from Allah that
[6:50]Allah Asel says the Quran is supposed to be a book of
[6:52]guidance if you are having issues with your faith with doubt with
[7:00]your belief if you're having any type of moral problems in your
[7:03]life the Quran is a book that is supposed to heal that
[7:09]is supposed to guide you Allah mentions guidance twice when he says
[7:17]the Quran came down the month of Ramadan it's not just guidance
[7:25]to the people it's guidance to the people and it is a
[7:29]book where by you can distinguish between and but some individuals the
[7:37]verse comes down you give them the Quran and they became worse
[7:42]not only like I said it didn't help them but in fact
[7:50]they regressed their evil became much worse Allah subhana wa tala speaks
[7:54]about these individuals who are these individuals and why did this happen
[7:59]to them we'll get to this inshallah but the point is the
[8:01]sickness Brothers and Sisters of the heart is the most destructive sickness
[8:08]that we human beings can face and that's because what it does
[8:13]to you is something as holy as the Quran which is supposed
[8:17]to guide you you give it to someone he becomes more unguided
[8:21]he becomes more misguided he drowns even deeper into the world of
[8:28]sins and immorality and disol why it's because there's a disease that
[8:34]disease can take whatever is good and turn it into even more
[8:40]evil you've seen some individuals how they you misuse the Quran misinterpret
[8:45]the Quran you've seen for example some of those Isis Fighters and
[8:50]and extremists right they'll read a verse from the Quran and then
[8:53]they will commit their atrocities how did the Quran guide these individuals
[8:57]didn't guide them the Quran in fact as the Quran itself says
[9:04]they're evil and now they become more evil but is the problem
[9:08]with the Quran of course not the problem is it with the
[9:11]Quran the problem is their hearts are sick and when the hearts
[9:16]are diseased you put something good in it it turns it into
[9:19]something evil if they do not cure their hearts first there's no
[9:23]point let them listen to the entire Quran how many people came
[9:28]to fighto the Abu J and the Abu sufyan and so on
[9:32]and so forth they heard all those verses of the Quran and
[9:36]every time they became greater enemies to so the Quran speaks about
[9:44]the sickness of the heart now there's a few questions we have
[9:48]to address number one what is meant by the heart here the
[9:54]heart may have one of four meanings and these meanings most of
[10:01]them are mentioned are used in the Quran and some of them
[10:04]may not the first meaning of heart is what many of us
[10:09]use is the most obvious and common meaning of the word heart
[10:13]which is that vital organ inside you that vital organ inside you
[10:20]that keeps you alive and that pumps blood so the physical heart
[10:23]this is one meaning of heart does Allah when he says some
[10:34]individuals whose Hearts were diseased and on the day of judgment those
[10:39]that whose hearts are are clean are pure are healthy they will
[10:43]find Salvation as Allah speaking about this type of heart so that
[10:50]means if you had no cholesterol for example if all your arteries
[10:55]were perfectly opened and you did not have any heart disease this
[10:59]is the one that will make it safe on the day of
[11:02]judgment and if your arteries and your veins and your heart is
[11:07]filled with cholesterol and blockages and all that stuff that individual you
[11:11]read him the Quran and he'll just get worse obviously not that
[11:14]has nothing to do with this so this is not the meaning
[11:18]of heart that Allah subhana wa ta'ala is speaking about when it
[11:22]comes to the sickness of the heart the second meaning of heart
[11:27]of the word heart is a more fig itive meaning heart can
[11:34]be used to express emotions and feelings what do I mean if
[11:39]I tell you I love you from the bottom of my heart
[11:43]what do I mean I mean that organ of Mind in the
[11:48]bottom of it there's a place specifically for you no I mean
[11:53]if it was that if it wasn't that way then I would
[11:55]have to say I love you from the top of my heart
[11:58]not from the bottom of my heart right bottom is always left
[12:03]for the last so when you tell someone I love you from
[12:05]the bottom of my heart it just means I love you you
[12:10]know deeply it's just a figure of speech heart and emotions or
[12:14]for example you say I went to a program and then when
[12:24]the program ended I left with a heavy heart what does that
[12:27]mean you gained weight you your heart weighed one pound and then
[12:33]when you left it was like a pound and a half obviously
[12:35]not you mean you're sad because of the program finished right Shah
[12:42]this applies to to all of us here I hope or another
[12:44]example is we can say that the speaker not me another speaker
[12:51]captured the hearts of the people right what does that mean which
[12:55]heart it all means their emotions and their feelings this is the
[12:59]second meaning of the word heart or he broke my heart for
[13:04]example is the Quran speaking about this meaning of heart no those
[13:11]individuals on the day of judgment that come with a pure heart
[13:13]that come with a healthy heart versus those that whose hearts are
[13:16]diseased it doesn't mean emotions and feelings this is not what the
[13:22]Quran is speaking about so let's go to the third meaning of
[13:25]the word heart this third meaning is used in the Quran the
[13:30]heart is used in the Quran sometimes to mean the intellect intellect
[13:38]and heart intellect and these two sometimes in the Quran are used
[13:44]inter changeably for example Allah subhah wa tala says in the Holy
[13:52]Quran they have hearts they have hearts but they do not understand
[13:59]understand but they do not comprehend they cannot use their hearts to
[14:04]understand do you use your heart to understand or your intellect intellect
[14:09]so when the prophet speaks to them when he's ex exhorting when
[14:13]the holy prophet sallallahu alaih wasallam is trying to preach to those
[14:17]people Allah subhana wa tala says the problem the problem behind why
[14:25]they do not get affected they don't get moved is because their
[14:29]Hearts don't work their hearts don't comprehend and understand the word heart
[14:35]means intellect here there's something wrong with their intellect their intellect is
[14:40]blocked they're like drunk individuals you know how someone when they're intoxicated
[14:45]how their judgment is impaired their intellect becomes weak this is how
[14:51]some people were in front of s Al wasallam they saw Miracles
[14:54]they saw the most beautiful words and from but yet just didn't
[15:00]it resonate and they have eyes but they cannot see what does
[15:09]that mean they're blind no no they could see physically the Quran
[15:12]is speaking about the sight of the heart and I'll speak more
[15:17]about this tomorrow inshallah because your heart has eyes and ears brothers
[15:22]and sisters as we will explain inshallah and this is mentioned in
[15:26]numerous Traditions from the your heart has eyes and ears and the
[15:29]eyes and the ears of the heart they are different than the
[15:35]your physical eyes and ears your physical eye will see your physical
[15:38]ear will see will will uh will listen and will hear but
[15:44]you just won't get it unless it won't click unless the the
[15:50]ear and the eye of the heart is working that's why in
[15:54]many verses in the Quran Allah subh T says how do some
[15:56]people doubt that there's a Creator just look at the V Universe
[16:01]who's moving all these planets who's Rising the Sun every day and
[16:04]setting it everything is in a constant state of motion are they
[16:10]blind they're not blind well they can see it what's the problem
[16:13]seeing it and then registering that okay there's a there's an effect
[16:19]that has to be a cause there's motion there has to be
[16:23]someone putting it in motion why did they not see that because
[16:28]the heart the eyes of their heart are blind and the ears
[16:32]of their heart are deaf like I said we'll go over that
[16:36]more tomorrow so this is one verse where Allah subhah wa ta'ala
[16:40]in the Holy Quran uses the word but he doesn't mean your
[16:47]physical heart nor does he mean your emotions he means rather your
[16:52]intellect there's another verse in the Holy Quran where Allah subhah wa
[16:59]tala says Allah has not given any individual Allah has not placed
[17:09]inside any individual two hearts now what does the word heart mean
[17:13]here there's a difference there's a disagreement between the MU of the
[17:20]Quran most of the MU they considered the word heart obviously not
[17:23]the physical heart Allah did not Place give you two hearts what
[17:26]is that supposed to mean it means intellect and what Allah means
[17:38]by intellect is that you cannot focus on two things at once
[17:45]you cannot be consumed by two things at once if one thing
[17:50]is consuming your intellect you will be distracted from everything else and
[17:56]that's why when we human beings are distracted by The Dun when
[18:03]the duny consumes us and it owns our heart it's not necessarily
[18:06]just emotions here it's not just emotions and feeling it's more than
[18:10]that then you cannot focus on Allah anymore you can't say I
[18:17]love the D and I love Allah you can't say that I
[18:20]believe in the D and I believe in the I believe in
[18:27]both of them meaning that both of them I'm trying to be
[18:29]very successful in and both of them are on my to-do list
[18:34]and I'm trying to equally be successful in both it's not possible
[18:38]why the Quran says because Allah hasn't given you two hearts you
[18:43]can only be consumed by one thing either Allah Allah the or
[18:49]the yes theoretically you can say why can't I have both why
[18:53]can't I have the best D and the best theoretically yes you
[18:56]should be able but the problem is this dun is so intoxicating
[19:04]and it's so deceptive that once you seek it you will forget
[19:09]about the it's very very hard very difficult for any individual to
[19:16]say I can successfully do both be passionate about the duny and
[19:20]be passionate about Allah so this is another meaning of the word
[19:24]heart but this meaning is also not meant in our discussion when
[19:32]Allah says does he mean that in their intellect there is a
[19:37]disease their intellect is sick it's not healthy it's not properly functioning
[19:42]no so what does Allah subhana Wa ta'ala mean by in these
[19:46]verses Scholars of the Quran the MU mention that what Allah means
[19:54]by disease of the heart having a pure heart coming to Allah
[20:01]on the day of judgment with a healthy heart is this fourth
[20:05]meaning the heart means your spirit means your soul we human beings
[20:11]have a body and we have a soul your body can get
[20:16]sick and that's what we spoke about yesterday those are the physical
[20:19]illnesses and diseases that Allah afflicts us with and we said that
[20:25]for a Believer is Mercy physical illness can be Mercy for us
[20:31]we said Allah gives you a reward for it Allah subhana T
[20:33]forgives your sins from it but at the same time that we
[20:40]have bodies we have souls we have the r that the Quran
[20:44]speaks about they ask the prophet what is this R the prophet
[20:53]says this is from the matters of Allah subhana wa tala meaning
[20:56]that we can't even comprehend we don't even have the necessary tools
[21:02]to really understand and dissect what the Soul and Spirit is until
[21:08]today science sometimes we'll be skeptical of the r does the r
[21:12]even exist do we even have souls and if we do they
[21:16]don't know much about it because the Quran says this is the
[21:18]domain of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala so when Allah subhah wa ta'ala
[21:25]says that these people there is a disease or sickness in their
[21:29]soul in their heart Allah subhanahu wa taala means in their soul
[21:33]just like your body can get sick your soul can get sick
[21:39]but IM says but the sickness of the heart meaning the soul
[21:48]is much worse than the sickness of the body the sickness of
[21:54]the body in fact could be Mercy from Allah to you to
[21:56]forgive your sins to elevate your status but the sickness of the
[22:02]Soul unfortunately always leads the human being to terrible outcomes now how
[22:11]does the heart become sick physically we know how if you don't
[22:21]maintain a proper diet if you don't exercise if you smoke if
[22:31]you eat too much fatty foods and sugars and whatever that will
[22:36]affect your heart's Health but physically but how does someone's spiritual heart
[22:43]meaning their spirit and soul become sick Allah gives us examples in
[22:49]the Holy Quran when Allah gives you these examples he wants you
[22:54]to pay attention he wants you to be careful not to follow
[23:00]in the same problems of those individuals because if you thought that
[23:04]the diseases of the heart the physical diseases were dangerous Allah Asel
[23:11]says then you haven't seen anything yet because if God afflicts someone
[23:18]or if someone has a spiritual disease in their heart this is
[23:24]much more difficult to get rid of and the risks that I
[23:30]my face from the spiritual diseases in my heart are much greater
[23:35]because your physical heart what's the worst thing that can happen if
[23:40]your physical heart is not healthy what's the worst thing you won't
[23:46]have some Kebab for dinner for right you won't have some or
[23:51]let's say you didn't care and you kept on eating all those
[23:56]Foods the worst thing that can happen is a heart attack and
[23:58]what happens if you have a heart attack go to the hospital
[24:03]what's the worst thing that happens if you go to the hospital
[24:06]H you can't pay the bills no you die the worst harm
[24:14]that you can see from the physical heart's disease there's death you
[24:19]move from this life to the next life this worthless life that
[24:27]Allah develop vales that's the worst thing that can happen that's not
[24:31]something you should do by the way but if if your heart
[24:41]becomes sick meaning your spiritual heart your soul becomes sick you know
[24:46]what you can lose you can lose your you can use your
[24:51]you can lose your next life you can waste the life that
[24:59]Allah subhana created you for the eternal life of the Hereafter see
[25:06]what Allah says in the Holy Quran Allah says this D it's
[25:11]not even a life it's just a game and waste of time
[25:13]and a distraction the true here it's notan never read this verse
[25:24]hwan you'll be doing kuur if you saywan there's and there's there's
[25:30]just one one that differentiates them means what animalan means what life
[25:39]so if you call someone One Day by mistake hwan he says
[25:42]what did you say say I said Haan you know you're you're
[25:46]living don't do that by the way but that's a way out
[25:49]if you were really stuck if you blurted it out and you
[25:51]didn't and you couldn't hold yourself so Allah says the true life
[25:57]is not even this this is not even life this is like
[25:58]a dream the true life is the next one don't waste it
[26:03]so sicknesses of the disease are dangerous why because they can ruin
[26:11]your entire which is your life Allah says in the Holy Quran
[26:14]when some people die and they're placed in the grave when they
[26:20]see how they wasted their D and their life and they never
[26:23]tried enough to seek nearness to Allah and do good deeds and
[26:30]invest in their you know what they say the Quran says they
[26:33]say it with complete sorrow and regret I wish I would have
[26:41]invested more in my life what does he mean is I wish
[26:48]I would have invested and done more for my life meaning this
[26:51]isn't even life you think this is lie 50 60 70 80
[26:56]years you think that's a lie a lie filled with pain and
[26:57]disease disease and sickness and violence look at what's happening in Gazza
[27:01]right now and the whole world is watching and doing nothing this
[27:07]is not life this is a world filled with zombies where are
[27:09]these living human beings to go and stop the tragedies in Gaz
[27:15]there are there are a few living individuals who Allah subhana wa
[27:18]T has given them true life like you Believers here but the
[27:20]majority of this world are dead brothers and sisters just because you
[27:23]breathe and your heart pumps blood does not mean you are living
[27:29]when your soul is dead when morality when decency when mercy is
[27:35]dead so this is not even life a place where such tragedies
[27:39]happen and no one can stop it is not a place where
[27:44]you can even consider life call it death call it a graveyard
[27:48]so Allah subhah wa ta'ala in the Holy Quran he gives us
[27:55]some examples of individuals whose Hearts were diseased certain diseases of the
[28:03]heart and Allah's message to us is beware not to follow in
[28:06]those footsteps I'll go over some of them tonight and we will
[28:09]finish inshallah tomorrow night Muhammad Muhammad one example where Allah subhanahu wa
[28:24]ta'ala refers to some individuals as having sick hearts is whenever Allah
[28:33]speaks about the the Hypocrites Allah subhana wa tala says in the
[28:40]Holy Quran there are some individuals who say we believe in Allah
[28:50]and we believe in the Hereafter in the day of judgment but
[28:55]the Quran says but they're Liars they're hypocrites they lie they say
[29:01]one thing and believe in something else they try to fool Allah
[29:14]and the Believers they try to deceive Allah and the Believers but
[29:18]Allah says they're only deceiving themselves because Allah knows everything and then
[29:23]Allah subhana wa tala ends the verse in this way Allah subhah
[29:27]wa tala says him what's wrong with these people these Hypocrites why
[29:34]do they tell the prophet we believe but they're not Believers when
[29:38]they go back home they're not believers they show one thing they
[29:41]portray one thing but they hide something else Allah says it's simple
[29:48]because these people are sick they're ill but not their body their
[29:54]soul their hearts are ill and these individuals brothers and sisters Allah
[30:02]subhah wa ta'ala so eloquently uses the example of being ill because
[30:09]when you look at hypocrisy and you examine it it is a
[30:15]disorder why because what does a hypocrite do a hypocrite is someone
[30:24]whose interior is not aligned with their exterior their interior is this
[30:27]way their exterior I is that way and there's many types of
[30:34]Hypocrites by the way Allah speaks about one type of Hypocrites in
[30:37]the Quran here that's the most obvious type of NF which is
[30:40]those individuals who don't believe a son in Allah or in Islam
[30:45]or in the prophet but they act and pretend like they are
[30:47]believers a whole chapter in the Quran was brought down to speak
[30:54]about these individuals and to condemn them but that's not the only
[30:58]type of NF any time your interior and exterior are not aligned
[31:02]this is hypocrisy so for example one type of NF you believe
[31:09]you're not acting you're not pretending to believe so where is the
[31:16]hypocrisy andf in your Deeds there are some people everything they do
[31:23]is for a show everything they do is for recognition this is
[31:30]a form of hypocrisy why because your interior and exterior are not
[31:36]at the same page your exterior when you see that brother praying
[31:38]in the first line with the beautiful beard and the longb and
[31:42]hopefully not the short DH Dasha right we're not talking about that
[31:45]type when you see that individual praying what message does that convey
[31:52]what image does the public the exterior of that person convey that
[31:59]I'm such a holy person that I am doing this solely for
[32:01]Allah subh that's why people praise individuals people praise individuals who are
[32:07]always at the Masjid who are always attending who do the Adan
[32:12]who recite Quran who have a beautiful voice why do they praise
[32:16]that individual because automatically you assume that this person is doing this
[32:20]for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala but if I do something I want
[32:24]to do it for recognition I want to donate just to be
[32:27]recognized IED just so people speak about me and my contributions and
[32:35]my philanthropy this is a form of hypocrisy because your exterior should
[32:40]mean that this is all for Allah subhah wa taala but your
[32:44]interior is no you're a selfish being all you care about is
[32:49]what your ego all you care about is your reputation and being
[32:52]recognized this is a type of hypocrisy and that's why Allah subhana
[32:56]tala says in numerous that if you do any good deed for
[33:04]me Let It Be purely for me I don't want a deed
[33:06]that it's mixed some for me and some for someone else just
[33:10]leave it all for that person right now I want to come
[33:13]and I want to read Quran why I have two motives to
[33:14]please Allah and I want to please some sister who's attending because
[33:17]maybe she'll look at me and maybe she will consider marrying me
[33:21]Allah says I don't want that Quran give it all to that
[33:25]sister either give it purely to me or give it to whoever
[33:32]else you want the point is don't ask me for a reward
[33:37]your Salah your every deed that you do that's why we have
[33:40]numerous Traditions brothers and sisters that tell us when you do good
[33:43]deeds try your best to do them privately try your best to
[33:49]do them privately you gave a donation keep it Anonymous you're praying
[33:53]Sal you don't have to tell everybody you're reading a ofr why
[33:58]because the human being's ego is very strong and the shaan is
[34:04]there always to what to fool us and to play on that
[34:07]ego and to strengthen it so it's very easy for us to
[34:14]fall prey to our own ego even though I never wanted or
[34:20]intended this for the people but once people know about it I
[34:23]start feeling so proud and good and forget about Allah subhanahu wa
[34:27]ta'ala they told someone who always used to do R every day
[34:35]he would come and he would sit in the sah with his
[34:40]friends and he would tell them what he did the day before
[34:43]last night you know I prayed Sal and I recited this and
[34:49]and then I read du abali the next day he would come
[34:57]to last night I recited two Jas of the Quran and he
[35:00]would constantly speak about what he would do so they told him
[35:04]keep your The Good Deeds that you do keep it a secret
[35:09]between you and Allah because this will receive the most reward for
[35:13]example we have if you give s privately such that people don't
[35:21]know Allah rewards you more than a public s so everybody is
[35:24]knowing and clapping and cheering for you do it solely for Allah
[35:26]subhah waala so they told him don't mention kalas keep it private
[35:32]but it's very hard for some people to keep secrets right it's
[35:38]very hard so he came the next day he wanted to say
[35:40]last night they're going to get mad at me I can't say
[35:44]it but he just has to get it out of his chest
[35:47]so he starts telling them can you please bring bring me water
[35:49]they bring him water he starts drinking finishes the first book can
[35:53]you bring me a second water or third so they ask him
[35:54]what's wrong with you say I can't tell you what do you
[35:57]mean I can't tell us what's wrong with with you you'll get
[35:59]upset if I tell you what's wrong with you are you okay
[36:02]are you sick you know after reading five Jas of the Quran
[36:08]you get thirsty so he managed to tell them what he did
[36:11]in a very clever way so I don't know is it because
[36:15]I was fasting today inallah this is not that I keep on
[36:17]drinking water but I hope inshallah it is notam mam so anyway
[36:28]we said there's two types of or more than one type of
[36:33]hypocrisy one is the the type that Allah speaks about in the
[36:36]Quran which is those who disbelieve but they pretended to believe another
[36:40]type is those individuals who act as if everything is for Allah
[36:45]but they're looking for recognition this is another type and a third
[36:51]type brothers and sisters and this is very problematic this is what
[36:56]many of us struggle with a third type of NF and hypocrisy
[37:03]where Allah Asel considers as a disease of the heart is hypocrisy
[37:07]in our conduct not in our belief or in our Good Deeds
[37:13]but in our conduct what do I mean there are some people
[37:17]who are two-faced two-faced I don't mean the Joker two-faced is his
[37:23]name Twoface or the Joker what's his name Twoface right yeah and
[37:27]Batman so anyway let's go back toity there are some people who
[37:34]have two faces what does that mean that means in front of
[37:37]you they will commend you they will praise you they will pretend
[37:46]as if they love you but behind your back you they're speaking
[37:59]negatively here this person is committing two sins you know that because
[38:03]number one he's doing that's Haram you're not supposed to speak negatively
[38:07]against anyone I don't care if it's real even if it's true
[38:10]some people when you tell them don't do it well I'm not
[38:12]lying I know you're not lying is when you tell the truth
[38:16]but it's something negative behind someone's back don't talk about it but
[38:21]the second sin here which makes it even uglier is the hypocrisy
[38:27]after speaking a against that person behind his back you come and
[38:30]you act as if you're their friend you deceive them you fool
[38:36]them so wait you mean I should stab them again when I'm
[38:39]in front of them and I curse them behind their back and
[38:43]in front of them no at least be a man and a
[38:48]woman whatever that means today when you're in front of that individual
[38:51]and you can't stand them right don't exaggerate your fake love for
[38:56]that person this is ugly yes be polite be nice but do
[39:03]not show a different face such that if that person finds out
[39:06]they'll see you as a hypocrite maybe I have a valid reason
[39:12]why I don't like this person that's okay but do not overdo
[39:15]it when you see that person such that people say what's going
[39:20]on this person is two- faced he says he says the worst
[39:32]of the vices the worst way in which we conduct each other
[39:38]is conduct ourselves is what is how is when we have the
[39:40]Imam says when we have two faces hypocrisy and there are Traditions
[39:46]that state there are people on the day of judgment that will
[39:49]be resurrected with two faces or two tongues so you can easily
[39:52]spot the hypocrite the one who was in front of you flattering
[39:58]you behind your back stabbing you this is a form of hypocrisy
[40:01]you know why this is hypocrisy do you know why this is
[40:05]a form of disease have you heard of bipolar disorder why is
[40:11]it a disorder because one day you're Ahmed the other day you're
[40:15]John right that's bipolar disorder which one are you this one or
[40:21]that one hypocrisy is a form of bipolar disorder but it's not
[40:24]a mental disorder it's a spiritual disorder that's why Allah considers as
[40:29]a disease you really need help aaf needs help needs treatment but
[40:32]who treats them not doctors spiritual doctors as we said the prophet
[40:39]and the imams and their words in the Quran I'll end with
[40:44]this no because I'm out of time there is another concept that
[40:48]is called in the of Ethics muj some people think that this
[40:53]is hypocrisy what is muj is when you're nice and polite with
[41:02]someone even though even though you may not be honest what do
[41:08]I mean let's say someone brings me piece of cake they tell
[41:13]me say it I made this cake specifically for you please can
[41:17]you try it I have to try it in front of them
[41:20]right and I eat it and it tastes horrible what do I
[41:24]say do I be honest here this is horrible obviously not what
[41:27]do I do I say thank you so much it's you know
[41:31]ald it's good is that okay this is and it's okay as
[41:36]long as you don't exaggerate don't say this is the best cake
[41:39]I've ever had in my life did you bring this from Jenna
[41:44]where did you buy no at here it's obvious that you're lying
[41:46]don't overdo it so don't tell the truth because here the truth
[41:53]will what's the point of telling okay this tast this cake doesn't
[41:56]taste what point will that serve what goal will that serve and
[42:03]you can be polite and say something mild but nice at the
[42:06]same time this is not hypocrisy why because hypocrisy is evil why
[42:11]is hypocrisy evil think about it because you have two faces in
[42:16]order to benefit you're a selfish individual you're either someone who is
[42:22]a coward or you're someone who's selfish like politicians right they tell
[42:26]you something and they don't even believe even they just want your
[42:30]vote but here the reason why you're not being honest is not
[42:33]because you're selfish because you're selfless you're thinking about the feelings of
[42:38]that person so that's why here this is not considered as so
[42:42]this is the first example brothers and sisters that Allah subhana wa
[42:47]tala speaks about in the Holy Quran and he shows us that
[42:51]this is a real spiritual disease that can afflict the heart seek
[42:55]refuge in Allah subhana from this type of disease whether it is
[43:00]the traditional type of NF hypoc hypocrisy that the Quran speaks about
[43:05]you pretend to believe and you don't or it's in your Deeds
[43:09]like r or it's in our conduct which is when we have
[43:14]two faces when we try to flatter people just because we want
[43:18]some benefits from them this is a vice and this is a
[43:23]disease of the heart tomorrow inshallah we will continue to speak about
[43:27]more more of the sicknesses of the heart and we will speak
[43:31]about the cures the treatments how does someone treat these diseases of
[43:39]the heart so that they do not lose Allah and their may
[43:42]Allah bless you all may Allah accept your provide you with health
[43:47]IM and accept all your and your Amal in this blessed month
[43:53]of Ramadan I'll remind you once again at 11:30 we will be
[43:59]having a sah inshallah with a Q&A and discussion in the I
[44:02]believe in the dining hall either in the dining hall or in
[44:07]the in the hallway by the cafe I'm not sure what was
[44:12]the what was the final what does it say dining hall they
[44:14]move the chairs by the way so so anyway the dining hall
[44:19]at 11:30 we hope to see you uh there we can have
[44:23]a nice discussion may Allah subhana wa tala bless you all let's
[44:27]all rise to recite Dua [Music] foram [Music] [Music] for [Music] Sal
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