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Islamic Solutions to Modern Day Drug Problems - Sayed Saleh Qazwini
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18/04/04
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Islamic Solutions to Modern Day Drug Problems - Sayed Saleh Qazwini at The Ahlul Bayt Center of Toledo
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[0:03]la Rahman al Rahim al hamdu lillahi rabbil alameen wa sallahu wa
[0:10]salam o allah ashraf l m bi even more saline Habibi Allah
[0:18]Allah Allah mean a bellossom and most of Muhammad wallah elevator hot
[0:30]a Obinna Tajin alladhina a table allahu anhum auberge sahara home table
[0:36]here are on allahu taala fukuda be al karim allah alrahman alraheem
[0:41]ya un ladina amma new animal combro and misro and on Sabu
[0:48]al-islam Ritchson min amil-e-shaitan Ritchson minimally Shaitan affect any boohoo la allakum
[1:01]to flee hoon annamaria shaitana in UK Abena Kemal Adama - and
[1:05]ba gua F in summary when may serve a a sudo command
[1:12]the karela y no salat even an ant amontons allah muhammad wa
[1:19]ala muhammad one of the greatest struggles that society as a whole
[1:28]is dealing with especially in the United States and many developed countries
[1:37]as well is the problem of drugs the problem of record recreational
[1:46]drugs and it's causing many lives to be destroyed many families to
[1:58]be destroyed and many problems in society as a whole studies show
[2:03]that in the United States over 20 million people suffer from drug
[2:08]problems drug addiction and recreational they are the leading cause of accidental
[2:17]death in the United States for example through an overdose or through
[2:24]an accidental death that is the leading cause of death and it
[2:29]is the number one cause of death for those under 50 so
[2:33]if you look at the statistics those under 50 you see that
[2:38]the leading cause of death is drugs and through the drug addiction
[2:42]and drug problems now this is the national statistics the statistics of
[2:49]the United States as a whole and of course this is also
[2:55]a problem within the within the Muslim community as well this is
[2:59]not just a a problem that non-muslims deal with and we Muslims
[3:06]are immune from these problems no this is a serious problem that
[3:10]has taken place and takes place within the Muslim community and very
[3:16]prevalent within the Muslim community the only difference is that in our
[3:22]cultures in our communities there are certain topics that are taboo to
[3:26]discuss no one talks about these topics no one talks about mental
[3:33]health issues no one talks about drugs within the community no one
[3:37]talks about certain topics but just because we don't talk about them
[3:41]it doesn't mean that they don't exist in fact in order to
[3:46]deal with these problems we have to begin talking about them we
[3:49]have to be open minded and we have to be ready to
[3:55]talk about them just by neglecting and not discussing certain problems it
[4:00]doesn't mean that it doesn't exist you go to some communities I've
[4:03]been to some communities they tell me that we have a drug
[4:05]problem behind the mustard people come to the Masjid to pray to
[4:12]do-dah to get closer to Allah but then at that same time
[4:15]there are certain groups that gather behind the Masjid in the Masjid
[4:18]parking lot and they're doing drugs and this is something that's very
[4:24]prevalent you go to the Muslim communities you go to some communities
[4:26]here every few weeks a young man or a young lady has
[4:32]passed away how oh they found this person dead in the car
[4:35]they found this person they this person has passed away how through
[4:42]drugs through the use of drugs and exposure to the drugs and
[4:50]doing an overdose where they fall into this and they end up
[4:57]taking taking their own lives so we need to address these issues
[5:00]we need to talk about these issues and we need to deal
[5:07]with this problem in the community I personally know a family that
[5:12]lost two brothers two sons two sons and they died within six
[5:16]months of one another within six months of one another they died
[5:23]because of overdose because of drugs and there are solutions and there's
[5:28]reasons to this problem but we have to begin talking about it
[5:31]we have to discuss it yes we hear some people talking about
[5:36]certain families they're like oh they have their son or their daughter
[5:40]commits drugs and that talk is a negative talk that puts those
[5:43]families away from the Muslim this is not the talk that we're
[5:47]talking about this is not the productive conversation that we're having the
[5:51]conversation is there you hear many people they say look at that
[5:53]family they're a bad family their son or their daughter does drugs
[5:56]and they're a bad family pushing that family away from the Masjid
[6:02]this is not the conversation that we should have but we should
[6:05]have a conversation that will discuss the problem and talk about solutions
[6:10]to the problem this is what we should do in our mosques
[6:18]now when we discuss drugs of course this is something that is
[6:24]forbidden in the religion of Islam it's an intoxicant and being that
[6:28]it's an intoxicant it is one of the Muhammad's it is one
[6:34]of the forbidden things in the religion of Islam that the religion
[6:37]of Islam stood against from day one and you see that allah
[6:43]subhanaw taala speaks about alcohol why is alcohol forbidden because it's an
[6:48]intoxicant because it takes away the ability to think it takes away
[6:52]the ability to make decisions in life and therefore it's become Haram
[6:56]and due to that there's a hadith from the Prophet he says
[7:02]anything that will take away the ability to think and the ability
[7:06]to make sound judgment is Haram Allah says in the Quran Yohan
[7:10]Lavina amanu enamel combro and misro and on Sabu and Islam or
[7:19]its own minimally shape on if at any boo hula Allah come
[7:21]to fly own oh you people who believe in Nirmal come the
[7:27]first thing is alcohol well Mesa gambling well on Sabu and Islam
[7:32]or rich stone minimalist Shaitaan the unsub this is the sacrifice at
[7:39]the altar that some societies they would make and the Islam is
[7:43]a type of also throwing arrows a type of a something that
[7:47]the community at that time used to do Allah says these are
[7:51]all the rich these are all forbidden and these are from the
[7:55]acts of shape on fecha tenemos la allakum to flee hoon avoid
[8:01]them so that you may succeed avoid them so that you may
[8:05]prevail why because allah subhanaw taala gave you the greatest gift Allah
[8:11]subhana WA Ta'ala what makes the human being different from any other
[8:16]creation is the ability to make sound judgment the ability to use
[8:23]our intellect to judge between right and wrong now you find some
[8:28]people they come and they take away that gift that Allah subhana
[8:30]Allah has given them this is the greatest gift that Allah subhana
[8:36]Allah has given you but some they come and they intoxicate themselves
[8:40]they kill those brain cells and they're not able to make decisions
[8:45]then Allah says in the verse in Nemea reduce Shaitaan oh and
[8:50]you obeying a common Odawa tow and buzz law fill summary when
[8:56]Mesa shaitaan causes problems division between the momineen because this verse begins
[9:04]ya ayyuha alladhina amanu Shaitaan tries to cause discord between the believers
[9:11]through what through the thumb through the alcohol through the intoxicants and
[9:15]through gambling where sukham and the karela he won a celerity for
[9:24]hell Antrim monta hoon and he brings you away from the Salah
[9:28]and away from the remembrance of Allah as Oh agenda this is
[9:34]one verse that clearly talks about alcohol and how alcohol is forbidden
[9:39]now of course scholars say that the reason why alcohol is forbidden
[9:47]is because it's an intoxicant and therefore anything that is an intoxicant
[9:54]falls under that category and it becomes Haram another reason another proof
[9:59]is another verse from the Quran where Allah says in the Quran
[10:02]while I will be ad come a letter Luka don't bring yourself
[10:11]into harm's way it's Haram for a person to bring themselves into
[10:14]harm's way now some people they say this is my body I
[10:16]could do whatever I want with my body who said this is
[10:20]your body yes it is your body but who gave you that
[10:25]body I'm just going to be in this body using this gift
[10:27]from Allah subhana WA Ta'ala for a short period of time and
[10:31]Allah will get just like he gave me this body he will
[10:33]take away this body it doesn't mean that I have the right
[10:37]to do whatever I want with my body some people they say
[10:39]I could do whatever I want no who said that you can't
[10:43]go and hurt yourself you can't harm yourself just like you can't
[10:48]harm other people and there's also another principle and this is derived
[10:54]from one of the hadith of rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa where he
[10:57]says la vara whenever our ofin islam anything that might harm yourself
[11:05]or might harm other people where it's considered real harm that would
[11:11]be considered haram that would be considered forbidden harming yourself or harming
[11:17]other people it would be considered and of course there's no doubt
[11:23]that alcohol and drugs and gambling and all of these vices that
[11:30]are forbidden in the eyes of Islam in the religion of Islam
[11:33]Allah subhana Allah does not make something harmful just because he wants
[11:38]me to suffer know everything that's harmful everything that's forbidden and it's
[11:44]Haram there is a reason behind it and that is for Humanity
[11:47]to live a complete healthy lifestyle this is why allah subhanaw taala
[11:53]made certain things forbidden and the first thing the first reason why
[11:58]it's forbidden is because it destroys the power of the intellect it
[12:06]destroys the ability to make sound decisions in life and this is
[12:09]what they say this is not something that muslims talk about go
[12:11]and look at every expert they'll tell you that drugs they'll take
[12:16]away the ability for a person to make wise decisions in life
[12:19]and look at those who continue doing drugs you see that they
[12:23]end up ruining their lives and they end up ruining their future
[12:28]and they ruin their afterlife and they ruined the lives of those
[12:33]around them and they ruin the community around them so this is
[12:39]why it's Haram because it takes away the sanity of the individual
[12:42]just a few days ago I read an article about a girl
[12:47]in South Carolina I don't know if some of you have read
[12:50]this article in South Carolina she was a straight-a student she was
[12:55]on the honor roll she went to a few parties she went
[13:00]to a few bad sessions bad gatherings and she started doing drugs
[13:05]and some people they say yes this is drug you know it's
[13:10]not harmful the other ones they're harmful all drugs are harmful everything
[13:14]that you're placing in your body which is a chemical that could
[13:17]potentially destroy your body this is harmful and this is something that
[13:24]one must avoid she goes she's there she takes the drugs other
[13:27]people they play something else I don't know they call it lacing
[13:29]the drug they put something else and then she doesn't know they
[13:35]put something else she's out a party they put something else they
[13:39]put something where makes her addicted now she has become an addict
[13:43]and there are certain drugs I don't know I'm not an expert
[13:47]on this but from what I've heard like cocaine and there's other
[13:50]drugs you take it once and you've become addicted that's it you've
[13:55]become addicted after taking it once so this young girl she became
[14:00]addicted to crystal meth which is a drug now she starts hallucinating
[14:08]now she starts seeing things she become so addicted that now she
[14:14]starts hallucinating and seeing things so what did she end up doing
[14:19]she ended up taking out her own eyes she ripped out her
[14:23]own eyes this is this was all over the news in South
[14:26]Carolina a 20 year old young girl she took out her own
[14:31]eyes because she thought that the only way that she could be
[14:34]saved if she makes a sacrifice and through giving going her eyes
[14:40]or something like that and they find her they take her to
[14:43]the hospital and they see that her eyes she can't use them
[14:45]anymore why because of one two times she went and she tried
[14:51]a drug which was so harmful to herself and to her life
[14:56]and to her family and to her future and they ended up
[14:58]destroying her life so then she made an interview after and she
[15:04]said the only thing that made me stop doing drugs was the
[15:07]fact that I lost my eyes is that what it has to
[15:11]take some people they have the ability to stop but they don't
[15:14]stop until they end up ruining their lives and I have seen
[15:19]lives that have been destroyed lives that have been ruined you see
[15:24]this person a very smart young student a very smart youth they
[15:29]end up throwing their whole few sure way because of one or
[15:33]two times they go and they try drugs they throw away their
[15:36]future they end up ruining the lives of their families I know
[15:41]families that have spent hundreds of thousands of dollars over $100,000 to
[15:46]put his son in a facility where the son will not be
[15:52]addicted anymore in a rehab facility and ZUP ruining families you see
[15:56]some parents they come crying to you some families they come they're
[16:00]destroyed the whole family falls apart the whole family breaks apart because
[16:06]one individual decides to go and try something new because of peer
[16:14]pressure or because of boredom or because they're feeling low in life
[16:16]so they want to come and achieve a high and they come
[16:21]and they fool themselves with these fake highs and they end up
[16:27]ruining their lives now what is the Islamic solution is there an
[16:32]Islamic solution of course the religion of Islam we believe it has
[16:36]a solution to many problems of life most problems in life and
[16:42]it just takes it needs the courage and it needs for someone
[16:46]to follow all of the rules of the religion of Islam if
[16:49]I just follow one rule here and I don't follow the other
[16:51]rules then I'm not going to be able to have a solution
[16:56]and of course these solutions they're also they're from non-muslims as well
[17:01]they talk about the same solutions one of the key reasons for
[17:04]individuals to do drugs to perform drugs and of course when we
[17:09]talk about drugs we're not just talking about young we're not just
[17:12]talking about high school and college no there are people who are
[17:15]adults and they're still addicted to drugs one of the most important
[17:19]reasons and the first motivating factor for an individual to drive to
[17:24]try drugs as the friends the friends and the environment and the
[17:29]atmosphere that this person chooses to hang out with and when peer
[17:38]pressure starts for the adults it's very easy to get out of
[17:41]it because you know they just say no and they leave but
[17:45]for the youth especially for the children for those in middle school
[17:48]in high school those who are still developing their identity it's very
[17:53]easy for them to be misled it's very easy for them to
[17:59]be fooled and they want to fit in they want to be
[18:02]cool so someone comes and tells them you know what try this
[18:05]drug you're gonna be cool you're going to fit in and the
[18:10]first time that you try it you've destroyed your life you're putting
[18:14]yourself on the pathway of destruction so what's the solution the solution
[18:20]is to make sure that you choose the right friends and you
[18:25]choose the right environment and the right atmosphere to grow in the
[18:32]right atmosphere to be in choosing a friend is very important and
[18:36]we have many a hadith many narrations from no sort of law
[18:41]from the Imams of the eyelid bait that talk about the importance
[18:44]of choosing the right friend Who am I supposed to choose as
[18:47]a friend am I supposed to choose someone who just makes me
[18:52]laugh and someone who's funny does that what is that the person
[18:55]who I'm supposed to choose as a friend no of course not
[18:57]choose someone that will make you a better person choose someone that
[19:04]will help you choose someone that will advance your life and help
[19:08]you in life this is the person that we have to choose
[19:11]as a friend this is the one that we're supposed to make
[19:16]sure we are around this person Allah says in the Quran he
[19:21]describes he describes that a person is talking on the day of
[19:28]judgment one of those individuals who was thrown in the Hellfire he
[19:32]begins talking on the day of judgment he began Allah says why
[19:35]o mayavadi more a lie a day yakone we are late anita
[19:41]kostroma our rasullah Sibylla the day of judgment the volume the oppressor
[19:46]the one who sinned the one who oppressed Allah disobeyed will bite
[19:53]on his hand young mayor of the valley more a lie a
[19:58]day you're all oh yeah late and it's a customer vassula sabina
[20:01]this bite is a bite of remorse a bite of shame a
[20:06]bite of guilt and then this person will say yeah way Letty
[20:11]Layton Elam a toughie Fernan and kalila oh woe be upon me
[20:17]why did I choose that person as a friend on the day
[20:20]of judgement this is what those sort those people who are going
[20:23]to be punished this is what they say and this is what
[20:26]Allah says in the Quran why did I choose this person to
[20:28]be my friend and then he says novel any and if victory
[20:35]bother if Johnny what kind of shape on with insane he removed
[20:39]me he brought me away he distracted me away from the Vicker
[20:45]away from the remembrance of Allah after has come to me and
[20:49]the Shaitaan is out there to destroy the human being this is
[20:56]why we have many narrations that talk about the importance of choosing
[21:00]the right friend choose a friend the hadith says when you're choosing
[21:04]a friend it's as if you're choosing your religion it's as if
[21:07]choosing what faith you're on because your friend has the power and
[21:13]the ability to change your religion yes some people they say no
[21:16]my Iman is strong nothing could change me slowly they will have
[21:19]an impact on you maybe they're not going to make you leave
[21:24]your prayer and leave your fasting and leave the worship and Allah
[21:27]but they're going to make you delay your prayer they're going to
[21:32]make you get further away from Allah they're going to make you
[21:35]look at Haram listen to Haram be around the Haram as it
[21:39]worth it as it worth it just for a few hours of
[21:41]enjoyment in this life to compromise the afterlife this is why we
[21:48]have to choose the right friend look at amiran minnie and ali
[21:51]IBN abu talib he talks about one of his friends he talks
[21:58]about a friend that he had and historians and scholars they say
[22:01]that this friend that Amir al-mumineen talks about as one of the
[22:05]Companions rasool allah by the name of osman Evan Malone and Amir
[22:09]and minion loved this man so much that he named his son
[22:15]earth man after a man even mephone there are some people they
[22:17]say he named his son of man after ass man have been
[22:20]- no that's not the case he named him earth man after
[22:23]earth Mattapan mother owned one of the first Muslims one of the
[22:29]illest initial Muslims and one of the closest people to Rasulullah sallallahu
[22:38]aleyhi says Connolly FEMA mother Han fella he says I had a
[22:42]friend but what made this person my friend what made this person
[22:46]my friend was that we were what brought us together was allah
[22:50]subhanho wa taala this was the common denominator connolly FEMA maava Han
[22:57]fella carne or a limo who fear ie need such a dunya
[23:05]behind amirul mumineen the Alim the great Amir al-mumineen he says I
[23:09]used to see this man as a theme I used to see
[23:14]this man as great why keine you're a limo Mufi ie such
[23:20]a dunya behind what made him great in my eyes was the
[23:24]fact that this dunya this lowlife was very small in his eyes
[23:30]you want to be great in the eyes of Amir al-mumineen don't
[23:33]fall for this life don't be attached to this life you will
[23:36]be great in the eyes of Amir al-mumineen and then he says
[23:43]Wakana Hara Jan min solvani bottner falah esteem alleged well IX or
[23:49]Odawa Jud and then one of the features that made this person
[23:55]be a friend of Ali ibn ABI Taleb he says that this
[23:57]man was not controlled by the Sorbonne of his stomach yes the
[24:03]stomach has a so fun has authority over us sometimes for the
[24:09]sake of my stomach I'm willing to do so many things I'm
[24:11]willing to yell at my wife I'm willing to yell at my
[24:15]family I'm willing to cause a problem I'm willing to go drive
[24:18]miles an hour two hours just for the sake of a restaurant
[24:23]and who knows if it's halal or Haram this is what we
[24:25]do for the sake of our stomach I'm Aaron meaning he says
[24:31]Kanaka region men solvani botany wakana axilla Daraa he saw meet our
[24:40]friend Albert del Colleen Vanessa gelila Celine I mean what meaning he
[24:45]continues but they say that this man of man even my own
[24:47]during the time of Julia during the time before Islam he never
[24:54]used to drink alcohol kind of college entrance of Bonnie Buckner this
[24:58]is what made him be a friend of Ali ibn ABI Taleb
[25:02]and this is why it's important to choose the right friend this
[25:05]is why it's important to choose a person who will make you
[25:12]a better individual and the responsibility of choosing the right friend is
[25:16]not just upon the individual it's upon the community as a whole
[25:20]it's upon the parents the parents you have a responsibility and who
[25:24]your son or your daughter's associating with there are some parents their
[25:29]son or their daughter they get invited to a birthday party yes
[25:32]they got invited to a birthday party they get excited they want
[25:36]to go buy the cake and buy the gift and buy the
[25:39]shoes and the outfit and they forget who this friend is who
[25:41]I'm oh is my friend who is my son or daughter going
[25:45]to be associating with we get excited over the secondary things and
[25:48]we forget who is this person where is my son or daughter
[25:50]going to go to who are they going to be associating with
[25:55]who knows what happens in these parties all of the peer pressure
[25:59]that takes place and this is why parents they have extra duty
[26:06]they have a responsibility to be extra vigilant be very careful who
[26:12]your children are associating with yes and there are some parents they
[26:16]have control over their children but then as soon as their children
[26:18]have the keys and the driver's license they have no authority whatsoever
[26:23]and that is the time that you need the most authority maybe
[26:28]when they're young maybe when they're small you have stroll over them
[26:32]but many parents have no control over their sons or their daughters
[26:35]once they're a little bit older once they have the keys to
[26:39]the car and once they have the driver's license who knows we're
[26:42]there Friday night who knows where they are Saturday nights who knows
[26:46]where they are going to these parties where these parties this is
[26:51]the place of Haram this is the place where a bond is
[26:57]going to fool people Allah says in the Quran some of the
[27:00]resources and some of the tools that Shaitaan uses to mislead people
[27:04]Allah says in the Quran was Steffes as Minister Fox i'm in
[27:10]home basaltic Shaitaan has a voice what's that voice the singing and
[27:13]the music and the dancing that's where the haram takes place when
[27:17]you are in that environment the chances of falling in Haram are
[27:24]much higher watch live I am behind ecology Lacroix Shara come fill
[27:28]my knee when Allah do you our home when I Idaho Masha
[27:30]Allah Allah Allah subhana Allah describes that Shaitaan has an army Japan
[27:37]has a there are corporations that work under the under the rule
[27:45]of Shaitaan to mislead people to fool people to bring people away
[27:48]from allah subhanaw taala and right now here in the United States
[27:51]there are corporations that are advertising and promoting drugs in society promoting
[27:59]recreational drugs in the society and there are congressmen and there are
[28:05]officials in Congress who go and they promote drugs in the community
[28:08]and society now of course when we talk about drugs we're not
[28:12]talking about the medicine that has been prescribed by a doctor even
[28:16]though that is also an epidemic the opioid epidemic in our community
[28:20]and it's a big problem in our societies however we're talking about
[28:25]the recreational drugs which completely destroy the lives of individuals this is
[28:31]why in order to counter the balance of these movements to counter
[28:36]the balance of the bad friends of the bad environments of the
[28:39]bad atmosphere have to counter that with a good friend counter that
[28:46]with a good atmosphere counter that with a good area and environment
[28:50]where you will not be prone and falling into Haram this is
[28:56]why we talk about having Islamic schools this is why we talk
[29:00]about having programs in the Masjid this is why we need to
[29:04]have after-school programs is why we need to have our mosques constantly
[29:08]be in use there are some parents they don't want to take
[29:11]their children to the mosque they don't want to take their kids
[29:15]to the Masjid why this excuse that excuse what excuse are you
[29:18]going to bring when you have lost the future of your son
[29:23]or your daughter bring them now that you can and this is
[29:27]why we need to establish activities and programs for the sake of
[29:31]our children yes we have these lectures and alhamdulillah many of the
[29:37]adults they've heard these lectures a million times they don't need to
[29:40]be reminded we need to have our Islamic centers focus primarily on
[29:44]the children on the youth and on the teenagers because that is
[29:51]the age where the risk is the most and one of our
[29:52]duties in our communities is to establish Islamic schools who knows what
[29:56]happens in these schools and the public schools who knows what happens
[30:01]can you guarantee that your children go into these schools and leave
[30:06]without their morality being shaken go and look at what the children
[30:09]from a very young age are starting to wear go and look
[30:13]at what's being promoted in these schools this is why we need
[30:16]to invest in a school this is why we need to invest
[30:23]in programs for our children and the youth second this is the
[30:27]first the environment and the friends so the solution for that is
[30:31]choosing good friends and making a sound environment a second reason why
[30:38]many individuals start falling in the drug problem and start doing drugs
[30:45]is because they have extra time on their hands one of the
[30:49]biggest problems today you ask many of the youth many of the
[30:51]children right away they'll tell you I'm bored I'm bored you ask
[30:56]them what are you doing how are you I'm bored I'm bored
[31:01]that's all they say they're always bored and this is a problem
[31:04]my dear brothers and sisters maybe you say it once or twice
[31:09]but if someone is constantly bored meaning that they have nothing to
[31:15]do they have extra free time then the not free time that's
[31:18]a window of sin you're going to fall that's an opportunity of
[31:23]falling into Haram and doing something wrong because Shaitaan comes to you
[31:30]when you're not busy when you don't have anything when you're working
[31:33]when you're doing something productive Shaitaan it's not look to come to
[31:37]you at that time he's going to come to you when you
[31:41]have nothing and that's when Shaitaan comes during the times of hello
[31:45]art during the times of emptiness when you have nothing on your
[31:50]mind and this is why amirul mumineen and.com and he talks about
[31:55]that time it's Allah I'm from Edoardo Muhammad Amir al-mumineen he talks
[32:05]about that time during during in the Arkham and he says fellow
[32:10]cabbies ethic and Alya Anka Doha e-soo or Emily were fairly he
[32:19]says I asked you Allah by your glory that my actions do
[32:22]not create an obstacle between my daughter being accepted a new well
[32:27]as a funny be Sofia ma palaca away human surly well add
[32:33]to our Ginny bill or uber to a llama I mean to
[32:38]who fear Allah wotty he says o Allah don't hold me accountable
[32:45]and don't embarrass me and humiliate me well as of latinum it's
[32:48]a fee M of pelota on a human sorry don't humiliate me
[32:55]and what I have done during my private times when I saw
[32:58]our journey and don't be quick to judge me for what I
[33:03]have done my fellow arts during the empty times during the time
[33:07]that I have nothing minsu apparently what is I attea what do
[33:10]I am it's a free tea well jollity work Authority sure how
[33:16]our tea was a flirty because I have been become captive of
[33:22]my desires Allah subhana WA Ta'ala talks about a part of the
[33:25]soul which is the nafs in Amara huama Oberoi own FC in
[33:33]Neffs Allah American Basu the nafs a part of the soul its
[33:38]Amara meaning it's constantly it doesn't stop its Amara Amara is once
[33:42]Amara means it's constantly ordering you to do Haram and fall in
[33:50]the desires and this is why we have to be very careful
[33:53]during that time that free time the time when you're bored the
[33:57]time when you have nothing to do that's the time that you
[33:59]have to be very careful of you know according to studies and
[34:06]according to those who talk about drugs they say that a time
[34:10]that many do drugs is when is right after school when they
[34:16]go home and the parents are not home yet you know there's
[34:19]a few there's a two three-hour period when the parents have to
[34:24]come home they're not home yet and the kids they came back
[34:27]from school that's the time that's the time that the parents are
[34:32]not there and that's the free time to fall in Haram that's
[34:36]the time to be fooled by Shaitaan and that's the time that
[34:39]many do drugs this is why we have to be very careful
[34:44]during our children's free time we have to monitor what they're doing
[34:47]during their free time if you have that two-hour period where you're
[34:51]not home yet and the children are home make sure that they're
[34:56]busy doing something productive during that time you could use the masjid
[35:01]make after-school programs tutoring programs or sports or doing something being around
[35:05]someone that is always monitoring them someone that is always knowing what's
[35:09]going on this is a to make sure that they don't have
[35:16]any free time not doing anything productive and the third reason for
[35:23]falling into into the drug problem and trying drugs a lot of
[35:27]people they say it's the pressures of life my work my school
[35:33]and this creates anxiety this creates problems therefore they come in order
[35:38]to lift themselves in order to come out from that place that
[35:41]they're in they're feeling very low they're feeling very lonely they come
[35:46]and they want to raise themselves in order to get a high
[35:52]in order to feel good some they go and they commit the
[35:55]worst mistake ever and that is by using drugs that will bring
[36:01]them up it will make them feel good just for a few
[36:03]moments maybe an hour maybe half an hour and then it's going
[36:07]to bring you much lower than you were this is what they
[36:09]say about drugs studies say that those who try drugs later on
[36:15]they're going to come down worse where they're going to feel that
[36:18]their only way that they feel good again is that they have
[36:20]to try it again and this is how it creates a cycle
[36:24]of addiction now what does Islam say about this what does Allah
[36:29]say about those who feel low those who feel that they need
[36:34]the energy those who feel that they need to raise themselves from
[36:38]feeling lonely and stressful and having anxiety a loss of hano tiana
[36:46]says do something that will raise you and that will be real
[36:49]something that will give you a real high what is that that
[36:54]is when you are connected with the Most High that is when
[36:57]you're connected with allah subhanaw taala that is what will uplift you
[37:02]that is what will raise you and that is what will bring
[37:04]you out of the dumps and out of the anxiety and stress
[37:09]that you are in allah says in the quran in lovina talu
[37:13]robbing Allah semester Tom Otterness Jalal a human male acacho and Latehar
[37:20]food well as animal were absolutely that she consumed to adun those
[37:30]who say and Nan latina Kailua rabona la semester calm those who
[37:34]say Allah is our Lord and then they hold firm they don't
[37:40]let anything shake them anything turned them away from Allah tetanus is
[37:45]any human maraca the Angels come down upon them and lots of
[37:49]food don't be afraid when I talk Sonia don't be sad what
[37:55]up Cheryl bill generality consume too I do own and they give
[37:58]them glad tidings of the paradise that they have been promised and
[38:03]then the angels tell them 900 Leah oh come fill higher dunya
[38:09]waffle our Cara we are your alia we are your supporters we
[38:14]are your helpers we are your friends fill IATA dunya waffle Accra
[38:19]in this life we will be there for you and in the
[38:21]afterlife we will be there to support you welcome fear Amaterasu come
[38:30]welcome Fiamma to their own New Zealand manga for and Lane this
[38:35]is the mercy from the ultimate merciful one and that is allah
[38:40]subhanaw taala so if you are feeling low don't turn to friends
[38:46]that want to use you or friends that want to give you
[38:51]a drug that will ruin your future and ruin your life and
[38:54]ruin your relationship with your family and potentially destroy your life turn
[38:58]to Allah subhana WA Ta'ala who has promised to make your life
[39:05]better as soon as you turn to Him and the greatest gift
[39:08]that will give you that will take you out of the suffering
[39:14]as a relationship with allah subhanaw taala because allah acknowledges that the
[39:18]human being is weak in Allanson holyoke ah hello ha Adama sahaja
[39:25]Rajasuya are the insan' has been created as weak and if afflicted
[39:32]with pain right away we can't tolerate the pain we can't deal
[39:38]with the problems and then here is the difference between the men
[39:41]and the one who's not a movement the non men right away
[39:45]they go and they tried to resort to other doors other than
[39:48]allah subhana wa ta'ala and every door that you turn to other
[39:54]than the door of Allah it will not help you you will
[39:57]be disappointed but when you turn to allah subhana wa ta'ala allah
[40:02]says wahdahu la hey oh man you are ill and mousseline except
[40:10]those who pray except also have that open line that open connection
[40:15]between themselves and Allah then those people they are gonna be the
[40:19]ones who are saved from the struggles and the challenges of life
[40:25]and that is being connected with allah subhanaw taala so instead of
[40:30]going to drugs instead of going to methods that will maybe give
[40:34]you a little bit make you feel good for a few moments
[40:38]and then destroy your life turn to allah subhanaw taala who will
[40:41]help you who will guide you in every step and every problem
[40:47]that you face in life and we look at our Imams we
[40:50]look at the Imams of debate as him as role models when
[40:55]it comes to deal to returning to Allah during times of suffering
[40:59]these few days during the month of rajab we commemorate the lives
[41:04]of several of Imams of al'lat be the first of the first
[41:09]of Rajab was the birth of enamel baccara a Salaam the second
[41:12]of Rajab is the birth of a mammal the third of Rajab
[41:19]is the martyrdom of imam al Hadi and the tenth of Rajab
[41:22]which is coming up as the birth of Imam Mohamed el jawad
[41:29]alehissalaam Imam Mohamed el jawad alayhi Salam the ninth Imam of Alan
[41:34]Bates he lived for only 25 years imagine an imam who was
[41:38]sent to guide mankind and humanity he lived for only 25 years
[41:45]I know people who are 30 and 35 and they're still wasting
[41:49]their time doing that are that will destroy their lives imam al
[41:55]jawad alehissalaam he was 25 when he was poisoned and the imam
[42:02]ali salaam his whole life was a life of blessing of course
[42:05]his mama started when he was seven years old with the passing
[42:07]of imam Aravalli salam a mammoth jawad his father died when he
[42:15]his father excuse me was taken away from him he was in
[42:17]medina and i Mirada was forced to go to Khorasan was forced
[42:22]to go to Khorasan when the imam alehissalaam was 3-4 years old
[42:25]so i imagined a mammoth jawad was separated from his father when
[42:31]he was that young and then his father was killed in mama
[42:34]Radha was poisoned when a mammoth joyed was seven years old now
[42:36]what do you expect a person who was taken separated from his
[42:41]father when he was three and his father passes away when he's
[42:44]seven what do you expect a person how do you expect a
[42:49]person to live their life look at Imam of jihad alehissalaam he
[42:52]would always turn to Allah to come out of every problem and
[42:56]this is what we learned from the Imams of the a debate
[43:00]and of in a beautiful hadith from the imam imam majority he
[43:04]says lo canít Assam Iowa to Al Araf Lauriston Allah abdun from
[43:13]chuckle la Hatala la jolla maharaja the imam ali salaam he says
[43:19]if the Sumati well ours if the skies and the earth had
[43:24]shut down around you had closed you know sometimes when you feel
[43:27]that stress and that anxiety you feel like the whole world has
[43:30]been shot in front of you there's no door there's no exit
[43:35]he says if someone feels that way but that person has talked
[43:39]one Allah that person turns to Allah he will find an exit
[43:46]because Allah says in the Quran Romania satella Yojana who knock Raja
[43:50]the one who has taqwa and Allah Allah will help this person
[43:57]and create a solution to every problem that this person faces in
[44:03]life and this is the mercy of Allah solanum Hamid while in
[44:08]feminine so the Imam Ali Salaam he teaches us how to have
[44:19]height in Allah and that the relationship with Allah is the only
[44:23]thing that will help you the relationship with Allah is the only
[44:26]thing that will support you in dealing with problems that we face
[44:33]in life and we have to take advantage of that relationship my
[44:37]dear brothers and sisters there was a great merger by the name
[44:41]of chef Jack far kasha Phillipa this great merger he used to
[44:49]go out every night he was in Najaf he used to go
[44:52]out every night and he used to pray salat Elain in the
[44:55]harem of Amir al-mumineen he used to go and pray the midnight
[44:58]prayer next to the grave of Amir and mini Nadia vitaly but
[45:04]in the middle of the night so he would tell his son
[45:08]he would tell his son o my dear son come with me
[45:10]let's go and pray he wouldn't wake his son up and encouraged
[45:16]his son to go and pray with him in the middle of
[45:17]the night next to the shrine of amirul mumineen so his son
[45:23]some days you know he would be like I'm tired I don't
[45:28]want to go I'm sleepy one day the shade the scholar he
[45:34]tells his son come with me today I need you to come
[45:35]with me he takes him with him and as they're walking to
[45:40]the shrine of Amir al-mumineen they see in the cold winter a
[45:49]very cold night they see a man he's wrapped in a blanket
[45:51]and he has his hands out begging waiting for someone to walk
[45:57]by him the empty streets waiting for someone to come and maybe
[46:03]this person will give something very small as a charity so chef
[46:07]Jaffa he tells his son he tells him o my dear son
[46:13]do you see this man he's left his home and he's left
[46:18]the warmth of the bed in this cold winter and he's come
[46:21]out to beg so that maybe maybe he will make one dinar
[46:29]or two dinars during the outing so he sacrificed his whole sleep
[46:35]he sacrificed the comfort for the sake of maybe and it's not
[46:40]guaranteed he will make one dinar or two dinars we are going
[46:44]my dear son we are going to speak to allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala
[46:48]where the answer is guaranteed from allah subhana wa ta'ala what's worth
[46:57]it more this young man he left his bed to come for
[46:59]something that is not guaranteed but we are going to speak to
[47:02]allah which is guaranteed wa al akkari body honey finita rib OG
[47:09]Buddha ah - dah dah dah and when my dad asked about
[47:15]me tell them I'm close I will answer whoever asks me so
[47:18]they say that from that day on his son decided to never
[47:23]give his father a hard time and he decided to pray in
[47:28]the middle of the night because he saw that this analogy some
[47:30]of us were willing to risk our lives were willing to risk
[47:35]our comfort for something that is not even guaranteed like the one
[47:38]who does drugs the one who does drugs they go and they
[47:40]risk their lives in their future and their family and their wealth
[47:46]and their health and everything for a happiness that's not guaranteed but
[47:49]when you have allah subhana wa ta'ala that is guaranteed satisfaction that
[47:56]is guaranteed happiness because Allah promises to answer and be in the
[48:05]heart of the one who calls upon him so now as a
[48:07]recap the solution for drugs the drug problems whether you're in this
[48:14]community young or old outside this community as one to make sure
[48:22]you choose the right friends second create a good environment a good
[48:29]atmosphere for you third keep yourself occupied at all time keep yourself
[48:34]busy if you see yourself you're going to be you're not going
[48:36]to have something to do during the period give yourself something to
[48:42]do keep yourself busy and fourth stay connected with Allah subhana Allah
[48:45]because that will bring the greatest satisfaction and happiness and life while
[48:51]hamdulillahi rabbil alameen wa sallahu irene [Music]
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