General Question and Answer with Dr. Sayed Ammar Nakshawani

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[0:03][Music] yay bismillah respected brothers and sisters and dearest viewers wherever you

[0:37]may be insha allah keeping safe and you are fasting inshallah we'll

[0:41]be having our third q and a with dr said aman nakshawani

[0:45]today but we're going to be doing something a little bit different

[0:47]because a lot of you have been asking for a general q

[0:51]a a lot of you been asking for just general questions sending

[0:53]into the whatsapp messages calling in uh so inshallah we're going to

[0:57]do one question on the topic of death related to the first

[1:01]twenty three nights of dr said amanda on his lectures and the

[1:04]second question followed by uh a general question in sha allah but

[1:08]do keep sending in your messages these phones are not you know

[1:13]dying down they they're still going and uh inshallah your questions will

[1:18]be answered but without further ado a q a with doctor said

[1:24]he says we're going to start with a question on death the

[1:34]topic that you discussed uh the first 23 nights so it says

[1:38]uh we come across a variety of shia muslims and some of

[1:44]us are practicing the religion on a basic level i.e or sort

[1:47]of deen plus photo id and some to a higher extent towards

[1:51]the most and more practicing towards the teachings of the bait my

[1:55]question is being on the basic level can we achieve genna or

[1:59]does it have to mean we achieve the higher extent beyond the

[2:04]basics to guarantee mohammed well i think the way it's phrased there's

[2:12]something that needs to be understood and that is where you reach

[2:19]in the hereafter reflects your struggles your wisdom and your love for

[2:31]your lord in this world you cannot complain in the hereafter about

[2:35]where you've reached because the reality is that in this world you

[2:40]have many opportunities to continuously grow the religion of islam has so

[2:45]many different ways in which it's able to develop in which it's

[2:50]able to grow and help develop the human being there are ways

[2:56]in which a person may develop spiritually and theologically and ethically and

[3:00]no doubt the basis of all of these is a person gaining

[3:05]more and more knowledge through gaining more and more knowledge you continuously

[3:11]grow you cannot expect that because i'm someone who loves elves i'm

[3:15]just a basic person i do the basics there's a lot who

[3:17]live in that world of i do the basics and i do

[3:22]the basics it's not a bad world but don't get stuck in

[3:26]the rut of i do the basics you know how you have

[3:27]people say that i pray i fast and that's it really do

[3:34]you read any books no so why aren't you reading books why

[3:39]aren't you developing your knowledge why aren't you studying the seer of

[3:45]the prophet sallallahu alaihi you find that a person has to reflect

[3:53]on themselves and imam assad would always tell us that no two

[4:00]days should be the same my next day should be better than

[4:03]the previous one if my two days are exactly the same salah

[4:07]five times a day and i read a couple of supplications after

[4:14]the salah and i read a sword of the quran like ya

[4:17]seen the next time let me try and open other sword of

[4:21]the quran ya seen is not the only sword in the quran

[4:24]there's 114 soras let me try and open other soar yeah and

[4:29]other edges which maybe i don't normally open or i don't normally

[4:35]read and these will help my development so when a person says

[4:39]well i'm just going to do the basics and that's it it's

[4:43]not about doing basics it's about the mentality the mentality has to

[4:47]be a mentality where i'm constantly yearning to gain more knowledge to

[4:52]gain more wisdom to be illuminated with more ma refer and there's

[4:57]so much illumination to be had and so much illumination to be

[5:00]shared so that mindset where i just need to tick the boxes

[5:05]and that's it let's get out of that mindset there should be

[5:08]a constant development in our character a constant development in our relationship

[5:11]with our lord and then at the end we'll see what the

[5:16]exam results are ah now uh for the general question uh this

[5:20]one comes from sister sarah she says i have a question for

[5:23]said ammar on the topic on when we can uh when can

[5:28]we refuse or agree to use the ventilator um so as we

[5:31]heard in the lectures if the doctors say that the ventilator can

[5:36]cure the patient we have to agree to use it on the

[5:39]patient so once family has agreed on the basis that it may

[5:42]cure the patient goes on the ventilator but there is no change

[5:44]in his or her condition what happens then can the family ask

[5:50]for the ventilator to be taken off no according to ayatollah may

[5:55]allah lengthen his life you are not allowed to have the withdrawal

[6:02]of that ventilator once that medical apparatus or equipment is being applied

[6:09]or used in relation to the patient now we hear the mention

[6:16]that this ventilator is there for cure or is it there for

[6:20]comfort if it is there purely for comfort then withdrawal can take

[6:25]place however it is there for a cure and it's already being

[6:30]used then you cannot withdraw now this next question on death it

[6:38]says um it's difficult for me to convince others especially those who

[6:41]are much elder to me like our parents or relatives relatives about

[6:44]the importance of life after death and preparing for it in our

[6:49]culture it is considered quite disrespectful if we try to correct or

[6:54]guide anybody elder to us especially the topics related to islam let

[6:57]alone death they either don't want to listen or get seriously offended

[7:00]how do we approach such situations so that we can move towards

[7:04]allah subhanahu wa as a family well if you always feel that

[7:10]there are people in your family who don't necessarily listen to you

[7:15]at that moment don't give up and don't nag too much okay

[7:18]so on the one hand you have to realize that maybe it's

[7:21]not the right time to speak with them about such issues but

[7:24]on the other hand it's also not a time for you to

[7:26]give up um try maybe in another instance and another time to

[7:33]open the topic and the conversation and you never know you may

[7:38]think that they're neglecting that topic but they may actually be thinking

[7:40]about more than you think not everybody who speaks about something necessarily

[7:45]doesn't mean that they're thinking about it a lot or a little

[7:48]there are certain people who guard themselves or who are a bit

[7:53]more reserved in what they want to talk about so if you

[7:56]see for example you have an uncle and that uncle doesn't really

[8:00]open up too much about death or the day of judgment but

[8:05]you never know that when that uncle goes to sleep they may

[8:07]be thinking about it 24 7.

[8:08]they may prefer to listen from someone who's more of an expert

[8:14]than yourself on these issues and the other day this is part

[8:18]of you know human nature that sometimes you prefer that someone who's

[8:22]an expert on authority speaks to them about this topic rather than

[8:24]someone who they feel sometimes is younger and not an expert don't

[8:27]give up there's always the right time in sha allah pray for

[8:31]their guidance now this general question uh comes in and it says

[8:37]what is the difference between the deaths of the common people in

[8:41]comparison to the atheist are they athlete taken to jannah straight away

[8:47]yes so there's no doubt that there's a category of people who

[8:51]are taken to the agenda of baraz straight away this idea of

[8:58]being taken to the eternal paradise no you go to the jannah

[9:06]of yeah and that no doubt is reserved for saber those of

[9:19]the highest of the ones who supported the cause of their prophets

[9:24]like muhammad al-farahan al-assin and others who came to the call of

[9:30]their prophets when everybody else had given up on their prophet peace

[9:33]be on family likewise the shohada are also amongst those who have

[9:40]a special position where they go towards that jaina in the intermediary

[9:49]realm but then you have in terms of common when we say

[9:55]common majority of mankind 99.99999 of human history are the middle ground

[10:01]it's very rare in your life to come across someone as evil

[10:05]and tyrannical as pharaoh or as merciful and wonderful as the prophet

[10:10]muhammad or the prophet jesus son of mary 99.99 of people fall

[10:17]in the middle ground and for those people it varies while the

[10:21]squeezing of the grave may take place others may for example find

[10:26]that they wait for a growth of wisdom and a purification in

[10:31]that middle ground now this uh next question uh is coming in

[10:36]and it says how will the muslim sinners be purified in barzak

[10:40]if the sins are are many but the muslim has faith and

[10:45]hope in allah from qatar the muslim sinners if they are obstinate

[10:57]and have hate then it becomes a very difficult period in barzache

[11:09]and an extremely difficult period on the day of judgment a muslim

[11:16]sinner who may not have held on to the william or the

[11:21]imam of al muhammad sallallahu alaihi mah however had love for allah

[11:29]then there is a growth in their wisdom part of the purification

[11:36]process is a growth in one's wisdom and a growth in one's

[11:39]comprehension and an elevation in that period of barzach so it's not

[11:44]so much i've committed stealing and lying and adultery and all of

[11:48]these and then someone's going to come and wash me like a

[11:51]purgatory type no rather it's more of a case of a growth

[11:56]in one's wisdom upon meeting the angels in that realm remember we

[12:00]can't see the angels while we're here yeah we may meet angelic

[12:08]thai people like menhal we may for example meet devilish type people

[12:15]but for us to actually have that chance to meet the angels

[12:17]know when we do see the angels of course we see munkar

[12:23]and you see bashir mo bashar you may see roman fatah the

[12:29]there is a realization there of the realities of the dimensions that

[12:34]are coming but the main criteria i believe obstacles to al muhammad

[12:40]allah salam ah hatred versus love and respect that goes a long

[12:47]way for any muslim so if i see now in the muslim

[12:53]world a person out there who may not be of the shia

[12:57]but they love to make sure that they honor the births and

[13:02]the seerah of the alibaba you'll see them showing signs of mourning

[13:08]because you know there are some non-shia out there muharram ten nights

[13:12]there's no morning nothing at all he couldn't really care less he's

[13:16]like well you know i can narrate you the story of what

[13:19]happened to hussain he'll say blatantly hussein you know grandson the prophet

[13:24]we love him but there's no real mourning there's no real feeling

[13:27]and i'm not saying mourning has to be in a certain way

[13:30]it could just be in a way where you bring up your

[13:34]children to say for example to them that this is a sad

[13:38]occasion um so there are muslims out there for example you could

[13:41]go to india and pakistan and see people who are not shia

[13:43]but muharram for them there is a clear symbolic mourning process that

[13:51]takes place those people can hope insha allah for a continuous growth

[13:55]in bazaar and in the hereafter century now this next general question

[13:59]comes in from brother abbas from india he says my name is

[14:03]abbas and i'm from india my question is that are we supposed

[14:08]to get hajj done for our parents my father has not done

[14:10]hajj during his lifetime and passed away a few years ago of

[14:12]course hajj is one of the only acts that a person while

[14:21]they're alive can get someone to perform it for them [Music] and

[14:26]like salah or some someone can do it on their behalf after

[14:32]they have died you see if for example now i have missed

[14:38]my prayers yeah i miss six seven years of salah can i

[14:41]get someone to pray for me now while i'm alive no like

[14:45]can i get stand the camera man and say to him for

[14:51]example like saying bro i'll give you a grand if you pray

[14:53]six years of salah for me firstly no one gesten is probably

[14:59]gonna ask for 10 grand but secondly he's not gonna do it

[15:02]because six years of salah minhal is how how long is that

[15:07]five what five times three six five comes to like one thousand

[15:11]i don't know you know 125 times six you know you're coming

[15:15]to nine ten thousand we don't want to we don't want to

[15:19]go anywhere near there but what we do is we have someone

[15:21]who after we die there might be salatina for example hajj however

[15:25]if someone is alive and they really are in a very difficult

[15:30]situation physically they cannot go to hajj they can have someone to

[15:35]hajj on their behalf while they're alive but also after one dies

[15:40]of course they can have that member of their family like an

[15:45]eldest son to hajj on their behalf this question next question on

[15:49]death it says johnny please shed some light on the following if

[15:55]we if we will all be useful in the hereafter how will

[16:00]people be able to recognize other relatives if they have been born

[16:03]having never met that person in the worldly life for example a

[16:06]grandchild meaning a grandparent who passed away years before my name is

[16:14]siddhar least of your worries least of your worries is how you'll

[16:19]recognize your grandparents listen i i don't know what rasulullah it looks

[16:24]like and i hope that i can go and and chill with

[16:27]my great great great great grandfather and i'm sure on that day

[16:32]i'll realize what he looks like that should be the least of

[16:35]your worries recognizing how everybody looks like you'll be fine don't worry

[16:40]absent uh general question here salaam alaikum my name is fatima from

[16:42]india my question is whenever i listen to any majorities especially about

[16:46]imam ali alayhi salaam i question why i don't have that much

[16:52]love for him so the question pops up what can i do

[16:54]to increase my love for imam ali ali so so wait the

[17:00]sister saying i listened to majalis and i question why i don't

[17:05]have that much love for yeah so why i don't feel empathy

[17:08]basically it's normally the opposite normally you have people who [Music] who

[17:17]go crazy and listening to the remembrance of imam ali alaihis maybe

[17:23]the way certain lecturers maybe depict imam ali al-islam from where your

[17:31]context is might be an hour of just talking about one aspect

[17:35]of his life i know that some of the the kirin what

[17:40]they do is constantly there is no other discussion of anything else

[17:48]of imam ali's life but 10 nights and of course there's thousands

[17:54]of lessons to be learned but if that's all you're going to

[17:56]hear every time in india you're going to go to that lecture

[17:58]i think that's where the the questioner is from and you hear

[18:02]the same imam ali ahmad imam ali and markham okay but there's

[18:05]imam when it comes to the world of the natural sciences when

[18:10]it comes to the world of metaphysics when it comes to justice

[18:13]when it comes to governance when it comes to parenthood when it

[18:16]comes to youth when it comes to wisdom and tradition so maybe

[18:21]the angle that you are hearing on imam ali al-islam is the

[18:25]classic the whole ten nights maybe you should try and look into

[18:33]other areas where you will then be able to explore more of

[18:36]the magnificence of your mom now this next question on death it

[18:43]says salaam alaikum say that i look after my mom she's old

[18:46]and she has alzheimer's she she forgets i try to look after

[18:51]as much as i can she wakes up about five or six

[18:52]times at night my question is we say heaven is under the

[18:57]mum's feet but in your image this you keep saying the day

[18:59]of judgment no one will help you not your brother or sister

[19:03]mom or father so this doesn't enter my mind said jaad from

[19:08]peterborough uk no no when we say on the day of judgment

[19:13]no one can help you what we mean by that is that

[19:18]on that day you're gonna have to answer for your own actions

[19:22]someone who's looked after their mother and heaven is underneath the feet

[19:30]of the mother that person allah shines upon them light on the

[19:33]day of judgment because their obedience to their mother in turn his

[19:39]obedience to allah when we say that on that day your mother

[19:42]cannot help you or you'll be even separated from your children it

[19:47]means that don't get too attached to certain things which at the

[19:53]end of the day you're gonna have to answer for your own

[19:55]life and your own behavior you can't refer to them anymore and

[19:59]you can't hold on to them anymore but of course somebody who

[20:04]has been obedient and respectful to their mother in the pangs of

[20:07]death when it comes to saccharide mort they'll be able to say

[20:14]comfortably and on the day of judgment they'll be welcomed into heaven

[20:16]because of their obedience to their parents even in the world of

[20:22]barzach a person who taught their child bismillah rahim is given a

[20:28]higher position so let's alone that mother who has taught you to

[20:33]love muhammad so the context i think the brother has misunderstood the

[20:37]context isn't who cares about what you've done for your mom or

[20:41]who cares about your mom it's about not being in that situation

[20:43]where you think that everyone's going to speak on your behalf no

[20:46]it's your life your ahmad you have to answer for them accent

[20:51]this next general question says if i talk to a friend in

[20:56]confidence about my issues with my wife is that gossip and backbiting

[21:04]well the quran does want us to keep our secrets and it

[21:10]does talk about the wives of the prophet peace be upon him

[21:13]and his family and that the best of wives are the ones

[21:16]who are able to guard the secrets of the house but that

[21:20]doesn't prevent someone who may be in a very difficult situation for

[21:24]them to reach out for help remember back biting is an act

[21:32]which on many cases is seen as being an evil act but

[21:37]in certain cases has to be done and one of them is

[21:39]to speak out against someone unjust i cannot sit and watch a

[21:46]ruler who's unjust and say well i can't do reborn on him

[21:47]because he's you know he can't hear me no no i have

[21:52]to speak out i have to speak out in different gatherings and

[21:55]make sure people know about the injustices if your husband therefore is

[22:00]someone who's unjust then it's not reaber for you to speak to

[22:03]somebody about their injustice just be careful who you're speaking to why

[22:09]because who you are speaking to firstly are they a person of

[22:14]wisdom or not secondly are they somebody who may be themselves hurt

[22:18]from marital life and wants to see you hurt sometimes sometimes in

[22:27]life even getting advice from somebody who may have gone through a

[22:31]painful divorce can end up being painful for you because the venom

[22:34]that they have from their divorce or the venom that they have

[22:38]towards a particular gender and it can work both ways by the

[22:41]way they may take out and telling you don't listen get out

[22:45]as quick as you go and sometimes that advice may be unwise

[22:48]number three be careful that the person who you're asking for advice

[22:53]isn't like a bbc or a reuters you know there are some

[23:00]people their nickname is bbc nickname is bbc because they have the

[23:04]biggest mouth yeah they will tell everybody about everything have you heard

[23:09]have you heard about this person have you heard about that person

[23:13]have you heard that this happened have you heard those people they're

[23:18]known as the gossip merchants in the community and it could be

[23:23]anyone could be someone with a clerical guard and it could be

[23:27]someone normal yeah and they could be the type of person who

[23:29]wants to pry into everyone's life and just sits in these gatherings

[23:35]so a person has to be careful who they open up to

[23:37]but opening up about a piece of injustice that is taking place

[23:44]for example there are ladies out there domestically they're being abused they

[23:49]have no one to go speak to sometimes if they want to

[23:52]go and speak to their parents the parents will say to them

[23:56]that's your husband's house go back yeah and you let it go

[23:59]let it go let go until i swear in some cases suicides

[24:02]have happened in other cases people have fallen to severe bouts of

[24:09]depression because they never had anyone to open up to [Music] so

[24:13]on the one hand a person is able to open up about

[24:17]their difficulties but be careful the people you're opening up to are

[24:21]not those who may end up taking advantage of the situation by

[24:27]giving you advice that won't happen because you can have a situation

[24:30]where a person will tell you that listen try and still work

[24:34]at it and you may want them to give you another piece

[24:36]of advice but sometimes someone will tell you listen think of working

[24:39]are you sure are you sure you want to leave this are

[24:42]you sure you don't want to stay [Music] so a person has

[24:46]to be careful who they are asking i said now this uh

[24:49]next question coming uh about death uh this person wants to remain

[24:55]anonymous uh salams my question for saying would telbe really work for

[24:58]people like extremists in the sense that even if they did do

[25:03]these horrible sins could they still repent and get forgiven no no

[25:06]no no a person who a person whose nature has become evil

[25:12]is different from someone who's found the path what was the difference

[25:23]between them they were both commanders of the army of yazid at

[25:29]karbala what's the difference between the two differences one his nature had

[25:33]become evil the other was someone who had gone through a period

[25:39]of confusion misunderstanding if there is someone out there who is listening

[25:45]to people who are giving him misconceptions about another group of people

[25:48]that person is in a world of confusion misunderstanding okay the second

[25:52]type is the one who's just got venom against a group of

[25:57]people all they ever do is attack all they ever want to

[25:59]do is make videos of hate that is different from somebody who

[26:05]trusts such people but gets confused all might have been sad and

[26:09]people like this tour of tawba is not open for them for

[26:12]what reason because allah doesn't want people to be forgiven it's because

[26:16]they don't seek any more goodness and forgiveness the one who seeks

[26:20]forgiveness and repentance the door is always open for them otherwise that

[26:25]door on the tenth of muharram would not have been open for

[26:28]and not just many people assume that on the center muharram was

[26:34]the only one who changed his son the servant and maybe another

[26:41]27 went from the army of yazid this miraculous by the way

[26:46]why because have you ever seen a situation where there are 30

[26:48]000 on one side or let's say 10 000 even on one

[26:53]side and 72 on the other none of the 72 joined the

[26:57]10 000 and some of them joined the 72 knowing that certain

[27:02]death was going to happen but because they saw the principles and

[27:05]the soft heart of imam al-hussein and they were praising his grandfather

[27:09]in salah and they began to reflect that's and this is this

[27:13]is sadly what's missing in many muslims a lack of reflection yeah

[27:16]many muslims follow the path that their parents brought them up on

[27:26]no reflection they'll tell others who are non-muslim reflect how can you

[27:29]believe the trinity how can you not but when it comes to

[27:31]their religion you suddenly see them no reflection or they follow a

[27:36]certain way not because of the truth but because they were hurt

[27:38]by somebody so they follow another way to be vengeance for the

[27:44]person that hurt them not the principles of that other way so

[27:48]when you come and say to me therefore that if someone for

[27:52]example is an extremist extremist whose nature has become evil like that

[27:58]person who goes into a hospital in carbon what's this person now

[28:03]this person i guarantee there's a period they weren't a state of

[28:07]misunderstanding instead of confusion but then eventually they reached a level who

[28:11]will go into a hospital knowing that there are mothers who've given

[28:15]birth who have tried for years to have children who are from

[28:19]poverty stricken environments and blow it up or shoot people who does

[28:23]that young children such people unfortunately the doors of october are closed

[28:28]for them i sent santom said now we are going to go

[28:31]for a short break but when we do return we will return

[28:33]with a general question for said ahmad coming from the dear viewers

[28:37]do keep sending your questions in this phone is still going and

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[31:05]said taking in your general and your questions related to the topic

[31:09]of death which the sayyid discussed the first 23 nights of ramadan

[31:12]now saying that i was going through this question during the break

[31:15]and um you've said in previous episodes that you know seek forgiveness

[31:19]from the person you've backbit or you've wronged before they die or

[31:23]they don't that you can recite on monday but this one is

[31:27]from sister mahek fatima from india she says my question is if

[31:31]someone has wronged someone and asked for a lot of forgiveness and

[31:34]is repenting for it but that person they have wronged do not

[31:37]forgive them and only continues to remind them for their mistakes what

[31:42]is to be done i don't think you have to worry i

[31:45]think you've sought the forgiveness of the person it's a it's a

[31:49]higher spiritual state than someone who arrogantly says no i will not

[31:53]um go and ask someone for forgiveness it's below me we have

[31:58]people who yeah who are extremely arrogant that they know they've wronged

[32:03]someone they know they did the rebound someone they won't ask for

[32:10]forgiveness they won't the human being is an amazing creation i don't

[32:13]blame the angels when they said are you going to send someone

[32:16]who causes mischief and bloodshed i don't blame them because the human

[32:21]being can gain so many facts figures statistics but still have a

[32:28]soul of an animal you'll see them quote eyes of the quran

[32:35]yeah quote hadith left right and center but they don't have it

[32:40]because they have a marathon the kalb of the pure are those

[32:46]who reach the day of judgment with the khal that is salim

[32:48]there are those who reach the day of judgment with al-qaeda that

[32:52]is full of fear therefore you'll find that there are certain people

[33:02]who are too arrogant for them to say to somebody forgive me

[33:08]if i wronged you and they have wronged they have and they

[33:13]know they've wronged they know they backbeat they know they made fun

[33:17]they know they lowered the status of some jealousy has destroyed them

[33:21]and it's difficult for them to recover and we have that hadith

[33:25]envy devours faith like fire devours wood the envy has made them

[33:33]a human being whose rabies of spirituality spiritual rabies of diseases all

[33:39]over their body they're like a dog with rabies then you have

[33:44]however the human being who their heart is not full of morale

[33:50]they have a quality even when they have not said anything bad

[33:56]about you they'll ask for forgiveness yeah that person of course we

[34:04]must admit that it's not always a case a person has to

[34:08]give in there is a context to these things but that person

[34:12]has a certain level of purity that will be the envy of

[34:18]the people on the day of judgment because that person comes up

[34:20]to you and says listen if i've wronged you if i've wronged

[34:22]you forgive me and they may never have wronged you now the

[34:26]brother or sister here who's asking is saying that i've continuously asked

[34:30]this person for forgiveness but they haven't forgiven me there's a mercifulness

[34:43]shown to us by our lord and if we want to reach

[34:49]the highest level of spirituality then that is when we become the

[34:53]names of god walking on earth we try and follow those characteristics

[34:56][Music] we try and help people with mercy we try and show

[35:05]mercy allah is forgiving we try and forgive don't worry if you've

[35:08]gone up to someone ask what have we gonna say and they

[35:11]keep saying no no no no no let them answer their lord

[35:15]when their lord says you asked me for forgiveness and you couldn't

[35:17]forgive my creation but let us never reach a level where the

[35:22]word forgiveness is not part of our character yeah you know there

[35:29]are traditions within the school of eights amazing moments in their life

[35:33]and the life of their companions remember military companion of one day

[35:43]someone threw a noah malet you know the the date threw at

[35:48]him and ran away didn't know it was malik and when he

[35:53]realized it was how did he realize someone said to him do

[35:58]you know who just threw the date stones out he's like nah

[36:01]i don't know who that guy is he's like that's malik lesnar

[36:03]commander of alibaba zombie he went running looking for mighty esther forgiveness

[36:09]and miley goes to him don't worry i came to the mosque

[36:12]to pray two rock forgiveness for you look at that level malik

[36:18]was to me like i was to rasulullah those are the people

[36:24]we should try and emulate i this next question on death it

[36:34]says my mother died in 2004 in france so for some administrative

[36:36]reasons i have to exumate her body and bring it to the

[36:41]u.s where i currently live i got the permission from my major

[36:44]to do so my issue is not so much legal but about

[36:45]what will happen in balazar for my mother as the body is

[36:49]being transferred by airplane etc knowing that there is a possibility that

[36:53]the coffin be open and the body is transferred to another coffin

[36:56]olivier from miami no worry as in within the school of albeit

[37:00]not only the legality can be seen with ourselves and the maliki's

[37:05]when it comes to the examination of a grave but likewise do

[37:08]not worry a person who has died as a moral person who

[37:15]has not shown hate to the prophet or his family that person

[37:17]in sha allah will be looked after do not worry absent now

[37:20]this next general question comes in from uh brother bilal he says

[37:23]salaam my name is bilal i'm a sunni and i just want

[37:27]to say to say that you are doing a great work may

[37:29]allah protect you from your my question is that what can one

[37:34]do to have their child love the bait instead of allowing them

[37:41]to praise the killers of their bait repeat that again sorry what

[37:45]can one do so what can one do when you're calling them

[37:48]to the to love the athletes you're calling them to love their

[37:53]little babe yes and they are praising the instead of allowing them

[37:57]to praise the killers of the athlete no no no at the

[38:05]end of the day you bring up your children with the love

[38:10]of muhammad al muhammad sallallahu alaihi mah this is rational that you

[38:15]will not love albeit and love those who fought a lil bait

[38:20]yeah it's pretty stupid i think for a person to love the

[38:23]killer and the killed i think that's that's a sign of stupidity

[38:27]yeah um ignorance um or maybe they love a little bait because

[38:35]they think that they're obliged to if it was their choice at

[38:42]jamel they would have been on a different side okay or if

[38:44]it was their choice that's something they'd be with someone else but

[38:46]then they're thinking all done if i say that i would have

[38:51]been with tal hanzo that means i'm fighting i live in italy

[38:55]but i suppose we have to also show that we love alibaba

[38:58]talibs so the best way out is to blame some random jew

[39:03]so so you know you've got people who are like that but

[39:05]for us the way we look at is that no we love

[39:10]muhammadan and the enemies of al-muhammad we view them as the enemies

[39:15]of truth the enemies of justice and that's why we despise them

[39:20]i think in pakistan or they say okay which means lana on

[39:28]the enemies of alibaba i think all muslims can agree on this

[39:32]line on the enemies of muhammad al muhammad i don't think there's

[39:37]a muslim who will say no a person who's an enemy of

[39:40]a lady you have to still love them if they do they

[39:41]got problems yeah uh now this next general question is coming in

[39:45]from australia it says i'm a university student and we are very

[39:50]diverse here in australia i have a lot of sunni friends and

[39:51]one day one asked me a question which i'm still trying to

[39:55]work out our topic was on the first two caliphs my friend

[39:58]asked me if the two caliphs who you shias disregard were bad

[40:01]personalities then how are they blessed to have been buried near the

[40:04]prophet criteria of where you're buried is not necessarily a signifier of

[40:14]your greatness um [Music] at the end of the day imam never

[40:22]thought of buried thousands of miles away from the prophet does that

[40:23]mean he's thousands of miles of spirituality away from rasulallah if you're

[40:30]going to use that type of analogy he's buried where imam ali

[40:34]okay is buried thousands of miles away from medina does that mean

[40:42]he's not close to his grandfather the prophet peace be upon his

[40:45]family okay those who are buried near the prophet peace be upon

[40:54]us in his laws has allowed that there is inheritance for the

[41:03]widow widow will get 1 8 of what of the inheritance the

[41:15]daughter of umar was the widow of the holy prophet peace be

[41:18]upon him so that area that they have their fathers are buried

[41:28]in although if one eighth is normally that which is a portion

[41:34]to the widow but if we say there were nine wives one

[41:36]eighth times one ninth is one over seventy two yeah so really

[41:41]it shouldn't only be for them however if a person's criteria is

[41:46]that how close you are to the prophet is determined to where

[41:50]you're buried then let them live by that criteria i really you

[41:53]know it doesn't really interest me at all that's insane uh now

[41:58]this question uh by brother montalder jaffar from london he says when

[42:04]we ask to be raised from our graves to help the imam

[42:08]imam ahead does that mean our barzakh time is cut short how

[42:14]could that fit in the journey of the death i don't think

[42:19]it's anything too great for allah to cut someone's time short at

[42:24]any stage okay if allah wants to cut your life short he'll

[42:28]cut it today and if allah wants to cut your life one

[42:31]trumpet and it's done and if allah wants to cut the day

[42:36]of judgment and its length for you he'll cut it people ask

[42:40]that in this was mentioned that you know raised me from my

[42:47]grave with my sword aloft an idea that certain members of humanity

[42:54]who have died are raised alive before the day of judgment the

[42:59]way for example jesus son of mary was able to raise the

[43:05]dead and make them alive alaihissalam or jose rises from the dead

[43:10]this idea can be seen in discussions concerning the rajah the finer

[43:18]details of the certainly our difference of opinion but the belief in

[43:21]dharaja is certainly them and mata you find in the traditions that

[43:30]the traditions can be seen from the imams of salawat allah talking

[43:39]about araja whoever doesn't believe in our is not one of us

[43:54][Music] another of the lines that we recite so some who believe

[44:06]in the raj i believe that certain people have died and if

[44:08]allah wants to then all of a sudden your time from that

[44:11]badazi period is time for you to come back the same people

[44:15]from bazaar can come and visit us in our houses what stops

[44:17]them from coming to serve in imam the same people in barzah

[44:21]were allowed according to certain opinions to help the prophet peace be

[44:24]upon his family on the day of better how were they allowed

[44:27]when the quran says that we aided you with unseen forces they

[44:30]were allowed to leave the world of bars to come likewise this

[44:32]can be done now this general question is a very interesting because

[44:37]i think a lot of people are affected by this one um

[44:40]it says can you please tell me if i owe money to

[44:45]someone but i can't find that person or locate him what can

[44:49]i do yes there are there are certain cases where this takes

[44:57]place and again it depends on the person is alive or they've

[45:00]passed away do you feel that one has been done on them

[45:04]is there a normal scenario can you locate them you can't locate

[45:07]them there are all these different options that are given in some

[45:13]cases someone may have passed away you feel that you have wronged

[45:15]them either you could go to their family members or the heirs

[45:19]of their estate and you make it clear that this is a

[45:22]certain amount of money that is owed there are certain executors of

[45:26]the estate or executors of the will a person can go back

[45:30]to you may also find a situation where you feel that you've

[45:33]wronged someone or if you may have wronged someone where that dull

[45:35]mother comes in and a certain amount of sadaqa is paid there

[45:39]may also be a situation where if you can't locate someone you

[45:43]may donate it towards charity so all of these are different methods

[45:47]which can be employed in sha allah said now this next question

[45:50]on death comes from um ifrah from lahore pakistan she says salaam

[45:56]sayyid we have always learned that men will get in paradise hold

[45:59]on iron in paradise uh if they are on the right path

[46:04]in this world how are the women rewarded in this perspective in

[46:08]the afterlife i think you know sister like i mentioned um the

[46:11]man and the uh woman the male and the female the husband

[46:16]and the wife become more beautiful than any hoary that you'll ever

[46:20]see because the light of the iman means that they look absolutely

[46:24]stunning over there and if it is a case that you for

[46:30]example may say well i unfortunately was not able to get hitched

[46:33]in this world then allah subhanahu ta'ala can create for your partner

[46:39]there and likewise for the man as well the same lord who

[46:43]created for adam's sons to get married at the beginning of creation

[46:46]from true whori's according to some opinions likewise allah can create and

[46:52]you can say kon feiyakun i sent now uh this one says

[46:57]this is a general one it says salaam said i am muhammad

[47:02]from london do i have to perform after i've performed was the

[47:05]janabe after committing a haram act now the moment you perform janab

[47:11]then a person does not need to do there are certain if

[47:18]they are widespread then you don't do although there are certain russells

[47:22]which when you come to them even if they are muslim you

[47:27]don't do with allah so for example in the opinion of our

[47:32]lama such as ayatollah may allah you'll find that they say to

[47:51]us on the 23rd night of the holy month of ramadan when

[47:53]a person does a hustle which is mustahab for laylat then they

[47:59]do not need to do although okay the hustle which is mustahab

[48:03]for laylatul a person would not need to do well you have

[48:12]for example in the opinions of some of the clearly when they

[48:16]say that that is insufficient a person doesn't need to do it

[48:22]a person does not need to do although they've done that someone

[48:27]asks that what if i had an ear to go and have

[48:36]a shower and when i had that near to go and have

[48:40]the shower for janab okay but when i went inside and had

[48:50]the shower i forgot to do the shower and the tatty before

[48:54]and you'll find that some of the marajas say it's sufficient that

[48:56]before you entered the shower your knee was already what to do

[49:01]i was going to do the rosso love generally okay because sometimes

[49:05]some people what they do is they go into the shower they

[49:09]have a good wash they come back out and you're like i

[49:13]forgot to wash my head and then do the right side and

[49:16]then do the left side and now i've dried up and i've

[49:19]put the gel and the and the you know moisturizer and deodorant

[49:23]and now i have to go go back in there again no

[49:27]no your knee at the beginning was why are you going in

[49:30]for a shower why because of gennady okay and do make sure

[49:36]my dear brothers and sisters that before we get to fajr in

[49:38]the holy month of ramadan do make sure that you have purified

[49:47]yourself before it is too late inshallah accent now this question on

[49:50]death it says salaam alaikum are we allowed to pray for a

[49:55]non-muslim relative during their life and when they have passed away for

[50:00]their forgiveness and their ease in the grave of course of course

[50:02]sometimes muslims have to be less pedantic and have to open up

[50:07]their hearts a person who was not an enemy of the religion

[50:11]a person who was a good human being you see it's different

[50:16]when we're talking about someone who was a mun hypocrite with hate

[50:21]of islam and fighting so that's a different story we talk about

[50:25]the fact that we have converts whose parents are some of the

[50:28]most wonderful people you'll meet really they are godly people on earth

[50:32]yeah they may not recite the kalima they may not be in

[50:36]the massage but i'll tell you what as imam alayhi sallam said

[50:41]give me one of muhammad i'll give you nine or ten of

[50:46]mine believe me the type of people that we have in our

[50:53]communities in some cases negative how do i fight how do i

[50:58]attack who do i slander who's next we have to put down

[51:00]who shall we make a video about next whereas you find some

[51:08]non-muslims such good human beings peaceful and i'm saying non-muslims only because

[51:11]of them not uttering the shahada otherwise the way they are living

[51:17]is the way and many of us saw this when we came

[51:19]here in contrast to where we were before so someone whose non-muslim

[51:25]relatives have passed of course they can recite and inshallah they can

[51:29]be an intercessor for them on the day of judgment now this

[51:33]next general question uh salaam alaikum said i am 27 years 27

[51:38]years old from karachi um i'm really sad because i'm single and

[51:43]i'm asked one say there for marriage who's divorced and six years

[51:46]older than me but she's refusing saying razi you are a non-saiyad

[51:51]my intention was that it's sunnah to marry an elder and divorced

[51:55]but i'm very much unmotivated now kindly guide me yeah don't be

[52:02]unmotivated because of uh relationships you're going to be up and down

[52:07]in the world of relationships you're going to see the best of

[52:10]the best you're going to see moments which are difficult don't my

[52:13]dear brother razzie be feel too deflated there are things which are

[52:17]much worse than a girl saying no no why is she saying

[52:22]no because she says she's a saiyada and you're not that's her

[52:26]own opinion and that is her own want in life maybe if

[52:31]a girl is a saiyada and she wants to marry i say

[52:35]it that's up to her you know why should anyone stop her

[52:38][Music] if you're stopping her as parents because you feel that the

[52:46]boy for example is not right for her that's one thing but

[52:50]if you're stopping her from getting married to him because he's not

[52:55]as say yet and that's your only reason then that's not right

[53:00]that's not a person can go to refer to the maraja and

[53:02]ask them this question go and ask allah bashir and najafi this

[53:07]question that i have someone who is not a saiyan who wants

[53:11]to marry my daughter who it haram if i give my daughter

[53:18]to him and he'll say to you what do you mean is

[53:20]it hara but this person is a shia or a shiite there's

[53:26]no issue and they say but we want to continue the line

[53:29]and lineage and the descendant and the nestle of fatherhood don't worry

[53:34]your lord will look after it you know the kotha will continue

[53:39]forever yeah now this next question is about death uh when you

[53:46]say the dead visit us where do they go and whom do

[53:48]they visit in this case of my home being my father and

[53:52]his wife and kids being in a different place no no different

[53:56]places nothing to worry about they can go anywhere wherever allah wills

[54:01]they are able to visit their family maybe once a week at

[54:09]the minimum once on a friday a week minimum some twice a

[54:11]week some three times a week don't worry about it there are

[54:17]ways in which they will come and visit you can be in

[54:20]dubai you can be in karachi when they get to that stage

[54:22]of bazaar they're chilling to move around everywhere in china they don't

[54:26]need a flight ticket nah they'll be fine okay this next general

[54:30]question says my name is farida i'm from london my question is

[54:34]if i took a loan from someone a long time before and

[54:37]i cannot find them now to return the money oh what what

[54:42]should i do in this case i think we've already answered that

[54:45]yes yeah we have so this next one uh i have read

[54:49]that on the day of judgment any debt we have uh occurred

[54:50]with people can be held against us we might lose our place

[54:53]in jannah another source says only believers can lay such a claim

[54:58]what do you say and know about this topic thank you so

[55:02]much also i have debts with people who have sep who have

[55:05]separated and live around the world i don't have a lot of

[55:08]money or else i'd have paid them back advice s from poland

[55:15]having a debt on one's shoulders is one of the most difficult

[55:22]things anyone can go through there are two types of people one

[55:24]type other type who have a debt but have no intention of

[55:28]paying back yeah and the second type our type who have a

[55:31]debt they want to pay back but the world is just not

[55:35]straightening out for them and things are becoming extremely difficult for them

[55:40]that's where we hope more members of our community can help with

[55:46]that yeah a godly loan to try and help some of these

[55:48]never ever reach a level where you think that i have a

[55:54]debt with some people but you know what because i love the

[55:56]prophet and i love the lil baits and i love the quran

[56:01]then that is going to be enough for me it doesn't matter

[56:03]i don't need to pay anyone back no these have to be

[56:07]sorted out because even the shaheed with his high standing in the

[56:10]eyes of allah if he has a debt it will cause him

[56:13]a difficulty even if he died in the way of allah with

[56:16]a debt it will cause me difficulty the main thing is that

[56:19]you work on trying and sometimes my dear brothers and sisters it's

[56:23]not about if you owe someone a thousand pounds you don't have

[56:26]to give them a lump sum of a thousand give them 50

[56:29]pounds a month and within 20 it's done yeah some people when

[56:35]they owe someone a thousand wait i don't actually have that give

[56:39]50 pounds repay slowly show that there is a need to repay

[56:44]otherwise banza is a problem qiyam has a problem and yes while

[56:51]i have read a tradition where the prophet looks after that which

[56:54]is owed by his followers that is not one to be used

[56:58]as an excuse there are some who use this as an excuse

[57:01]to say well i've read the hadith that the prophet peace be

[57:04]upon his family on the day of judgment he'll look after the

[57:06]jews of his shia no no rasulallah doesn't want us to be

[57:11]people we take people's money what's the longest ayah in the holy

[57:13]quran i'm going to ask you if you know how to answer

[57:19]this then you're going to be loved by millions and if you

[57:21]don't know how to answer this then the whole world will see

[57:24]that you didn't know the answer so i'm not putting you under

[57:28]any pressure yeah but what is the longest ayah the longest verse

[57:34]in the holy quran the cameraman can also jump in if you

[57:38]want it's insurance what's it about who believe if you take a

[58:09]loan or you give a loan for example this should all be

[58:12]written most of our problems bro you know what i'll give it

[58:16]to you next year you come next year and you'll be like

[58:19]you have my money which money is that last year's money yeah

[58:25]but i thought you said when i want i can give it

[58:30]back right get the lawyers involved get someone write everything and try

[58:34]but also on the other hand try and be people who help

[58:39]if i know someone has fallen into dire straits i should try

[58:42]and help yeah and sadly in the muslim world the ones who

[58:46]can help don't we are out of time we will continue with

[58:55]more general questions and answers tomorrow inshallah we'll continue with the general

[58:59]question and answers do keep your questions coming in we're trying to

[59:01]answer all of them and uh inshallah we will be joined by

[59:07]dr said ahmad shawani and his honorable presence uh on imam hussain

[59:10]tv tomorrow same time 7 30 uk time was allah [Music] [Music]

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