End The Pessimism - Sheikh Aous Asfar - Ramadhan Night 14

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End The Pessimism Ramadan Night Fourteen Sheikh Aous Asfar Muslim Youth Connection Ramadhan 2019

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[0:06]solo allah muhammad ali muhammad salam o aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

[0:18]i'd like to welcome you all to tonight's program presented by the

[0:23]m.i.c the first i'd like to welcome to the podium Mojtaba alpha

[0:28]lady anna's recitation of the para ver de Sol LeWitt allah muhammad

[0:32]wa ala muhammad Muhammad's Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Muhammad Ali Mohammed

[1:03]it's a little bit out building you're gonna shave on your ID

[1:24][Music] why did you Lumpur don't wanna be covered who see movie

[2:20]either one's a hater don't be [Music] [Applause] my Hey [Music] [Music]

[4:16][Music] come on Oh oh you mean me [Music] [Laughter] [Music] ha

[6:00]ha ha ha ha ha ha slide the slide up on Lonnie

[6:49]you lowly alpha squad along Hamid very much thank you brother much

[7:11]stuff for that lovely recitation I have just a few announcements before

[7:15]I welcome to MasterChef to the podium the first announcement is that

[7:20]we are having a our annual summer retreat June 27th through the

[7:24]30th so if you would like to register we will be doing

[7:28]that after the program and before the program at the m.i.c table

[7:32]found in the main hall also we are partnering up with local

[7:40]high school dear one hi to collect to collect toys for the

[7:43]underprivileged and they are found in the main lobby as well we

[7:46]are also partnering up with the manatee nation for a food drive

[7:53]during the month of Ramadan and with that I would like to

[7:55]welcome some artists chef also as far by the salat allah muhammad

[8:00]wa ala muhammad shall not everybody stole this is up to my

[8:11]forehead Salah Muhammad Ali Mohammed second time for the love of Allah

[8:21]Muhammad Hassan and an imam husain a third time for the love

[8:31]of lady fatima with the loudest of voices Villa of Minerva FEMA

[8:39]salat wa salam ala sayyidal mursaleen habib allah al al-amin I will

[8:44]consummate most of Mohammed voila our ability beam up our Deen alladhina

[8:50]at hub allahu anhu marritza what a Haram taught here oh well

[8:59]Lana to the immaterial Everdeen min and and Allah I am a

[9:06]young me Dean rubbish roughly Sadri Westerley embryo determine listening of Kabu

[9:12]Kabu par allahu taala Vicky tava Hill Kerry McCauley Hood Huck allah

[9:17]subhanaw taala states in the chapter of a ballad and what he

[9:21]says is the truth bismillah r-rahman r-rahim la patrulla panel in Sanofi

[9:28]cupboard allah subhanaw taala in this verse he says surely we have

[9:32]created man and brought him in a state of hardship and into

[9:39]hardship so Decalogue are you now theme amman aval assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

[9:44]so in the last few nights we were trying to understand life

[9:53]trying to set goals trying to have some self-awareness trying to understand

[9:57]this life and what it is that allah subhanaw taala expects of

[10:00]us how is it that he wants us to be and what

[10:04]is it that I can do to be as he wants me

[10:07]to be I realized that the most important reason for my existence

[10:10]is truly to show gratitude and please Allah Almighty my Creator the

[10:18]unlimited I realized that he is everywhere and that he sees all

[10:22]things I realize that there's no escaping from Allah if I escape

[10:26]from him I am escaping to him there's nowhere to go but

[10:32]to be in his presence and therefore I understand the gravity and

[10:36]the importance of showing gratitude to him and doing it actively and

[10:40]understanding that that choice that he gave me is the greatest power

[10:47]that I have the power to choose him the power to do

[10:52]things for him the power to realize that he is there watching

[11:00]me before I make any choice but we also realize that there

[11:03]are challenges that he will place in our way he won't make

[11:05]it easy for us to choose him and the reason why is

[11:10]because he wants to see who the overachievers are and who the

[11:12]slackers are and I know and I've made that decision that I

[11:19]will no longer be a slacker I've made the decision that I

[11:23]don't want be left behind I've made the decision that the only

[11:29]way that I won't be left behind is if I'm the one

[11:31]that's running in the forefront and trying to find out what it

[11:36]is that he wants of me and so that's what we've been

[11:37]doing but we realized that as we face these challenges that these

[11:42]challenges cause us struggle and struggle causes us pain and we realize

[11:47]that this pain and the struggle is temporary just like everything else

[11:52]in this life and just like any hurdle all I have to

[11:54]do is jump over it and then surely there may be a

[11:58]higher hurdle but because I've been practicing so hard even if I

[12:01]fall on my face once twice three times or more it doesn't

[12:07]matter I'm going to get right back up and I'm going to

[12:09]remind myself that it was Allah Almighty who chose for me to

[12:14]exist and he deemed me worthy of this test and that he

[12:16]would not burden me with more than I can handle and so

[12:21]brother Mustafa I know that whatever he places in my way that

[12:27]that is truly something that I can handle I just have to

[12:29]believe in it so I engage in that positive self-talk whatever it

[12:33]may be whether it's the death of a lot of a loved

[12:39]one or a sickness such as cancer or failing an exam and

[12:46]realizing honestly that I didn't do half of what I should have

[12:49]done I just procrastinated and I really should have applied myself and

[12:52]I hate to admit that my parents are right but I just

[12:57]need to apply myself but that choice has to come from me

[12:59]nobody else can force me to make that choice Solana Muhammad but

[13:16]I come to a point as I am living the day-to-day life

[13:22]and monitoring myself before I make any decision taking that bird's-eye view

[13:28]of my life and how things are going in it I realize

[13:35]that sometimes I can become disenchanted and that disenchantment with life can

[13:40]lead me to a state of depression and we talked about that

[13:43]yesterday but one thing I have to realize before I go into

[13:46]anything whether it's an exam or whether it's a job is that

[13:53]there are always requirements for me to pass an exam and there

[13:56]are always requirements for any job that I take and there are

[14:01]always required requirements when I apply to a university for me to

[14:04]get accepted and there are always requirements for if I am eligible

[14:07]to get a scholarship or whether it truly I deserve the scholarship

[14:12]and I'm actually granted that money right I recognize that this disenchantment

[14:19]this state that I feel when I feel that I have given

[14:23]a lot and yet still I'm not getting back what i should

[14:25]receive from Allah Almighty are they concerned I realize that that's something

[14:32]that can happen to me and may be happening to me and

[14:36]I need a solution for that because we found solutions for everything

[14:39]else we dealt with issues such as struggle we dealt with issues

[14:45]of depression we dealt with many other issues of goal-setting and self-awareness

[14:48]and lack thereof and how to deal with it and planning my

[14:53]day and what about infallibility it's impossible and we said no it's

[14:57]not not if we break down our day into thirds not if

[15:00]after each Salah we make duaa to Allah Almighty and we ask

[15:07]him to do what to immunize us and we say what ya

[15:12]Mossler centum which means what Oh mender of all things do what

[15:19]to me mend me fix me what's the other name of Allah

[15:25]we said we'd ask bye yeah al Samar centum and what does

[15:28]that mean Oh protector right what do I ask him to do

[15:34]to protect me from falling into sin if I do that three

[15:41]times a day and I monitor myself and I remember a loss

[15:46]of Hana to Allah before sunrise before sunset in the middle of

[15:50]the night at the ends of the day then even if I'm

[15:56]working from the outside in just saying it with my tongue that

[15:59]that truly is practice and that if I monitor myself after Salah

[16:01]as I'm moving into this that second third and third third of

[16:06]the day I have more to fear from allah subhanaw taala to

[16:09]be able to not fall into sin to be able to fix

[16:14]my errors and we said fixing your errors as as easy as

[16:18]turning on the lights of your heart and we said how are

[16:20]we going to turn those lights on we're gonna shake it up

[16:24]a centum how are we gonna shake our heart we said what

[16:29]do we have to do what do we have to do what

[16:31]do we have to do I can't hear you altogether what do

[16:35]we have to do good deeds exactly I sent them but sometimes

[16:39]I feel like I've done so many good deeds and I'm just

[16:43]not getting a response I'm not seeing their metaphysical effect of my

[16:48]deeds and this is what surah till Ballard is talking about the

[16:55]verses that brother Mustafa recited for us now yesterday we ended by

[17:00]saying by explaining some of selected ballad and today what I want

[17:03]for us in these first two weeks at the very least is

[17:07]to be able to say we finished not only reciting one chapter

[17:11]but also of doing the TV seal the exegesis of one's chapter

[17:15]and I want you to see the value of this I told

[17:18]you the reason why I'm sharing this chapter with you specifically is

[17:21]because of the fact that I had reached the point at one

[17:26]point in my life where I was feeling I wasn't seeing the

[17:32]metaphysical effects of my deeds and I was asked to actually teach

[17:36]one of these chapters and I opened up the Holy Quran after

[17:42]asking Allah to guide me and I found this chapter of abetted

[17:44]in front of me and as I read it and read it

[17:48]stuff sere it changed my life because you see once you understand

[17:52]what your standing up against and what is expected of you then

[17:58]the challenge becomes easier right like if I'm running the 100-meter hurdles

[18:02]okay which I used to do and all of these right I

[18:07]understand how high the hurdles are I understand the distance that I

[18:13]have to travel so I constantly practice on my form right and

[18:17]as long as I know what time I need to hit I

[18:21]set that goal and I practice over and over and I do

[18:25]all the conditioning that I need to do right and that's what

[18:27]we need to understand what are the hurdles what is expected of

[18:33]me right so allah subhanaw taala he tells me in this chapter

[18:37]after he swears by mecca by this land that he has made

[18:42]open for the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to take after he

[18:48]swears we said by the parent and the child that he brings

[18:52]to this world Allah says loveth jalapeno listen if he cometh and

[19:00]that's where we finished off yesterday surely we have created mankind and

[19:04]brought them into hardship and we said there's this hardship that this

[19:08]mother has to go through for nine months until she brings this

[19:11]child into this world and when the child comes out of the

[19:16]birth canal there's a possibility that that child might not breathe that

[19:20]that child might actually die in the birth canal and when that

[19:22]child comes out and they're all purple and they're not breathing we

[19:28]said someone from the outside has to give them a nice smack

[19:32]on the behind so that they can breathe and scream out and

[19:38]say I'm here a world right we need to understand that to

[19:42]come into a situation where life is about to change for you

[19:48]it's not going to be easy sometimes but if I understand what

[19:52]these challenges are like Allah mentioned to us in that one chapter

[19:55]if you recall where he says to us and surely we will

[20:00]try you with what be shaitan minute half with fear right well

[20:05]joy and hunger Wanek Salmonella moly well unfussy a thumb rot right

[20:09]and a deficiency in your wealth and in your health and in

[20:15]your business right then he says what should of suffering give glad

[20:18]tidings to those who are patients but you say shares now how

[20:20]am I going to be patient he says alladhina Asafa Thomas Overton

[20:24]Paulo and Natalie when I imagine that when they're faced with the

[20:27]calamity they say surely we are from Elan - he was shall

[20:31]return and if I do so Allah says Allah Akala him salawatu

[20:33]Marah be more howl a camel multi dune Allah says surely those

[20:36]if they do this if they are patient by remembering that they

[20:40]are from Allah - he they shall return in times of calamity

[20:43]then what will happen Allah will pray will praise them just like

[20:48]he prays he praised his prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so we

[20:52]can reach that level and then we'll be labeled of those who

[20:57]are righteously guided but share - now what about in times that

[21:00]are times of calamity right because you might read that ver does

[21:04]verses and you might say well Allah is talking about times of

[21:07]calamity but what about other times and this is what we want

[21:11]to talk about today right really it's about testing your faith and

[21:15]understanding where you are that's really what it's about so it is

[21:22]Allah say here after he says left that - Ellen Sanofi Kevin

[21:24]he says a yahoo and lucky raha lahia hut and verse number

[21:33]5 does he think that nobody is better than him does he

[21:36]think that because of all the things that he's done that he

[21:40]has followed all the commandments I've given him that there's nowhere no

[21:44]one better than him notice Allah here he's pointing something really essential

[21:48]for us to understand and that's that you're never done working on

[21:56]yourself you should not be satisfied with where you are even if

[22:00]you think you've reached levels there's still more levels to reach this

[22:04]is a response to a man who said I've given but more

[22:11]do you want from me I've given so he says yep you

[22:13]know I had left to man and nobody he says I gave

[22:17]from all of my wealth I gave what do you want from

[22:23]me it's almost like we're holding a favour over a lot ahead

[22:26]because we gave because we came to Islam because we studied a

[22:32]little maybe in the house' or studied or went for xiana or

[22:34]went to add value right or that we came to the mosque

[22:39]like I'm doing what I need to do I don't feel that

[22:42]I need to do enough I think what I've done is enough

[22:43]I remember when I was younger and I would go and work

[22:47]for local charities and I would go sell flowers for charities door-to-door

[22:51]and then I hear people say to me this after they opened

[22:55]the door oh it's for a local charity that's fine I've already

[22:59]given to my charity as though they've reached the level of sufficiency

[23:03]a head left to Milan Luba de I gave all I could

[23:09]what does Allah say Allah says Allah said and let me Allah

[23:12]who I had does he think that no one sees him when

[23:17]he gives a lot sees everything if my goal is always to

[23:27]be better right to improve myself to show my allegiance to my

[23:32]Creator my love to my Creator then it's just like when two

[23:38]people are in love [Music] what happens the unmanned no matter what

[23:49]he does it's not enough no I'm gonna get her flowers and

[23:52]I'm gonna get her you know ring and I'm gonna get her

[23:56]two rings no I'm gonna get her a necklace too and I'm

[23:57]you know and I'm gonna take her everywhere I'm gonna take her

[24:02]all over the world what can I do to please you my

[24:03]beloved right and of course she's like oh my god I love

[24:08]him so much right I don't know what I'm gonna do with

[24:10]myself I'm about to burst I love him so much right I

[24:13]don't know what to do for him right I never cooked it

[24:18]before but now I feel like I need to cook right I

[24:22]go ask his mom you know he'll toe what is his favorite

[24:24]food don't worry about it yet and they'll do it for you

[24:29]right the mom is setting her boundaries right no no faster please

[24:31]I really want to learn and she starts begging please teach me

[24:36]tell me what what's his favorite color you know he told me

[24:40]it's pink but I'm not convinced right tell me all about him

[24:45]I want to know all about him she talks to him he

[24:48]tells her all about something she's like no I want to know

[24:51]more I feel like I don't know him enough because she loves

[24:53]him so much is my relationship like that with the unlimited who

[25:00]brought me do I want to know constantly more about him have

[25:03]I really done enough to know him have I really done enough

[25:09]to love him and care for him and show him how appreciative

[25:13]I am I ask myself that question all the time every day

[25:22]is my relationship with a limited human being stronger than my relationship

[25:28]with Allah something to really ponder over if we take just five

[25:40]minutes maybe even 30 seconds out of the day set a time

[25:51]stop think pondered constantly do I know a llama do I love

[25:57]him like I love other things you know what I want to

[26:04]buy a car what do I do I get on all the

[26:07]car websites right I spend hours on the computer right when the

[26:15]sisters want to buy a dress they go to every single website

[26:19]two three four days maybe why I got to get the best

[26:21]dress for the wedding right say I ask myself do I do

[26:33]that when I want to learn about Allah do I go through

[26:37]all the different books and resources to try to find out about

[26:41]the swamp topic that's important for me to graduate from this life

[26:46]I don't and it makes me sent because I'm not doing enough

[26:58]what am I gonna wake up is this thing gonna get shaken

[27:02]up if in the month of ramadhan that's part time I sit

[27:09]and I watch a basketball game this is wrong with this heart

[27:12]if the only thing I can think about once it's time for

[27:20]F Bob is in prayer I don't go pray I say yeah

[27:22]there's collage there's a pie if there's a by gene there's men's

[27:32]earth Oh what happens I lose sight of why I fasted I

[27:35]fasted for the food not to thank Allah in prayer right when

[27:42]the Adhan happens I'm not talking about you I'm talking about me

[27:52]what am i doing you have to ask yourself that question what

[28:00]am i doing when I sit in that gathering I was just

[28:03]out of gathering a few minutes ago before I came i sat

[28:07]there and I was listening people were talking about the history of

[28:11]food history of food then they brought it all the way back

[28:19]to Genghis Khan and how the modern kebab really comes from what

[28:23]this is the month of Ramadan why are we talking about food

[28:38]the hey because that's what we're excited on right because we don't

[28:46]have it for though all those hours of the day but I

[28:50]think about amid in what many in cinema my auntie when his

[28:56]daughter brings him food and she says to him I took a

[29:01]Damini Damini but Bob Upton wafak do you give me two platters

[29:05]of food in one plate take one back take on Zach he

[29:11]says for he he says he says H or Adina Abu Lahab

[29:18]ophea Ramallah he Omar Khayyam do you want me to stand and

[29:23]be judged before Allah you want that time of judgment to be

[29:27]prolonged for surely those who care for food more than a loss

[29:29]of ha note Allah will stand for a long time before Allah

[29:36]being judged that hits me every time say why can't I be

[29:42]like that why can't I be like that so it does Allah

[29:52]say he says look to see what your problem is is this

[29:55]you think you've done enough that you haven't because you think you've

[29:59]done enough you get distracted so he says don't get distracted don't

[30:04]think you did enough don't say I left to my land nobody

[30:09]that God didn't see me I did this and I did that

[30:11]you know what Allah says then he says after he says oh

[30:17]yeah Sabourin lemare oh ha ha does he think that no one

[30:22]sees him cuz you're not doing it for other people to see

[30:24]you you're doing it for a lot to see you and if

[30:26]you're doing it for a lot to see you then you constantly

[30:30]have to be doing Hajj a bright constantly constantly constantly so what

[30:36]does he say he says hello hi name did we not give

[30:39]him these very two eyes with which he sees opportunities when he

[30:46]said and worship attained and we gave him this tongue and these

[30:50]two lips so that he can talk up a storm and strike

[30:56]deals and make money and buy food and buy houses and buy

[31:01]cars these very two eyes with which he's going to affect his

[31:11]heart he's very tongue with which this very tongue and these very

[31:14]lips with which he can change the world to a positive or

[31:21]to the negative says what do you know about these two blessings

[31:24]that I've given you if you haven't used them and every faculty

[31:28]that I've given you in the way of Allah you know what

[31:32]he says then he says and also well had they known that

[31:35]name I gave you these blessings but I guided you to the

[31:40]two paths there's a path that's called the psaropoulos terpene a path

[31:46]that will bring you closer to allah and a path of corruption

[31:50]in Naha Dana was Sevilla in masharoun Oaxaca fora and surveillance on

[31:56]right Allah says we guided them to the straight path either he

[31:59]is thankful and either he is disbelieving and unthankful then what does

[32:03]he say he says let me explain to you what it means

[32:08]to be on this path he says fella ahahaha he needs to

[32:14]break through for sure he needs to break through this thing called

[32:18]the lapa do you know what l acabas you ever seen those

[32:24]movies where you see the fighter jet right going between two mountains

[32:29]in an escape maneuver what does it do it goes sideways and

[32:35]it goes through the tight the tightest of regions between two mountains

[32:39]right that tight region between two mountains is called a lava so

[32:44]he says you're not going to know what it means to serve

[32:50]me the way I want you to serve me until you can

[32:52]break through the tightest of spots just like you would break through

[33:00]two mountains and the tightest of areas between them and he says

[33:04]well ma de la cama Lochaber and what do you know of

[33:06]how hard it is for you to break through this he says

[33:12]other you have to break your neck say to be and I

[33:18]thought I found was cool and fine and you know things were

[33:20]hunky-dory and I was going on my path now you're scaring me

[33:26]no once you get to high levels and playing xbox and playstation

[33:29]does it get harder or not passing to the point where you

[33:36]feel like you're gonna explode right so why would you do that

[33:40]for PlayStation and for Sony and and for Xbox and Microsoft and

[33:43]not do it for your Lord right brother Shamus why who's more

[33:56]worthy what has more meaning right I remember having a conversation with

[34:00]brother Muhammad Abdul Rauf used to play with the Denver Nuggets we

[34:04]were at Camp Baja and he has Tourette's syndrome and he said

[34:08]you know every day I would go into the gym and train

[34:11]and train and train I practice my dribble over and over in

[34:16]my shot over and over and if I missed I wouldn't stop

[34:18]I'd go back again and do it over and over and over

[34:22]until I felt like I was gonna die I couldn't stop until

[34:27]I got it perfect you know when I was listening to him

[34:30]Wow am i doing that with my team do I do that

[34:39]with my diene with my religion with my beliefs why don't I

[34:44]do that why is it easy for me to do in basketball

[34:47]and in soccer and in baseball and with PlayStation and Xbox but

[34:54]it's not that easy for me to do with Quran and hadith

[34:57]and Salah and being nice to my parents and coming to the

[35:06]moscone going to Hauser or going to Islamic classes and trying to

[35:10]learn and better myself why do I spend hours on YouTube on

[35:17]frivolous things that have no meaning when I could just as well

[35:21]spend that time gaining knowledge using the same platform what is wrong

[35:28]with this heart that's what I say to myself so he says

[35:39]no matter the rock Emma laughter man what do you know of

[35:47]this hurdle that you have to surpass it's a breaking of your

[35:52]neck then he says or you gotta shake it up you gotta

[36:01]shake that heart up pieces you know how oh he says or

[36:04]if Hanuman feel manly Masada you want to know how strong your

[36:10]iman is you want to know whether really you did enough or

[36:12]not you see it's easy to give one you have but when

[36:18]you don't have or you still give he says you know what

[36:21]that Sakuraba means let me break the code for your losses it's

[36:29]shaking of your heart when you need that money the most you

[36:31]don't use it you give it to those who are in need

[36:36]you feed those who are in need when you have that last

[36:42]dollar you have so much faith in Allah that you say Allah

[36:45]will grant me here-take can I do that when I know I

[36:54]need that money can I still give and believe in my heart

[36:57]that Allah will repay me Iran jafra Sadr Taliesin and there's a

[37:06]beautiful hadith on on caffeine also mentioned in Malaysia in a Bob

[37:11]jihad in Neffs in the chapters on jihad in Neffs vol 15

[37:17]and 16 he says something really beautiful he says when you do

[37:22]something for the sake of Allah you have to do it believing

[37:26]that Allah will respond right away it's when you do that you

[37:34]know in your heart you have complete Teleca on the line Allah

[37:38]will grant you right away he will grant you what you wish

[37:44]right away a woman comes to in the very same chapter a

[37:49]woman comes to the imam side of Sanaa Malaya she says 10

[37:53]she says my son has been away for a year and I

[37:58]want him to come back could you give me some hamon something

[38:03]that I could do to make him come back to me he

[38:07]says to her old lady go back home doo doo ha and

[38:12]wait for your son she comes back a year later two years

[38:15]have passed now she says damn Oh son of the Messenger of

[38:23]Allah my son has not come back yet is there some Hammond

[38:25]that I can do some deed sister go back to your home

[38:31]and do Doha third year passes she comes to the Imam he

[38:34]says to her what level have you reached now she says I

[38:41]feel like there's not anything else that I can do please give

[38:44]me some deed he said you see that level that you just

[38:49]reached now I want you to go home and onion we make

[38:55]jihad to allah subhanaw taala and believe in your heart that he

[39:00]will respond right away and she went home and she saw her

[39:02]son waiting for her at the door nebula are you great example

[39:12]right Allah didn't test him for him he's tested him for us

[39:15]and for those around him to see the patience of the prophets

[39:22]prophet are you he was patient he was so patient until he

[39:26]became a leper right until he reached the point where finally he

[39:31]said o Allah have I done enough and then Allah brought the

[39:40]spring of life that point when you say have I done enough

[39:45]but you don't say it in a manner where you say God

[39:46]have done enough why why are you doing this to me if

[39:52]you say that that means there's more work to do more work

[39:56]to do so what does he say here he says o a

[40:00]Bahaman Fionna and deem as a feather he says or feeding on

[40:07]a day when you don't have anything your team and amak robbing

[40:12]an orphan who is related to you start with someone who is

[40:18]related to you and start with an orphan you know masha'Allah we

[40:26]have two boots outside to take care of orphans pick one align

[40:31]Social Care Foundation has this beautiful project where you can give $20

[40:35]a share they're working on building a hotel and Carmela that is

[40:41]13 floors and that Hotel all the money that comes from those

[40:49]who rent those rooms is going to go towards sponsoring orphans 3016

[40:54]orphans we don't have an excuse the boots are right out there

[40:59]one right next to the door one after pick one Oh a

[41:10]bomb on film in the Masada you teamand Amitabha only Skeen and

[41:17]the lava he says look for those people who are so impoverished

[41:21]that their face and the earth has become one they're so tired

[41:27]and downtrodden they can't even get up from them from the thirst

[41:36]and from the hunger and you see them on TV all the

[41:42]time right say oh well someone else will do it someone else

[41:45]will do it and the next person says someone else will do

[41:50]it the next person says someone else will do it someone else

[41:54]will do it I'll do it later the Prophet says I fear

[41:59]for you from two things Allah follicle minimal ain t bottle halwa

[42:03]what Buddha lemon I fear for you from two things following your

[42:07]whim and we discussed that how dangerous that is right what Duvall

[42:12]halwa f1t bahawa following your whim what bull and Emin and procrastination

[42:18]I'll do it later someone else will do it I'll get to

[42:22]it at this week tomorrow tomorrow I'll stop gorging when it's time

[42:26]for a stuff tomorrow job today is an exception right tomorrow I

[42:31]won't have a heavy stroll in sha allah but today is an

[42:37]exception today I'll have one leg of lamb please right why he

[42:45]says I am Madiba el-hawa FeO sadhana hawk as for following your

[42:50]winds it blocks you from seeing the truth and following it well

[42:56]I'm not Lululemon and asked for procrastination fancy makes you forget the

[43:03]end goal remember we said begin with the end in mind that

[43:05]makes you forget it completely think about when you're prepping for an

[43:11]exam right what happens when you're prepping for an exam two months

[43:15]before you like I'm gonna start early right the month passes you're

[43:18]like okay I just have a month I haven't started but I'm

[43:21]going to do it now a week passes like now I haven't

[43:25]started yet but I will I will tomorrow right he'll laugh II

[43:28]saw her on the Chevy but the is her mom want to

[43:34]go for a settler she about Bahrain gonna plow er tomorrow tomorrow

[43:39]tomorrow never comes the after that never comes they are next thing

[43:46]you know right it's two nights before and you're like well you

[43:48]know before it was I'm gonna get an A now it was

[43:52]like well if I get a B a night before he like

[43:55]well if I get a C make me see - I'm still

[43:55]passing right then the day comes and you're like oh my god

[44:01]what have I done can I defer this exam what am I

[44:06]gonna say to Allah Roger Oh Lonnie I'm a loss Allah Allah

[44:09]says in the chapter of Aylan mommy noon verses 99 100 Oh

[44:15]al I say to him please let me return lest I do

[44:22]better I become more righteous you know Allah says to us he

[44:28]says g'yahhhh and now Kelly matan ruak Allah says no you had

[44:33]your chance there's no going back how are you gonna be that

[44:42]guy and what you better help me I need all the help

[44:48]I can get okay Yusuf can you tell I'm worried about myself

[44:55]Oh miss Keene and Amitabha now Allah tells us he says look

[45:06]if you do all of this if you take care of these

[45:10]people look at the beautiful formula right find an orphan find the

[45:14]people find a person who is impoverished okay help them help them

[45:18]on the day especially when you feel that you need it most

[45:22]it's a formula remember how I told you about these cheat codes

[45:26]right it's a key just like Doha just like connecting with your

[45:30]near of kin these are keys that open up doorways of prosperity

[45:37]of Iman they unlock that plateau that you've hid right because when

[45:41]you hit a plateau what do you have to do you have

[45:46]to change it up right so it does Allah say here he

[45:48]says fill McKenna then he will become I mean I let in

[45:54]a nominal from those who believe what Allah so Allah says and

[45:57]notice he uses the plural just like in surah tell us what

[46:04]Allah saw plural and they are the ones who willingly remind each

[46:09]other the sub so I need you to remind me brother Yousef

[46:16]rather than which tab I need you to remind me brother honey

[46:20]you have to remind me that's your job that's your social responsibility

[46:24]but mom you have to remind me of what Allah wants of

[46:31]me you have to remind me to be patient your honor an

[46:34]Alexa you have to that's your social responsibility if you want to

[46:40]be a believer you have to be much my training partner and

[46:44]I have to be yours it's not a it's not a I

[46:49]will become a woman without my community no it's a condition that

[46:52]Allah has given us to be true believers you have to be

[46:56]part of a community community that supports each other that lifts each

[47:00]other so that we can rise up and transcend some economy and

[47:07]levena armed annuity' Wasel the Sabri rattle also bill Mohammed not just

[47:13]patients they show each other mercy to remind each other of Allah's

[47:17]mercy Allah because Hubble a manner you want to know who are

[47:24]those that come to Allah with their book of Deeds in their

[47:28]right hand those are the ones that's the formula and then what

[47:34]does he say he says will ladina Cafaro be a attina and

[47:39]those who disbelieve in our signs who are they oh yeah Icarus

[47:43]Hubble mesh and man those are the pessimists the ones that engage

[47:47]in negative self-talk those are the ones that when you sit and

[47:50]talk to them and tell them about your ends your aspirations and

[47:55]what you want to be when you grow up how you want

[47:59]to come closer to Allah how you want to achieve more in

[48:01]your life they put you down they tell you how come on

[48:04]we're not infallible they were infallible hey that was a mama jawad

[48:10]like any mom any mission Imam dr.

[48:14]Lee mama Johanna mama Jo our children chattering neo said mister you

[48:18]want me to be like him why did Allah give us examples

[48:23]then if it's unachievable then that would be unfair that would be

[48:28]unjust but it is achievable and if I don't see it as

[48:30]being achievable then I become a pessimist and if I'm a pessimist

[48:36]that I'm a disbeliever at least Co photography that's hidden disbelief do

[48:43]I fall into that every time I see a good opportunity to

[48:46]become a better person do I say not now it's not the

[48:54]right time not me someone else because then I would be a

[48:57]pessimist or I look at someone doing something good then I say

[49:00]that could be better I always a nitpick nitpick checking it's okay

[49:05]we want to perfect things yes but not everything when someone does

[49:09]something you're going to pick well your son did great in school

[49:14]yeah but he got that one be you know and you make

[49:20]him miserable or your daughter got an a-minus she didn't get an

[49:23]A McCullough's it's the end of the world and she feels bad

[49:30]and angry and the man you didn't say anything all you said

[49:36]was hmm an a-minus she gets all ticked off and all now

[49:42]she can think about is how you said an a-minus why she

[49:47]wasn't good enough for you why aren't our children good enough for

[49:51]us why our brothers are not good enough for us why why

[49:56]aren't they good enough first they're good enough for Allah why can't

[50:01]I encourage them by being patient and reminding them to be patient

[50:04]and that you can still grow and become better why can't I

[50:08]just remind them and say to them you know what Allah is

[50:11]merciful be merciful on yourself don't burden yourself you'll do better next

[50:14]time and I'll do whatever is in my power to help you

[50:19]why don't I do that why do I fall into the pessimism

[50:21]because you see being a pessimist is dangerous in the Quran if

[50:26]you're a pessimist you're attentive not to a disbeliever that's very powerful

[50:36]and painful to think about you know why because after that know

[50:42]what Allah says he says I lay him not on what soda

[50:46]he says upon them is a fire that will follow them wherever

[50:51]they go they won't be able to run away from it just

[50:53]like they keep putting people down then they're gonna go down too

[50:59]don't be that person I don't want to be that person to

[51:07]you I asked that allah subhanaw taala allows us to improve ourselves

[51:10]in these remaining nights I asked that allah subhanaw taala allows us

[51:16]to see all of these rights that he has asked of us

[51:21]to fulfill in this holy month of Ramadan I had the honor

[51:26]and the pleasure of spending my nights with you of going through

[51:30]my thought process and how it is that I came closer to

[51:36]allah subhanaw taala and all the research that i was able to

[51:40]do to try to understand where it is that I fit in

[51:47]this world I asked that allah subhanaw taala allows all of us

[51:51]to realize in this month of fasting how important it is to

[51:59]improve our conversation with ourselves with our community with those closest to

[52:04]us and with Allah Almighty who is the closest that anybody could

[52:08]beat us I asked for your doha in these remaining nights you

[52:13]will all be in mine and I thank you for bringing me

[52:17]into your hearts and into your intellects I'm truly honored aadhavan from

[52:21]the lillahi rabbil alameen or salat wa salam ala sayyidal mursaleen habib

[52:25]allah Hanuman Bill Carson and Mustafa Muhammad Allah elevated by Abena Padrino

[52:30]al fatiha Allah are walking upon me a little chilly Farage Allah

[52:36]Allah al aliy in Muskoka tell me shorten the Salafi Allah Muhammad

[52:42]Muhammad SAW so I met with that we conclude our nightly program

[52:59]I would like to give a special thanks to some octa share

[53:03]of us fault for being here every night and give enlightening loss

[53:07]with this great knowledge and inshallah we will see you tomorrow for

[53:11]our nightly program solo allah muhammad wa ala muhammad

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