Dhul-Qarnayn Series - Sheikh Dr. Usama Al-Attar - 2017 Ramadan Night 27

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[0:00]I thought I was gonna see more maple leaf jerseys tonight in

[0:16]Charlotte you know miss Miller rahmanir rahim al hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen

[0:24]bob Alcala ajma'in Barthelemy huh ul mousseline from isola to assalam o

[0:33]Allah Shah aalam BIA was a Idol mousseline Habibi yalla yalla mean

[0:39]al Mustafa a bullosa me Muhammad you we'll cover them from the

[4:29]Sun maybe they did not even have clothes get to that understanding

[4:33]where they could develop houses they develop shelters they develop laws etc

[4:40]etc and we said something which is important in order to make

[4:44]nation independence you have to teach them and that's apparently what though

[4:48]there are a couple of very important points also to learn from

[4:55]these two stories his trip to the West and his trip to

[5:00]the east just before I go on brothers and sisters the Holy

[5:03]Koran tells us if a lion to the baboon al-quran to people

[5:07]not reflect upon the Quran you see how many lessons we've been

[5:11]deriving from these verses remember what I said a few nights ago

[5:17]I said the Quran the beautiful thing about it when it gives

[5:20]us examples they're real real people real examples if we sit down

[5:25]and think a little bit about how great these people are these

[5:29]great these personalities are we can derive so many lessons and to

[5:33]be honest with you we're still at the tip of the iceberg

[5:36]imagine if we were to go over the whole surah at calf

[5:41]how many days would that take us to discuss the entire surah

[5:47]and in detail in depth as we're doing for example although we're

[5:50]not even going in depth you know touching here and there but

[5:54]the Quran contains so much knowledge so much knowledge that's why Allah

[6:01]subhana WA Ta'ala says in the holy quran ma'fucker grotto now fill

[6:06]kitabi which men'she we did not leave anything out of this book

[6:09]everything is contained in this book the problem is of course we

[6:12]don't understand this book you know I give an analogy sometimes to

[6:19]people because just an analogy imagine if you have a fourth year

[6:23]book of medicine that's taught at the University for like medical students

[6:27]in their fourth year you give that book to somebody who has

[6:30]just finished in high school and you tell them here read this

[6:35]book they might go through the first couple pages and say I

[6:37]don't understand this language just as an analogy that's how it is

[6:44]with the Quran the Quran has all this wealth of knowledge but

[6:46]it needs those who can understand it and those are a little

[6:50]beta alayhi wasallam that's why the quran tells us fest LOL a

[6:55]vicar as the people of the Quran and who I will become

[6:57]a little beta Allah him Acela they're the ones from Allah purified

[7:01]from them we learn these beautiful meanings of the Quran and that's

[7:10]why imam musa alayhis salam says i know of what happened in

[7:13]the past and what will happen on the future and i know

[7:18]of what is in the heavens and what is on the earth

[7:20]and i know of what is in the Hellfire and what's in

[7:26]the paradise when his companions said yep nagas Ollila how do you

[7:30]know all this information he says from the holy allah or on

[7:34]says ma farratna fi l-kitabi min shay'in' not leave anything out of

[7:37]this book the book contains everything but we are the ones who

[7:40]understand what the book talks about and that's what the Quran also

[7:47]says bismillah r-rahman r-rahim fika table in McNown la ma su who

[7:52]ll maha own it's in a hidden book referring to the Quran

[7:55]it's in a hidden book that is not discovered except by those

[8:02]who are purified with a home and who are the purified ones

[8:05]well you guys know the eye off top here in the Quran

[8:11]verse 33 chapter 33 remember that 33 33 you got to remember

[8:15]that verse enema you read hola leo de barranco mo grids al

[8:21]Bayt well he become top here ah surely allah who wants to

[8:24]remove all impurities away from you a little bait and purify you

[8:30]a thorough purification and according to a hadith in sahih muslim so

[8:36]he Muslim is one of the major sunni books of hadith in

[8:40]that SIA and that book a major Sunni text there is a

[8:46]hadith narrated by the prophets wife omean Ayesha Ayesha herself says the

[8:52]prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ali took Imam Ali under his eye by

[8:57]here the abaya like this he took Imam Ali underneath it and

[9:00]then Fatima Hasan and Husayn and he was of course with them

[9:03]and he led the iana mridula nudibranch Amogh little l-bayt wahewa coat

[9:11]doctor here are allow us to remove all impurities away from you

[9:14]ll bait and purify you a thorough purification so who are a

[9:19]little bait huh who are a little bit according to this hadith

[9:26]the Prophet sallallaahu you are a man Ali Allah's Salam fatima alehissalaam

[9:29]Hasan and Husayn salam ala ala him and of course from other

[9:33]hadeeth we also understand that the progeny of imam hussain the imams

[9:36]alayhim as-salam the remaining nine imams of the progeny of imam hussain

[9:41]alehissalaam are also of Ahlul Bayt salawatullahi wa salam wa image man

[9:46]these are the purified ones who understand the Quran I'm just trying

[9:56]to give you a picture here a very small picture of how

[9:58]great the Quran is and how many lessons we can derive of

[10:02]the Holy Quran if we invest time and learning it going back

[10:08]to the story one important lesson that we learn from his journey

[10:13]to the west' and his journey to the east is whenever the

[10:18]Hylian used to go to his different people you know he met

[10:21]a group in the West he met a group in the east

[10:25]and later on you will see that he meets a group on

[10:30]his third journey he always speaks to them in a very important

[10:33]mode of communication and that is speak to them in a language

[10:39]that they understand Imam Ali of nevia pallium salawatullahi wa salamu alayh

[10:46]says hot label nasa ala battery only him speak to people according

[10:51]to their understanding that's why I have developed what I call the

[10:57]five seas the five Cs for effective communication five words each one

[11:04]commencing with a sea so those of you who want to remember

[11:09]you can remember five C's for effective communication the first C for

[11:14]effective communication is what I call consideration consideration is you consider your

[11:22]audience who are you speaking to who are you talking to for

[11:26]example if I am going to talk to a group of elementary

[11:32]students about kidney stones how they form what are kidney stones well

[11:36]I need to speak to them a language that they will be

[11:42]able to understand so I have to introduce what are even kidney

[11:45]stones some of those people may have not even seen a kidney

[11:47]stone may have not even heard of something called kidney stones so

[11:53]a good thing to do for example with that group is maybe

[11:56]even to bring them some samples of kidney stones bring them different

[12:00]kinds you know tell them there is this kind of kidney stone

[12:03]that kind of kidney stone this kind of kidney stone and what

[12:06]is the difference between the different kinds so they can see they

[12:11]can observe and maybe even get them give them to do a

[12:13]very small lab observation what do you see the difference here between

[12:18]the two that different kinds of kidney stones this one versus this

[12:20]one versus that one what do you see do what do you

[12:25]observe and that's how a person may introduce the topic of kidney

[12:27]stones to a group of Lantry students who may not have had

[12:32]any background any knowledge however from giving a talk about kidney stones

[12:37]to a group of scientists who are professionals in the field of

[12:42]kidney stones I don't need to discuss all that background information these

[12:46]scientists are gathered there to see what discoveries have I made new

[12:53]discoveries in the field of kidney stone research so I can just

[12:55]jump into either the topic I give a very brief introduction as

[13:00]to why I'm doing this research and then I dive right into

[13:03]it because all those people will understand what I'm talking about that's

[13:07]what I call consideration so always my brothers and sisters whenever you're

[13:11]invited to give a talk you got to consider who your audience

[13:13]are as academics sometimes we get invited to give a public talk

[13:18]public lecture which means people who don't have the scientific back on

[13:20]well-attended if I'm gonna be giving a public talk it's not going

[13:25]to be the same language that I will use in my scientific

[13:27]talk I will you know we'd use down the level of the

[13:30]science to a way that those people can understand there is no

[13:36]point in presenting a lecture that's highly scientific and sophisticated where people

[13:41]say masha'Allah you know this guy is really smart he's really great

[13:45]well did you understand anything from his lecture no all I didn't

[13:47]understand a thing of what he said I had no clue what

[13:48]he was talking about but he seems to be really smart you

[13:51]know that's useless you don't want to give such a lecture you

[13:54]want to give a lecture where people understand so that's the first

[13:58]C in effective communication consideration you consider your audience that's one two

[14:04]the second C an effective consider in an effective modes of communication

[14:09]is what I called the C for critical or what is critical

[14:16]you want to have some good content you want to have a

[14:21]content to speak about you know you have some individuals who come

[14:24]out and they write stuff and they write you like weird tweets

[14:28]Co VC and whatever things like this where you're like what does

[14:34]this mean like I have no idea well do you know what

[14:37]you're talking about no even I don't know what I'm talking about

[14:39]but you know kV fees you know and then you have Co

[14:44]V few restaurants kvp coffees GDB dishes kV fee whatever and all

[14:48]those things like what are you talking about no idea so you'll

[14:51]have people sometimes well maybe even world leaders who'd come to the

[14:54]platform and they talk and talk and you like what is he

[14:58]talking about for God's sake no idea even he doesn't have a

[15:02]clue of what he's talking about so you gotta make sure that

[15:05]you have a critical message you're critical you give something you give

[15:10]something of value when you speak so invest time brothers and sisters

[15:13]when you're delivering a lecture you're giving a talk you want to

[15:16]invest time in speaking so that's the second C so first C

[15:25]for consideration the second C for critical being critical the third C

[15:29]is what I call the c4 concise be brief get to the

[15:35]point you know sometimes we have a Q&A sessions like you know

[15:40]after a program we might have a Q&A we say okay for

[15:42]work well designate 30 minutes for Q&A you get this person who

[15:46]picks up the microphone I have a question or I need to

[15:49]say something yes he talks for like five minutes and then after

[15:53]five minutes you tell him so brother what's your question you'd be

[15:56]like I don't have a question I was just making a comment

[15:59]it's a thirty minute Q&A you just killed five minutes for a

[16:04]comment I mean it's nice to be considerate of others as well

[16:06]so I don't know if you've experienced that it happens everywhere even

[16:13]at work it might be even at a presentation somebody who makes

[16:16]a comment or wants to give a question and he keeps on

[16:22]asking and asking and asking and it'll be like what is your

[16:26]question and finally it gives you well my question is you know

[16:30]I don't really know what my question is all right just like

[16:32]a lot I go brother may Allah bless you in sha Allah

[16:35]thank you I sent you know so that's be concise when you

[16:40]speak be concise it's important you know it's something I tell people

[16:46]to do take an article like you know a newspaper article it's

[16:51]maybe 500 600 words give or take depending on the article and

[16:56]try to summarize it in maybe two three sentences that's a good

[17:01]way to actually learn to be concise take a newspaper article and

[17:05]try to summarize it in to three sentences and see how you

[17:12]can manage the whole gist of the article and to three sentences

[17:15]at most and that will teach you how to become concise I

[17:19]remember when I wrote my PhD thesis and I gave it to

[17:25]my committee that examining committee the professors who examined me I remember

[17:29]one of them coming up to me and saying you know what

[17:34]I really like your thesis I was like really like the content

[17:36]of it is like well I haven't read it yet but I

[17:40]saw that only has few you know hundred pages you know usually

[17:43]they write 500 600 pages they write us like a huge thisis

[17:47]you your thesis is quite short I really liked it you know

[17:51]I haven't read it yet but I'm already happy with it so

[17:53]that's really what you want to do if you can say it

[17:56]in a few words you say it in a few words so

[18:00]concise is important and that's the third C for effective cease of

[18:05]communication so first we said what you remember consideration you consider your

[18:11]audience the second C for critical gotta have some critical content third

[18:17]is for what concise for clear C for clear you got to

[18:26]be clear especially this is important for people like myself you know

[18:30]I always have to remind myself of being clear it's difficult to

[18:34]give a lecture where it's a monologue you know I'm talking you're

[18:37]listening and it's even more difficult when you have a huge audience

[18:40]a big audience I may say something which I intend something but

[18:46]it may be understood in a different manner and that's why it's

[18:53]extremely important to try to make your talk as clear as possible

[18:57]but we're not perfect you know we all fall victim sometimes for

[19:00]this where we might say something that we don't intend or it

[19:06]may have something that an understanding that we do not anticipate and

[19:10]that's why it's important than to ask the speaker you know I

[19:13]heard you say so and so is that really what you meant

[19:16]or did you mean something else so that's something really important and

[19:19]that's something I want to add to never come to a conclusion

[19:24]without actually discussing with the speaker you find sometimes people circulating emails

[19:27]messages etc etc all the speakers said this and this did you

[19:32]hear him look look this is what he said well did he

[19:35]ever ask the speaker is this really what you meant so no

[19:37]I did it well how do you know this is really what

[19:41]he meant so it's important it's important to understand what the speaker

[19:46]is talking about but as a speaker you want to try to

[19:52]be as clear as possible not as clear as mud okay as

[19:55]clear as possible so that's what you really want to be clear

[20:02]to the best durability that's your fourth see so don't use heavy

[20:05]fees quite a lot in your conversations and your speeches please a

[20:08]number five when you speak the five modes for effective communication the

[20:15]fifth one is actually confidence to be confident there is research about

[20:20]it actually you know they've done research liars who speak with confidence

[20:30]are more believed than truthful people who speak with hesitation they've done

[20:35]an experiment a socialist you know they've done like they brought some

[20:39]people who would say some false things and because they're confident as

[20:45]they say them they appear right now what really blows my mind

[20:51]away is when you have someone who is not even confident and

[20:53]he keeps on lying but people still believe in him that I

[20:58]don't understand I'm to be honest with you that I just don't

[21:01]get not only that they elect him as president to that to

[21:03]be on that I really I just don't get it you know

[21:07]I just don't get it I mean you read throughout the campaign

[21:09]in all the newspapers the New York Times you know the Canadian

[21:13]Press you can look like 20 false things this individual said in

[21:19]his speech you know 15 false things he knowed he said in

[21:22]his talk so I mean he's lying but people say well this

[21:29]is the president we like well I guess like some other former

[21:33]president of yours said which I agree with him on that statement

[21:39]he says you get the president or the leader you deserve so

[21:42]I guess people like that kind of comment nonetheless confidence is important

[21:49]confidence can stem of course from your understanding of the subject if

[21:54]you understand what you're talking about then you'll be confident talking about

[21:57]it it understand it comes also from talking the truth that's why

[22:04]I tell the brothers and the sisters always be on the side

[22:07]of the truth because when you are on the side of the

[22:10]truth you always be confident the truth only has one face the

[22:14]others side you know you can always create all kinds of sin

[22:20]all scenarios but when you're on the side of the truth you're

[22:22]confident this is what it is this is how it is so

[22:25]in order to build that confidence you're going to know what you're

[22:28]talking about and say clearly what you're talking about to the best

[22:35]of your knowledge and to the best of your understanding this is

[22:38]something that was we were told when we're doing our graduate degree

[22:43]as well a lesson that some of you might learn whenever you're

[22:46]asked a question and you don't know the answer what's the answer

[22:50]that you should say I don't know I know it sounds like

[22:56]you know a genius thing but this but but that's basically what

[23:00]you need to say in fact the Prophet sallallahu alehiwassallaam but one

[23:06]a lot I lollie one of the Companions of the Prophet abou

[23:10]that he gives him an advice he says yeah about that whenever

[23:15]you're asked a question if you know the answer answer if you

[23:21]don't then what is what do you say I don't know say

[23:23]I don't know and Imam Ali assalaam says those who say I

[23:30]don't know they are the true scholars someone who really understands not

[23:36]someone who stands and says 20 false things in their speech and

[23:39]they still believe they're right that guy has no clue what he's

[23:45]talking about it's those individuals who actually say when you say I

[23:49]don't know it really shows that you have an understanding you have

[23:52]some knowledge you have some background this topic you don't know you

[23:55]may say to the individual that you know what let me research

[23:59]this further and I'll get back to you if that's something that's

[24:01]possible so let me go investigate it and now I can I

[24:06]can get back to you on that one but never pretend that

[24:10]you know especially if you're talking to experts because we were told

[24:17]the minute you pretend that you know something and you're talking to

[24:22]the experts you've just dug yourself into a hole and they will

[24:25]understand that you know what you're talking about so they'll give you

[24:30]deeper and deeper until youth they bury you in that hole so

[24:34]when you don't know just say I don't know however one of

[24:37]the ways to establish your confidence is by doing your research doing

[24:43]your homework coming and talking these are the five Cs that I

[24:46]made up or I said you know for effective communications so again

[24:52]just to summarize there the C for consideration to consider your audience

[24:56]and hence you got to prepare your talk based on who the

[24:59]audience are the second C for critical means having a critical content

[25:03]something which is good something useful three the third C was four

[25:12]do you remember what concise be concise the fourth C was for

[25:17]what clear clarity try to have a clear communication clear understanding and

[25:22]v c is for confidence be confident as you talk you don't

[25:30]need to hesitate some people they say well I don't have that

[25:33]in me you know the confidence part okay what do I do

[25:34]well practice practice makes perfect so you've got a practice and eventually

[25:40]you'll get a hang of it so these are some of the

[25:45]things that you guys can do in addition to this we find

[25:51]the AG 9 the AG 9 when he came to that group

[25:56]which were oppressed who were oppressed but they were the believers he

[26:00]also adds and he says those guys who were believers was Anna

[26:04]Oh Lula whom in a marina you saw what a man and

[26:09]Amina Camilla solely on fella who Jezza Anelka sneh was an Akula

[26:16]woman Amina you saw he who believes and does good deeds then

[26:20]he will be rewarded well and what else we will speak with

[26:31]them gently softly kindly some people you speak to them and you

[26:35]tell them that for example hey job is watchable they tell you

[26:38]her job is in the heart I just believe in it you

[26:45]think that's true you tell someone for example why don't you pray

[26:48]he's like well I'm a good person I help a lot of

[26:52]people I think that's fine that's enough well the Quran answer is

[26:58]you Allah says Allah Dena I'm Anu and what else what I'm

[27:02]it'll Saudi hot those who believe and what do good deeds belief

[27:09]alone is not enough many people say well I'm a good Billy

[27:15]I believe in Allah la ilaha il-allah and I believe in the

[27:17]Prophet I believe in a little bit a lorena madirasi excellent great

[27:26]well done but that's not enough belief has to be coupled with

[27:30]action you got a coupled with action I'm in Australia Hut do

[27:37]you guys memorize yoga tell us or Java to Allah so do

[27:40]you have it memorized smell of manna rahim voila us in l-insana

[27:46]leve hosam ll Edina MN oh well I'm in Australia hard whatever

[27:56]so we'll help water was also Allah is wearing by the Russell

[28:00]whatever the Oscar is I don't we don't have time to get

[28:02]into it now but the human is at the loss is at

[28:06]a loss he's losing we're all at a loss except for a

[28:11]person who has four characteristics for things what are these four things

[28:17]a menu they believe in Allah they have to have the belief

[28:23]the Iman that's one what else what a middle soil Hut they

[28:26]do good deeds what Owosso will Huck they follow the truth and

[28:31]what I was all the sub up they hold on to patient

[28:36]their patients they need to be patient a little bit these four

[28:39]types these four characteristics combined in a person that person then he

[28:44]is not at a loss everyone else is at a loss Iman

[28:48]is important because it sets our and ten I am praying what

[28:54]do we say when we pray when we make a no any

[28:58]I'm praying let's say for example to have a castle at Ulm

[28:59]availab then what do we say Alba Tennille allahi ta'ala seeking the

[29:06]nearness to Allah I'm praying to please Allah I am fasting the

[29:12]month of Ramadan Autobot Anil allahi ta'ala seeking the pleasure of allah

[29:18]getting closer to allah I'm paying zakat Olfa Torah which is about

[29:21]in few days we have to pay it all but Anil allahi

[29:25]ta'ala seeking and so on and so forth that's why I am

[29:30]doing all this work to please Allah I don't care if people

[29:32]find out I built this big Hospital nobody needs to know that

[29:37]I actually don't need it to build this big Hospital nobody needs

[29:39]to know that I'm helping the orphans no one needs to know

[29:41]I'm doing it to please Allah Allah even if they take the

[29:45]credit and give it to somebody else let them give it to

[29:47]somebody else Allah knows who's doing the virial work so that's why

[29:52]I don't care that's the attitude that's why you need the Iman

[29:56]you need the belief the framework Iman alone is not good enough

[30:00]I'm sorry AHA good deeds good deeds good these are very important

[30:06]as well and to follow the truth and to be patient so

[30:09]that's something important we should not just fool ourselves and say you

[30:15]know what I'm a good person in my heart good hamdulillah you're

[30:17]a good person in your heart but that's not enough you need

[30:21]to have the faith and you need to couple that with the

[30:23]action so here he says those who are good who are believers

[30:29]and they do good deeds will will take care of them they'll

[30:32]have good reward and will speak softly with them that speaks softly

[30:36]to them is also important Allah subhana WA Ta'ala tells us in

[30:47]the Holy Quran is Malaga menorah he odor o Allah sabili Arabic

[30:51]a bell Hekmati one more avital hasana waddell hability he hacen there

[30:57]are three modes that Allah subhana WA Ta'ala tells us about in

[31:03]the Quran for effective invitation to invite people to the path of

[31:08]Allah you want to help people come to the path of truth

[31:12]well what do I do suppose you have a friend who's a

[31:26]Shia by name at least but does not come to mosque may

[31:30]not pray may not wear the hijab might attend parties might listen

[31:36]to music you want to help them out you want to show

[31:41]them how beautiful this religion is well what do you do Allah

[31:45]subhana Allah gives three modes of communication the third mode which I

[31:50]won't spend much time to on it's the mode of G dial

[31:55]G that means discussion argumentative you use that mode with people who

[31:59]arguments you know argue against you people who come to argue some

[32:03]people want to discuss not to learn but rather just to argue

[32:11]with those individuals Allah says argue with them but kindly bility Hiaasen

[32:17]how so for example let me let me give you this example

[32:22]when the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala was talking about Islam in

[32:28]Mecca preaching people to believe in allah subhana wa ta'ala one of

[32:32]the things he mentioned to people is that there will be a

[32:36]day of resurrection when you guys will be resurrected alive a man

[32:40]by the name of obey obey went and to a graveyard he

[32:47]dug an old bone from the graveyard old he came to the

[32:53]prophet sallallaahu ali and he called him by his name he says

[32:55]deal claim you see this bone then he dusted it if you

[32:59]want to crush the bone became like dust and he blew it

[33:01]in the in the prophets face he said do you claim that

[33:07]your God can revive this bone again when it's dusty a verse

[33:11]was revealed in the Quran in surat yaseen allah says bismillahi wobba

[33:17]wobba lana Matalin when I see a helper Allah may your healer

[33:21]Obama we're here a meme oh you're here already and Shalimar what

[33:27]we could help an ally he gave us an example and he

[33:30]forgot about his own creation he tells us who can revive these

[33:40]dusty bones well say in response ya rasulallah tell him the one

[33:44]who created the first time from nothing without anything can also create

[33:48]it again without anything interestingly just to make it clear you know

[33:56]a bit here the kebab of Mecca then unbelievers of Mecca they

[34:03]used to believe in the existence of a god or an tells

[34:06]us Suleiman subhanAllah says while a NCL tom Angela Kazama watch a

[34:13]while autoplay Allah Allah if you ask him who created the heavens

[34:16]and the earth they will say allotted so they approved of the

[34:20]existence of that deity Allah their problem however as they created the

[34:26]associates with allah subhanaw taala these idols this idol will get us

[34:34]closer to allah if we want sustenance physical for example this idol

[34:37]if we need rain this Idol if we need for example Sun

[34:42]and so on so forth they created all these idols without any

[34:45]proof Allah did not tell them take these idols to get you

[34:48]closer to me he didn't say anything they just created these idols

[34:53]but they did have if we make all you guys know what

[34:57]a precipitate is precipitate or is that too technical too much chemistry

[35:01]you know precipitate you know that they had some background you know

[35:05]background information from the believe in allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala from Ismael prophet

[35:10]Ismail used to live there you know many centuries ago so from

[35:16]the belief from that monotheistic belief it was passed on generation after

[35:19]generation but then they deviated so they did have some concepts you

[35:26]know there is a God there is a creator that's why Quran

[35:27]says if you ask them who created the heavens and the earth

[35:29]okay Allah created them so they don't have a problem in the

[35:34]exist Oh God even it is narrated in the hadith in history

[35:37]when Mecca was conquered when Mecca came into the control of Muslims

[35:42]and the father of Muhammad Navy Sophia Anna's father Sophia Abu Sufyan

[35:48]Abu Sufyan was brought he came to the prophet sallallaahu Ali the

[35:52]Prophet told him say la ilaha illallah and say that I am

[36:00]The Messenger of Allah Abu sofyan told him to say that there

[36:02]is no god but Allah I don't have a problem with that

[36:05]you know I don't have a problem to be honest with you

[36:09]but to say that you are the Messenger of Allah that's too

[36:12]tough it's hard to confess hard to say so so his problem

[36:18]was not that the existence of Allah he had a problem with

[36:20]the prophet sallallaahu while he just could not believe in the Prophet

[36:23]as a prophet that he couldn't believe in and I'll tell you

[36:27]why again those of you who are a bit older here one

[36:29]of the biggest problem we had with rasulullah salallahu alaihe wa then

[36:40]all their statuses will be kept aside abu jahal abu jahal who

[36:44]was one of the heads of kuwait one of the leaders of

[36:49]pêche comes to rasulullah sallallahu aleyhi tells him and he calls him

[36:54]by his first name he tells him you claim that bilal Balad

[36:56]the black slave the African slave from Ethiopia that Bilal who has

[37:02]the slave of abu jahal but then the prophets freed him Bilal

[37:05]my slave and I are equal how could that be how could

[37:11]bilal be an equal to me I am one from the heads

[37:16]of flesh I'm wealthy I'm rich I'm an Arab this guy and

[37:19]so on and so forth the Prophet looked at him and said

[37:22]no that's not true you're not equal really we're not equal it's

[37:32]like yeah he is much better than you he's a Muslim you're

[37:35]not a Muslim so who cares about your wealth and your Arab

[37:40]and your whatever who cares about all that stuff he's a Muslim

[37:43]he's among men he's a believer he's better than you but that

[37:47]was the problem they couldn't believe they couldn't they came to the

[37:50]Prophet who H came to the prophet sallallaahu I let all them

[37:55]told the Prophet make Islam a club a club for the rich

[37:57]you know you make it that way we all believe in you

[38:02]we will all believe in you just make it a club a

[38:05]club for the wealthy you see sometimes there are some golf clubs

[38:07]you guys have them here in the US oh yeah you president

[38:10]has a whole bunch of them that's right yeah you know some

[38:13]of those golf clubs that you have to pay like for example

[38:17]one hundred thousand dollar membership two hundred sometimes even they go up

[38:20]higher they can go up to a million even sometimes even more

[38:23]to become a member of that particular Golf Club so only the

[38:26]wealthy can have access to that Club this is what they wanted

[38:32]of Islam the problem one of the biggest problems they had with

[38:35]a prophet is if they believed in him all their statuses will

[38:40]be shoved aside they could not because of their arrogance there was

[38:43]a problem that they had so what I'm saying is brothers and

[38:46]sisters those individuals who sometimes argue with rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa they

[38:54]argue about religion they argue allah subhana wa ta'ala then tells the

[38:59]Prophet argue back stop them in their truck they believed in Allah

[39:05]they had that belief in Allah so Allah told them well the

[39:09]one who created you from nothing or from without anything the one

[39:13]who created you without anything he can also recreate you without anything

[39:19]so that's an asset that's called Judah that's an argumentative discussion where

[39:23]you stop the opponent on their tracks as they say it okay

[39:29]but that you do it gently kindly calmly and that's something important

[39:33]brothers and sisters speaking of communication whenever you are in a discussion

[39:40]remember this remember this whenever you are in a discussion never lose

[39:47]your calm never get angry the minute you lose your calm you

[39:53]lose your temper your lost argument even if you were right so

[39:59]you always have to income and that's actually a style some of

[40:02]your opponent's those are smart they're good debaters what they'll try to

[40:06]do to you is they'll try to instigate you they're trying to

[40:09]get you mad once you get mad they've won the argument even

[40:12]if they're not right so you always have to be smarter and

[40:18]learn to remain calm okay so that's one mode another mode the

[40:21]Quran describes Quran says Odori la subida applicable hekimae hekimae means logic

[40:27]logical you come to the individual you say listen Allah subhana WA

[40:33]Ta'ala created us how should you be thanking your Creator I mean

[40:38]think about it your own parents don't you love your parents yes

[40:44]I love my parents well don't you respect your parents yes of

[40:48]course I respect my parents I love them well then why don't

[40:51]you take care of them why don't you love allah subhana wa

[40:59]ta'ala the one who created you she takes care of you she

[41:02]does yes that's it she's pretty good there so that's an important

[41:11]logical discussion that kind of discussion a logical argument is usually used

[41:17]with individuals who have some sense of a logic if you have

[41:20]a president who has no logic then it's quite difficult to discuss

[41:24]logic with someone who has no logic so you need to discuss

[41:29]it with someone who understands who has some logic behind him and

[41:33]that's why that kind of mode is usually used with the real

[41:35]Emma with his colors and not necessarily scholars like you know of

[41:38]religion scholars remember a few nights ago when I mentioned about the

[41:43]existence of Allah the debate I had with the atheist a professor

[41:46]who was a professor of philosophy who understood logic so I used

[41:49]a clear little purely logical argument and I won the debate I

[41:54]won the argument because purely logical and because he's a man who

[41:57]understands logic it worked clearly so that's a good mode to discuss

[42:02]with people a logical argument logically however some people logic does not

[42:10]work with them you tell them for example why do you listen

[42:12]to music don't you know music is Haram I know you know

[42:16]this alleged Eenie may Allah guide me why don't you have a

[42:19]job don't you know her job is watch it yes I know

[42:20]but celaya DD no Allah may be guide me well why do

[42:24]you look at her on things don't you know it's Haram yes

[42:28]Alya Dini why do you not respect your parents I mean do

[42:30]you not love them yes I love my parents well why don't

[42:33]you respect them I don't know you know Alya Dini you know

[42:39]Allah guides me Allah may Allah forgive me logic doesn't work well

[42:42]then what what works Allah says Allah Sevilla applicable hikmah logic one

[42:46]more eval has a net mahasin and literally means good at management

[42:50]but what does good admonishment mean some of the commentators of the

[42:56]quran they say don't use logic then what do I use emotions

[43:00]emotions what do you mean well somebody who doesn't pray for example

[43:11]and you just spoken to him many times about salat and he

[43:16]does still doesn't pray that's someone one day loses a loved a

[43:20]loved one let's say he loses a brother for god forbid let's

[43:25]say for example he loses a brother whom he loved really much

[43:28]now he attends the brother's funeral and he sees his brother being

[43:32]buried in the sand and that's when he starts crying now he's

[43:40]become emotional now and you stand next to him and you say

[43:43]well isn't it time now that you start praying yours a lot

[43:51]today it's your brother tomorrow it will be you what are you

[43:55]gonna say when you go down there now he's crying is emotional

[44:01]and he'll be here you know maybe you're right maybe you're right

[44:05]that's what I should be doing and so you've used a purely

[44:08]emotional argument it's no logic behind it although there may be some

[44:13]logic to it but you've used the most you capitalized on the

[44:18]emotions emotions are very strong they're much stronger than logic that's one

[44:23]of the reasons why a little bait alayhim as-salam capitalize on emotions

[44:29]when it comes to imam and for saying alehissalaam hello Bates recommend

[44:33]to us to attend the modulus of Imam al-hussein alehissalaam to shed

[44:37]our tears for Imam al-hussein to cry if we can't cry the

[44:42]hadith says pretend to cry pretend use your emotions because emotions are

[44:48]very powerful many people who attend the modulus usually when they listen

[44:54]to the Messiah above elevate the Messiah the tragedies the eulogies and

[44:58]they start crying many people wake up they say you know what

[45:03]what have I been doing my whole life it's time for me

[45:07]to wake up based on emotions so sometimes brothers and sisters when

[45:11]you discuss with somebody logic is good you use a logical argument

[45:15]if that does not work then you may want to use an

[45:20]emotional argument touch them under the soft spot as they say that's

[45:24]how you can invite people to the path of Allah subhana WA

[45:27]Ta'ala you have a friend who does not come to mosque you

[45:29]tell them you know a little better for example you know or

[45:34]last 10 days of the holy month of Ramadan tomorrow is going

[45:36]to be the last Thursday night of this holy month of Ramadan

[45:41]a huge night a blessed night the last Thursday night we have

[45:44]the last Friday of this holy month coming up a blessed day

[45:48]a great day what do you call your friend up and say

[45:54]you know what you remember our friend from last year yes he's

[45:56]no longer with us yes well how do we know if we're

[46:01]going to be here next year so why don't you join us

[46:02]Thursday night tomorrow you know what I'm going to the mosque why

[46:07]don't you join me or you tell them for example it's Thursday

[46:10]night how about you join me and let's recite you know and

[46:17]Majlis so al-fatiha for yo murph ameen maybe your mother will really

[46:19]enjoy it in her grave or your father will enjoy it in

[46:21]her great and his grave something along these lines and I'm just

[46:27]giving examples here where use a emotional argument to try to convince

[46:31]people to the path of Haqq that's something we also learn from

[46:33]the logname when he says we will speak to people gently softly

[46:41]kindly he does not argue with people he does not yell at

[46:44]people he does not shout at them he speaks gently and kindly

[46:48]if you ever go for example to the washroom and you'll find

[46:51]a person doing waddle and accurately don't yell at them especially if

[46:57]it's a child what are you doing well though really what is

[47:01]this rule all your salat is battle just take it easy do

[47:05]it easy on the guy or the lady to let you know

[47:09]what how about if you observe me how to do although let

[47:13]me show you how I do although so we can learn or

[47:16]you can tell them for example how about if we have a

[47:19]world competition so let's bring some children and let them all do

[47:23]although will demonstrate to you how to do with all and you

[47:26]guys all can learn how to do although and you do a

[47:28]competition in a very kind manner softly gently a lady does not

[47:36]wear hijab talk to her kindly gently don't tell her you're gonna

[47:40]go to Jahannam you will burn in Jahannam the fire is gonna

[47:45]eat you he's gonna chew you a choice choice choice choice take

[47:46]it easy take it easy on the lady Yani yes she's not

[47:51]wearing hijab but explain it turn a gentle way in a kind

[47:54]way in a soft way you want to attract people to religion

[47:58]you don't want to drive them away from religion so always be

[48:02]kind be respectful speak gently speak softly use the five modes the

[48:10]five Cs for effective communication use the mode of logic or emotion

[48:14]if they argue back then you want to use the argumentative style

[48:18]where what kindness gently you stop them in their tracks that's some

[48:25]of the things we learned from the hog nein there is another

[48:27]lesson that we would like to learn from the nine that we

[48:32]will touch upon insha'Allah tomorrow Allah gives us no fear and that

[48:37]is the idea of the development of civilizations these primitive people that

[48:42]they'll cognate met who did not have anything to protect them from

[48:45]the Sun maybe they did not even know how to wear clothes

[48:48]they did not know how to well how did then civilization unfold

[48:52]what happened I'll mention one interesting theory that I have about it

[48:56]and the shala we'll talk about it tomorrow so if you want

[48:59]to find out what the theory is come tomorrow insha'Allah and we'll

[49:02]discuss and shall about that theory to more of a lakh exhaust

[49:06]elfia to do so in the meanwhile now let's raise our hands

[49:08]for the ah and we ask Allah on this knife to accept

[49:14]our caramel all over him in a shaytan al rajim bismillah ar-rahman

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