Biography of Lady Khadija (as) - Dr. Sayed Ammar Nakshawani - Night 10

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[1:52]here [Music] [Music] bismillah foreign [Music] foreign is one of the most

[3:47]important woman in the religion of islam and the same time is

[3:51]one of the greatest personalities in the history of the religion a

[3:55]fundamental pillar in the life of the holy prophet muhammad peace be

[3:59]upon him and his family if ever you wanted to see the

[4:06]embodiment of patience the embodiment of generosity the embodiment of altruism and

[4:11]the embodiment of sacrifice in one human being then look no further

[4:17]than say the hadith be you muslim or non-muslim you can still

[4:22]learn so many lessons from the life of this great lady that

[4:25]even today when we see discussions of feminism and you see discussions

[4:32]concerning gender studies it's a shame that in many of the curricula

[4:35]that we see around the world and many of the syllabus that

[4:39]are written in these subjects there is hardly a mention of say

[4:43]that allows you to understand female empowerment she allows you to understand

[4:51]how a female can be a pillar within a particular area where

[4:56]men dominate she allows you to understand how a female can leave

[5:02]a legacy behind for every female in the world today because the

[5:05]reality is that say that is not great in the eyes of

[5:11]muslims because she is the wife of the holy prophet peace be

[5:13]upon him and his family or for example because she is the

[5:17]mother of father in the sense that she has her own merit

[5:24]her own position her own class her own status if you want

[5:29]to look for spirituality you look no further than say that if

[5:34]you want to understand how to engage as a female in the

[5:38]world of males when it comes to business and transactions look at

[5:41]say the hadith if you want to look at somebody who was

[5:45]seen as being also socially active and a philanthropist you look at

[5:51]say the khadijah sadly when you ask many muslims why do you

[5:55]respect say that they said to you bro because she's the wife

[6:00]of rasulullah or she's the mother of father okay but why do

[6:06]you respect her what is it about her own merit that is

[6:09]worthy of respect so on the first level when we honor the

[6:13]biography of say that it's because we're honoring her because of her

[6:19]merit not because of her association too many muslims if they respect

[6:23]somebody it's out of association rather than out of merit on the

[6:28]second level we honor her death every year probably more than any

[6:33]other sect in the religion of islam nobody is like the shia

[6:37]when it comes to honoring the death of say the khadija al-islam

[6:41]there are many muslims in the world who love say that but

[6:46]do not honor her when it comes to the date of her

[6:50]death when we come to the tenth of ramadan on the night

[6:51]of the tenth of the shah ramadan you'll find that shia worldwide

[6:56]come together to honor this lady therefore that accusation that you shira

[7:05]here i am sitting in london and there are many of the

[7:11]shia around the world who are watching this if we don't have

[7:14]respect for the wives of rasulullah then why are we honoring this

[7:19]lady tonight a person who doesn't honor this lady tonight is someone

[7:23]who has shown a lack of respect because this lady was with

[7:30]rasool allah 26 years of his life name me another wife of

[7:37]rasulallah who was with him for 26 years you can name me

[7:39]some wives were with him for nine years yet those nine years

[7:43]of one wife gets more accolades than 26 years with rasulallah and

[7:48]that's why the holy prophet peace be upon him family would mention

[7:53]on numerous occasions that when people rejected me for example she believed

[7:58]in me when people for example she accepted me when people rejected

[8:03]me she believed in me when people doubted me she shared her

[8:07]wealth with me when others deprived me which other wife of rasool

[8:14]rasulallah comes near that standing and that's why for us in our

[8:18]communities we should not stop naming the name khadijah i've noticed recently

[8:21]that the name like khadija is not seen as a cool name

[8:24]therefore you'll find many will not name their children khadijah what they

[8:29]don't realize is in the eyes of rasulullah this khadijah is the

[8:36]most beloved therefore when you name your daughter khadija she looks up

[8:40]to the most beloved lady in the eyes of the holy prophet

[8:44]muhammad and at the end of the day if i want to

[8:48]get closer to my prophet what better feeling is there than naming

[8:53]my daughter after therefore tonight let us examine the biography of and

[9:01]let's look at the impact and the legacy of this great lady

[9:05]and i'd like to do this in the following stages number one

[9:09]how was she related to rasulullah number two when she inherited her

[9:14]father's business did she go straight to the office or did she

[9:19]go straight to the kaaba and why did she go to the

[9:24]kaaba straight away upon inheriting her father's business number three when it

[9:28]comes to her business how did she meet rasulullah and how did

[9:36]her work by the name of masara describe the prophet peace be

[9:40]upon him and his family in his work and his earning and

[9:44]his trade number four when it came to her marriage was she

[9:47]previously married number five was she 40 when she got married and

[9:53]why is this number 40 always pushed number six when she got

[9:58]married and there was an objection by her uncle when the holy

[10:04]prophet proposed how did say that islam say uncle do not worry

[10:06]i'll pay for the dowry i'll look after everything and what precedent

[10:11]did it set in our communities today further than that who is

[10:16]it that read peace be upon him and his family further than

[10:24]that when the prophet received the revelation did she tell the prophet

[10:28]let's go to my christian cousin so he can verify if you're

[10:31]a prophet of god or not and how is this absurd and

[10:35]far away from our beliefs how mentally strong was said especially when

[10:41]mecca was calling her husband abitar and further than that and the

[10:46]shepherd of abu talib how did she give absolutely everything away from

[10:53]herself even at the end her own life and what was the

[10:57]only wasaya she left behind and did the meccans or indeed the

[11:03]arabs honor that was a year let's examine this and dissect her

[11:08]biography in complete depth as we know is the daughter of huelin

[11:12]who of course means khalid because sometimes when someone for example you

[11:17]speak with them ingest if you're called jabber they would call you

[11:21]joaber and if you're called khalid they would call you kuwaitlin and

[11:40]all of them were related through the grandfather so you found that

[11:45]these people in quraysh were people of honor people of respect people

[11:49]who were revered and above all else they were known as hanifs

[11:53]what's a hanif a hanif is a group of people who had

[11:59]followed the pure upright way of ibrahim alaihissalam we know that in

[12:04]mecca people had revealed nabi ibrahim no doubt they always respected ibrahim

[12:11]alaihissalam they knew that that kaaba was built by who ibrahim alaihissalam

[12:17]but unfortunately many of them had left the path of nabi ibrahim

[12:21]many of them had become mushrik and they were now idol worshipers

[12:27]and polytheists but that doesn't mean that if many people in mecca

[12:31]had become mushrik it doesn't mean that every family became mushrik of

[12:37]the families where did not taint them in the way that others

[12:42]were tainted was the family of islam look even his own uncle

[12:48]abu lahab was tainted by shirk but the majority of his family

[12:54]the line which was the pure line was a line of abu

[12:57]talib never tainted by abdul muttalib never tainted by shirk there were

[13:00]particular lines which were not tainted by shirk khadijah her father and

[13:07]others were never tainted by shirk by polytheism they were a family

[13:12]which was the pure family of hanifs a family who had followed

[13:18]the upright way of nabi therefore for them things like salah was

[13:24]still part of their life yes someone will say to me say

[13:28]it nasa in terms of how it was instituted was years after

[13:32]say that islam yes but that didn't mean that the likes of

[13:35]the prophets of allah did not find a way to pray to

[13:41]allah by the kabba salah all of these were part of their

[13:44]life when it passed away who inherited the business of the family

[13:52]say the khadijah and when we say inherited the business of the

[13:57]family we found that seda khadija the moment she inherited her father's

[14:02]business if you now know you've inherited your dad's business you'll find

[14:05]some people might throw a party others might go straight to the

[14:10]office others might think of who to employ you know what she

[14:12]did she went straight to the cabba and started doing tawaf around

[14:16]the kaaba why because firstly this is a razor and it has

[14:20]only come from imam what do we say oh my master you

[14:35]are the sustainer and i am the sustained who is there for

[14:40]the sustained except the sustainer i ask you all my dear brothers

[14:45]and sisters when you come upon an investment or you're taking over

[14:48]a business or you're working in a particular company don't fear the

[14:52]manager or the management and sell your soul for them even their

[14:55]risk relies on allah while everybody else would say let's set up

[15:08]a team meeting get everyone on zoom quickly i need to sort

[15:12]out who's my ceo who's my in charge of my product no

[15:16]no no first and foremost let me go to the lord of

[15:19]the kaaba and i'll do tawaf around the kaaba in thankfulness because

[15:22]what am i doing in tawaf in reality i'm recognizing what that

[15:28]everything is in fluctuation and movement there's only one constant and that

[15:32]is god all of us will one day be rich and others

[15:36]of us will one day be poor but none is like allah

[15:51]you are the rich and i am the poor who is there

[15:55]for the poor except the rich.

[15:58]was because she recognized many of us our result is because we

[16:07]care more about the marzuk than the razak we care more about

[16:09]how did they get that money what happens if they don't like

[16:12]me what happens if they don't sign the contract if we have

[16:15]to put alcohol there put alcohol as long as we can get

[16:18]that deal if we have to take them to a club let's

[16:19]sign the deal in a nightclub they are sustained you're sustained they

[16:26]came from a drop of semen and leave as a piece of

[16:29]dust you come from a drop of semen and will leave as

[16:31]a piece of dust as well you don't know where you're going

[16:35]nor do they know where they're going you don't know when you're

[16:37]dying nor do they know when they're dying therefore went around on

[16:41]pawaf and then after that she sat back looked at her father's

[16:45]business of course she remembered that let's give opportunities to males and

[16:51]females to work and further than that even if i'm taking over

[16:55]my father's business i don't have to be interacting in a way

[16:59]where i compromise my social and my physical hijab they used to

[17:05]call her amirat and others would call her the pure she knew

[17:09]that in the world of work the reality is that you could

[17:14]sit with your female friends but there may be times where you're

[17:17]going to compromise your hijab for example on a social level with

[17:20]your male counterparts so do i have to be at the forefront

[17:24]of every meeting no she had employed someone by the name of

[17:30]me sarah may sarah was somebody who was an agent for say

[17:33]the khadijah the arabs used to travel with their camels how many

[17:36]camels do you think say that hadith had one thousand camels that's

[17:41]like somebody who owns a company today who's got for example a

[17:44]thousand cars or vans or trucks at their disposal how wealthy must

[17:48]you be i'm not going to say say that was the wealthiest

[17:51]in arabia i could say that there are others like walid who

[17:54]literally used to swim in wealth but say that khadijah was at

[17:58]a very respectable level a thousand camels were at her disposal and

[18:03]therefore she had her agent by the name of may sarah and

[18:10]she had as well a confidant by the name of nafisa this

[18:13]mesara was asked that we need to find an agent who goes

[18:18]with our caravans where they would either go to palestine or they

[18:21]would go to syria or they would go to yemen or they'd

[18:24]go to egypt said that i need to go and i need

[18:27]to make sure that we find an agent who will take these

[18:31]caravans i khadijah will stay here in mecca but may sarah you

[18:37]find someone employ someone heard he passed the message that my nephew

[18:44]muhammad somebody who at this stage is looking for work look how

[18:51]rasool allah does not find it embarrassing to work you would think

[18:54]that rasulallah oh i'm a chosen one i don't need to work

[19:00]no it's an honor everybody has to recognize that there are 70

[19:06]levels of worship and the highest of them or the first of

[19:08]them is to earn a lawful living was recommendation towards when they

[19:25]travel towards syria for example this mesara would notice there are times

[19:30]where this would act different to others who were around him while

[19:38]everybody when they were taking a break was gossiping or slandering or

[19:41]backbiting he'd go alone somewhere and sit on the ground he'd look

[19:46]towards the heavens he'd be in moments what we would call today

[19:52]in meditation or reflection or contemplation where he'd be thinking about the

[19:58]world he said to her i've never seen like him in my

[20:02]life the way he operates he's not trying to con someone or

[20:06]scam someone he's trying to make sure that every penny as we

[20:08]would use in our language today ad and dnr in those days

[20:12]every single one of them is spent in the right way every

[20:15]single promise is not broken nobody is gazumped nobody is hurt said

[20:21]that the way he would speak he's a man of truthfulness a

[20:25]man of trustworthiness and on top of that he's doubled our prophets

[20:27]which ultimately all the arabs are thinking what they're thinking that are

[20:31]our prophets doubled or not so he said to her i have

[20:35]never seen anyone the like of when she heard that she's never

[20:41]seen anyone the like of rasulallah she felt something inside herself because

[20:45]it said that even one day while she was doing tawaf of

[20:50]the kaaba one of the jews who was near there in mecca

[20:52]had called out that listen there's going to be a prophet who

[20:56]will emerge here the jews had already known like the christians had

[20:59]known that there are certain predictions of a prophet to come she

[21:03]had already had something in her heart she sat with her friend

[21:08]nafisa like any lady you want to get married to someone you

[21:09]may sit with your best friend you may discuss imagine one day

[21:13]he proposes for me imagine one day i get married to him

[21:15]what do you think for example if this person comes and proposes

[21:19]you think we're a good match she sat with nafisa she said

[21:23]to her nafisa what do you think that if i want to

[21:27]put forward a proposal nafista said no problem i'll take the proposal

[21:30]we'll go to his uncles and we'll say that you want to

[21:35]marry him you are a lady of distinction how old was she

[21:37]at the time when she wanted descent how many times when we

[21:41]were growing up all you ever heard was say the khadija's 40.

[21:47]25 you always hear the same thing i found eight different opinions

[21:52]when it comes to the age of say that ranging from 25

[21:58]all the way up until 45 eight different opinions happy what is

[22:04]it what are we doing a theory of quantum physics or something

[22:06]so what's the age some will go towards 40 44 45 others

[22:13]no 25 28 and that's why you find when you analyze these

[22:20]it's not just scholars who talk about an age of 25 or

[22:23]28 you may find non-shia scholars in their discussions who reach a

[22:28]conclusion that say the khadijah was in her 20s why then the

[22:32]push on 40 maybe because it makes her look old whereas others

[22:37]were young it makes her look like she's been touched while others

[22:43]were virgin because they started to spread this idea that you know

[22:47]say the khadijah before she married rasulullah say that i'd already been

[22:53]married twice they say that if you go for example you'll see

[22:56]that she was married to a man by the name of abu

[23:01]halem and a man by the name of and that she gave

[23:02]one a daughter by the name of another a daughter by the

[23:07]name of hind and that's why i say the khadija's kuniya is

[23:10]what um she's they say that therefore say the khadijah was 40

[23:16]and say the khadija will be married twice what else do you

[23:20]want to do you can keep destroying her keep going going ahead

[23:23]go ahead because it's as if you want to find every single

[23:26]what you perceive as blemisher then if you marry someone who's 40

[23:30]there's no blemish there and if someone's been married before and has

[23:34]children there's no blemish there but not with this case this case

[23:39]was purposely done because this case was trying to make her sound

[23:43]like the old one because we know very well there were ladies

[23:48]who are married to rasool allah who used to complain about why

[23:53]he always mentions khadijah there was a blatant jealousy of say the

[23:57]hadith of these people against so what did they do and of

[24:02]course if you know if hen's grandchildren have got the pens or

[24:06]are narrating then they're gonna pay off people to say that this

[24:09]lady is married twice before she's already got kids with others she's

[24:12]already been touched by other men therefore she's not like the wives

[24:18]of rasulullah who it's haram for you to marry after the prophet

[24:23]married them and therefore no man has seen the men have seen

[24:27]khadijah and for example they've seen khadijah whereas who's nobody but we

[24:37]know that um for example was a widow and others were widows

[24:41]so maybe it wasn't against all wives maybe it was trying to

[24:44]put one wife against one wife that there's one wife young virgin

[24:49]never touched whereas there's another old been touched given him given others

[24:53]children for us it's not like these things affect me in my

[25:01]overall outlook of say the khadija salaam for me zedek remains the

[25:04]greatest wife of rasool allah with none coming an inch nine years

[25:14]living with rasulallah is that comparable to 26 it's not but sometimes

[25:21]historians work hard to put a stab into the character of some

[25:25]people true sometimes they put stabs maybe he was the one who

[25:32]the verse about don't approach salah while you're drunk maybe it was

[25:36]about ali they try and put a stab that imam al-hasan the

[25:39]man of divorces another stab imam hussain was a person who rejected

[25:44]what his brother always these stabs come into the books of history

[25:48]for us say the khadijah is the purest of the pure she

[25:52]then spoke to nafisa nafisa said let's speak let's go to abu

[25:57]talib straight away let's go we'll go with the proposal was ready

[26:03]wanted to see nothing else but the happiness of muhammad see his

[26:09]nephew settle down he was the kefir the one who had looked

[26:11]after this orphan where allah subhanahu wa said did we not find

[26:19]you an orphan and we looked after you had looked after rasool

[26:25]allah he had looked after him in every area so therefore who

[26:28]else is there to go to when you want to get married

[26:37]and yes some people will say well he hasn't announced his prophethood

[26:42]just because rasulullah hasn't announced his prophethood doesn't mean the likes of

[26:46]abu talib don't know that he's a prophet of allah they know

[26:48]he comes to him he says to him that there's a proposal

[26:52]and the proposal has come from who from khadijah the daughter of

[26:57]huelet her father was a man of excellent repute she is a

[27:04]pure lady a lady who has the best reputation of all ladies

[27:07]as there's no coincidence when we hear the hadith the four women

[27:10]of jannah who are they i said is that not enough for

[27:15]you to realize asia maryam yes when we see this therefore he

[27:21]said at that moment that the proposal has come notice the proposal

[27:25]comes from the lady to the man why in our culture do

[27:29]we only say man to the lady why can it not be

[27:32]the lady to the man if you like somebody you send the

[27:36]proposal they say yes they say yes they say no it's their

[27:37]loss or it's not your question why is it in the same

[27:42]way and the same way in the quran when shawib says that

[27:51]i want you to marry one of my two daughters likewise a

[27:55]father can take a proposal on behalf of his daughter abu talib

[28:00]came he said that there is no lady like hadith the highest

[28:03]repute and there is no son like muhammad he is the man

[28:10]of wisdom a man from the line of ibrahim every line possible

[28:13]that you want in a proposal came with her uncle amr he

[28:20]said no no we said no we're not going to give because

[28:23]there's a wealth difference here how many times that happens in our

[28:26]communities we're from a rich family and you're not that sometimes can

[28:32]be real because the reality is that in islamic law if some

[28:35]if a girl is used to living in a particular way then

[28:40]the husband has to make sure it's his wide job upon him

[28:41]that if she asked to continue living that way then he has

[28:45]to but on the other hand if all you're concerned about is

[28:49]someone's money then you've missed the point the uncle said what he

[28:54]said how much money you don't have the money who intervened says

[28:57]what other questions you have uncle you got a problem with him

[29:04]paying the mahara because you guys want a high mahar in some

[29:07]cases i'll pay the mahara i'll look after all the mahara i

[29:11]want to be married to muhammad i have found nobody in the

[29:17]whole of mecca who resembles his his iman his trustworthiness his truthfulness

[29:22]there is nobody of the like who read the nikah of khadija

[29:29]and rasulallah and you know when we give this argument because you

[29:35]know every year you hear people saying oh i'm not sure if

[29:40]abu and for those of you who doubt well his son splits

[29:56]heaven and hell anyway when you see abu talib reading that you

[30:00]know what non-shia i say yes this was before the quran was

[30:07]revealed after the quran was revealed then the act only can be

[30:11]done by but before islam before the quran a mushrik like abu

[30:17]talib can be the one who reads the accord we reply what's

[30:20]the difference his own hatred he and he's mentioning the lord of

[30:29]ibrahim the lord of the prophets of god what else do you

[30:31]need as in some of us are muslims that we don't even

[30:34]know about the lord or the prophets of allah and here he

[30:36]is making it clear in the the dowry and she said straight

[30:41]away let's slaughter a camel and there's a side of her that

[30:45]is wonderful what is it let's slaughter a camel give it out

[30:48]to everybody because there is no social philanthropist like lived in a

[30:56]time where baby girls were being buried alive we've read in the

[31:03]quran many hours either when one of them is given the news

[31:11]of a female to be born to him his face darkens and

[31:15]he tries to restrain the anger the female baby will ask on

[31:25]the day of judgement for what reason was i buried alive was

[31:27]known for one thing what was it any lady if her baby

[31:34]she fears for her life because she's given birth to a female

[31:37]come to my house in the middle of the night there were

[31:42]some it's narrated they came with a baby in a sack because

[31:45]if you're holding a baby the husband finds out he kills the

[31:49]baby so some would even put a baby in a sack to

[31:50]pretend that we're just carrying some food they'd come to say the

[31:54]khadijah middle of the night say the khadija said you got to

[31:55]wake me up at 3 am you wake me up at 4

[31:59]00 a.m it does not matter come knock feel free to enter

[32:01]because sometimes people with wealth become more generous sometimes people with wealth

[32:08]become more stingy it's amazing you have some with wealth who are

[32:11]unbelievably stingy but maybe that's how they became wealthy then there are

[32:16]others with wealth who are saying life is too short and there

[32:20]are people who have not been given the opportunities that i have

[32:23]so why don't i give from my wealth where's your husband he's

[32:27]going to kill the girl how much will it take not to

[32:28]kill give me an amount i'll pay social philanthropist her hijab wasn't

[32:35]just covering her hair there was a social element to the hijab

[32:38]where she became a symbol for the empowerment of the female in

[32:44]arabian society therefore what's happened she gets married to rasulallah and they

[32:50]built their house they continue their business they build their house they

[32:53]try and find a balance in their life not too much work

[32:58]and no concern about the terribly of the children because there's differences

[33:01]of opinion as to how many children they had some say that

[33:06]there was four daughters that were given others talk of one daughter

[33:22]and then we mention of course the sons because the sons they

[33:26]mention as two or three sometimes you hear for example about qasim

[33:31]sometimes you hear for example about you hear the name abdullah you

[33:38]hear all of these different names allah subhanahu wa ta'ala had blessed

[33:41]them with these children when he blessed them neither did rasool allah

[33:46]spend all this time out and not be with the children nor

[33:51]did she spend all her time business and not enough time with

[33:53]the children they knew of the utmost importance was the children but

[33:56]one thing for her as well that strengthened her was what was

[34:01]that even her with all her purity and all her faith allah

[34:07]tested her with the death of her children it's not easy i

[34:11]know that there are mothers out there who have had a miscarriage

[34:13]there are some who've had the stillbirth it's not easy when you're

[34:18]sitting with your wife she gives birth and the child is dead

[34:20]it's not easy when your baby dies after a couple months what

[34:25]do i say to all those mothers who are watching who have

[34:27]seen such a thing i say to them your role model the

[34:31]person you hold on to and you empathize with what say that

[34:35]imagine you have a newborn male dies newborn male dies and imagine

[34:40]arabia at least in our time we have phone lines we have

[34:45]family we have cousins we have hostels we have hospitals we have

[34:50]psychologists in that time arabia what were they doing because they knew

[34:56]very well that this person is a person of importance you had

[35:00]some who slagged her off and others who tried to come and

[35:05]help her of those who slagged her off you had those who

[35:09]were calling her husband [Applause] when the animals cut when the animal's

[35:16]tail is cut they say that it's ebtar and therefore the arabs

[35:22]would say muhammad where's your sons one dies after the other you

[35:28]abhitar how difficult must it be psychologically people say say it now

[35:36]why do we suffer why do we have trials look at rasulallah

[35:39]you think what their marriage had no child their marriage was one

[35:44]without difficulties who were the success is when you begin to love

[35:48]each other more over the difficult period you'd get tighter to each

[35:54]other when they saw that the child was dying she maintained her

[35:58]patience with those who are patient she maintained her patience others will

[36:05]say why are we going to the mosque why do you even

[36:09]want to read why are you even praying look my child's dead

[36:11]because some people even start having thoughts of leaving religion when this

[36:15]calamity happens on the contrary you i will be your backbone i'll

[36:20]be with you wherever and that's why my dear brothers and sisters

[36:24]when the revelation came to announce his nubor we have a completely

[36:33]different understanding of it from non-shia in the world we know the

[36:36]two main schools in islam the sunni and the shia when that

[36:43]first revelation of the quran came the sunni version is what which

[36:46]you can read in the saha whether you want to go to

[36:50]bukhari for example you can read it there that this holy prophet

[36:54]of ours was uncertain about this revelation and what you want me

[36:58]to read and then you read other piece of literature it's as

[37:01]if he's having a seizure wants to jump off the mountain and

[37:04]then he comes home in khadijah he tells her what happened and

[37:08]khadijah says let's go to my cousin a christian and he'll verify

[37:14]what this is firstly for me as a shiite do i accept

[37:18]such things of course i don't no chance why don't i accept

[37:23]number one my prophet had known jibrael before that day so why

[37:26]is he getting all scared when jibrael has come yes the message

[37:30]is a heavy message it's a heavy message but why would i

[37:35]be scared number two my prophet wants to jump off a cliff

[37:38]then why is he a prophet i could have done the job

[37:40]my prophet is the embodiment of an upright model of spirituality of

[37:47]honor of dignity the highest character number three when my prophet goes

[37:52]back to his wife hadith yes i agree with you he'd go

[37:54]home to his wife his wife would tell him let's ask a

[37:56]christian to verify if you're a prophet so why doesn't the christian

[38:01]become a prophet if you've got the ability to verify who prophets

[38:04]are then why don't you become a prophet why is it that

[38:09]i go to a christian to verify you really think say the

[38:14]khadijah would say let's go to my cousin and he'll verify that's

[38:16]not my say is who she is the lady who knew that

[38:25]the revelation had come she wrapped up her husband knowing that the

[38:28]mission was about to begin the word of the lord had come

[38:33]upon him she was the one who helped him at that moment

[38:35]and said to him that i will support you in everything that

[38:39]we're gonna face whatever we're gonna see in front of us i

[38:42]am there's your supporter none of this seizure suicide epilepsy jumping off

[38:47]a cliff wants to come back and it's going crazy that's not

[38:51]my prophet my prophet he comes home to say the khadijah and

[38:54]he has two back three backbones at that time who are they

[38:57]he mentions it in hadith this religion would never have spread were

[39:03]it not for the wealth of khadija and the sword of ali

[39:06]those were two backbones his uncle and why do i say that

[39:12]say the khadijah would not be baffled by rasulullah coming from the

[39:18]mountain because her and imam ali used to join rasulullah had the

[39:20]cave of hera years before anyone else even knew about the revelation

[39:24]as imam used to say i used to follow him like the

[39:28]child of the she camel follows its mother it was only me

[39:31]and khadija who were with him who is it that used to

[39:35]pray alongside rasulallah while others were mushriks polytheists worshipping idols slapping their

[39:44]sisters who was it that was with rasulallah right from the beginning

[39:47]and ali they were the ones and i'm not talking about when

[39:53]the revelation came before the revelation who fed ali was 10 years

[40:11]of age or so when rasulallah received the revelation or just a

[40:17]bit older so therefore you found that say the khadijah was not

[40:21]somebody who was baffled by this they used to go to they

[40:23]used to sit there they used to pray there they used to

[40:28]meditate there we're not talking about a wife of rasulullah who comes

[40:32]from a background of shirk a wife of rasulallah who came from

[40:37]a background of merrymaking we're talking about a wife of rasulullah who

[40:41]was in the line of ibrahim of those who knew jibrael and

[40:46]used to smell the scent of revelation therefore when that revelation began

[40:52]abu these were the very backbones and never once did she trouble

[41:00]him you see if you look in the quran my dear brothers

[41:01]and sisters those of you who are sitting at home in the

[41:05]quran how many verses have you read where wives of the prophet

[41:08]trouble him subhanallah look in i'll give you two soras to read

[41:14]whether you're shia or not all our quran is the same even

[41:18]ours is printed and saudi don't worry whether you are shia or

[41:22]not go to two surahs in the quran surah 33 surah 66

[41:34]not difficult to remember double 33 and 66 in surah 33 from

[41:42]verses which verses from verses 28 onwards we see the two groups

[41:47]of the wives of rasulullah who he even says those of you

[41:54]who want this dunya come i'll let you go those verses in

[41:57]surah 33 that says whoever of you comes out with a public

[41:59]peace of indecency will punish her double punishment but the worst is

[42:05]surat divulging secrets to one another and a request of tawba has

[42:11]to be done and divorce is discussed wives of the prophet in

[42:17]some cases gave him severe headaches they gave him headache after headache

[42:22]where's our booty from khaibar why is that you like this marijuana

[42:27]why do you like the zayn up more than us jealousy beyond

[42:34]jealousy i ask you did khadijah ever give him one headache one

[42:39]headache that khadijah ever give him he said allah did not grant

[42:44]me better than allah did not grant me better than khadija everybody

[42:52]else when they rejected me she's the one who accepted me others

[43:00]boycotted me she spent her wealth on me it's a tragedy in

[43:05]the muslim ummah that the grave of say the khadijah in mecca

[43:11]is forgotten neglected and gentlemen you go there someone's standing there he

[43:14]says to you this is nothing nothing just go go baba this

[43:19]lady's wealth is the reason you're a human if you want to

[43:23]you if it wasn't for her wealth you'd be like the rest

[43:26]of the arabs but this lady's wealth is the one that took

[43:30]you out of jai helia she was that backbone whenever they would

[43:35]come and attack her husband the likes of um jamil the wife

[43:38]of abu lahab and the sister of abu sufyan and hind and

[43:42]they'd gossip and slander who do you think was there and she

[43:45]gave him fatama she used her wealth to support him and the

[43:55]quran said we found you in need and poor we made you

[43:58]self-sufficient and rich through hadoop she gave him fatah and fatima a

[44:07]lot of her strength a lot of her patience was looking at

[44:11]the strength and the patience of the role model that was her

[44:16]mother hadith because when it came to that period as we know

[44:21]father when her mother died father azara was howled it was five

[44:24]years of age when her mother died and you look at fatherhood

[44:31]she would always be close to her mother witnessing everything that her

[44:35]mother witnessed especially the most difficult thing for her mother and for

[44:38]fatima was what the boycott of rasulullah and the early muslims by

[44:45]the quraysh the quraysh decided that we're going to boycott muhammad and

[44:52]the others nobody can sell food to them nobody can trade with

[44:58]them you don't even marry anyone from them you don't marry anyone

[45:04]from them having seen that there were 40 signatories there who had

[45:10]all gathered at minna to make this decision abu talib said do

[45:13]not worry we'll stand up against them we go to my valley

[45:16]a man who gives his valley to the religion of islam you

[45:21]have the audacity to call kafir allah this is the problem in

[45:28]our history the ones who gave nothing became and the one who

[45:32]gave his valley at her moment you know what a boycott is

[45:35]economic sanctions you see a country which has economic sanctions you can't

[45:38]breathe can you breathe you can't breathe when these economic sanctions were

[45:44]happening was a child can you imagine your child all of you

[45:48]living in one place and that time she'd come to her mother

[45:51]you know when her mother gave birth to her something broke her

[45:58]heart and something broke the heart of father later when she would

[46:01]hear the story the ladies of mecca all boycotted the mother when

[46:04]she was giving birth you know normally a mom this girl when

[46:08]she's giving but she wants her mom next to her this girl

[46:12]when she's giving birth who does she want next to her she

[46:15]wants her friends next to her you always want some support khadija

[46:18]was boycotted by mecca how many she had helped but imam ali

[46:24]al-islam says that beautifully beware of the evil of the ones you've

[46:29]been generous to beware of the evil of the ones you've been

[46:34]generous to and so khadijah on the day she gave birth to

[46:39]fatima looked at rasool allah do you see the lights he said

[46:44]yes he said these are the ladies of jannah allah sent them

[46:49]that if others boycott me they were with me are you surprised

[46:52]if mary comes to be next to khadijah are you surprised if

[46:57]asia is there are you surprised if other great ladies of mecca

[47:00]stood proudly there and made sure that they were loyal there were

[47:04]ladies who were there but this broke her heart that everybody boycotted

[47:10]my mom is that what happened when she gave birth to me

[47:14]my mother all of you just left her when that happened the

[47:26]economic sanctions had taken place there were days when fatherhood would be

[47:29]to her dad to her mom where's dad said he's sleeping in

[47:35]a different place tonight why because they want to kill him she'd

[47:39]say to her mom how much sabor you must have you know

[47:44]what she'd replied to her this is little in the way of

[47:51]allah that whole line hadith there is a common denominator between them

[47:56]whatever we see as suffering for them they see as little in

[48:02]the way of allah five years of age mom where's dad i

[48:14]want to see my father where is he and saying it's in

[48:19]different place okay no problem who's sleeping in his bed tonight ali

[48:23]son of abu talib father gets introduced to the young imam ali

[48:28]sleeping in the bed of rasulullah khadija what would you do with

[48:35]her wealth make sure whatever we can get here's my money you

[48:37]can still go out if someone can help us i may have

[48:40]some cousins or nephews in meccan society they may send us some

[48:42]bread give them the money give the money give the money give

[48:48]the money alongside her nobody is going to touch us we're going

[48:52]to stay here even if all of you boycotts us until that

[48:56]year became the year of sadness for us and no doubt when

[49:03]we honor her fat every year it's a year of sadness a

[49:05]day of sadness a month of sadness for us because it was

[49:10]then that abu talib alayhis salaam died because of the hardship of

[49:16]these sanctions you know in some cases they were eating plants in

[49:19]some cases because there's no one dealing with them from supermarkets or

[49:22]from businesses so in some cases they had nothing to eat and

[49:26]this khadijah would give everything away from herself until one night when

[49:33]the sadness had begun to overcome her rasulallah said to her came

[49:40]to me said allah has built for you a house in jannah

[49:44]on the one hand when he said that she was so pleased

[49:47]on the other he got the hint that this means that she's

[49:53]coming towards her final moments may allah give you all sabor wherever

[49:56]you are at home because this lady for al muhammad is everything

[50:01]even imam al-hussein when he came out in kerbal in his final

[50:04]moments he said am i not the grandson of khadija not my

[50:13]grandmother is rasulullah not my grandfather they loved hadith if he ever

[50:23]saw that one of his wives had insulted khadija he'd make it

[50:29]clear he'd look towards her and he'd say very clearly allah honored

[50:32]me with this woman this kind woman with the sons he gave

[50:37]me from hers well fatima what did you give me what him

[50:42]created you and you gave nothing back towards me nobody was like

[50:49]26 years and he could have married somebody else he was in

[50:54]his youth if muslims are allowed to marry four how comes he

[50:57]only stuck with khadija and nobody else because he made it clear

[51:01]that there is no love like my love for khadija she is

[51:05]the love of my life can you therefore imagine when he looks

[51:09]at her lying on the ground in mecca and sees the pain

[51:14]overcoming her and the pain that overcame fathamatazara normally when you bury

[51:24]someone you would expect that there is a shroud to cover their

[51:27]body but imagine economic sanctions dictate that you can't even have a

[51:31]piece of cloth to cover the body of your beloved he wanted

[51:37]a piece of cloth to cover that body he realized that there

[51:39]is no piece of cloth even available at that time the narrations

[51:43]mentioned that at this moment at this moment she looked at him

[51:48]in the eyes she knew that he was troubled by what was

[51:53]happening she knew that at this moment he was being affected by

[52:00]what was happening she told him come towards me he came towards

[52:08]her that final time when he came towards her that final time

[52:12]he looked towards her eyes she looked towards the eyes of rasulullah

[52:19]she looked towards him she said to him i have one who

[52:25]was a yeah he said what is it she said to him

[52:30]fatima look after [Applause] she looked towards him she said to him

[52:52]where is my mother my beloved mother prophet of allah what can

[52:59]he reply to fatima to the young fatima he knows that her

[53:02]heart is broken he knows that that young father used to love

[53:06]her mother and now her mother's no more the narrations mention that

[53:12]he tried to get a shroud he wanted a shroud to bury

[53:17]her body to bury her body with a full shroud he looked

[53:20]one way he looked the other he realized that there wasn't a

[53:24]shroud that was long enough it's as if they allude the jibrael

[53:32][Applause] if he gave him a second shroud it was to cover

[53:45]whose body to cover the body of father when she dies as

[53:50]for the third shroud who for amir al-mu'min when he dies as

[53:57]for the fourth shroud for who for imam al-hasan alaihissalam when he

[54:00]dies but if ever if ever there was a shroud that he

[54:07]needed then a shroud for the body of a barbarian all of

[54:15]those had shrouds when they died say the khadijah there was some

[54:19]sort of shroud another albeit with a rib that was broken imam

[54:23]amir mean another albeit with a head that was covered with blood

[54:28]imam hassan another albeit with arrows all over it but one man

[54:33]one man his body lay there for three nights with no kevin

[54:37]to cover him when khadija had died she had said that my

[54:42]wasabi is that you look after fatima that's all i want that

[54:47]you look after her and the rest of the people honor her

[54:49]fatima is my life fatima is everything to me make sure no

[54:54]man ever hits her make sure no man ever attacks her inshallah

[55:00]one day she'll have babies inshallah she'll never be in danger did

[55:04]rasulullah that he made sure that she got married [Music] of course

[55:19]he did rasulullah make sure that danger was averted that there's no

[55:25]doubt about but i ask you my dear brothers and sisters when

[55:31]rasulullah died did they honor his daughter or did they take her

[55:37]sanctity away from her wanted was it for the daughter to be

[55:44]protected and for the daughter to be looked after one day a

[55:52]slap and another day a child miscarried and another day a fire

[55:56]that burns the house on for all of our brothers around the

[56:17]world especially our brothers and sisters who face difficulties in this time

[56:20]we have a sister of ours in mozambique who has been missing

[56:25]for a number of days ya allah return her in the name

[56:28]of say that all of our beloved ones who are unwell in

[56:36]this period we pray to allah for all of our beloved ones

[56:40]in the name of the verse of the quran bismillah [Music] to

[57:36]come together to honor the greatest wife of rasulullah but before it

[57:48]wherever you may be the loudest of salawat and we welcome our

[57:53]respected mullah to come towards the front with the loudest of your

[58:07]salawatt [Music] here [Music] [Music] upon us once again and inshallah allah

[58:49]your alma will be accepted the same development and relief foundation once

[58:54]again are running the ramadan food basket campaign each food basket contains

[59:01]food essentials such as flour rice oil meat vegetables tea lemons and

[59:07]not forgetting dates each food basket is only 20 pounds or 25

[59:12]us dollars i can feed a family of four for up to

[59:17]10 days [Music] you

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