10. Khadija over Aisha: The Shia View | Sayed Ammar Nakshawani | Ramadan 2026

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[5:03]Why is it that the Shia rever is greater than give more

[5:12]importance to say the Khadijah than they do to this question is

[5:19]a question that is asked by many non-shia.

[5:20]Why is it that we see that throughout Shia history and in

[5:26]Shia theological circles as well as in many discussions of the scholars

[5:29]the Shia have a great reverence for Khadijah but do not have

[5:32]that same reverence for Aisha.

[5:36]We know that in the majority of the Muslim world you'll find

[5:39]that in the Sunni school there is a reverence form and for

[5:42]Khadijah but that mainly seems to take a precedence over Khadijah.

[5:49]This precedence may be understandable according to some on one level in

[5:55]the sense that when a person looks at the books of a

[5:57]hadith you see that in the books of a hadith in Sunni

[6:02]literature Aisha has over 2,000 a hadith for she lived for more

[6:05]than 45 years after the prophet passed away we know that she

[6:12]lived during the life of the prophet but died before he migrated

[6:15]to Medina whereas Aisha lived after the prophet it all the way

[6:22]until just before.

[6:23]Therefore, one may understand that in the Sunni world, the reverence being

[6:27]given to above comes because of the fact that continued to spread

[6:33]a hadith of the holy prophet peace be upon him in his

[6:37]family.

[6:37]And therefore when we have been doing the examination of Bkari and

[6:40]Muslim and so on and so forth you see that either her

[6:42]name or Abu Hurra or Annis or Abdullah bin Omar being amongst

[6:50]the main narrators when the Shia school even with all of that

[6:54]the Shia clearly rever more than they rever indeed for some this

[7:01]might even be unusual for some non- Shia because some non Shia

[7:05]are taught from a young age that the Shia have no respect

[7:10]for the wives whatsoever.

[7:10]Many times when you enter a discussion with a non Shia, you'll

[7:15]see that the non Shia says, "But I'll never respect you because

[7:19]you don't respect the wives of Allah sallallahu alaihi." If we don't

[7:23]respect the wives of Allah sallallahu alaihi then why are we the

[7:25]only Muslims who are honoring the death of Sadam?

[7:29]If you go around now the Muslim world, there is no Muslims

[7:34]in the world today except the Shia who are honoring the death

[7:38]of Sadam.

[7:39]When we come on the 10th of the holy month of Ramadan,

[7:43]you could see that the majority of Muslims today, they may be

[7:46]doing, they may be havingar with each other, doing playing sports, doing

[7:52]whatever, but majority of the Muslims who are of course the non-SI

[7:58]do not remember Khalia today.

[8:00]Therefore, when someone says you the do not revere the wives firstly

[8:04]look at me tonight me and millions others have come together to

[8:08]honor on the contrary for me being the wife of s I

[8:16]would have no quam with any wife as long as that wife

[8:20]doesn't anger the prophet doesn't belittle the prophet doesn't disrespect the prophet

[8:25]peace be upon him and his family and I'm sure that equation

[8:28]Or that formula works for most Muslims.

[8:31]As in for most Muslims, if you were to ask them, anyone

[8:36]who angers or admits that they've angered, what would you say about

[8:42]them?

[8:42]You'll see that straight away that person will say, well, if someone

[8:47]admits proudly that they've angered, I'll never respect that person.

[8:52]And our barometer for the wives or for the Sahabah is the

[8:55]same.

[8:55]If there is a wife who has made the prophet happy in

[9:00]his life, pleased him, never made him annoyed or hurt or disrespected,

[9:05]then I respect that wife.

[9:06]And if I see a wife who's hurt him or hurts those

[9:11]who he loves, then automatically how do I have reverence for that

[9:15]person?

[9:16]The same applies for the Sahaba as well.

[9:20]Whenever you hear the stories, you'll hear that they say the Shia

[9:23]do not respect the Sahaba.

[9:24]On the contrary, I respect whoever remained loyal to the Ballam and

[9:29]whoever ended up fighting the B unless you respect those who fight

[9:34]the B.

[9:35]Then you have to meet the holy prophet on the day of

[9:37]judgment and say that I love those who attacked your al or

[9:44]killed your al attacked the cuz even those who say to you

[9:47]that when he left behind the Quran they say and he said

[9:52]look after my okay so if anyone attacks them or fights them

[9:54]if you want to take it as look after not hold on

[9:57]to them as authority then anyone who fights them then I'm against

[10:00]therefore when it comes to us of course for This area of

[10:05]the wives of the prophet is an important area throughout the Quran.

[10:08]It's discussed but none comes near for us.

[10:13]We know all the wives of the prophet peace be upon him

[10:18]and his family from says I can name you all the wives

[10:31]one by one.

[10:30]But the reality is that for us none comes near say let

[10:36]us tonight examine why is it that the Shia say that none

[10:42]comes near say and why especially do the Shia respect say on

[10:46]a level of no comparison to Aisha or indeed any other wife

[10:51]of the holy prophet peace be upon him and his family.

[10:54]The first reason without a doubt why the Shia reverb is because

[11:02]Khadijah never once angered the holy prophet peace be upon him and

[11:05]his family.

[11:07]Very simple that if a person looks at the life of Khadijah.

[11:13]You can never find a single incident or a single moment where

[11:17]she has ever annoyed or hurt the holy prophet peace be upon

[11:23]him and his family.

[11:23]I defy anyone if they show me in the years that they

[11:29]lived together that there was ever a time where the prophet said

[11:33]she angered me, she hurt me, she disrespected me, she showed me

[11:37]no love whatsoever and she ended up annoying me.

[11:41]Never will you see that in her biography at all.

[11:46]And that is something quite impeccable because we know very well that

[11:49]marriages can have their tiffs.

[11:50]You can have your difficulties.

[11:51]You can have your shouting matches.

[11:54]You can have your slanging matches.

[11:56]Even Allah subhanana wa ta'ala shows us in the Quran that wives

[12:03]like and cause difficulty for the holy prophet peace be upon him

[12:06]and his family.

[12:05]If you look in the Quran, you'll see in surahim surah 66

[12:11]of the Quran verse number 345, you find that the prophet tells

[12:18]his wife a secret whereith the prophet tells his wife a secret

[12:27]in that wife ends up telling another wife.

[12:28]I ask you when anyone asks you to keep a secret try

[12:32]and keep it.

[12:35]Imagine Allah Sall says to you, "Please look after the secret." Hapsa

[12:38]is the one who receives the secret.

[12:41]She goes and tells Aisha.

[12:42]When she tells Aisha, of course, Allah informs the prophet peace be

[12:49]upon him and his family about their behavior.

[12:52]And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala orders that both of them have to

[12:56]do Toba for what they've done.

[12:59]Otherwise, divorce proceedings are on the cards.

[13:05]You know in the sun of Abu Daw it says that actually

[13:10]divorced go to the sun of Abu Daw in aith narrated by

[13:18]Omar Kabah hadith of Abu Daw hadith number 2283 on which chapter

[13:24]taking your wife back after you've divorced her.

[13:29]You know very well my dear brothers and sisters when a person

[13:32]is married they ended up divorced at the time of talaq when

[13:38]the talaq is done there is the period in that period of

[13:40]a couple of months let's say a few months in that period

[13:45]there is revocable divorce and irrevocable divorce in that period you are

[13:50]able to take your wife back that period is a period of

[13:53]reflection do I miss her do I want her back does she

[13:58]miss me does she want me back in that hadith in the

[14:02]sun of Abu D because of behavior with s and the hurt

[14:11]that came to the prophet the prophet divorced hapsa because many times

[14:16]people think that the verse in surah 66:5 that says that divorce

[14:23]can be on the cards if these two do not do toba

[14:24]and will replace them with better wives many people think that Allah

[14:30]did not divorce.

[14:29]No, Rasool Allah divorced Hapsa.

[14:33]A month later he took Hapsa back.

[14:39]After a month narrates in the Sunnah of Abu Daw that after

[14:42]a month the prophet took Hapsa back.

[14:45]Why would Allah divorce you if you've treated him very nicely?

[14:50]For what reason would the holy prophet divorce hs the daughter of

[14:54]when he is the same prophet who tells us the worst of

[14:57]the halal in the eyes of Allah subhana wa ta'ala is but

[15:02]imagine how much hapsa has annoyed him that the prophet divorced her

[15:08]how about the incident narrated in sunni literature known as the incident

[15:13]of the ifk that Aisha one day was left behind in a

[15:16]caravan that was coming back from the bani and the expedition and

[15:21]then she came into Medina and there was a man with her

[15:23]and everyone accused her of being in an adulterous relationship.

[15:26]If we were to take the Sunni narration on this particular story,

[15:32]EVERYBODY KNOWS HOW MUCH HURT THAT brought Allah Sall that his wife

[15:37]had been with someone not Maharam to her and entered Medina.

[15:42]And of course, someone then turns around and tells the whole story

[15:46]about the pain that the prophet endured with the rumors and the

[15:49]gossip because his wife was even in a situation where she was

[15:56]with somebody behind his back on a journey entering Medina and the

[16:01]rumors of course went round the whole of Medina about what had

[16:08]happened.

[16:04]Hapsa caused him trouble.

[16:09]Aisha caused him trouble.

[16:10]Without a doubt, you'll see other wives as well.

[16:13]One has to look in surah 33 verse number 28 of the

[16:19]holy Quran when after the battle of some of the other wives

[16:21]were saying to him, "What's the point of being married to you

[16:23]when we don't get any of the spoils of war?

[16:26]All these other ladies are getting the spoils of war from the

[16:29]battle of and we're married to you.

[16:33]What do we get by being married to you?" Imagine someone says

[16:36]that to the holy prophet peace be upon him and his family

[16:39]and Allah subhana wa ta'ala reveals the verse knowing that these people

[16:45]want they don't want Allah subhana wa ta'ala reveals the verse oh

[16:59]wives of the prophet if you want and the pleasures of then

[17:03]come I'll let you go AND HAVE YOUR I ASK you all

[17:08]of these wives who hurt him, annoyed him, angered him, could you

[17:11]ever say Khadijah was one of them?

[17:12]Can anyone ever label on the CV of say Khadijah?

[17:17]And you know these wives maximum they lived with him for 10

[17:19]years say Khadijah lived with him for 26 years.

[17:22]One may argue that in 26 years you're bound to have one

[17:29]particular incident.

[17:27]in 26 years of marriage.

[17:30]There are some people the first year of marriage he has already

[17:34]got a migraine.

[17:33]This person 26 years she's with the holy prophet and let's be

[17:38]clear about something that just because you live with a prophet doesn't

[17:42]mean you become an angel automatically.

[17:44]Yes.

[17:46]Doesn't mean you become an angel.

[17:48]Nab's wife and Lord's wife were their biggest enemies.

[17:50]So this whole idea that if you live with a prophet no

[17:53]say Khadijah has her free will can also reveal secrets could also

[18:00]go and hang around with sad can also go and do what

[18:04]she does no but say never and that's why the holy prophet

[18:08]has a line which I'll never forget where he states that with

[18:18]I was given the risk of loving her.

[18:21]Imagine this is the second reason we raise the khadijah to the

[18:26]status that we raise.

[18:26]Number one that she never angered the holy prophet peace be upon

[18:31]him's family.

[18:30]Number two that the prophet peace be upon him's family said I

[18:36]was given the risk of loving khadijah.

[18:38]Every time you hear the word risk you normally imagine money straight

[18:40]away isn't it?

[18:40]When someone says may Allah increase your risk straight away you think

[18:46]pounds and dollars.

[18:45]When the reality is that Allah said you know what risk I've

[18:51]been given the love of ifool Allah says Khadijah's love is risk

[18:55]then no doubt I must honor when she passed away and honor

[19:00]when she's born I must make sure both are honored for whatever

[19:04]historical details I have never ever said that I have been given

[19:10]the risk of love of any wife like he said about Sayam.

[19:15]Therefore, the second reason after anger and that she never angered him

[19:22]once in his life.

[19:22]The second reason we see that when our prophet says someone is

[19:27]a risk, that person is the highest person.

[19:30]When now you say your mom is the risk of your life,

[19:31]your dad is the risk of your life.

[19:33]When you say that, someone says, "But don't you want money instead

[19:37]of them?" You're like, "Money doesn't come near my parents.

[19:38]I'd do anything to have my parents with me right now or

[19:43]take give me all the money in the world.

[19:45]I want my parents next to me.

[19:47]Now the prophet says my was sayam.

[19:49]That's number two.

[19:51]Number three would send salams to say the from Allah subhana wa

[19:56]ta'ala.

[19:57]That is a status that nobody receives.

[20:00]Yes.

[20:01]Always we see these lines that there is always this salam coming

[20:06]from Allah subhana wa ta'ala.

[20:09]That salam from Allah subhanana wa ta'ala is reserved for those individuals

[20:12]who are the most obedient to Allah subhana wa ta'ala who never

[20:16]disobey Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala who've never hurt Allah subhanana wa ta'ala

[20:21]yes who have never annoyed those on the path of Allah subhanana

[20:25]wa ta'ala and yet you find that sad Allah would send his

[20:33]salams to her because of her sacrifices for the religion of Islam

[20:37]which brings us to our Fourth point who sacrificed like say the

[20:40]khadisam all the other wives hapsa others they lived with the prophet

[20:48]nine years maybe 10 years say the khadijah 26 years of sacrifice

[20:52]everything that she had said the khadijah gave back to the holy

[20:58]prophet peace be upon him and his family never once did you

[21:01]ever see that she said I don't want to give anything every

[21:06]type of sacrifice that could ever be done.

[21:07]Say the khadijah made sure that she sacrificed in the path of

[21:11]the holy prophet peace be upon his family.

[21:14]You look at the holy prophet when he married say the khadijah

[21:17]someone sometimes has to sacrifice.

[21:18]If you love somebody you make a sacrifice.

[21:21]She knew that he wasn't as wealthy as her but she also

[21:24]knew that there was nobody with the morals that he had.

[21:28]She made a sacrifice there.

[21:29]Others would say I will only marry those who are the same

[21:35]level of wealth as me.

[21:35]But she saw somebody who had the morals of sall and she

[21:41]stayed with him because she knew a that secondly she believed in

[21:49]him when nobody else was believing in him.

[21:50]It's not easy for a person to believe in you and make

[21:56]the sacrifice to pray with you when nobody else is praying.

[22:03]when Aisha you see she marries the prophet Islam has now grown

[22:06]her husband is the leader of Medina there are thousands of Muslims

[22:09]in Medina say the Khadijah used to pray behind the prophet peace

[22:14]be upon him's family by the Kaa when there was only three

[22:17]of them doesn't Abbas sit with Abu Sufyan Abbas the uncle of

[22:22]the prophet peace be upon him's family sits with Abu Sufyan and

[22:25]when he sits with Abu Sufyan Abu Sufyan says who are these

[22:28]who are praying what are they doing.

[22:31]He said, "That's my nephew Muhammad sallallahu alaihi and that is my

[22:36]other nephew Ali." And Imam Ali was so young at the time

[22:39]and that with him is his wife Khadijah.

[22:41]How many people were in the roles of Jama in those early

[22:48]days?

[22:45]Nobody was there.

[22:48]Look at the sacrifice that that sacrifice that when nobody is believing

[22:52]in him, she's saying I'll stand with you.

[22:55]And why do I call it a sacrifice?

[22:57]Because it's a dangerous situation.

[22:59]Listen, these animals of the Meccan aristocrats, they didn't mind ripping the

[23:05]body of a female or the body of a male.

[23:08]Didn't matter who you were.

[23:09]You were a female, they torture you to death.

[23:12]And if you were a male, they torture you to death.

[23:17]So when say the khadijah sacrificed to join the holy prophet peace

[23:20]be upon him, his family, and let's make it clear out of

[23:22]understanding, it wasn't she was just you're my husband, so I'll support

[23:28]you anyway.

[23:27]No, no, no, no.

[23:29]She knew and she used to hear the revelation when it used

[23:31]to come.

[23:32]Who used to accompany him all to that mountain?

[23:36]Who used to be with him going up to How many of

[23:40]you have been to Mecca?

[23:42]You've been to Omrah or to Hajj.

[23:44]You see that huge mountain?

[23:44]Who would accompany him?

[23:46]Who would bring him food?

[23:48]Who would make sure that he's looked after?

[23:52]Who would be there?

[23:52]Was difficult times, dangerous times.

[23:56]say look at the sacrifices of this lady that she would be

[24:00]there when nobody else would believe in his mission and Sunni thought

[24:04]they describe that when he came back from the mountain he had

[24:09]this epileptic fit and he didn't know if he was possessed and

[24:11]she was the one who embraced him we reject that first part

[24:14]but we accept the second the second that when say the khadijah

[24:19]saw him come back from the first revelation she's the one who

[24:21]made sure that she welcomed him at that moment moment and then

[24:26]when he went out and preached the message of the religion of

[24:29]Islam who was the lady who was his backbone her wealth is

[24:35]the reason we are Muslims today if it wasn't for the wealth

[24:38]of Khadijah and the sword of Ali that wealth I ask how

[24:43]many other wives gave that much wealth as much as she did

[24:45]when you say to me that other wives are greater than her

[24:50]show me where the other wives gave the wealth that say the

[24:53]khadijah gave In the first 10 years of Islam, the prophet did

[24:57]not marry anybody else.

[24:58]And in those first 10 years of the religion, three of them

[25:02]there was economic sanctions.

[25:04]And you know, economic sanctions cripples a movement.

[25:06]When you want to move, you cannot move when there's economic sanctions.

[25:12]It cripples you completely.

[25:12]Who is it that whatever wealth she had?

[25:15]And it's a big lesson for us, my dear brothers and sisters.

[25:18]Some of us how much do we actually give throughout the year

[25:23]to the propagation and the teachings of the religion of Islam.

[25:27]If you ask me you will find people who will give towards

[25:31]going out for restaurants and enjoying cafes and enjoying their life and

[25:38]so on which is great.

[25:39]Islam wants us to be balanced.

[25:40]When you ask them how much have you put into learning and

[25:47]and making sure that Bates's message is spread that's when everyone becomes

[25:50]stingy.

[25:51]any other occasion if there's a benefit for you that you could

[25:58]see very if I can see it then why do I need

[26:03]to believe in your when I see there are sometimes people they'll

[26:05]say to you I'll give to that that I can see I

[26:10]can't see what me giving to and propagation is going to get

[26:14]me at the time when she was giving Islam was what made

[26:17]up of how many 30 40 50 people never stopped her giving

[26:21]Never.

[26:22]And that's why when Allah subhana wa ta'ala all of you know

[26:26]the ayats and when you were poor who is it we found

[26:50]you poor and we made you rich.

[26:54]Who did Allah use to make him rich?

[26:55]Allah used the wealth of not the wealth of any other wife.

[27:03]All these other wives, you'll find amongst them some loyal wives, obedient

[27:09]wives.

[27:07]No doubt I love Salama with all my heart and I revere

[27:11]her highly.

[27:12]But I ask you, did you ever hear about all these other

[27:14]wives giving from their wealth to the religion of Islam?

[27:18]It's not like they never had money.

[27:20]Islam spread after Allah sallallahu alaihi wasall a lot of these wives

[27:27]were alive.

[27:26]How many of them do you hear from their money they built

[27:30]this?

[27:30]Sometimes I have to wait all the way until people like Zubed

[27:33]the wife of Harun Rashid to find generous ladies in the Islamic

[27:38]Empire.

[27:39]Why?

[27:39]When you had someone like say, what do you always need for?

[27:49]You need people who are philanthropists in life.

[27:50]Correct?

[27:51]We love philanthropy.

[27:53]When you know someone in your community who's a huge donor, that

[27:57]person who's a huge donor, you respect them highly.

[28:01]Why?

[28:00]While others who have the same wealth as him are stingy, that

[28:05]person is generous.

[28:05]There are others who have the same.

[28:09]But number two, it's ti from Allah that you are able to

[28:11]donate.

[28:12]Believe you me, sometimes people think they're doing a favor to Islam

[28:15]when they give money for donation.

[28:17]No, no, no, no, no, no.

[28:20]Allah has done you a favor that you are now written amongst

[28:22]the records of those who spread the word of Islam.

[28:26]You think it's you.

[28:26]Oh, I'm doing you a favor.

[28:29]But on the contrary, Allah has blessed you with the of giving

[28:33]towards the religion.

[28:36]When the holy prophet said that sadijah's wealth and Imam Ali's sword

[28:40]if it wasn't for these two the religion wouldn't have spread what

[28:43]does that mean that means that this lady did not just rest

[28:48]on her wealth and said others should give why am I always

[28:50]giving sometimes you hear people say this why is it always me

[28:55]you should thank Allah that you are giving you should on the

[28:57]contrary say alhamdulillah it's always me God must love me like he

[29:00]loved the man who gave his ring away in it's an honor

[29:04]to be able to help those who are in need let alone

[29:06]help the religion of Islam cuz I just differentiated between two things

[29:09]there used to help those in need but also help the propagation

[29:15]of Islam.

[29:16]We have many who help those who are in need and very

[29:19]few who help the propagation of Islam.

[29:21]You ask them donate towards charity orphans widows homeless straight away.

[29:28]Why?

[29:28]Because sometimes they see it as a sin cleaning machine.

[29:32]If I give towards this, it cleans my haram.

[29:37]When you say to them, donate towards donate towards say no, no,

[29:41]no, no.

[29:41]I've already given a lot towards the poor.

[29:44]I didn't say the poor.

[29:44]The poor is one thing.

[29:48]And the orphans of knew where to go.

[29:50]But the religion of Islam could not have survived if you were

[29:53]only donating to the poor.

[29:55]The religion was only surviving because Khadijah's wealth.

[30:01]You ask me why I value Khadijah above others because gave wealth

[30:05]which others did not contribute.

[30:07]Others there are many stories about them but very rare you hear

[30:12]stories that they gave from their wealth until the very last dime,

[30:16]the very last centenny.

[30:18]Whereas Khadijah everything that she had.

[30:21]The next reason why we value sad above all else is even

[30:26]in Sunni literature not just in Shia literature that there are four

[30:30]of the perfect woman in paradise.

[30:31]Yes.

[30:32]So you ask me as a why do YOU PUT KHADIJAH HIGHER

[30:37]than all the other wives higher than Aisha?

[30:40]Higher than Zanab higher than Maria higher than Joy higher than why

[30:44]because I see the hadith that the four women of Jenna who

[30:47]are they?

[30:49]The four women of Jenna are of course Assa, the wife of

[30:56]and Mariam, the mother of Jesus and Khadijah, the wife of the

[31:02]holy prophet peace be upon him and his family and of course

[31:03]her daughter Fatam.

[31:06]No doubt when I'm looking at this this not just in Shia

[31:11]hadith I'm looking at Sunni hadith here when I can see that

[31:14]other hadiths also mention the perfect woman.

[31:17]Yes, those who have reached kamal in their stature in their position.

[31:25]That kamal means that these are literally the purest.

[31:26]You won't find anyone like them.

[31:30]When they walk, they are obedient.

[31:35]When they talk, they are obedient.

[31:38]Never ever will you find them in any way jealous of others,

[31:41]wanting them to be destroyed in any other way.

[31:47]And that's why you find that jealousy affects her doesn't affect Khadijah

[31:54]the jealousy affects her from the other wives of the prophet whereas

[32:02]Khadijah never once says I'm jealous of somebody says where does Aisha

[32:06]say this has a famous line I was not JEALOUS OF ANY

[32:16]WIVES OF THE PROPHET except imagine I was not jealous of any

[32:33]wife of the prophet except but then she adds a final line

[32:40]to it and I have never even met her.

[32:42]Normally, if you're jealous of someone, it's someone you blatantly seen and

[32:46]their success annoys you, their happiness hurts you, she says, "I haven't

[32:52]even met her and I'm jealous of her." That jealousy against Khadijah

[32:58]means that Aisha can never come near being on that level of

[33:04]perfection.

[33:05]Yes.

[33:04]Or that level being ranked as the full woman of Jenna.

[33:09]That jealousy that's there that's number one from A is number two

[33:14]not just that you will see that that jealousy results in her

[33:20]hurting and angering the prophet to the extent that Aisha herself says

[33:25]something that Khadijah never done that Aisha does.

[33:28]She says who I angered the prophet.

[33:33]In which incident?

[33:33]You know what the prophet used to do?

[33:35]When the prophet used to remember say the khadijah for example when

[33:40]there would be sacrifice of meat say the prophet would tell say

[33:45]the khadijah her sister and those related to her go out and

[33:49]give meat to the friends of say khadijah.

[33:52]That you would think would make the other wives happy.

[33:57]If they are pure-hearted, they'd be happy.

[33:57]Except Aisha.

[34:00]Aisha says, "What's wrong with you that you always remember the lady

[34:05]of the red gums?" Of the old gums, meaning the old lady,

[34:10]what's wrong with you?

[34:10]I asked you someone who says that to the holy prophet peace

[34:13]be upon his family.

[34:14]Isn't that the biggest level of disrespect?

[34:16]Don't you imagine that this would hurt the holy prophet peace be

[34:20]upon him, his family?

[34:24]And then she would say to him Imagine she would say Allah

[34:35]has given you better than her.

[34:36]And this is our most important line.

[34:40]Please focus on this.

[34:40]When people say why do the respect say above is listen to

[34:49]what the prophet says.

[34:49]She said to him, "What?

[34:56]Allah has given you better than her.

[34:59]Allah has replaced her with better than her." And the prophet replies,

[35:11]"Allah has not given me better than her." Imagine that's as clear

[35:18]as day.

[35:20]this musnet of Ahmed bin Hal behind me that we've been opening

[35:23]go and read the hadith she is telling him Allah has given

[35:29]you better than her why do you keep remembering her wall if

[35:32]now someone I love remembers someone who was in their life but

[35:36]she's now died I wouldn't say what's wrong with you always remember

[35:38]may Allah bless her soul let's read a for her wouldn't we

[35:44]say these lines would you honestly honestly would you tell somebody What's

[35:48]wrong with you remembering that old lady?

[35:50]How much venom must you have to do such a thing?

[35:55]So she says to him, Allah replaced her with better than her.

[36:01]And he said, Allah has not replaced with better than her.

[36:06]That's the biggest statement you can ever make.

[36:09]True that Allah has not replaced nobody comes near her.

[36:15]Nobody will ever reach the spiritual status of sad that Allah send

[36:19]salams to her that she sacrificed for me.

[36:23]She never angered me.

[36:23]She never annoyed me.

[36:25]She was never jealous of me.

[36:27]She gave everything that she had towards me.

[36:32]And most importantly as well when we say why we rever is

[36:37]that Khadijah never hurt somebody who Allah loved.

[36:42]Whereas Aisha had hurt a number of people who rasool Allah loved.

[36:47]If you look at Khadijah, did she ever hurt Im Ali Alisam?

[36:51]I ask you all a question.

[36:52]In Islamic history, the books are all here.

[36:56]Did say Khadijah ever hurt imam in his life?

[37:01]They both were the first to become Muslim.

[37:03]Isn't that true?

[37:03]They were both the first to become Muslim.

[37:06]Did you ever ever see that?

[37:11]say the khadijah shouted at Imm Ali or told people to hurt

[37:14]Imam Ali or raised an army against Imam Ali to annoy Im

[37:19]Ali ever because we know very well the prophet had made it

[37:22]clear love of Ali is faith and hatred of Ali is hypocrisy.

[37:26]The companions would say if we want to know the hypocrites we

[37:31]would see what we would see their hate of their love of

[37:34]that is how we would know who is the you want to

[37:40]know a or a the prophet in literature would always make clear

[37:45]that if you want to know who's a look at their love

[37:49]for Ali or their hate of Ali you'll realize who's a hypocrite

[37:55]I ask you say ever hurt Im Ali Alisam she lived with

[37:58]Imam Ali until Imam Ali was how old?

[38:00]Until Imam Ali was 20 years of age.

[38:02]20 years of Imam Ali's life ever she hurt him.

[38:07]Ever she disrespected him.

[38:07]Ever she raised an army to kill him.

[38:11]Whereas raised the whole army at the battle of Jal with one

[38:18]intention.

[38:19]You killed those who either killed or the man who protects them.

[38:22]How could you rate Aisha anywhere near Khadijah when Khadijah never hurt

[38:30]Ali?

[38:29]Did Khadijah ever hurt Jaffar Im Ali's brother?

[38:32]We know very well my dear brothers and sisters that in Islamic

[38:38]history Jaffar WAS 10 YEARS OLDER THAN Im Ali.

[38:42]So Jaffar 30 years of age when Khadijah died.

[38:46]Did Khadijah ever hurt Jaffar?

[38:51]DID KHADIJAH EVER HURT ABU TALIB?

[38:52]Did Khadijah ever ever HURT KHADIJAH LAID HER LIFE SO THAT Benny

[38:59]Hashim would remain alive?

[38:59]Imagine.

[39:00]And so when a person comes and says why' you rate above

[39:05]and the other wives never stood against the signs of Allah on

[39:11]earth.

[39:12]whereas others caused armies and civil wars and raised people to have

[39:17]hatred of Imam Ali alis and that's why in that hadith when

[39:25]the prophet is asked why do you love so much when Allah

[39:30]has given her better than you and the prophet replied Allah has

[39:36]not given me better than after that he explains why Why has

[39:42]Allah not given you better than Khalijah?

[39:44]Listen to his explanation.

[39:45]What does he say?

[39:47]He says she believed in me when no one else believed in

[39:52]me.

[39:50]Yes, very clear.

[39:53]Number two, she believed in my truthfulness when everyone else was calling

[39:59]me a liar.

[39:59]That's beautiful.

[40:01]How many were calling him and still believed in him?

[40:09]You know, when everyone tells you, "Don't respect this guy.

[40:11]You shouldn't listen to this guy.

[40:12]This guy, you got to be careful from him.

[40:14]Make sure you don't go near this guy." It's very hard for

[40:18]you not to listen to the Chinese whispers, isn't it?

[40:20]It's hard when someone's telling you, "This guy's a fraud.

[40:25]This guy's a gangster, this guy is a liar, this guy is

[40:28]a scammer." And for YOU TO REMAIN ADAMANT in believing in him

[40:34]and his truthfulness, but she knew the man was sad before he

[40:37]announced his noa.

[40:39]How could he change after he announces his true?

[40:40]She knew I've never seen him in my life.

[40:42]Utter a lie.

[40:44]How am I going to change my mind now?

[40:47]There's no way whatsoever.

[40:47]He said she believed in me when no one else did.

[40:51]And she believed in my truthfulness when everybody else was saying I'm

[40:54]a liar.

[40:56]And she spent out of her wealth for me.

[40:59]Yes, no doubt.

[41:01]All of us could see that.

[41:03]And then the final line above all else and she gave me

[41:09]children Allah cuz we know that did not give rasool Allah children.

[41:13]Havsa did not give rasool Allah children.

[41:15]We know very well did not give rasool Allah children.

[41:20]Soda Joy Zbahash all of these did not.

[41:25]Mariela the Mary the Coptic she gave him the son Ibraim who

[41:28]also died young but the rest of the wives did not give

[41:33]him children rather sayam gave him children how many children of course

[41:38]differ you'll find a number of the say she gave him six

[41:44]children to the holy prophet peace be upon him and his family

[41:46]four daughters and two sons who were the daughters she gave him

[41:53]zanab And of course and from the sons we all know that

[42:03]she gave him oh abdah you hear these names.

[42:07]So she gave him six children.

[42:09]That is not something small.

[42:10]Yes.

[42:11]Someone might say so what Allah can give anyone children?

[42:13]No no no no no no no.

[42:17]He given six children to Allah sallallahu alaihi and when they die

[42:20]she is the one who's supporting him in his hurt when they

[42:23]saying to him abdar abdar who would he go back to who

[42:28]would console him even though she's the one who has lost those

[42:30]babies she would console the holy prophet peace be upon him and

[42:36]his family normally if a lady loses her baby it's the husband

[42:39]who's the one who has to but Arabia was insulting her husband

[42:45]Arabia were insulting the husband by saying look the abar has walked

[42:48]past.

[42:49]We know the abar means what the animal has a tail.

[42:51]If the tail is cut off they call the animalar.

[42:54]So they were saying Muhammad is the abbar.

[42:57]He has no tail left anymore.

[43:00]Who's going to inherit him?

[43:01]He has no sons.

[43:03]His sons are dying would be a backbone to him.

[43:09]But Allah subhana wa ta'ala answered kar Allah subhana wa ta'ala replied

[43:16]that we have given you kar kar means what on the one

[43:19]hand kar means abundance okay abundance of a great amount of that

[43:26]they say to you that your boys the sons of khadijah from

[43:28]your six kids your two boys have died they're saying to you

[43:34]no one will continue your line we will make sure there's abundance

[43:37]of in your line and one of the instances or the mistak

[43:40]that could be applied to this isam no doubt that Zah from

[43:46]her line I ask you is there any sad in the world

[43:51]today or no are there any sadat in the world any says

[43:52]in the world now or no yes how many you think there's

[43:56]a few would you agree if you go to east London west

[43:58]London north London south London you'll find sardat you'll go to the

[44:04]north Bradford Birmingham Manchester Blackburn, Luton, you'll find Sadat.

[44:09]You take me to Scotland, Sadat.

[44:11]Take me Pakistan, Sadat, Afghanistan, Sadat, Iraq, Sadat, Iran, Sadat.

[44:16]King of Morocco, royal family, says king of Jordan, royal family, says

[44:22]go to Lebanon, Sadat, Yemen, Sadat.

[44:26]Go everywhere in the world, you will find a son of Fat

[44:31]Zaham.

[44:32]Yes.

[44:33]Everywhere in the world, there is that abundance of that there are

[44:41]mus everywhere.

[44:47]Why?

[44:48]Allah had promised that what gave the religion I will honor it

[44:52]in this world and the hereafter in this world.

[44:55]How did he honor it?

[44:58]He made sure that Fatama received Fedak.

[45:00]Why did Sall give fed to Fatham?

[45:03]You think the amount of money that her mom gave this religion

[45:08]Allah wasn't going to replace it with something when the Quran said

[45:12]give your nearest of Allah gave to and only's father and's father

[45:22]made sure that it was taken from her later on.

[45:23]Yeah.

[45:24]Because Abu Bakr narrates the hadith and it doesn't matter if NO

[45:29]ONE ELSE NARRATES it as long as the first califf narrates it.

[45:31]Everyone has to stay quiet.

[45:32]Yeah.

[45:32]On the one hand, there was the h that she had given

[45:37]to Islam.

[45:38]Allah tried to give it back to her daughter Fatama.

[45:39]On the other hand, until today worldwide, there are those who call

[45:46]out salam on.

[45:47]And how many of us wish that this lady's legacy would have

[45:52]remained alive.

[45:53]You know, if this was any other religion, they would have now

[45:56]built museums in her honor.

[45:57]They would have made sure that her place of visitation has pamphlets

[46:01]and books all around it and there's a nice mosque for people

[46:06]to go in so that they could at least pray to thanking

[46:09]Allah for the z you go to Jenna Malah today in Mecca

[46:14]you see that the grave doesn't even have an edifice on top

[46:19]of it yes that edifice that we see on top of the

[46:21]grave of sai in Medina why is there no edifice erected over

[46:27]the grave of why is there just a rock on top of

[46:28]that grave?

[46:29]Why?

[46:30]When a lady has never annoyed the prophet, never hurt the prophet,

[46:34]never angered the prophet.

[46:37]We know Quran says those who anger Allah and his prophet on

[46:46]them.

[46:47]Khadijah never angered others angered never angered.

[46:50]And yet you go to Mecca today, the first Muslim, the first

[46:57]lady to embrace the religion and the one with the bestl and

[47:02]the most noble character who Allah sent his salams to who the

[47:07]prophet was say her love is a for me today her grave

[47:13]in Mecca there isn't a single person reciting a melus or a

[47:18]lecture near it and that's why in life When a person says

[47:21]life has treated me unjustly I always reply don't my brother don't

[47:25]worry injustice what they faced in their life alhamdulillah for our life

[47:33]at least with your grandparents today you can go to the or

[47:36]the you go there you might see 20 people there 40 people

[47:40]you might do a mealist there and you have 150 200 who's

[47:42]doing a medist for say tonight who's doing a medelist for her

[47:48]daughter Fath tonight who's doing a medist for the imam of tonight

[47:52]who's doing a majus for Abu Talib and that's why when she

[47:57]died the prophet peace be upon him's family said about the year

[48:01]when she and Abu Talib died that it's the year of grief

[48:04]the year of grief nothing broke the heart of Allah and one

[48:12]may argue one of the first in was the of correct one

[48:19]of the first of the mas.

[48:22]And it wasn't that she died in a rosy period.

[48:23]She died in the middle of the valley of Abu Talib where

[48:29]she ended her life not eating the best of meat, the best

[48:32]of chicken, the best of meals, eating from some of the weeds

[48:37]and the plants that were in the mountains of Mecca.

[48:40]A lady who had wealth in Quraysh was now the lady who

[48:45]was saying, "It doesn't matter.

[48:46]Let everyone else eat properly.

[48:47]It doesn't matter if I don't eat well as long as the

[48:51]religion of Islam remains alive.

[48:52]And that's why on this night in the holy month of Ramadan,

[48:59]one's thoughts go with fat zaham.

[49:00]Imagine the sight for fat.

[49:03]Fath was how old?

[49:04]Wallah.

[49:05]Sometimes when I think about it, I think fat z from the

[49:07]beginning of her life till the end of her life is I'm

[49:10]just trying to find a period in her life where there's some

[49:15]happiness.

[49:16]She's 5 years old on a night like this and under the

[49:20]darkness of Mecca skies.

[49:20]Imagine the sight for Allah.

[49:25]When you want to bury someone you love, normally you want the

[49:30]kan to cover their whole body.

[49:31]I want everyone to reflect on anyone that they've buried who's beloved

[49:36]to them.

[49:38]How careful were you that the kan covered their whole body?

[49:42]How careful were you with theul that you gave them?

[49:46]Whoever you've loved, whether it's your father or your mother, those you've

[49:50]lost, remind yourself how careful you were to make sure they had

[49:56]the best burial.

[49:55]Then imagine the burial of Benny Hashim and especially the burial of

[50:02]that the kan wasn't even long enough to cover the body of

[50:10]that's why some of the historians narrate the gira himself delivered the

[50:14]kan for what injustice is it that someone dies without a kan

[50:23]on their body nobody deserves to leave this world without a cuffer

[50:28]on this body.

[50:31]Yes.

[50:32]Imagine the sight for fat as her mother's body was being lowered

[50:37]into the ground.

[50:39]That sight for Z only Allah knows what pain she was going

[50:43]through.

[50:44]Only Allah knows what tears were coming from the eyes of Fatama

[50:50]on a night like this.

[50:50]How do you console herasool Allah?

[50:52]How do you make sure that she remains calm seeing her mother

[50:56]being taken?

[50:58]It broke the heart of Rasool Allah seeing Fatama in tears.

[51:06]If being in tears broke your heart, then come behind that door

[51:11]in Medina and see Fatama's ribs being broken apart.

[51:15]Imagine the sight for Allah.

[51:19]He seen that moment for Fatar.

[51:20]Yes.

[51:21]Rasool Allah had wished that none of his family ever again goes

[51:24]through a moment where they don't have anything to cover their body.

[51:27]Yes, that's all he had wanted from Allah subhana wa ta'ala that

[51:33]this surely there was a kan for her body.

[51:36]But he never wanted there to be a moment again where there's

[51:38]a member of the family.

[51:40]Alhamdulillah when she died there was something to cover her body.

[51:47]Alhamdulillah when Amir Alman died in a month like this in just

[51:50]over 10 nights there was something to cover his body.

[51:56]Alhamdulillah when Im Hassan died there was something to cover his body.

[52:01]If all of these had covers of their body, then the horses

[52:09]took the cover away from the body of say as he lay

[52:15]on the earth of on the night of the imagine the sight

[52:23]for the eyes of Allah when he saw them plundering the body

[52:30]of Hussein as he lay on the earth of Cariban.

[52:33]alone.

[52:34]I'd like you to leave with this narration.

[52:36]On the night of the 11th of Muharam, the ladies were trying

[52:41]to get some sleep.

[52:42]It was Sharan, the granddaughters of the children were all trying to

[52:50]sleep.

[52:48]The granddaughters Zanab and Kulum were trying to sleep.

[52:52]Some of the ladies, they were managing to sleep.

[52:56]Others of them were restless.

[52:58]One of them who was restless was the wife of Zu.

[53:02]Yes, she was restless.

[53:05]She was moving one way and the other.

[53:08]Her husband's body was out on the plains of Kbalah.

[53:10]She couldn't take the fact that her husband had died without a

[53:15]piece of cloth on his body.

[53:15]So she called her servant.

[53:16]She said to her servant, "My servant, come near me." She said,

[53:21]"Yes." She said, "I want you to go out, look for Zer's

[53:23]body, and then when you find it, make sure that you cover

[53:29]it." The servant went out towards the bodies one by one.

[53:33]Until she shortly returned afterwards.

[53:35]Dam looked at her, said to her, "Did you cover Zaher's body?"

[53:43]The servant said, "I apologize.

[53:45]I never covered his body." Uh, Dam said to her, "Why?

[53:48]I asked you one thing.

[53:51]All I want from you is to cover his body.

[53:56]Uh her reply breaks our hearts every year.

[54:00]She said to her as I was about to cover the body

[54:03]of I saw the holy body of with no cover on it.

[54:14]I thought to myself, how can I cover the body of Zer

[54:17]and the body of the son of Zah lies with no cover

[54:24]on it?

[54:43]Raise your hands my dear brothers and sisters.

[54:45]Ya Allah allow us to be amongst the companions and those who

[54:51]make sure that they protect the message of sadisam.

[54:55]Ya Allah allow us to be amongst those who continue her message

[55:00]wherever we are.

[55:00]Ya Allah allow us one day to have a majus by her

[55:05]grave in Mecca.

[55:07]Ya Allah provide us with her intercession.

[55:10]our allow them to be amongst those who receive her shaf on

[55:13]the day of judgment.

[55:13]Allow us to be amongst the companions of your imm.

[55:18]The originators of this majus and the team at Im Hussein TV

[55:23]ya Allah allow them to continue in the service of Muhammad and

[55:26]al Muhammad we pray to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for all of

[55:32]your but before it wherever you may be the loudest salawat.

[55:37]Oh hey, away.

[56:14]We are in the blessed holy month of Ramadan and there's no

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[56:20]Imam Hussein charity is giving you the chance to provide food baskets

[56:23]for this tune in poorish families.

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10. Khadija over Aisha: The Shia View | Sayed Ammar Nakshawani | Ramadan 2026

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10. Khadija over Aisha: The Shia View | Sayed Ammar Nakshawani | Ramadan 2026

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