Wafat of Sayyida Khadija (a.s) - Eve of 10th Shahru Ramadhan 1443AH

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[32:08]we our collective taziyyid and condolence go to the imam of our

[32:13]time the words of sayyidahs alayhi salaam may allah hasten his reappearance

[32:19]on such an occasion it is one of the earliest of the

[32:29]moments of grief for the holy messenger and for the household of

[32:34]that great personality muhammad rasulullah if you look at the very first

[32:49]passing away the very first wafaaat the very first jihadat in the

[32:55]history of islam she will be there right at the very beginning

[33:01]in that very early of times yes there were those before her

[33:06]of course hazrat i ammar his parents were the first on the

[33:11]shivada however her waqfat marked the beginning of the dhulam on the

[33:21]household of rasulullah and then that was followed very closely by the

[33:31]wafaaat of the uncle of the holy prophet hazratahu wa ta'ala and

[33:36]that year the holy prophet would call amul hosn the year of

[33:41]grief the year of sorrow so it is our duty then to

[33:49]come to such gatherings and to partake participate to also express our

[33:56]grief and our sorrow for this loss that the muslim ummah has

[34:00]suffered it wasn't just the prophet but every person who has the

[34:06]faith of tawhid who believes in the holy prophet who believes and

[34:10]reads and seeks guidance from the holy quran there is a debt

[34:17]for all of those things and the debt of jannah that we

[34:20]will insha'allah receive and it all goes to say the khadijah that

[34:27]every person whether they accept her madame whether they accept her fala'il

[34:34]whether they accept her true status in the eyes of allah their

[34:41]kalimah of la ilaha illallah is founded upon these very first sacrifices

[34:48]in those moments in those years in makkah the thirteen years or

[34:52]so in makkah the holy prophet suffered the most and who was

[34:59]beside him at every turn at every moment even before that when

[35:06]the holy prophet would climb jabalun nur and worship allah in the

[35:14]cave of hira who was there to at that moment in that

[35:18]time to serve the holy prophet to serve islam the islam that

[35:22]was to be revealed it was none other than and for us

[35:38]to understand her life and the lessons that she gives us it

[35:44]is important for any of these personalities that we celebrate that we

[35:48]commemorate the greatest explanation of those personalities come from the mouth of

[35:57]the ma'as umit themselves and so there was a time when rasulullah

[36:04]would explain to the muslim ummah that who was sayyidah khadija in

[36:12]a nutshell in three simple sentences he gave the whole life so

[36:17]that we can take the lesson from her life that we know

[36:21]that what was she about what was her sacrifice all about where

[36:27]how did such a personality became the lady that we know her

[36:34]to be now there are many people who were there beginning of

[36:40]that mission of islam but we see there are certain people that

[36:45]were indispensable that were the very heart of the spread of islam

[36:53]and of course the holy messenger himself but alongside him we have

[36:57]three personalities we have the personality of harati abutadi we have his

[37:05]support and his himayat and his sanctuary the sanctuary that he gave

[37:13]the holy prophet that amidst all of the animosity that was given

[37:20]to rasulullah alaihi abu talib as long as his shade was over

[37:24]makkah the holy prophet would not see the harm that he would

[37:29]see after the passing away of hathi secondly it was the son

[37:35]of abu talib amir al mumineen ali abi talib and his sword

[37:42]we will see the sword in medina of course there were no

[37:49]battles in makkah but the strength that ali showed even in makkah

[37:57]and the support that he showed it was indispensable and of course

[38:01]the support and the help that sayyidah khadidah gave but what kind

[38:07]of mean is synonymous when we think of sayyidah khadidah we think

[38:11]of her wealth we think of all of the sacrifices financial sacrifice

[38:15]that she gave but there was something more to her and this

[38:21]is what the holy prophet wish to mention when he when we

[38:27]read this particular hadith of his which is found in sunni and

[38:30]shia books that one of his other wives she narrates this this

[38:38]is mentioned in the in other books of ahil sunnah she says

[38:53]that whenever the prophet would leave the house he would think of

[39:00]sayyidah khadija he was always thinking about sayyidah khadija and then when

[39:07]he would think about sayyidah khadija he would do the zikr of

[39:10]sayyidah khadija he would recite the greatest fadhayl al al tanah alhamdanat

[39:20]of sayyidah khadidah he would remember the good things the great things

[39:26]about her about her sacrifices about the simplest of things such as

[39:30]this is the kind of food that she would eat if one

[39:34]of her friends would come to drop off some food to the

[39:38]house of rasulullah the prophet would remember that this is the food

[39:42]that sayyidina khalidya would eat now the wife who was narrating this

[39:49]she says she she's the one who narrates this and she she

[39:53]is the one who says this and explains what rasulullah says but

[39:58]then she i mean she says that once he mentioned this he

[40:05]remembered sayyidah khadija the jealousy that i had it just overtook me

[40:14]it overtook me that i couldn't no longer control my tongue and

[40:19]she said that who was she but an old lady for she

[40:31]is insulting sayyidah khalidah in this way that who was she but

[40:35]an old lady and then she makes a statement from herself not

[40:39]from wahi not from any source religious source from herself she is

[40:45]saying that allah has replaced her with better wives than her and

[40:55]on hearing this she narrates for al ghadhava that he became angry

[41:02]and this hadith is mentioned in different ways we have the different

[41:06]versions mentioned in the different hadiths in different books but this particular

[41:10]version edition of the hadith gives the true details of what was

[41:14]happening in the other hadiths of this sort of this that the

[41:20]prophet delivered this information we see that it is it is toned

[41:25]down because ahlus sunnah didn't want to see otherwise of rasulullah to

[41:30]be seen in such light but this is from herself that allah

[41:36]that the for khadrabah rasulullah the holy messenger became angered by this

[41:41]statement that how dare you say that allah has replaced her sayyidah

[41:49]with better wives allah allah he hasn't replaced her with better wives

[42:01]why because of four things that he mentions here four things that

[42:07]make sayyidah khadija one of the greatest women of islam and not

[42:13]just the islam that the holy prophet brought but the islam that

[42:17]adam came with as well since the beginning of humanity until the

[42:23]end of humanity we have the greatest of women in the world

[42:26]and amongst whom is sayyidah fadija mint al khawaii wa ralaihi ralaihi

[42:30]ralaihi ralaihi ralaihi it is easy for the later wives in medina

[42:38]to say that we are better than her we are with the

[42:41]prophet we are the consorts of the prophet we are from the

[42:44]haram of the prophet but it is one thing to be the

[42:50]wife of the prophet in medina and then to be the wife

[42:54]and the support and the help of the prophet in makkah it

[42:59]is one thing to take from islam and another thing to give

[43:04]to islam this is a difference but rasulullah what does he say

[43:11]he said amunat b is the gafaran nas she believed in me

[43:18]when the whole of mecca rejected me they were kafir and this

[43:23]lady was a muslim she accepted my faith she accepted islam these

[43:30]were the very three first muslims of the muslim ummah the holy

[43:38]prophet sayyidah khadija al amil al muminin one of the narrators narrates

[43:45]that while he was still at gaza before he accepted islam he

[43:49]came he entered makkah he was sitting with abbas ibn abdul muktaleh

[43:55]the uncle of the prophet and as he was sitting there he

[43:59]saw a young man walk in and then he was followed by

[44:04]a woman and then he was followed by a younger man a

[44:08]boy and then they were offering a prayer a very strange kind

[44:15]of prayer when they entered masjid al haram they were at the

[44:19]holy kaaba they started offering this very strange prayer that i haven't

[44:23]seen before these were the three first the first muslim of the

[44:31]muslim the ones who brought the islam that we know today to

[44:37]this domain and normally yes we are averse from the three when

[44:44]we mention the three then we are udutubaba we disassociate from but

[44:51]those three are the different three but these three we should remember

[44:55]that this is the trinity amongst humanity that these three personalities were

[45:04]the ones who brought islam to makkah and ensured in that very

[45:10]early stage that islam will flourish they are the ones who gave

[45:15]the greatest of sacrifices and their sacrifices never ended in their lifetimes

[45:21]their sacrifice continued after their lifetimes with their children and their children's

[45:27]children almanat be a ibn katharah a nurse that the people rejected

[45:36]the prophet and accepted faith and she believed in me she did

[45:49]the tasdeer of me what i said she confirmed to be the

[45:52]truth while the other people said that i was a liar the

[45:58]others belied me and sayyidah khalidah milti qawelid was the one who

[46:04]did tasdeer of me she believed me she said that i was

[46:09]saddiq i was amin and she accepted my prophecy in other words

[46:15]there was that great moral support when we think of these great

[46:22]personalities we get lost in their isma of course they were masum

[46:29]it's very misdemeanor to say that hanifa was a ma'asum at a

[46:32]lower degree but not among supporting ma'asumi but she was preserved and

[46:38]protected by allah that's the meaning of islam but you know we

[46:47]get immersed in that and we forget that there was a human

[46:50]side for them as well they were humans they had feelings and

[46:55]when the prophet set out to deliver the message of islam and

[46:59]then he was taunted he was humiliated he was insulted and at

[47:04]times he was physically abused it was at every moment sayyidah khadidah

[47:10]who was the rock beside him who would always comfort him who

[47:15]would always support him and help him and give him that moral

[47:19]support she is the one who brought the cloak so that we

[47:26]know the holy prophet to be al muldafir she is the one

[47:32]who gave the prophet this orphan everything that she had and this

[47:38]is what the prophet mentions next while everyone else kept their wealth

[47:49]to themselves no one else was giving in such a way but

[47:53]sayyidah khalidah gave everything she had to the cause of ismail now

[48:02]in islam we must understand that a lady's is her maal a

[48:07]wife's maal her wealth is her wealth the husband's wealth is his

[48:12]wealth i get a lot of questions about that we have the

[48:16]mixed pot and then how do we pay the khums we have

[48:20]to distinguish what is for the wife and what is for the

[48:24]husband who owns what so that each individual can undertake his obligation

[48:31]in regards to that wealth and it is not an obligation at

[48:36]all that a wife gives everything to the husband no this is

[48:40]a holy prophet not just a husband she saw the truth in

[48:44]that message she realized that this is the greatest of humanity that

[48:51]i have married to and this is the one that i will

[48:55]serve not just with every dirham and dinar that i have but

[49:01]every energy that i can muster from my body and this is

[49:07]what she did in her life that in the ten years that

[49:10]she lived after the birth of the rasulullah after the first wahi

[49:15]came down for ten years that culminated with that the exile into

[49:23]she'abi the valley of abu talib when the kufa of makkah could

[49:30]no longer handle the holy prophet they came together and they said

[49:35]that we need to boycott him financially and socially so the economic

[49:41]and the social boycott began and they found themselves always constantly the

[49:48]bin al hashem they were constantly belittled and insulted and they had

[49:53]to leave makkah and they entered the valley owned by halat i

[49:57]abu dahlil of the valley the sheikh i abi tal and they

[50:01]stayed there not for a few weeks not for a few months

[50:04]what some narrations say two years most historians say three years it

[50:10]was three years they lived in this valley and while they were

[50:16]there in that valley everything was cut off from them there are

[50:23]various stories of how the food got to them some people mounted

[50:29]donkeys with food and then they would set them off and hope

[50:34]that they will reach the sheikh the valley the mouth of the

[50:37]valley so that the prophet and his family and the bani hashem

[50:41]could then take the food because if it was known that such

[50:46]a person is delivering food to them this was a time of

[50:48]tadiyah people were hiding their faith if it was known that they

[50:52]would suffer dire consequences for that and everything if they were able

[51:00]to get to a trader to get some food or even procure

[51:03]some water it will be on the black market it will be

[51:07]at extortionate prices so what so where was wealth coming from where

[51:12]was all that money coming from it was coming from sayyidah khadija

[51:17]that she was spending every dirham and every dinar for the welfare

[51:21]of the muslims that were there in the shiagh of abu many

[51:27]historians and those who write the life of the holy prophet do

[51:34]not quite bring to words the suffering that the muslims endured in

[51:43]that time it was the first great maseeba of the muslim ummah

[51:52]that when if i mention what was happening there we will conjure

[51:58]up in our minds the scenes of karbala the children by the

[52:05]end of the three years the children had nothing to eat or

[52:10]drink they were tired they were weary were weak because they had

[52:18]no food no water they were living on boiled vegetation that they

[52:22]would find sayyidah khadija who was her trading equaled the trading of

[52:35]the rest of makkah this was how great a lady in terms

[52:38]of society she was but now she had spent everything and she

[52:44]was ill now a lady who once had everything in her hands

[52:50]who had the whole of makkah makruz to her they were indebted

[52:54]to her financially she now had spent everything that she had and

[53:00]she was dying of malnutrition she had no food no water for

[53:06]weeks her body couldn't take it any further and this is what

[53:13]caused her eventual death but how did that exile come to an

[53:22]end that boycott come to the end that there are various narrations

[53:26]of life comfortable to bring those narrations together what we see that

[53:31]the holy prophet told his uncle abu da'alib that go to the

[53:37]quraysh and tell them that the contract has been that contract between

[53:43]the tribes of makkah the tribes of quraysh that contract has been

[53:48]eaten up by the termites abu dawl went and said the contract

[53:56]that that but there's another narration of how that how that particular

[54:20]exile had ended and boycott had ended that's there were those amongst

[54:26]the banu haishim and they were there in sheikh abi talib and

[54:30]then there were those muslims the early muslims who were outside of

[54:35]sheikh abi talib but because of circumstances we don't see what they

[54:40]had done there were certain names that have been mentioned but history

[54:42]reports the deeds of those who did help they did what they

[54:46]could but if we look at we've spoken to the glorious three

[54:51]but we look at the other three we don't see their names

[54:54]mentioned how they helped they were supposedly the early muslims but we

[54:58]don't see their names how did they get the food how did

[55:01]they they just said that when the second became muslim the meccans

[55:07]started to quiver in their boots that they had that they were

[55:12]scared that he he had now become a muslim but where was

[55:16]his strength where was his bravery when it came to that moment

[55:21]we don't see those names what names do we see we see

[55:25]the names of three individuals and they were not even muslims when

[55:31]they heard again it conjures up the imagery of karbala the scenes

[55:35]of karbala particularly imagine how what khalid al khodra would be hearing

[55:41]from the camp of imam hussein that these three individuals when they

[55:47]would hear in the night the voices of the children crying crying

[55:52]out al atash al atash it was too much for them and

[55:58]they went to the holy kaaba they tore up what remained of

[56:03]that ahad that written ahad between the tribes they unsheathed their swords

[56:09]and they said enough is enough the musharahim came history doesn't record

[56:16]whether they became muslim or not after that this is how the

[56:21]muslims have recorded history unfortunately the sirah of the holy prophet especially

[56:28]that early time there are many gaps there are many gaps in

[56:34]what was recorded and we see that it is humanity the humanity

[56:42]the shared humanity that came forth and created the end of that

[56:48]boycott and that cause of islam we see the weakness at that

[56:57]moment this was towards the end of period of in makkah this

[57:03]was a couple of years before the migration of rasulullah towards medina

[57:08]and we see this weakness at that moment we see the weaknesses

[57:12]of the muslim ummah towards the end of the life of rasulullah

[57:16]we see the weaknesses today but as fact is that every one

[57:23]of them owes a debt of gratitude to say the khadidah when

[57:29]we talk about sadat ijaria this is a month of sadatah of

[57:33]tasadq this is a holy month of ramadan of sacrifice especially when

[57:40]we sacrifice our desires for food we sacrifice our wealth for fidya

[57:47]for fitr we inshaallah give sadaqah as in a voluntary way everything

[57:59]that we give in sadaqah if we are taking care of a

[58:03]family if we are taking care of a family's education imagine how

[58:08]far it will go because now those children are now educated their

[58:13]children will be educated as well and then their children will be

[58:16]educated this is a repercussion zuh the dominoes the domino effect but

[58:24]if you look at sayyidah khalidah every dirham and every dinar that

[58:30]she gave we see the effect of that today even the last

[58:36]dinah the last dirham that she gave to procure for example water

[58:42]for the muslims that had so much weight allah knows best but

[58:49]i feel that that has so much weight that every muslim is

[58:54]indebted to that same dirham or that same diya until today because

[59:03]it was given with ikhlas it was given without any riyah any

[59:08]showing off any ulterior motives it was given for the love of

[59:11]rasulullah time is running short the last the final thing the final

[59:24]role that sayyidah khadijah had which the prophet mentioned in this hadith

[59:30]was wa razza alani min allahu walad dumal ayiliha min al nisaa

[59:36]that my ihtrah al qawthar i recited surat al qawthar in the

[59:41]beginning to make this connection that sayyidah zahra she is embodiment of

[59:48]the qosr imam al hasan al mujtaba whose bilalat will celebrate soon

[59:53]he is the nifaar or the application of surat al qosr we

[59:59]see that israat that are of rasulullah and allah said but the

[60:06]vessel the mother of all of these great personalities some say the

[60:11]zahara to imam ibn al hasanayn sharifah and to all of the

[60:15]imam the holy prophet required a lady that is pure like no

[60:22]other lady in that time there was no one purer than her

[60:26]no one more muhlis than her this is what we believe in

[60:31]that every womb that the light of imamat and wailahat has gone

[60:35]through is a womb that is pure that is chaste we recite

[60:39]this in zayat al walid never touched any of the wounds or

[61:01]the loins of your forefathers your nur was transferred from the purest

[61:08]of wombs to the purest of wombs the great connection that was

[61:12]there with sayyidah kharijah and the holy prophet was she was chosen

[61:16]to be the mother of 11 of the 12 imams and then

[61:21]the first imam she wasn't his mother but she was the one

[61:25]who then when imam ali was born who raised him we say

[61:30]the prophet raised him but who was the wife of the prophet

[61:35]before the quran says that she was al mumineen she was the

[61:40]mother to imam ali she raised him and that is why our

[61:48]belief is that she is the greatest of the wives of rasulullah

[61:52]there is so much for us to learn from her life the

[61:56]sacrifice that she has given for islam in terms of the real

[62:00]final point that's when we wish to have good children we wish

[62:07]to have a progeny and a lineage that is upon the path

[62:13]of the ahlul bayt we need to decide wisely who to make

[62:18]our whites what do we look for in our whites many a

[62:23]times people come to me and complain that the children are now

[62:26]teenagers what do we do the girls are now teenagers what do

[62:31]we do they don't wear a hijab so does the mother wear

[62:35]hijab has the mother given the tarbiid for the children to wear

[62:40]the hijab and have i as the worry of my children as

[62:48]the father of my children done my utmost extremely important that we

[62:54]understand that it's not just about personalities being born and said this

[62:59]is an imam the physical vessel that they have come with allah

[63:03]swt has had a system where even the physical parts of their

[63:09]existence are pure and the most purest amongst humanity and with all

[63:17]after all of these sacrifices sayyidah khadija she was dying of malnutrition

[63:25]she was on her deathbed just a few words on my side

[63:31]and she said you rasulullah i have i have three final words

[63:38]that i wish to mention firstly she said that i have had

[63:46]many shortcomings in my service to you rasulullah there are many things

[63:51]i could have done that i haven't done but rasulullah responded that

[63:54]no there were no shortcomings you did everything that you could you

[63:58]sacrificed everything that you had for the cause of islam for allah

[64:05]and then she said i fear the grave i fear any punishment

[64:13]that allah might give me so if you would give me the

[64:17]rida the cloak that you would wear as the wahi would be

[64:23]revealed upon you and the holy prophet gave that rida that abha

[64:28]that you would be given the kapha in that but on hearing

[64:32]this allah sends down jibrail and that the jibrail speaks to the

[64:39]holy prophet that your wife has given everything to islam here is

[64:45]a taffin from jannah that she is to be wrapped in in

[64:48]a zolt and the final wasiyah of sayyidah khadija as she was

[64:55]breathing her last she pointed to her daughter sayyidah fatima tuzahara and

[65:02]she said my wasiyaht is for her that ensure that none of

[65:09]the ladies of quresha hurt her none of them raise their voices

[65:13]against her no one even looks at her with any anger but

[65:18]you sayyidah khadija you lived in a very different time but there

[65:22]would come a time that it would not be the women of

[65:25]quresh it would be the men of quresh who would come to

[65:29]hurt your daughter they would not she said do not allow the

[65:33]women of quraysh to raise their hands against her they would be

[65:38]the men of quraysh who would come who would raise their hands

[65:41]and in their hands there would be fire that it would burn

[65:45]the door with the door of sayyidah zahara'ah that at one moment

[65:50]that she would be struck by that door between the door and

[65:54]the wall would be brought down and she would call out you

[65:58]fiqh dahudini the sun that i have in my womb has become

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