Our Duties Towards Our Parents - Sayed Ali Khalkali

9 المشاهدات· 23/03/30

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[0:11]all right respected Elders the younger ones brothers and sisters in Islam

[0:20]May the peace and blessings of Allah be upon you all assalamu

[0:24]alaikum mankind has been gifted different to all other creations we have

[0:34]been given also with this gift has bestowed upon us we have

[0:42]also been entitled with some responsibilities and duties other creations may not

[0:49]have the responsibilities and duties that we have and therefore we will

[0:56]be questioned about our duties and responsibilities on this Earth foreign one

[1:12]by one every single one individual shall be questioned about their duties

[1:18]above their responsibilities above their rights how have we taken care of

[1:27]our responsibilities about the rights we mentioned Allah has mentioned this a

[1:33]number of times that there are rights between me and Allah the

[1:39]rights of Allah and there are rights between others with myself between

[1:49]me and others and at the verse Ayah 36 Allah reminds us

[1:57]Allah worship him alone obey him alone and do not associate any

[2:13]Partners to Allah after the command of worshiping Allah and not associating

[2:26]any partner stream the next most Duty upon every human individual to

[2:36]be kind and good towards one's parents that is one verse other

[2:44]verses you find informs his son do not associate any Partners to

[2:53]Allah and he reminds the command of Allah be good and kind

[3:05]towards your parents Allah mentioned this so many times in the Quran

[3:11]or in another verse Allah goes further than the than the commod

[3:17]of being good towards your parents he says ordained and decreed that

[3:30]you worship none other than him and he has ordained and decreed

[3:38]that you show goodness and kindness towards your parents meaning it's an

[3:44]absolute order and command from Allah [Music] show love and kindness towards

[3:55]your parents number two it's an absolute Amro in the sense that

[3:59]I must show goodness towards my parents whether they are near or

[4:02]far whether they're alive or dead remain performing goodness towards your parents

[4:08]whether they of my same Faith same religion or not continue show

[4:14]goodness towards your parents that's why you find after the worship of

[4:26]Allah after this this point in Theology and belief the imams of

[4:31]the and the holy prophet would remind that the most important duty

[4:36]that we all have is goodness and kindness towards the parents and

[4:43]they mentioned the importance of the rewards for it and they mention

[4:48]the importance of the goodness and benefits for you in this Dunya

[4:51]and what great nights than these nights of the holy month of

[4:55]Ramadan to remind ourselves about the importance of Duty importance of the

[5:01]rights and importance of the responsibilities we have towards our parents whether

[5:07]they are alive may Allah give them long life and we continue

[5:12]to be good towards them and if they have passed away does

[5:16]not mean that my duty towards my parents have ended no many

[5:21]people became bar they became good of sons and daughters towards their

[5:27]parents performing goodness after their parents passed away with their son towards

[5:34]them with goodness towards their parents a man came to the holy

[5:39]apother of all the ugly sins of all the Haram sins of

[5:53]all the disturbing sins I've performed them all performed them all performed

[5:57]them on the sajira now I've come to you ya rasulullah is

[6:04]a form and source of emancipation of my sins provide me a

[6:11]technique what shall I do are your parents alive hey he said

[6:20]my father is alive my mother has passed away he said immediately

[6:25]go and be good towards your father for your goodness and sound

[6:30]towards your father shall be a source of Toba of Allah accepting

[6:37]your Toba and as that man walked away the holy prophet said

[6:43]um if only his mother was also alive that that source of

[6:51]emancipation would have been faciliated in the sense that goodness towards both

[6:57]parents goodness towards your father goodness towards your mother sometimes we think

[7:03]goodness towards my father and goodness towards my mother's only on that

[7:07]one dedicated day and I'm getting confused in Canada it's one day

[7:11]Mother's Day Father's Day and the United Kingdom is a different day

[7:14]in the Middle East is a different day as if every day

[7:19]or every nation has its own Mother's Day or fathers they know

[7:22]in Islam every day is Mother's Day every day is Father's day

[7:29]every day sun and goodness towards your towards your parents that's why

[7:35]every single individual should try their best to be good towards their

[7:39]parents to be kind towards their parents to try their best to

[7:43]ensure that their parents are proud of them there was a young

[7:49]man who was playing in his football team and he wasn't the

[7:55]best player and the coach would always put him on the sidelines

[7:58]on the bench bench one would they call them these days and

[8:01]every time his father would come to the game and give him

[8:06]support and give him support and give him support for years upon

[8:10]years and it was the final the following week of the tournament

[8:15]and this young boy who received the message that today sadly your

[8:22]father has passed away it was very sad tears in his eyes

[8:28]he informed the coach that my father's passed away I need to

[8:31]go give me a few days off a few days passed that

[8:36]young man came for the final for the final match of the

[8:39]year and he begged the teacher he begged the coach he begged

[8:48]him oh manager oh coach can I play today the coach said

[8:52]throb the year you've been not the best player he said still

[8:57]if there is an opportunity for me to play let me play

[9:02]today they had the team sheet and that young boy was warming

[9:05]up warming up warming up and then in the second half through

[9:11]the insisting of the young boy insisting towards the teacher towards the

[9:16]trainer towards the coach he said okay you can go and play

[9:20]now he played in the team and he gave his absolute best

[9:23]the best performance ever so much so that the coach was so

[9:30]impressed he said you played so amazing passing dribbling shooting doing everything

[9:35]the best way you have been playing like that in the last

[9:40]few months in the team that you've been you have been playing

[9:42]like this in the last few years what's happened today he looks

[9:47]at the coach he said coach for the last few years my

[9:52]father used to come and watch he used to come and give

[9:58]me support he used to show so much love and every time

[10:00]he wanted me to play my best but oh coach did you

[10:06]know my father was blind and he couldn't really see me but

[10:09]now that he passed away I know in the heavens he is

[10:14]actually seeing me and I wanted to show my best performance for

[10:18]him to be proud of me and to show that goodness in

[10:23]my sports game in my game today to show that father now

[10:29]that you're here I really now that you're seeing my much let

[10:31]me show it to you with the support and all the support

[10:33]you've given me that's I want to show my exam and goodness

[10:38]here also for you to be proud of me sometimes goodness maybe

[10:45]in just seeing our parents seeing our parents the holy prophet would

[10:52]state that for example a person who looks at his parents with

[10:59]kindness with rahma with a rough for every nothera for every look

[11:10]that he sees his parents with love and could and kindness [Music]

[11:17]foreign what if I look at my parents 100 times a day

[11:32]a hundred nadra in a day do I receive the throb of

[11:38]a hundred heart many of us have been to Hajj many of

[11:40]us yearned to go to Hajj we've been once to for example

[11:45]some have been three times to hide but how many people have

[11:49]been in their lifetime a hundred times the holy prophet said yes

[11:58]indeed Allah the most great shall reward you even for a hundred

[12:05]looks at your beloved father at your beloved mother so much so

[12:13]that this love and kindness towards them has no excuse me dear

[12:18]brothers and sisters there is no excuse to ever say I have

[12:24]stopped in my kindness towards my parents we have a narration from

[12:31]they stayed Allah there are three moments that there is no roxa

[12:45]in it there is no leeway in it who are they or

[12:52]what are they he says to provide and take care of the

[13:03]Amana whether the person giving you the Amana brain or forgering whether

[13:10]they were good people or fight your Sinners corrupt people they've given

[13:17]an Amana you must take care of that trust protect that trust

[13:21]that's why we find that the imams were known for the Amanda

[13:25]taking care of the Amana the holy prophet was known as al-ameen

[13:30]the most trustworthy number one number two that which has no roxa

[13:38]in it and to be loyal towards the Covenant and promise that

[13:49]you give the ray of factory where that person who gives you

[13:59]a promise or you give a promise to them was a good

[14:01]person or a corrupt person was a Muslim or a non-muslim you

[14:10]must aweful you must adhere and try your best to take care

[14:15]of that promise that you gave them or don't say I gave

[14:20]a promise to my young child I was just a frost once

[14:22]no I said to the promise they gave the promise to the

[14:27]Elder to promise to the younger to promise to everyone foreign being

[14:44]good and kind towards one parents whether the parents were Fajr were

[14:51]sinners were corrupt or they were good people individuals we must continue

[14:59]to show kindness and goodness towards them hence you find amiral meaning

[15:07]in his States [Music] oh dear once be good and kind towards

[15:22]your parents tomorrow your children would be good and kind towards you

[15:27]we've all heard the statement what goes around foreign that's a very

[15:39]nice moving clip it's an advert on TV and it's also on

[15:42]some of these social media channels I advise myself and others to

[15:48]regularly see this parents husband and wife the son and the grandfather

[15:56]the grandfather who was elderly and weak came to the table the

[16:04]dining table to have dinner the Sun and the daughter-in-law and their

[16:11]grandson the grandson of the grandfather as they were going to have

[16:20]that dinner the elderly grandfather was finding it difficult to eat and

[16:25]after some time the father of the young child told his own

[16:36]father go sit in that table aside and now have made some

[16:41]pots and plates and bowls for you on your own section and

[16:46]the elderly grandfather went to that section and it started to eat

[16:54]on his own the next day when it was the time of

[16:58]the dining for them to meet at the dining table the young

[17:04]boy the grandson was seen making his own set of bowls and

[17:11]plates and Cutlery the father said what is this he said father

[17:17]I'm making this for when you become of an elderly age of

[17:22]an older age for you to have something like that like the

[17:24]same way that you prepared for the granddad for my grinder immediately

[17:29]the father woke up from that statement and told his father come

[17:34]back father come back and the statement says the caption says your

[17:42]parents did not get tired taking care of you when you are

[17:49]younger so don't think of it of it being of a Troublesome

[17:52]moment for you to take care and be good towards them when

[17:57]they are of elderly age man came to the sexy mom he

[18:05]said my father has become of an elderly age so much so

[18:10]that I have to feed him so much so that I have

[18:14]to clothe him and so much so that I have to sometimes

[18:16]carry him and take him to the bathroom and for him to

[18:21]enter for his own needs what should I do should I continue

[18:28]to take care of him Imam said the 60 mom says continue

[18:36]to perform such and take care of your father and feed him

[18:45]feeding upon feeding with your own two hands and this shall be

[18:52]a gender for you this shall be a source of Jannah and

[18:55]Paradise for you this sound towards your parents and no doubt however

[19:03]much I try to be good and good and good towards my

[19:06]father and my mother I'll never be able to return the great

[19:13]son they showed towards me when I was younger that's why our

[19:17]beloved Prophet Muhammad he reminds us of the rights of the father

[19:30]that a child or a son or a daughter should never ever

[19:36]you send me should never ever name their father call out their

[19:42]father by there first name sometimes you find some places some culture

[19:48]some etiquettes of some parts of the world one son calls his

[19:53]father Homer come here what are you having for breakfast what happened

[19:56]for supper and this is being instilled in our young sons and

[19:59]daughters that is fine you don't need to say Baba you don't

[20:04]need to say Habibi you don't need to say Avatar all you

[20:06]need to say is just say his first name why do you

[20:10]think like that no this is not the etiquette you find in

[20:14]Hadith Hussain would come towards the home my beloved mother oh flower

[20:24]of our eyes o light of our eyes oh beloved one when

[20:29]they see their father the love the reciprocal of love between the

[20:39]Father the Son the son the Father the Son and the mother

[20:45]and the young Elizabethan with their grandfather and secondly says that when

[20:51]the the right of the son daughter towards their father that day

[20:59]that that sun that child should have that respect towards the father

[21:08]that when the father's walking the father knows that when he is

[21:12]walking the Sun Oaks for a few steps behind a few steps

[21:15]to the side should not be disrespectful in his mashib disrespectful in

[21:22]his walking ahead of the father for example ignoring the father not

[21:26]taking care of the father not respecting the respect that one needs

[21:34]to give towards a Elder of the comedian eldendi town in the

[21:40]city an elder also the son and daughter should be so respectful

[21:46]in every forms of life that they should be not a source

[21:53]of what of an insult towards their father sometimes you find some

[21:57]children some young ones they are a source of honor of that

[22:03]when you see them may say may Allah bless your father that

[22:10]he had such a tarabia towards you he gave you such an

[22:13]upbringing he took care of the son took care of the daughter

[22:19]he taught you Quran he taught you that he taught you the

[22:22]target the culture he told you everything the true teachings but sometimes

[22:27]you see some sons and daughters and you see them saying where's

[22:32]the father Where is the turbia what happened to their father started

[22:36]was the son and daughter and this is something that we need

[22:43]to remember the importance of our sons and daughters having the great

[22:47]that we have that responsibility that when they see us they remind

[22:52]themselves of our fathers of our sons of our sons and our

[22:57]sons would remind ourselves of our fathers of ourselves the parents here

[23:02]need to know that their sons are a source of Honor for

[23:08]them that's why Imam would say that as the haq of the

[23:14]Father the haq the right of the father is for a person

[23:15]to know that the father is the US is the origin is

[23:20]the root and we are the pharah we are the what the

[23:27]branches and any goodness from me I should thank my father from

[23:35]it is my father who was the one who instilled that blessing

[23:38]within me he was the originator and if he wasn't there you

[23:46]wouldn't come to existence and thank your Lord thank Allah subhanahu wa

[23:52]ta'ala for this blessing for this name of your father take care

[23:56]of the rights and responsibilities and duties towards one's father and you

[24:04]find this in the life of the bait you find this in

[24:06]the life of the prophets of Allah you find this in for

[24:12]example Prophet Ismail and his father prophet and he asks and informs

[24:23]Prophet Ismael his son what do you think of the command of

[24:26]Allah immediately his son says oh Father you perform as you have

[24:35]been ordered Jordanian you shall see that your son would be one

[24:41]of the patient ones patience in the armor of Allah with his

[24:47]son one of the look man the wise with his son that

[24:54]his son would listen and adhere to the teachings of his father

[24:58]sometimes a father wants to give an advice towards his son the

[25:03]son is running away the sun is running away not listening to

[25:07]the great experience the great tajrabba the great khibra the great lessons

[25:14]that the father has in life that's why you find he would

[25:19]sit down with his sons Imam Hassan Imam Hussain he would say

[25:23]to them for example ya Pune I would listen yeah accustom your

[25:31]tongue to speak nicely oh beloved Son oh beloved one and he

[25:37]would sit down with them and they would listen and adhere to

[25:39]the teachings of their father or you find for example in these

[25:47]days and nights we are remembering Abu Talib the uncle of rasulullah

[25:51]the father of so much love towards his father so much love

[26:00]towards the one who took care of him at a young age

[26:07]to care of his sons they were the ones who had the

[26:17]great turbia of Abu Talib Abu Talib who presented and he knew

[26:23]the great the great kindness and the great respect and the great

[26:30]love of rasulullah towards his cousin would give him the best love

[26:35]of Allah he had so much love towards rasulullah that he protected

[26:48]rasulullah he defended rasulullah he was the one who was firm on

[26:52]the faith a he was the one who would show love towards

[27:01]his beloved nephew rasulullah when they asked us when they asked him

[27:08]said you are the Elder of the calm of the tribe tell

[27:15]your nephew tell your nephew to stop teaching what he is teaching

[27:22]to stop inviting the people of us towards Islam towards the faith

[27:28]towards God towards Allah stop rasulullah from that no in fact he

[27:37]encouraged rasulullah to be on the teachings of tohed on the teachings

[27:47]had towards his beloved father that to remember these days and nights

[27:53]that love towards rasulullah so much so that one rasulullah heard the

[28:00]sad news and grief of Abu Talib and his wife say the

[28:04]Khadijah he changed the name of the whole year and he called

[28:10]it the year the year of grief a love between a son

[28:19]and towards the father that is aware of the rights of the

[28:24]father and a love like no other we can see on the

[28:28]day of ABBA Abdullah Hussain on the day of Ashura the love

[28:34]like no other is that love of towards his father my beloved

[28:50]father the son's heat is making me thirsty and thirsty I'm entering

[28:57]the battlefield but O Father I am dying of thirst Hussain informs

[29:07]his son continue to perform what you are performing for I shall

[29:16]give you the guarantee that rasulullah shall quench your thirst in Jannah

[29:24]that's love between a son and a father that as he makes

[29:27]his steps towards the tough of karbala Abdullah he looked at his

[29:37]beloved Son why does he look at his beloved Son because only

[29:41]a father knows how difficult it is for the sun to depart

[29:44]from his beloved eyes for he looked at him in that sense

[29:51]looking at him that he knows no longer return would go towards

[30:01]Jannah towards that path of Allah that is the love of a

[30:09]son towards the Father the respect and goodness towards the father and

[30:14]the love that above Abdullah a father had towards their son we

[30:20]ask Allah to give us the tofi to always be better and

[30:25]good and kindness towards our parents towards our father towards our mother

[30:30]and we ask them to pray for us for the Hadith stage

[30:47]as Mr [Music]

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