How to Return to the Path of Allah - Sheikh Aous Asfar - Ramadan Night 13 - MYC Program 2020

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[0:33]our allahu ta'ala Fattah Karimi hawk once upon of the other states

[0:41]in the Charter for contractor 25 verse 77 he says all my

[0:44]abou become rugby Lola Dora come say that allah subhanaw taala wouldn't

[0:47]even look at you if it wasn't for your da but that

[0:52]Kadapa tomb for Sophia Connelly Zama and you have been disbelieving and

[0:56]you will be held responsible on the day of judgment so local

[1:01]are on even Arlene assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh today our goal is to

[1:11]discuss an important topic and that topic is important to our everyday

[1:16]lives to our everyday living understanding how to connect with a loss

[1:21]of Hanna tada on a whole other level is our goal first

[1:27]and foremost it's exactly like when we are practising for example on

[1:31]a team to become better if I'm playing basketball or if I'm

[1:35]playing tennis or I'm playing soccer my goal is always to be

[1:38]the best at what I do whether it's in school or at

[1:45]work that drive for perfection is important not only in my practical

[1:50]everyday life it's also important to me in my spiritual life we

[1:54]recognize that the better we get at something the more valuable we

[2:01]become so if I am better at work for example then I

[2:03]become more valuable to my company right if I'm better at school

[2:06]then I become more valuable to my school if I become a

[2:12]better son that I'm more valuable to my parents and so we

[2:15]understand then that there are different ways of gaining value however the

[2:25]most important thing for us is to establish ourselves and our status

[2:29]in everything that we do so that we through seeking perfection if

[2:35]I am able to do that and I'm able to do that

[2:37]well then surely I'll be able to get to the level that

[2:45]I want in that specific subject or topic or practice right so

[2:53]in order to understand how to connect with a lot a whole

[2:56]different level what I wanted to do today is first look at

[2:59]the logical necessity of connecting with number one number two understand how

[3:04]we connect with others from a societal level and number three looking

[3:10]deep into the Holy Quran or into Islam I should say in

[3:13]specifically focusing on the door behind us Samadhi in order to understand

[3:16]in these nights how our Imams would actually connect with a loss

[3:21]of Hannah Montana so first from a logical standpoint we know that

[3:26]allah subhanaw taala is the unlimited all perfect and we know that

[3:29]it has to be biological necessity that we would want to connect

[3:32]with him first and foremost even before we connect with any of

[3:37]his create its creations we know that we have to go back

[3:40]to understanding his value to us and therefore from there try to

[3:45]connect to him through either emulating him through dedicating our self completely

[3:49]all of its faculties and all of our time to pleasing him

[3:54]and then finally following his laws and his rules we know that

[3:58]by emulating him meaning to see how he treats others that truly

[4:03]that will increase our value to him and by doing so we

[4:06]will definitely have increased our ability to connect with him and his

[4:11]wanted to connect with us and we also know that by dedicating

[4:14]ourselves our faculties and everything about us to allah subhanaw taala that

[4:19]truly that would make us not just valuable to his creations but

[4:26]also valuable to him because we value his creations we also know

[4:29]that by following his was then that is a true sign of

[4:32]obedience because just as I would follow the instructions of my parents

[4:39]who tell me what they expect of me and that makes them

[4:40]happy if I do while for example another sibling who doesn't it

[4:47]makes them sad or mad or angry that they don't and the

[4:50]proximity count becomes much closer if I am obedient to them while

[4:55]if I'm not that the proximity becomes much farther correct so based

[4:58]on that then I know logically speaking that the best way to

[5:02]be able to connect to a Lazcano Dada is to increase my

[5:06]value to him and by increasing my value to him then I

[5:11]am able to truly connect with him at a whole nother level

[5:13]and that he would want to communicate with me as much as

[5:17]I communicate with him to connect with me as much as I

[5:19]connect with them to please me as much as I please him

[5:23]it's just the logical necessity now this brings us to and trying

[5:26]to understand how it is that from a societal standpoint that we

[5:37]are also able to connect with or reach higher levels let's say

[5:42]within our societal rules right within our community we know for example

[5:47]that those who are held at high regard within their community are

[5:50]those who serve their communities most for example we give high status

[5:55]to those either because of their social status and society we can

[6:00]say we can split people out say into three groups right that

[6:07]one those who are socially at high status and that could be

[6:11]either because of the fact that they have a high lineage for

[6:16]example what would be considered a really good lineage they come from

[6:20]good blood so to speak or that they serve the community really

[6:26]well and it is as a result of their service that people

[6:31]value them right and and it's because they've connected with people at

[6:36]a different level a level that is different than the person who's

[6:38]sitting at home doing absolutely nothing right and we see this every

[6:42]day we see for example people of let's say high wealth as

[6:49]as an example who tend to be from let's say a high

[6:51]strong lineage of giving and philanthropy there are held in high regard

[6:57]we also find that people who have a strong sense of community

[7:04]those who understand how to serve the downtrodden serve the poor take

[7:09]care of the sake those people are held in high regard such

[7:12]as for example mother Teresa right who to this day is held

[7:19]as to very high regard right in our communities we have people

[7:22]that serve the community and have provided services that bring not only

[7:28]value to them but value to the people that are associated with

[7:34]them for example in the local Dearborne community we have had energy

[7:38]Ozzy who runs as a man international right and she gives the

[7:42]opportunity for the community members to be able to help other community

[7:46]members and this giving that opportunity is something that not only holds

[7:52]her in high regard in everybody's eyes but also holds everybody that

[7:57]is involved with her this year she was recognized for example by

[8:00]CNN as one of their heroes so it just goes to show

[8:04]you that if you are able to serve through servitude you can

[8:08]actually gain status in society for the good work that you do

[8:11]for your sincerity we also know that number two knowledge is a

[8:17]way for us to establish value in society so if someone is

[8:23]a scholar in a specific field of study such as let's say

[8:26]in medicine or let's say in engineering they are more able to

[8:29]give and they're better valued within within society so then their knowledge

[8:34]gives them value so one servitude gives value right to people and

[8:41]to their knowledge gives value as well and we also of course

[8:44]mentioned lineage the lineage might not always save a person if he

[8:47]doesn't do hard work right and number three we know that if

[8:52]one has spirituality that they're usually held in high regard we find

[8:56]in every single in society but that is the case for example

[8:59]you find Jesus is held in high regard Prophet Muhammad sallallahu wasallam

[9:05]is held in high regard you find people such as the Dalai

[9:11]or Buddha and Confucius and you know if you go around the

[9:14]world you'll see that there are different people who represent spiritual traditions

[9:19]and faith traditions and religions such as Moses for example Iassogna and

[9:24]as well as others who might not be connected to a specific

[9:28]denomination but they're held to a high regard because of the fact

[9:33]that they have a greater spiritual connection with the creator himself this

[9:39]of course then brings us to the issue of the Islamic perspective

[9:44]because here we enter the realm of spirituality and so proximity to

[9:49]allah subhanaw taala is something that we want to understand we understand

[9:52]that we can get to Allah first and foremost by emulating his

[9:57]his ethics right his ethical system by dedicating all of our faculties

[10:02]to hate to he into he alone and number three by following

[10:05]his Islamic laws now what we understand then is that the truth

[10:13]value in reality the true value of a human being at the

[10:15]end of the road out of these three that we mentioned before

[10:20]which was this the lineage meaning your social value your your knowledge

[10:26]that gives you value in your spirituality then in reality when we

[10:29]pass away the only thing that we really take with us that

[10:35]is our value is not our social status right it's not our

[10:38][Music] let's say the second thing which was our knowledge right in

[10:46]science for example and such contributions what we really do take with

[10:51]us though is our spirituality meaning our closeness and our proximity to

[10:54]allah subhanaw taala the closer I am to Allah right the higher

[10:58]my status I am to him now that doesn't mean that my

[11:00]spirituality cannot be connected with my social service right or that my

[11:03]spirituality is not necessarily connected with my knowledge but at the end

[11:07]of the road me connecting with Allah first and foremost is what

[11:11]creates that strong relationship of servitude that connects my social service door

[11:14]lock that connects my knowledge to a life that's spirituality so we

[11:17]find for example in the verse that we started out with that

[11:22]the loss of hunger Tala says look if you don't remember me

[11:25]and Don I really could care less about you he says quit

[11:30]my Abba become gonna be loaded welcome say that allah subhanaw taala

[11:34]wouldn't care for you if it wasn't for your da we find

[11:38]in another verse allah subhanaw taala says Arabic o my dear ammonius

[11:41]did you become allah subhanaw taala says call upon me and I

[11:44]will answer you in el además the community said una Janine surely

[11:49]those that are too prideful or too proud to worship me they

[11:55]will at the end of the road enter a Hellfire which means

[11:58]that there is a connection a direct connection to my door now

[12:04]right my calling upon alumni humbling myself right first and foremost and

[12:08]connecting with allah subhanaw taala once I connect with Allah Almighty then

[12:12]what ends up happening is I'm able to be humble right i

[12:18]humble myself once I humble myself I realized my status in this

[12:21]world I realized that I need a lost minor to Ana and

[12:25]so I talked to him I communicate with now how should I

[12:30]communicate with him and how do I know for example if my

[12:35]dog will be accepted or not and this is where the bait

[12:37]coming for us this is where any bait allow us to understand

[12:41]how it is that allah subhanaw taala wants us to talk to

[12:46]him and and allah subhanaw taala provides us these representatives in prophets

[12:53]and Imams so that they teach us what it is that Allah

[12:57]wants of us right I mean our Islamic laws our Holy Quran

[13:01]and all of it is explained through their hadeeth through what they

[13:04]teach us allah subhanaw taala we mentioned before southern holy quran in

[13:08]the chapter of Annisa chapter 4 verse 59 they are suitable you

[13:14]may Allah obey the messenger and those of the command and we

[13:17]explained how those of the command are the Imams in the hadith

[13:23]of Abu Basir and when he asked from Omaha near Salem about

[13:27]three and who bully are that allah subhanaw taala equated obedience to

[13:33]them as obedience to the messenger and obedience to allah right and

[13:37]he mentions every single a man by name from imam ali all

[13:41]the way to pooja salam ala ali now the question is why

[13:46]does the Quran then focus on spiritual value through Doha and there

[13:49]are several reasons for this first because it's through Doha that you

[13:52]really humble yourself and look deep within yourself number two that's its

[13:56]it's a way of discovering your own self deficiencies the errors and

[14:02]the sins that you have committed and this is through drive that

[14:05]you can seek to mend your ways right so it becomes almost

[14:07]like a medicine and number four it gives you insights into how

[14:14]to become better and so once I understand this first and foremost

[14:18]I need to understand then the actual format of dawn so first

[14:22]I know the necessity of dawn comes from humbling myself I know

[14:26]that when I humbled myself in front of anybody what am I

[14:28]going to do I'm going to ask questions right I'm going to

[14:32]seek advice and so when I humble myself before allah subhanaw taala

[14:35]then obviously what I'm going to do is first and foremost seek

[14:37]advice from him because he's the unlimited I mean if I'm willing

[14:44]to advice from someone who is limited then why not and by

[14:47]priority in actual fact by logical necessity I should speak to Allah

[14:51]first and foremost okay now if I am able to do that

[14:56]then I'm going to right away say well you know what I

[14:59]know that logically speaking I lost one hammer time that will answer

[15:03]me as long as i purify my heart and I have sincerity

[15:04]right to him into he alone and if my actions become a

[15:09]reflection of that then Allah knows my sincerity he knows what was

[15:13]within my heart is unlimited he knows all things right and and

[15:16]so he knows if I am seeking that perfection I'm wired to

[15:21]seek perfection by the way all of us are right that's why

[15:23]we want to always be you know better at everything that we

[15:28]do that's why it's never enough for us to just be mediocre

[15:30]right that's why if we do live in mediocrity we feel a

[15:37]sense of inadequacy right it's just innate and so based on that

[15:39]then I need to say okay well a lot so kind of

[15:43]Tyana says I have to make do without drama then he's not

[15:46]going to care about me because my daughter sure shows that I

[15:49]care about a was opinion but I care about what Allah wants

[15:51]from me that is seek advice from him and from and from

[15:56]him alone right and and also that I I need to understand

[16:03]then that once I humble myself I'm going to ask allah subhanaw

[16:06]taala for advice and for help to help me mend my ways

[16:11]because connecting myself to the unlimited is a way for me to

[16:15]achieve unlimited success connecting myself to limited people is unfortunately a way

[16:19]for me to limit my success and so the only people are

[16:24]going to ask are those who are connected to allah right to

[16:27]increase my spiritual value right to increase my spirituality I need to

[16:31]find out how the most connected people to Allah spoke to him

[16:35]right and that's of course I can use I can get that

[16:40]either by talking to the scholars who would be students of the

[16:43]students of the students of any debate who are the representatives of

[16:47]Allah and they teach me these drama as they tell me what

[16:50]I should ask for and how I should ask for it now

[16:53]you might say well why do I need someone to tell me

[16:54]what to ask I already know what I need to ask for

[16:59]no not always I don't always know what is best for me

[17:01]if I haven't connected with allah subhanaw taala that i might ask

[17:04]for frivolous things that I don't need and in such a situation

[17:07]then allah subhanaw taala probably won't give me what I asked for

[17:09]right and I might sit there wondering why it is that allah

[17:13]subhanaw taala is not responded to me when in actual fact Allah

[17:16]subhana Allah is protecting me from my own self right and so

[17:22]if it's not something that Allah wants for me then it's not

[17:25]something that I should be really asking for right unless it's something

[17:30]that is going to bring me closer to Allah so based on

[17:33]that then I have to humble myself I have to understand that

[17:35]I need to ask a lot first and foremost and I know

[17:39]that he will answer biological necessity and that's why Allah subhana Allah

[17:42]says in that verse footed erroneously Blackcomb right a lot reflects that

[17:46]that logical necessity that if I ask him with sincerity and purity

[17:49]of heart that surely he will respond to me and once I

[17:51]understand that then I move on to say okay well what do

[17:56]I need to do now I need to understand the formula to

[18:02]the job so I need to look at how an invade spoke

[18:03]to Allah soprano table because there's got to be a forming I

[18:07]know there's a formula when I want to get something from My

[18:10]Father right who do I go to right I go to my

[18:11]mother right I ask her so I know that there's a certain

[18:17]packaging right but that that makes a request more likely to be

[18:22]answered right and so um I look at the etiquettes of my

[18:27]imams how they ask allah subhanaw taala we find that allah subhanaw

[18:31]taala gave us these representatives so that they teach us the the

[18:36]nuances of how to ask him one of the things we find

[18:42]for example is that we always start with the name of allah

[18:45]right number one number two we have to ask by the name

[18:50]of that little bit because of their proximity to a loss of

[18:52]high note honor because they are the representatives of allah i asked

[18:55]by their name by the name of muhammad sallallaahu first so first

[18:59]i asked by the name of allah all right and then I

[19:01]asked why the name of of Prophet Muhammad and his holy progeny

[19:06]in his holy household right the infallible and then what do I

[19:12]do then just like I would you know if I wanted to

[19:14]my mom to talk to my dad you know or I wanted

[19:17]to talk to my dad directly what would I do I would

[19:19]you know tell him how much I appreciated him how much he's

[19:24]done for me how important he is to my life if it

[19:25]wasn't for him I wouldn't be where I am today all of

[19:29]this stuff buttering up my father right is something that's essential so

[19:33]that he understands that I value him right now some might say

[19:38]well isn't that a little underhanded no not at all I know

[19:40]for example my children when they come up to me and they

[19:43]want to ask me for something you know when they tell me

[19:44]you know that I appreciate that you did this for me and

[19:47]you did that for me they don't need to say it right

[19:50]they don't need to say it I know it right just like

[19:52]I don't need to say to Allah so to speak and he

[19:55]knows it but in reality I do need to say and the

[19:59]reason why I need to say is because it's a show of

[20:00]my understanding of his value to me right and his value to

[20:06]my growth his value to my very being once I once I

[20:09]show him that with sincerity my goal of course is what is

[20:14]to ask with purity of heart and sincere intention so what I

[20:19]do mention these things I don't mention it you know and to

[20:21]butter the person up I mention it because I truly mean it

[20:25]and a lot of kind of Tyana senses that he knows that

[20:27]in me right in the Lion Omaha anything I don't want to

[20:32]feel so do it Allah knows what is within the hearts so

[20:34]I ask then first and foremost by the name of Allah then

[20:41]by biathlete break and then I I mentioned to Allah how much

[20:48]I value him right I say that he is the creator of

[20:50]the heavens and earth I say that if it wasn't for him

[20:54]you know I wouldn't be able to know him or to know

[20:58]his his majesty and his Granger and his capabilities and if it

[21:01]wasn't for his creations that I wouldn't have the opportunity to be

[21:04]able to serve and to thank him and to show him that

[21:08]I appreciate the worth that he's given to all of creation and

[21:11]and just and to appreciate his patience and installers and his knowledge

[21:15]and the complexity of this universe and understanding the complexity of a

[21:19]loss of Hana Hana the fact that he is unlimited and surely

[21:22]that that is something that I can't even fathom with my limited

[21:26]mind right no matter how much I try to understand no matter

[21:29]how deep I hide I've into the realms of science and into

[21:34]the realms of of mysticism but there's no way that I could

[21:36]ever understand the physical worlds let alone the metaphysical world and that

[21:41]is how superb allah subhanaw taala is in his creation his abilities

[21:45]right so once I express that to a loss of hundreds a

[21:51]day then I package it again with the next thing that I

[21:57]do then is I ask for what I want right once I

[22:01]ask for what I want then again I tell Allah how much

[22:06]I'm appreciative of him that he's listening to me just like if

[22:08]I approach my boss for example and I thanked him at the

[22:12]end of the meeting you know for listening to me and taking

[22:13]the time I would do the same thing for it to a

[22:16]loss of hondana and finally I package it with the name of

[22:19]debate and I asked by the name of Sega thought they'd no

[22:23]idea I asked why they default event and her father mohammed salameh

[22:28]idea why they were salem and her husband and her two children

[22:30]and the rest of and admit that a loss of honour Tirana

[22:34]gives me what I asked for and allah subhanaw taala says put

[22:39]Eternia such a glow from say ask me and i will answer

[22:40]this is the month of answering this is the month of asking

[22:47]as well so we mentioned then now that we understand the format

[22:51]of John and we understand the importance of humbling ourselves and talking

[22:56]to Allah now we need to understand that has really several effects

[23:03]on me that that we mentioned before however what I want to

[23:07]focus on is three things specifically and what we're going to do

[23:10]is we're going to look at a profound awe that many of

[23:13]us really only touch during the month of Ramadhan although we should

[23:17]be reciting the story regularly and throughout the year even if it's

[23:21]portions of it this dora is drawn becomes of some money I'm

[23:26]only going to take excerpts from it it's these excerpts that are

[23:29]going to help me understand where I am in my life where

[23:35]I need to be and how to get there so first thing

[23:38]we want to look at is that I need to seek to

[23:40]fix my errors in my daily life right whether it's at work

[23:46]or in school asking for and one thing for worldly things in

[23:50]terms of our productivity in terms of our academic success we have

[23:56]to analyze assassin resolve right whatever situation that we're in when we're

[24:02]in our everyday lives and and the doha allows us to do

[24:05]that for our soul right and why don't we do the same

[24:09]for our souls why don't we just like at work when we

[24:12]analyze our our productivity and our efficiency and then find the solution

[24:17]for it right and then implemented why is it that we can

[24:21]do that for our academics and we can do that for for

[24:23]our work and not do that for our spirituality for our connection

[24:27]with alum surely we can do that right so what I have

[24:31]to do in order to do that as I have to stop

[24:35]to determine what the source of the problem is right I need

[24:39]to understand that throughout the year usually I go through a spiritual

[24:44]drought and I need to address this drought and what the reasons

[24:47]are for becomes a tamale that was an imam zain al-abideen Salama

[24:50]Lila is such a a saccade and would recite in the nights

[24:58]during a sow meaning that before fijian it helps us recognize that

[25:04]for example the Imam says in the drama he muhammad allahumma inni

[25:12]kuntu ma boo to cut her yet - without without but to

[25:17]welcome to the salat even a day Kevin RJ took a beta

[25:24]alanine Morrison either an oscillating solution Minaj I was selective on our

[25:28]Jataka either Ana now Jade so here the imam salam ala ali

[25:32]is telling me look the problem that we're having in reality the

[25:36]reason why allah is not responding to us or the reason why

[25:39]we have a spiritual drought is because we have laziness the Imam

[25:43]says o Allah it is every time that I think that I

[25:50]have prepared myself and to get up and pray to be in

[25:53]a meeting with you chinnu have the ability to plead through Doha

[26:01]to you I feel a sense of sleepiness of laziness if I

[26:05]pray and by doing so what happens that that sense of will

[26:11]not judge of connecting with you and talking to you on a

[26:14]personal level is something that I end up losing out on if

[26:20]I call out to you so why then does this happen to

[26:24]me now there are two reasons that this happens to me one

[26:27]reason could be that I don't do enough to but I don't

[26:29]talk to a lot enough that I don't want to turn myself

[26:31]in off right but it also could be that if you say

[26:35]to me well chef no but I do do not regularly but

[26:40]I don't sense that pleasure in speaking to Allah I don't sense

[26:44]the connection in my heart to a loss of my note on

[26:48]it could be the door or that I bother that worship has

[26:50]become ritual ritual to me look I'm just to routine I'm not

[26:55]focusing on the meanings we know that in order for a door

[26:58]to be accepted that we have to not just say it with

[27:02]our tongues we have to feel it with our hearts you have

[27:05]to say it with sincerity and understand the meanings is that this

[27:07]is why I tell a lot of the brothers and sisters out

[27:09]there that when you are listening to a door or you are

[27:14]praying it's important yes to memorize all of the words in Arabic

[27:17]but it's also even more important to understand what we're saying because

[27:22]once we understand the words we can connect right to the words

[27:26]and if we connect to the words then we'll understand the value

[27:29]of the words of the Imam the same applies of course my

[27:32]priority to the Holy Quran that's why allah subhanaw taala says FLA

[27:37]i said the aluminum foil do they not take the time to

[27:39]understand the holy quran or are there locks on their hearts prophet

[27:42]muhammad is narrated to have said I love I love you can

[27:46]I Sofia - the poor there is no billion reading without understanding

[27:49]what you read so one reason then this could be that I

[27:55]you know I don't understand what I'm reading or it's become a

[27:59]spirit the spiritual drop is because of a laziness that I feel

[28:03]in worship the second reason could be in the irregularity of my

[28:06]worship meaning the inconsistency every time I worship Allah I might fall

[28:10]off the bandwagon because of something worldly right why does this happen

[28:16]to me it happens because of because of something that is touched

[28:20]upon really beautifully into I becomes a family where the Imam teaches

[28:25]me to say Miley couldn't am I going too slow hot saryati

[28:29]why is it every time I say that I fixed myself inside

[28:34]what kerubim in modulus Etowah been immensely see and I've started to

[28:39]spend my time with those who are repenters those who are close

[28:46]to you oh Allah how Allah clearly in meaning a sin that

[28:49]I end up falling into sin as a latke to me that

[28:54]made me fall off the straight path a harlot bany were being

[29:00]a fanatic Saed and it has caused me has become a barrier

[29:03]between me and you own master so then committing a sin causes

[29:10]me to have a spiritual drum the Imam Salama Lila he gives

[29:14]me three reasons why this could happen he says it could be

[29:19]that you know your your duplicitous right you're living a new life

[29:22]you're that bismillah alhamdulillah in front of your friends but when you're

[29:28]with Allah you forget in your heedless all right so Prophet Muhammad

[29:33]SAW Allah they will you send him he says bits of Roger

[29:39]the worst of men Roger Anya kun with our chain a man

[29:41]with two faces well that is our name and with two tongues

[29:46]you Priya cabochon Eden he speaks well of his brother when he's

[29:49]in front of him way I could - and he back fights

[29:52]him when he is not there so being to face being a

[29:59]hypocrite right back biting people is is one of the reasons why

[30:02]I might be missing out on my connection with allah subhanaw taala

[30:10]any mohammed Sajjad says he continues in the jaw but becomes a

[30:14]family he says I will I look at any female caddy be

[30:18]or could it be that you found me of those who lie

[30:20]and therefore you've rejected me so here we find being dis duplicitous

[30:28]falling into sin not being sincere with allah subhanaw taala by being

[30:38]a hypocrite or just being a liar it could we need to

[30:45]also understand the value of group worship like for example if I

[30:48]don't have Drive let's say in this case I'm established I don't

[30:54]have drive to worship right and I don't have drive to worship

[30:56]and so how can I get myself to have drive to worship

[31:02]exactly like when I'm training for example for a meet or a

[31:04]basketball game I'm going to practice right and the best way to

[31:07]practice is within a team structures so maybe I'm not I'm not

[31:12]with the right company right maybe I'm not with the right people

[31:17]so the Imam said a Malayalee he teaches me in this door

[31:22]oh I like a forgotten name in modulus or luma if a

[31:26]holistic this is another reason is perhaps I wasn't with the right

[31:30]groups I didn't spend my time with the right people I'm perhaps

[31:33]I you found me missing from the gatherings of the scholars remember

[31:41]the scholars they bring us closer to Allah so he says perhaps

[31:46]perhaps you saw me missing from the from the modulus from the

[31:50]gatherings of aluminum ah the hadith innings and therefore just like I

[31:58]didn't give you what you expected of me you at the end

[32:01]of the road took away from me that which I expected from

[32:06]you because I didn't deserve it and then he says oh yeah

[32:09]I liquor I ate any I left for my jealous Al Thani

[32:13]Fubini were bein uncle later he says or perhaps you saw me

[32:16]prefer sitting with those who spend their time in venues or in

[32:24]in vain talk and in wasting time and purpose on purpose Philippe

[32:28]I should say or without purpose just sitting in Spain wasting time

[32:32]and that's why you ended up depriving me of that and sense

[32:38]of connection with your Allah the hadith says Allah in adhara ater

[32:44]who then Caracalla a scholar if you see him he reminds you

[32:49]of Allah so we need to seek out them his spending time

[32:54]with scholars it's been being with those who love to sit with

[32:57]scholars establishing a good team around us so that then what can

[33:02]happen is they remind us of Allah they remind us of Daraa

[33:08]that's for the bad influences such you know these groups they push

[33:13]us away from Allah Allah doesn't want me to be in such

[33:15]groups now how do I recognize who these people are these are

[33:20]the people that live in extravagance they talk about nothing other than

[33:24]materialism you see that when they're sitting there maybe talking loudly and

[33:30]being boisterous and not necessarily aware that Allah Spano - Anna sees

[33:36]how they act and sees how they talk and this is you

[33:41]know this is something that we see commonly right now a third

[33:45]reason why I might not be close to Allah is my being

[33:50]entrenched in sin the Imam says in the drama becomes luckily politically

[33:54]how you had a militia Satan or because of the fact that

[33:59]you've seen me not shy enough when I'm around you that you

[34:07]rewarded me or punished me by not being able to talk to

[34:11]you and connect with you so then a sense of shyness and

[34:17]shame is really important wine because it is through this Chinese and

[34:21]through the shame that I am able to recognize a loss presence

[34:29]right and respect him we mentioned the talk was to respect Allah

[34:33]and one can't respect someone else without being shine why because shying

[34:38]away from sin is something essential the second hadith in The Book

[34:43]of Allah Coffee states that when allah subhanaw taala first created Adam

[34:47]he gave him alayhi salam he given the choice between three things

[34:57]deen religion hiya shyness and aku in the intellect so generally salam

[35:02]offers him these three says your Lord has asked me to descend

[35:05]upon you and to ask you to take one of these three

[35:09]to select one of these three so he selects a lock of

[35:12]the intellect so jibra eel Ali Salam he tells a Dean Oh

[35:16]hiya Dean religion and shyness to go to return from once from

[35:20]where they came and they say they respond to Gibran at least

[35:23]and I'm according to the hadith in a la muralla economic arena

[35:27]Makkah allah subhanaw taala commanded us to be with our with intellect

[35:31]wherever it goes which means then that I can't be considered as

[35:36]someone who is who has a sound intellect without having Dean and

[35:43]hiya when without having religion in my life and and having a

[35:46]sense of shame and shyness and I can't be considered someone who

[35:49]has religion without having haka without having a good intellect and without

[35:53]having a sense of shyness from falling into sin and I can't

[35:58]be considered someone who was shy without following Dean religion and without

[36:03]having strong aachen so the three are proportionately connected with one another

[36:08]right the higher my shyness the higher my Dean the higher my

[36:11]intellect and the same applies with the others the higher my intellect

[36:15]the higher my Dean the higher my shyness shying away from sin

[36:23]is essential to staying away from sin knowing that for example if

[36:27]I'm in such a situation there's or I would never put myself

[36:31]in such a situation right I would shy away from it but

[36:33]if I am in such a situation that I would avoid it

[36:37]right but I'm not going to put myself in front of the

[36:39]faith in front of the cannon so to speak right so prophet

[36:45]muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says falafel may be a mocha see

[36:49]at falafel cassia there are three things that cause the heart to

[36:52]become harsh and I'm able to connect with allah subhanaw taala he

[37:03]says Terada for them I love them he says that that stem

[37:08]after sin after sin causes a compounding of sin Allah says in

[37:15]Allah Quran Quran and a Peruvian that there becomes like a rust

[37:17]a darkness that takes over the heart because of the compound compounding

[37:22]of of the same so also he says a cured meat eating

[37:29]Haram food might wanna jealous it in motor and sitting with those

[37:34]who are spiritually are dead so I understand now then how to

[37:38]assess where I am right these are the ways that these are

[37:43]the problems that might be getting in the way of me connecting

[37:45]with a loss of Hannah Montana the second thing I need to

[37:49]do then now that I've analyzed myself and analyzed where the problem

[37:52]lies and and figured out that you know maybe it's because I'm

[37:55]lazy I don't have enough energy to worship Allah maybe it's you

[38:00]know that might be because I'm not surrounding myself with the right

[38:03]people I need to be our own scholars and people who love

[38:05]to be around scholars of of religion to learn more about paid

[38:10]to to figure out methods to come closer to Allah perhaps it

[38:12]could be that I have sent right and as these sins that

[38:16]are getting in the way of my connection to allah subhanaw taala

[38:18]and it's and it's all rooted in my lack of shyness so

[38:23]the next thing that i need to do is i need to

[38:28]start working on myself and working on myself takes a lot of

[38:31]courage why because you know once i admit my sins to a

[38:35]loss of power to honor that takes courage right just like if

[38:38]I do something wrong at the workplace or you know in in

[38:43]the family structure in a social structure it takes a lot of

[38:45]guts to be able to admit your error the Dobby has left

[38:50]Amari says and I had a Bolivia mistaken Phil hello when I'm

[38:55]Rocky film Ella and I saw the Imam said I'm Allah he

[39:03]teaches us here he says look you have to admit your error

[39:07]so now that you've recognized where your weaknesses lie the next thing

[39:12]that you must do house is you have to admit your errors

[39:15]it's a very very profound job see when you connect with Donna

[39:24]it really softens your heart right the tears that come out of

[39:28]our eyes when we recite the Dharma by becomes at the money

[39:31]or a sign of kichul they're a sign of God consciousness they're

[39:34]also a sign of repentance right and they're a sign that you

[39:39]have really connected with yourself and if you've connected with yourself then

[39:43]you've connected with Allah you know honey says when out of enough

[39:45]said he who knows himself truly well well known as Lord we

[39:53]find also thirdly that there are really two types of personalities there's

[39:59]the weak personality and then there's the strong personality right when we

[40:05]say spiritually speaking right there's a strong spiritual personality in a weak

[40:07]spiritual person out the weak spiritual personality then is going to be

[40:13]the one who is entrenched and desires his his soul is sake

[40:16]right because of the duplicity because of the sane because of the

[40:19]lack of shyness because of hanging out with people that don't remind

[40:23]them of a lot of Hana Hana let's say that such a

[40:26]person has maybe 80 percent sense right and twenty percent where you

[40:30]know that's still recoverable well the strong person is the person who

[40:34]has less errors right the less the error the more the clarity

[40:39]the person has the less the rain on the heart the rest

[40:41]that unless the rust or the darkness on the heart the more

[40:45]able you are to see the light the good news is that

[40:47]of course repentance and they're doing good deeds in society helping others

[40:53]will remove that right looking beyond myself to become a servant to

[41:01]the to the creations of Allah subhana Allah allows me to remove

[41:04]so much of that darkness and to break off so much of

[41:07]that rust that is clogging or preventing my heart from from the

[41:13]insight that it needs to come closer to allah subhanaw taala so

[41:17]the question is that how do I make that fix how do

[41:23]I fix that how do I break out from that cast of

[41:27]rust that has has come on to my heart and yes I

[41:32]do need to do good deeds but first those good these have

[41:34]to start with the right intention right and that right intention has

[41:40]to come from the right place so the Imam salaallah alayhi teaches

[41:42]me to say he says Allah hey my house I took a

[41:49]loss I took oh Allah I did not sin when I sent

[41:51]I didn't intend to offend you well I'm not bitter will be

[41:57]a tikka jihad and I am just believing in your and your

[42:00]lordship to me no I I didn't do it out of that

[42:04]right because we know most of us when we sin we don't

[42:08]sin because of that reason right we don't send to spite allah

[42:11]subhanaw taala we sin because we're forgetful and heedless right and then

[42:15]he says well uh we America most FF and it's not that

[42:21]I belittled you or that I didn't see you in the high

[42:24]status that you're in well I can hardly turn our lights what

[42:29]so will happen enough see but just a mistake I made a

[42:36]mistake right and mine f-cell Amara Basu caused me to do what

[42:38]it just it painted the same to me something really beautiful and

[42:44]I didn't think of the consequences and so I slipped and I

[42:47]fell so well it's the NFC well helluva Nia Hawaii and my

[42:52]how am I my when beats me my sense of just wanting

[42:55]to do something out of a one and we spoke about that

[43:01]and past lectures Wow Arnett Nyali hush a party and what helped

[43:07]me to fall into the sin he says is my deviation and

[43:14]my heedlessness and then he says well Ronnie said to Raquel Murphy

[43:20]I'll AAF ekadasi Duke he says and what are the things that

[43:23]cost me to fall into this is because you give me so

[43:28]much space you don't compel me to do anything you give me

[43:31]the choice and I just took that for granted waha I left

[43:38]to cabbage or D and with I put effort in unfortunately being

[43:43]disobedient you fell Ranade become a missed sympathy how beautiful the words

[43:52]are the map says and now from your torture in your torment

[43:55]who's going to save me of course Allah will save us planning

[44:00]so how do I resolve that in this issue what's the cure

[44:04]because I really need the cure right I really need to know

[44:08]how it is that I can get out of this the situation

[44:10]that I'm in the amount says that I have to cry for

[44:14]myself I have to think about my death so to cry about

[44:20]myself the purpose signifies a change a change that's unlike on other

[44:24]and any other change that's why I renounce tell us that one

[44:26]of the signs of acceptance of the door other than packaging it

[44:34]beautifully and having sincerity and purifying my heart analyzing where I am

[44:40]and figuring out the reason for my the situation that I'm in

[44:45]I need to first and foremost cry for over myself and because

[44:52]would that have that signifies is that nobody is forcing me to

[44:56]make this change this change is coming deeply and sincerely and purely

[45:00]from within me the Imam says one colony illegitimate a lake now

[45:08]I start asking o Allah transfer me to the level of the

[45:11]repenters which means now that I've realized the error of my ways

[45:18]and I have rejected them and I have made the decision not

[45:21]to go back to them because that's what Imam Ali Salim Allah

[45:25]Allah says when he was asked about had the Toba defined tell

[45:28]before me he said that what you are to do is you

[45:34]are to assess where you are admit your error reject the error

[45:39]of your ways ensure that you will never go back never go

[45:45]back to such a sin right that is a sign of true

[45:52]repentance and act upon that right so he says won't put me

[45:56]in a devotee to toe with you like oh Allah make me

[45:59]of those who are considered your hunters to you in your eyes

[46:02]one clearly will bouquet ala nafsi well I only have one other

[46:08]big bouquet ala nafsi and help me by allowing me to cry

[46:10]over the past and what I have done to myself so that

[46:14]I may never return to her you know they say that the

[46:19]best way to correct one errors ones errors is to realize the

[46:22]error of their ways to reject the error and never to go

[46:27]back to it again as the Imam said but also that constant

[46:29]remembrance of the error reminding yourself that look look at where you

[46:36]were look at how you got there remember never forget now that's

[46:40]not to mean that that drags me down and I never can

[46:42]never move forward no but it's not that you know to have

[46:48]that mentality that I have no regrets no regret is important in

[46:52]my mind he says Kepha been a tomato but then having regret

[46:58]and feeling a sense of guilt that is sufficient repentance to allah

[47:01]subhanaw taala so regretting the past is important for me if I

[47:06]want to move forward in my life well I need okay I'm

[47:09]NFC and help me cry over myself I've had F NATO bit

[47:13]this way if you will our Miley robbery for I have spent

[47:16]my life in just false hope in procrastination from coming close to

[47:25]you and then the Imam says remember death either ananova to a

[47:30]largely highly elaborate lymphoma I do the Arak dirty when I'm a

[47:34]verbal ominous all a Niva jati what would happen to me if

[47:40]I was to die now and I was to be transferred to

[47:44]a grave that I didn't prepare for myself my grave is no

[47:47]longer cold in a beautiful place that is similar to paradise but

[47:50]rather a dark heated and firepit of my sins and I did

[48:02]it through my good deeds furnish it with all the things that

[48:06]would allow it to be a paradise with my good deeds right

[48:11]and so that doing good deeds is what's going to help me

[48:14]in the hereafter but that must only come from a deep purity

[48:20]of intention sincerity and what I do to allah subhanaw taala and

[48:23]to here we ask a loss of hanataro to give us that

[48:27]sincerity to be able to connect with him through our for surely

[48:30]it is the best of i bought and we don't want to

[48:32]be of those who are considered too proud to ask allah to

[48:36]humble ourselves before him Allah help us fix ourselves yeah allow us

[48:41]to realize the importance of connecting with you and allow us to

[48:45]connect with you in this holy month for surely if we can't

[48:47]connect with you in this month then when will we ever come

[48:52]into the allah o allah we ask you that you remove all

[48:56]of the epithelia out from the mean and mommy not that you

[48:58]give health to all of our sick that you allow us to

[49:01]be as you want us to be not as we want to

[49:04]be unless it is how you want us to be Allah we

[49:06]ask um you seek you to repay the debts of all those

[49:07]who aren't that remove the oppression of of all of those who

[49:11]are oppressed to return the estranged to their homelands to bestow your

[49:16]mercy upon all of our sick we ask you that you support

[49:17]all of the volunteers that have made programs like this and others

[49:20]possible around the world or Allah algorithm on an economy that all

[49:24]gratitude is to allah subhanaw taala welcomed in liable on Amin well

[49:31]Fatiha Allah Roquemore home in with a chili for chili

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