Biography of the Prophet- What takes place before the holy wedding- part 1- Hamam Nassereddine

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This is a lesson from a series of lessons conducted by Hamam Nassereddine @ Mahad Rasul in Imam Hussain Foundation. The lessons focus on main events that took place throughout the life of the holy Messenger of God, Mohammed. (peace be upon him and his family).

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[0:20][Music] alhamdulillah so this is our first class uh regarding the biography

[0:53]of the Prophet sallallah for this year but similar to what we

[0:57]said yesterday uh we've been having this class for a few years

[1:03]um we've covered the um the certain details regarding the the life

[1:10]of the Prophet sallallahu Al before descended upon him we also covered

[1:16]uh certain incidents that took place when he was in Mecca we

[1:23]talked about the migration of Al imi's with concer the migration we

[1:33]mentioned important events that took place when he came into Medina during

[1:38]the first year and we stopped at the second year now one

[1:42]of the most important events that took place uh on the second

[1:49]year after Hijra after migration was the marriage of IM Ali and

[1:55]fatim so we mentioned these details previously we uh we recorded uh

[2:03]a bunch of these lectures and they're on YouTube for those who

[2:07]would like to uh review the the previous lessons you can do

[2:12]so um last year we were talking about the marriage of Ali

[2:15]and and we were dissecting the the long narration or see the

[2:21]narrations that speak about this blast marriage the infallibles as all of

[2:33]you know teach us lessons throughout all of their deeds so any

[2:39]action that the mum that the infallible performs whenever the infallible infallible

[2:45]performs a particular action whatever that action may be there's a lesson

[2:50]behind what he or she is doing so it's very important to

[2:57]come forward and look at the narrations that speak about the marriage

[3:02]of the commander of the faithful and the Lady of Light because

[3:08]it teaches us a lot regarding marriage for example it teaches us

[3:13]what are you know main issues that we should be focusing on

[3:20]when we want to get married and what are some issues that

[3:23]we should disregard we shouldn't even pay attention to or what are

[3:27]some issues that are not too important in regards to other issues

[3:32]in comparison to other issues so on so forth the beauty about

[3:36]this marriage or at least one beautiful uh issue regarding this marriage

[3:41]is that you had three Mas three infallibles who were involved in

[3:47]the marriage was the father-in-law of the Father of the Bride and

[3:55]you had Fatima the Mistress of the women of the worlds who

[3:58]was the bride and you had the commander of the faithful who

[4:02]was the groom so we did mention a few points regarding um

[4:09]this marriage and we want to continue where we left off okay

[4:16]so if you want to um watch the lectures uh that we

[4:19]gave last year you can you can do so they're on my

[4:24]page youtube.com hum3 Okay you can find the lectures over there we

[4:27]mentioned that there was a command from Allah subhana directed at telling

[4:34]him to marry Ali and the prophet made it clear to his

[4:42]companions that was no ordinary lady and that her issue meaning the

[4:52]issue of her marriage lied in the hands of Allah so it

[4:59]was Allah who was going to choose the uh the husband of

[5:05]Bear in mind that several companions sought say Z's hand and that's

[5:15]something normal uh any companion would would wish to be you know

[5:19]the husband of the daughter of especially that this would give him

[5:29]a unique position in the Muslim um amongst the Muslims Mak sense

[5:34]so for example Abu Bakr he sought her hand refused s alai

[5:38]Omar sought her hand refused they all sought s Fatima's hand and

[5:46]the prophet would not accept sallai nor would fatim accept anyone other

[5:57]than interestingly from her birth if you read the narration about's birth

[6:06]from the day she's born she speaks when uh the Four Women

[6:12]of uh the four Great women Oram the sister of mus SAR

[6:23]and Asim they come to and also a bunch of they come

[6:30]to welcome the Lady of Light into this world z speaks with

[6:35]Allah's permission obviously it's a miracle similar to how Isam spoke when

[6:39]he was in the cradle and amongst the words she says is

[6:44]that I testify that my husband is the master of the successors

[6:49]so from day one she already knows who will be her husband

[6:53]and it will be none other than the master of the successors

[6:56]meaning Ali Allah chose Ali to be husband we mentioned that IM

[7:20]Ali came to seeking Fatima's hand in marriage and asked IM Ali

[7:25]this was one of the final points we mentioned so I want

[7:29]to mention it and then we carry on where we left off

[7:32]inh the prophet asked IM um what will you give me as

[7:43]in what will you give Fatima as a doy what will be

[7:48]your doy Ali think we know that when two people get married

[7:51]the husband presents what presents something called a Mah a dowy to

[7:55]his wife and that Mah is like a isn't a gift but

[8:01]similar to a gift that he gives to his wife so the

[8:07]prophet asks the Imam what will you give fa and the IM

[8:11]tells him I have three things I possess three things only tells

[8:19]them I have my sword and I have my horse and I

[8:23]have my armor in another narration he tells him that I have

[8:31]my horse my camel and my armor so those are the items

[8:34]that the IM possessed the prophet tells him what he tells him

[8:39]ask for your sword you're going to need it to fight in

[8:41]the path of Allah subhana wa tala meaning to defend the truth

[8:46]to defend Islam using that sword and as for the the horse

[8:49]uh sorry the camel you're going to need it also to you

[8:55]know carry your family or your wife from place to place meaning

[8:57]it will be your means of transport ation but we will accept

[9:04]what the armor so the im's armor was here the prophet tells

[9:16]to go and sell the armor okay and this is a very

[9:22]important point that I want you to keep in mind because it

[9:24]makes us understand uh how expensive or let me say how cheap

[9:33]our do should be because the doy of fatim was not an

[9:40]expensive di anyone who thinks that fa's di was you know humongous

[9:44]was expensive is beyond wrong it was a cheap dowy and when

[9:49]I say cheap someone might say you know this is quite offensive

[9:52]no it's not offensive say Z described her her doy saying that

[9:56]it's a cheap dowy meaning it's monetary value is what is low

[10:03]why was its monetary value low because they want to set an

[10:13]example for the rest of the people telling them follow our lead

[10:17]when you get married let your Diaries be uh cheap Diaries not

[10:26]expensive ones the expensive doy is not good it's look down upon

[10:31]by Allah and by this is something that uh fathers should keep

[10:41]in mind fathers the father of a particular lady should keep this

[10:46]point in mind the expensive di is looked down upon it's dispraised

[10:52]by so he goes to the market and he sells the the

[10:58]armor for how much we have a few Traditions some traditions say

[11:15]500 silver coins and this is quite known 500 and another tradition

[11:31]says 400 silver coins a third says 400 plus so 400 silver

[11:40]coins what we call Dirhams plus one dinar one golden coin so

[11:53]we can fairly say that the DI of zaham was between 400

[12:00]silver coins to what to 500 silver coins what's the value of

[12:05]500 silver coins one silver coin equates approximately approximately three grams of

[12:14]silver so one silver coin approximately equates what three grams of silver

[12:34]which would mean that 500 silver coins equate approximately 1,500 grams of

[12:40]silver J so look at the you know the the value of

[12:48]silver today and then convert uh 1,500 grams of silver to any

[12:56]you know currency and you'll know approximately what was s fatim z

[13:01]in our day and age it was approximately approximately $1,000 ,000 US

[13:07]Dollars that's it done deal that was the doy of the Queen

[13:12]of the Universe clear inshallah this is something we should keep in

[13:26]mind again because the traditions of told us that we should not

[13:35]exceed the Dow of when we get married not saying that if

[13:42]the Mah exceeds her doy the marriage is invalid no it's still

[13:46]valid but we're doing something wrong when we're exceeding her yes way

[13:58]I looked at okay he gave one away and like that's all

[14:12]he owed so but we also say it was valuable in the

[14:17]sense like he gave like of what he only had of his

[14:23]like last like it was his own possession and he gave it

[14:26]away and it was like it was it's very dear to him

[14:30]because it's something he uses in the battle and so on uh

[14:33]and it's one of the only three things he possesses so like

[14:38]if imagine you have the choice to give your house away your

[14:42]car away or for example your TV right they're all very valuable

[14:46]but whatever one means the most to you it really depends like

[14:51]for IM Ali to like say it was only 400 I agree

[14:56]with the price but it's like the thought maybe the the whole

[14:59]idea behind it like give whatever is deest to like of most

[15:07]important that understanding of the ntion is interesting and uh one might

[15:15]incline towards this idea had there not been other narrations specifying that

[15:23]you need to uh you cannot exceed 500 Dirhams make sense so

[15:30]you have other Traditions telling us that we shouldn't exceed 500s what

[15:38]we callah when we you know present a Mah to our wife

[15:41]or to our wives make sense again when I'm saying you shouldn't

[15:47]I'm not saying it's Haram it's not Haram your doy can exceed

[15:50]in the sense that it is lawful to have an expensive D

[15:55]it's lawful it's not Haram but is it good no it's looked

[16:00]down upon and there are commands commands given by the imams telling

[16:05]us that we should not exceed the do of right so yes

[16:13]someone might understand that you know actually's di was quite expensive because

[16:18]he gave one of the three items he possessed so it's as

[16:23]if as if he's giving onethird of his wealth right but that's

[16:25]not the case there's a lot of emphasis on the number 500

[16:32]500 silver coins and as we said one silver coin equates what

[16:35]three gram of silver review for example zakat the chapter of zakat

[16:44]uh in the uh the the book of say Muhammad his book

[16:49]of jurist prudence or the other book I believe it's called if

[16:53]I'm not mistaken in it he mentions that one gram of silver

[16:58]equates approximately three grams it's a little bit less by the way

[17:04]than three grams um so then we'll understand that 500 Dirhams equate

[17:14]approximately 1,500 grams 1,500 grams of of silver there's a very nice

[17:19]narration a beautiful narration that perhaps we'll read one day uh which

[17:24]speaks of a dialog that took place between and one of his

[17:30]closest companions called in that narration speaks about the da and he

[17:39]keeps on asking Allah questions right and left about the dowy and

[17:43]he tries to find you know what we call a loophole the

[17:48]kind of um give a dowy which exceeds M and the prophet

[17:56]does not give him permission he tells him if that is going

[17:59]to happen as in if someone if a husband wants to give

[18:04]his wife something that exceeds Mah then let his D equate Mah

[18:09]500 Dirhams and whatever exceeds it will be given under the title

[18:17]of b b means doing good to someone else so suppose I

[18:21]want to give let's say my wife $10,000 will agree that our

[18:27]Mahar our di is the Mahar of Fatima nothing else whatever exceeds

[18:33]Mah is a gift for example what we call but not Mah

[18:40]the changes on a practical level she's gonna get this she's going

[18:45]to get the same amount of money right or the same amount

[18:48]of wealth but it makes a difference uh in regards to certain

[18:55]to certain uh rules make sense so now we'll carry on where

[19:07]we left off we're going to read a tradition obviously since this

[19:10]is a a class that revolves around the the life of there

[19:14]will be a lot of reading you know we're going to read

[19:18]a lot of narrations because we want to read about the prophet

[19:21]sallallah alai what what happened in his life and then as we're

[19:24]reading obviously we'll stop at certain points and an and analyze those

[19:33]points uh inshallah subhana I think someone has a has a question

[19:37]yes I have a question yes so so Fatima's Dary was between

[19:44]I'm confused is it D or silver coins between 400 to 500

[19:48]silver coins or Durham a Durham is a silver coin oh okay

[19:52]all right okay because you were saying silver coins and you were

[19:57]saying durhams uh just wanted to make sure okay no problem no

[20:00]problem so a Durham is a silver coin and a dinar dinar

[20:06]is a golden coin so again based on the different narrations we

[20:16]have we can say with confidence that her do was between 400

[20:19]to 500 Dirhams the reason I'm saying so is one IR said

[20:26]it was 400 another said 500 and a third said 400 plus

[20:34]one golden okay which is not that big of a difference long

[20:37]story short it was a cheap dowy not an expensive one J

[20:45]here we go to a narration let me just share it with

[20:49]the students who are online before we continue I'm going to send

[21:04]it to you guys through the chat section so we have a

[21:15]ntion the students who are present you can find it on the

[21:18]paper in the book by muhamed may Allah bless his soul remember

[21:28]we said there were two individuals who had the same name Muhammad

[21:34]okay one was a sun scholar who wrote the famous book of

[21:39]history and also has a book of a book through which he

[21:46]explains the Quran and then you had a you had a person

[21:49]with the same name but he was he was from the sh

[21:54]so he has a book called which contains fabulous traditions in it

[21:59]there's a narration by IM where he mentions the marriage of Ali

[22:02]and Fatima and the IM says IMI meaning he went and he

[22:19]sold the armor okay for as we said you know 500 silver

[22:23]coins and according to certain Traditions 400 silver coins nonetheless then he

[22:28]brought those coins to the prophet so I poured the the coins

[22:35]in front of the prophet he says I swear by Allah the

[22:47]prophet did not ask me how many coins were there he didn't

[22:51]ask me how many coins did I bring him is there a

[22:58]lesson here here when the prophet doesn't ask IM Ali how many

[23:05]coins did you bring there is a lesson what's one lesson we

[23:16]can derive from this part of the narration drun question anything that's

[23:32]a given aid aid definitely he would trust Amir uh fully had

[23:39]no doubt in IM Ali's actions or intentions but is there something

[23:43]else we can understand um I think he um he doesn't care

[23:50]the prophet doesn't care about the amount of money he knows who

[23:53]he was giving his daughter to so the prophet I'm not going

[24:00]to say he doesn't care but Prophet is teaching us here that

[24:08]you know um a person a man a father should not be

[24:13]super picky in regards to his daughter's dowy the dowy is a

[24:21]secondary issue the primary issue in marriage is not having an expensive

[24:26]diary or a wedding that costs $20,000 or $40,000 the primary issue

[24:36]in marriage is finding finding the right spouse for your son or

[24:41]your daughter that's the main issue here I'm talking to parents if

[24:44]I'm talking to people who want to get married then I would

[24:47]tell them the primary issue is to find the right spouse for

[24:51]yourself find the right person the M who's who has good morals

[24:59]who Pi or the who's she has good morals she's patient she's

[25:03]tolerant so on so forth and Pious obviously for parents it's essential

[25:08]that they focus on what not on the diary not on the

[25:13]wedding these issues will come regardless focus on what on the spouse

[25:20]on finding the right husband for your daughter or the right wife

[25:27]for your son that's the most important issue right what we call

[25:33]the suitable match the suitable spouse for your son or your daughter

[25:40]before I continue I think brother Hussein had a question Hussein you

[25:45]have a question husin Shar um it got solved got to answer

[25:58]okay on then it says says meaning the prophet was a generous

[26:05]man he says he was generous in fact he was the embodiment

[26:10]of generosity here the prophet summon was one of the companions of

[26:22]he was black he was habashi from ABIA modern day Ethiopia and

[26:26]he was a loyal a a loyal follower of he was one

[26:33]of the companions who did not backstab IM Ali after the prophet's

[26:36]death and after died did not performan for anyone except one individual

[26:52]that's it he would not perform aan for the you know the

[26:59]uh the individuals who opposed he wouldn't but when asked him to

[27:07]perform Adan he did it after's death s so he yes very

[27:34]okay I don't recall him being there I'd have to check again

[27:41]but I don't recall him being there uh he was basically told

[27:44]to leave certain individuals who opposed told him to leave uh yeah

[27:56]yes kind of yeah he went to sh sham and he died

[28:02]in sham yeah he died in sham but he was a good

[28:07]man he was a good man so bil was summoned byas Allah

[28:13]and the prophet uh the prophet gave him uh a bunch of

[28:15]silver coins and told told him to do what here it says

[28:19]which could mean one of two either Allah you know grabbed silver

[28:26]coins with his hand such that it filled his hand the silver

[28:29]coins filled his hand or he did that and he put those

[28:34]silver coins in the hand of B he told him go and

[28:44]uh buy perfume with these silver coins for my daughter Fatima then

[28:51]the tradition continues it it says that the prophet also commanded um

[28:56]Sal he commanded to buy uh a mattress for S zah and

[29:09]a few pieces of clothing and then the Imam says let me

[29:18]just send the next part of the tradition he says he says

[29:42]I observed patience and days passed and I wouldn't mention anything to

[29:50]in regards to meaning the IM would not tell the prophet y

[29:55]Allah I want to live with my wife wife I want to

[29:59]move into the same house he wouldn't mention that to the prophet

[30:02]although he did want that thing to happen he wanted to live

[30:07]with he says so discontinued until I entered upon told the IM

[30:25]oh Ali why don't you tell the prophet Sall that you want

[30:31]to live with fa as then you want the wedding to take

[30:36]place and you want to you know start your marital life with

[30:47]he told that I am shy because of my shyness I I

[30:55]cannot mention this thing to or anything similar to it so here

[31:00]what do you understand you understand that is teaching us that being

[31:09]shy from your father-in-law in such uh phases is is normal right

[31:20]was extremely close to Allah their relationship was beyond mesmerizing and was

[31:27]beyond WR the prophet raised him s so he treated Ali from

[31:35]his childhood like a son and the IM treated like a father

[31:41]then uh then again we can't forget that he was his cousin

[31:48]his direct cousin then again you know he was his on the

[31:53]day of which we mentioned previously the prophet chose to be his

[31:59]spiritual brother he was the spiritual brother of he was his his

[32:06]main Aid he was his successor the so their relationship was Beyond

[32:11]close in fact the prophet says sallu Al that at a certain

[32:17]phase he and Ali were one light Allah created one light right

[32:21]and then Allah split that light into two one portion became Muhammad

[32:30]and the other became Ali even then although he's extremely close to

[32:38]he says shinness is what prevents me from mentioning these issues to

[32:51]so here here the IM is teaching us that it is normal

[32:58]in fact it's proper for the groom to be somewhat shy of

[33:03]his uh [Music] father-in-law intervenes and she tells him enter upon the

[33:16]prophet and the prophet will know what is going through your mind

[33:26]he says at that point I entered upon the prophet but then

[33:32]I came out as in he came out without mentioning anything I

[33:36]entered upon the prophet once again and I came out once again

[33:42]without mentioning anything all because of what because of his shyness told

[33:54]him I assume that you you want the the the wedding to

[34:01]take place you want to basically live with your wife I told

[34:09]him yes may my father and mother be sacrificed for you this

[34:14]is what I want he told him tomorrow inshallah you will move

[34:22]in with your wife meaning tomorrow the wedding will take place and

[34:25]you will start your marital life with the Lady of Light here

[34:32]we realize that the narration is this part of the narration is

[34:39]quite short right which explains what happens when uh what happens uh

[34:43]prior to uh the wedding ofi better terms it's quite short when

[34:51]it's informing us of Ali going to and uh wanting to mention

[35:01]to the prophet that he wants the wedding to take place but

[35:03]there's a second tradition which gives more detail and this one you

[35:09]can find it in the book for let me also share the

[35:24]tradition the students who are present you have you have the tradition

[35:28]right in front front of you it's on the back of the

[35:38]paper by the way the the tradition I was reading was in

[35:42]front of you on the paper huh whatever we were reading a

[35:47]few minutes ago it was on the paper with you so if

[35:49]you flip the paper you'll find this tradition over here let me

[36:04]just send the students online the Hadith so this one is in

[36:23]for which obviously is not a source of Hadith it's a book

[36:28]of s it's a book of it's a book about the biography

[36:33]of fatim it's called the house of Sorrows it mainly focuses on

[36:38]the tragedies of and it's called the house of Sorrows because when

[36:45]passed away unfortunately the people certain people were Disturbed from F's crying

[36:52]they were Disturbed from her crying so she had to leave leave

[36:59]Medina and go to Bak to cry over in IM Ali built

[37:03]a house for her that was called the house of Sorrows and

[37:09]up until the days of shd Hussein sh that house was still

[37:16]in Bak today unfortunately you won't find it in Bak but up

[37:20]to the days ofus the house was still there nonetheless uh it

[37:27]mainly for focus on her what on her sorrows on her tragedies

[37:30]but it also has narrations about her marriage and her virtues so

[37:36]in that book she Abbas obviously cites some of the books of

[37:41]Hadith and he say he says after that incident one month passed

[38:12]and in that month I would pray behind the prophet sallallah alai

[38:15]wasallam and I would go back to my house so IM Ali

[38:21]had officially sought lady Fatima's hand and the prophet obviously welcomed him

[38:27]the prophet was thrilled to hear that the IM wanted to marry

[38:29]Fatima zah agreed Allah subh had given the command that Ali should

[38:36]marry Fatima Fatima should marry Ali after these incidents the IM says

[38:40]one month passed one month and in that month I would pray

[38:46]behind and I would go back to my house but I would

[38:56]not mention anything pertaining to uh fa as I wouldn't tell the

[39:02]prophet that I want to live with her I want the wedding

[39:03]to happen Etc says than the wives of the Prophet they intervened

[39:24]so in the previous tradition it mentioned right here it's mentioning the

[39:29]wives the wives of the Prophet which could mean that Sal was

[39:33]talking on behalf of the other wives of or it could mean

[39:39]that not only Sal spoke to IM Ali other wives as well

[39:42]did so they told him should we ask to uh should we

[39:55]ask to to uh basically allow you to live with should we

[40:03]ask him should we tell him that you know Ali wants the

[40:08]wedding to take place I told I told them go ahead do

[40:25]so was present and she told oh messenger of Allah if if

[40:42]Sor if Khadijah was still alive she would have rejoiced upon witnessing

[40:51]the wedding of fa the reception of fatim surely Ali wants his

[41:03]wife meaning he wants to live with his wife so we ask

[41:15]let Fatima Rejoice by allowing her to live with Ali and let

[41:25]us rejoice as well through this beautiful reception this beautiful wedding um

[41:35]Sal I'm pretty sure you've heard of this name in in the

[41:43]season of was a very good lady a Lady Of Heaven said

[41:47]if anyone wants to look at uh uh a person or a

[41:53]lady from Heaven meaning a lady who will enter Heaven then let

[41:56]him look look at she supported after the prophet's death regarding the

[42:04]issue of fed she was one of the witnesses that brought and

[42:08]witnessed in favor of fatim regarding the land of fedak and her

[42:16]son aan was one of the martys of uh H he was

[42:25]marted in H so here the tradition says Prophet saidai why doesn't

[42:45]Ali ask me why doesn't he ask me to allow him to

[42:48]live with his wife for certainly we were waiting for him to

[43:02]do so as in I was expecting that he would come and

[43:05]speak to me about this issue half one aliam told the prophet

[43:31]it seem Ali was present he told the prophet uh shinness stopped

[43:35]me from doing so because I'm shy I'm unable to mention this

[43:42]issue to you I'm unable to make that request here the prophet

[43:56]addressed his wives and he told them who is present now this

[44:01]is a very important word when he says who is present why

[44:04]because up to this point you'd imagine you'd imagine that uh the

[44:13]women are standing or sitting in front of he's also present in

[44:18]front of them right you'd imagine that it's a mixed Gathering possibly

[44:22]right but that's not the case because in in this day and

[44:29]age we're used to mixing with the opposite gender especially in in

[44:32]the west when you read these Traditions you might think that you

[44:37]know the wives of were in front of he was in front

[44:43]of them there was no no barrier but that's not the case

[44:46]yes the wives were present but what does the prophet say he

[44:52]says who is here which means that he's not seeing them with

[44:54]his eyes does he know who is there yes he does he's

[44:58]a prophet Sall Al he knows with his prophetic knowledge who's behind

[45:01]the curtain but the fact that he says who is here means

[45:04]there's a curtain and the wives of are behind that curtain so

[45:12]IM Ali is not you know seeing them and they're not seeing

[45:17]him Mak sense this is an important point because when you read

[45:26]the traditions of and then you read or hear that for example

[45:29]someone entered let's say Upon A nonah man entered upon or some

[45:37]nonah entered upon let's say keep in mind that the tradition doesn't

[45:45]imply doesn't imply that there's no barrier when it says he entered

[45:52]upon her doesn't mean that there wasn't any physical curtain or barrier

[45:58]between the zah or jaad or similar ladies and the nonaham men

[46:02]on the contrary usually there would be a barrier thus you see

[46:09]when Z delivered her F sermon she delivered it from behind what

[46:18]a curtain she was not standing on a Podium or on a

[46:23]you know on a chair or something Sim SAR to a chair

[46:28]and she delivered the sermon no there was a curtain between her

[46:31]and the man which meant that the man heard her voice but

[46:36]they did not see although she was in full hij she was

[46:39]wearing a cloak that was so wide it was covering all of

[46:44]her pure and blessed body so the prophet says who is here

[46:55]some narration say thatn body a definitely yeah she said uh there

[47:15]was another narration I heard that it's a whole story there's a

[47:19]background towards it like was asking the companions in the MOs what

[47:22]is the best for a woman to do or something like that

[47:28]and then I think it's the same day next day replies for

[47:32]a man to not yeah because she would be the first person

[47:45]who would Implement her own advice right or her her own recommendation

[47:50]it is best for ladies not to see men nor to be

[47:58]seen by men so son I have a question yes okay so

[48:05]you're saying in no for the marriage for Imam Ali and Fatima

[48:08]uh two narration happens and they're different right so one is uh

[48:18]when uh B when the prophet gave B the companion um the

[48:22]silver coins to go by uh perfume I think you said M

[48:28]and um Sal to go buy piece of clothing in a mattress

[48:34]so IM Ali was uh wanted to ask the prophet but he

[48:38]was too shy and so IM Sal told him go see him

[48:42]he's gonna know what you want yep okay and then the prophet

[48:49]Al in you want to marry my daughter so okay tomorrow will

[48:52]be it and then the other narration you're saying no it took

[49:01]a month so there's a contradiction contrad know know it's different the

[49:12]second narration is different but it doesn't necessarily contad contradict the first

[49:18]one yeah I know it doesn't it just adds adds more details

[49:21]okay but is it is it the same like the next day

[49:27]they got married like which one is more accurate for the tradition

[49:30]the other one said a month well the here this one is

[49:36]saying the last one we read it's saying that the Imam waited

[49:39]for a month the first one we read said that he remained

[49:46]patient for days now days right uh days possibly might imply a

[49:56]month because one month equates 30 days s so uh there's there's

[50:01]no contradiction here um even then we can say something else which

[50:10]is when he says that I remain patient for an amount of

[50:15]days this does not negate the fact that he remain patient for

[50:21]a whole month because suppose that when he said he meant let's

[50:24]say seven days or 10 days it wouldn't contradict him remaining patient

[50:29]for a month because 10 days or seven days are part of

[50:36]one month okay but the first tradition I you know it said

[50:40]doesn't the request that's after the prophet after IM Ali enters upon

[50:45]him two times and then comes out and he tells him I

[50:50]assume that you want you know the wedding to take place the

[50:51]Imam says yes tells him okay tomorrow tomorrow it's going to happen

[50:56]now we didn't get to that point yet in this narration oh

[50:59]okay good okay make sense okay thank you no problem so I

[51:05]wanted to mention second narration because it gives more details J and

[51:10]um we're going to see that it has a few points that

[51:15]we need to shed light on as in we it has a

[51:19]few points it holds a few points a few lessons that we

[51:21]should um that we should focus on uh inshallah subhah wa tala

[51:29]for one of those you know one of those points which we

[51:34]should focus on is the word of who is here which indicates

[51:44]that there is a curtain or some sort of barrier between the

[51:47]men and the women so here um Sal spoke and she told

[52:02]him that it's me Sal and here is z meaning Z who

[52:04]was one of the good wives of the prophet and here is

[52:08]Fana and fana she names other wives of what is going to

[52:14]tell them inshallah next week if we are still alive will continue

[52:18]narration we'll take a 10-minute break and then we'll take our Juris

[52:24]Prudence class alhamdulillah m

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