The Man Who Divorced 5 Women At the Same Time! Inspirational Stories

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How did that happen, and what lessons are to be learnt? Presented by Sheikh Mohammed Al-Hilli

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[0:11]but they don't know by saying Haruna Rashid they are praising harun

[0:15]meaning harun the upright his name was not Rasheed he stuck his

[0:21]name to him yes so that people very smarter so that people

[0:24]later keep saying harun the upright he was downright not upright so

[0:32]harun was approached once by somebody he came to him he said

[0:36]oh Khalifa you know what just happened he said what he said

[0:41]there is a man who divorced five women at the same time

[0:45]five you are only married allowed to marry four how can this

[0:50]be or bring him so he came he said to him what

[0:56]did you just do he said I am married to four ladies

[1:02]I came I saw them arguing all four of them so I

[1:05]saw one of them shouting at the others and I was very

[1:10]angry I was tired and I died enough I looked at her

[1:15]and said how dare you shout at the others it doesn't exist

[1:18]in Chi a lot but anyway in their law said when I

[1:22]said to her this one the other one looked at me and

[1:26]said that's not good don't do this straight away calm down he

[1:30]said because you are answering me you are also Tara the third

[1:34]one said this is not the person I married you were much

[1:40]better before he said because you said this the fourth one became

[1:44]silent and said you know what I better not say anything in

[1:46]case you also say I am but I don't agree now what

[1:52]is the fifth one there is a slave lady yes who was

[1:56]in the house working she said I have never seen volume like

[2:00]this he said you are if your husband agrees the husband was

[2:06]there he said I agree now as funny as his story is

[2:14]it highlights that sometimes in our married to relationships in our conducts

[2:19]in society anger truly brings out the worst in the human being

[2:22]and sometimes what happens is when it comes to the words that

[2:28]we use the Expressions that we utilize when it comes to husband

[2:32]and wife relationship there is perhaps a reluctance to use respectful words

[2:37]because of what is known in Arabic as Mayana Mayana means I've

[2:41]lived with this person 30 years so I can say whatever I

[2:49]want I can shout I can use foul language I can perhaps

[2:52]disrespect I can if they bring me some food I don't have

[2:56]to say thank you you know they're my wife oh he's my

[2:58]husband who cares I've been with them everything is okay that reluctance

[3:03]to demonstrate in the family marital setup sometimes as a result of

[3:11]anger sometimes as a result of negligence is a very dangerous practice

[3:18]that unfortunately not only is it breaking down family relationships and causing

[3:24]yes Society to have so many of these divorces and separations but

[3:28]also it's not something that is encouraged islamically and in fact indeed

[3:34]something that have condemned in so many of the narrations the idea

[3:40]that emerges and this is very important that sometimes when we look

[3:46]at somebody who's close to us yes because of marriage or something

[3:49]like this we consider that the communication that we have with them

[3:52]can be in any shape or form because there is not that

[3:57]responsibility on our shoulders when it comes to what we say and

[3:59]what they say whereas of course the holy prophet of Islam says

[4:13]the best amongst you are the best to their family meaning if

[4:20]I come to mosque and I am smiling and best of luck

[4:26]with others but Allah the moment I walk into the house the

[4:30]dictator has emerged he used to say may Allah bless some of

[4:38]our ladies and some are Gents they are praying Ya Allah because

[4:45]the moment there there is an entry of somebody in the house

[4:47]everyone is shaking everyone is worried yes because what lest something is

[4:55]done not in the right way lest for example the mishkaki is

[4:58]burnt a little bit or for example this chai is not done

[5:03]in the right way all of a sudden World War III why

[5:05]who gives the legislity to say these things to a moment we

[5:10]are told in the Hadith which is anyone who breaks who hurts

[5:20]let them expect a war from me foreign you injure their feelings

[5:36]you disrespect them now prepare yourself for a war with me yes

[5:40]as we just said Allah says there's nothing more beloved to me

[5:45]than my servant who is a Believer so can you imagine what

[5:48]goes through the heart of our holy twelfth Imam when sometimes people

[5:51]are disrespected in such a manner

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