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Night 18: Law of Exemption - Sayed Mohammad Baqer Qazwini | Ramadan 2024
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[0:02]I begin in the name of the Almighty God, the compassionate, the
[0:09]merciful, the one who has created everything in utmost perfection.
[0:13]And may the peace and blessings of the almighty God be upon
[0:17]his pure and beloved messenger, the peak of his creation, the symbol
[0:25]of humanity, the holy prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi [sighs] and his immaculate
[0:37]progeny of the peace be upon them especially the leader of our
[0:42]time the awaited savior almi may Allah hasten his reappearance and make
[0:52]us all amongst his sincere and dedicated servants respected brothers and sisters
[1:04]Allah subhana wa ta'ala states in the holy Quran in verse 15.
[1:20]And we would not punish a group unless we would send them
[1:28]a messenger.
[1:27]a messenger who would complete the proofs for them.
[1:32]Once the proof is completed on them and the people stubbornly reject,
[1:40]that's when Allah subhana wa ta'ala would punish.
[1:46]Illuminate your hearts and minds with a loud salawat.
[1:56]Scholars of Islamic law expend tremendous efforts to understand how Islamic laws
[2:06]are applied.
[2:07]They delve deep into the intricacies and the complexities of Islamic laws.
[2:16]And I can attest to you that you cannot really fully appreciate
[2:21]the religion of Islam without understanding the depth of the laws that
[2:27]Allah subhana wa ta'ala has given us.
[2:31]Sometimes we're trying to look for miracles that prove to us the
[2:37]religion of Islam is a divine religion from Allah.
[2:39]And there are many miracles to explore.
[2:43]But truly one of the greatest miracles of the religion of Islam
[2:50]is the laws that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us.
[2:52]These laws are so rich.
[2:57]They're so deep.
[2:57]They can apply in any era in any given circumstance.
[3:02]They're very versatile and they adapt to all types of situations.
[3:07]If you want to see the depth of Islam, look at the
[3:12]laws that Allah subhana wa ta'ala gave us 14 centuries ago.
[3:16]14 centuries later, scholars examine these laws and every single day they
[3:23]extract new gems from these laws.
[3:28]It's truly mesmerizing how in 7th century Arabia in a city that
[3:34]was isolated from civilization suddenly you have such quality laws with such
[3:41]depth and which such complexity that's one of the and the miracles
[3:47]of the religion of Islam.
[3:48]Now one of the very interesting laws that our scholars examine is
[3:55]what is called or the law of exemption.
[3:59]This is a very wonderful law that we study in the seminaries
[4:05]and it has so many different and diverse applications.
[4:08]So in our discussion tonight I will share with you four dimensions
[4:14]of this law.
[4:15]The first one is the intellectual dimension of the law of exemption.
[4:21]The second one is the religious textual dimension with real life applications.
[4:31]The third dimension is the social dimension, our relationship with those around
[4:36]us.
[4:37]And the fourth dimension is the theological dimension specifically our relationship with
[4:45]Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
[4:46]So let's examine this beautiful law the law of exemption to see
[4:53]how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us fascinating laws that organize our
[4:59]lives that guide us through the way to al-im and how much
[5:02]richness and depth we have in our beautiful religion.
[5:05]The first dimension is the intellectual dimension.
[5:09]When scholars are presented with a doubtful situation, a case that we
[5:18]have no clear verse in the Holy Quran or hadith that addresses
[5:21]or applies to.
[5:24]For instance, let's say scholars are discussing whether smoking is halal or
[5:30]haram.
[5:29]Now if it's excessive smoking that's harmful then we have the law
[5:36]of no harm.
[5:36]Therefore you will see many scholars saying if you smoke excessively and
[5:40]that's destroying your health that's haram.
[5:42]But let's say someone smokes occasionally once a month once a week.
[5:47]Scholars examine the sources to determine is that halal or is that
[5:53]haram.
[5:54]This is a doubtful situation because we don't have a clear ruling
[5:58]from Quran and Hadith.
[6:01]At that time, people did not smoke.
[6:03]So there's nothing specific about smoking.
[6:06]Another example of a doubtful subject is cloning.
[6:10]Is cloning halal or haram?
[6:12]Another example of a doubtful subject is cosmetic surgeries.
[6:18]Many people ask today what's the status of cosmetic surgeries in Islam?
[6:25]Plastic surgery, reconstructive surgery, is that halal or haram?
[6:28]Now a scholar is let's say examining all these unknown situations, doubtful
[6:35]situations because we don't know whether it's halal or haram.
[6:40]The first application of the law of exemption comes from the intellect.
[6:47]Let's say we have no verse that tells us whether cosmetic surgery
[6:52]is halal or haram.
[6:53]Let's say we have no hadith that clarifies that.
[6:57]If we go back to pure intellectual principles, what is the ruling
[7:09]here?
[7:06]Our scholars are divided into two camps.
[7:10]The first camp are those who are advocates of what is called
[7:17]the right of obedience and they are the minority of scholars.
[7:22]Now what do they say?
[7:25]They say that you the human being, you've been created by Allah
[7:28]subhanana wa ta'ala.
[7:31]Your lord, your creator has a right over you and you are
[7:35]to observe his laws.
[7:38]You cannot violate the laws of Allah.
[7:40]So if you have a doubtful situation, you don't know if it's
[7:44]halal or haram.
[7:46]You cannot take a risk and do it hoping that inshallah it's
[7:52]halal.
[7:51]As long as you're not sure 100% that it's halal, you have
[7:56]to assume that it's not permissible and your intellect tells you exercise
[8:00]caution because Allah has a right over you and it could be
[8:05]that it's haram.
[8:06]You don't have any clear verse or hadith that tells you that
[8:11]it's halal.
[8:12]So you have to exercise caution.
[8:13]This is and they say this is purely based on the intellect.
[8:18]Your intellect tells you be on the safe side.
[8:23]Only do something if you know it's permissible.
[8:27]This is the first group of scholars.
[8:31]The second group of scholars who are the majority they say no
[8:35]when we examine our intellect and rational principles in fact we derive
[8:41]the law of exemption.
[8:44]The intellect tells you that which you know is haram, it's haram.
[8:48]That which you do not know it's haram, as long as there's
[8:55]no evidence to point to it being haram, then it would be
[9:00]inappropriate, unjust for Allah to punish you for doing it.
[9:02]In Arabic, we call this principle.
[9:07]I'll give you an example.
[9:10]Let's say the city here in Dearborn Heights issues a law, but
[9:14]the law doesn't reach you.
[9:17]The guy who was supposed to send out the law.
[9:21]He was having a difficult day.
[9:25]He did not send that email.
[9:26]People in the city did not know that this is the law.
[9:30]The new law is you can't park on Saturdays on the street,
[9:33]let's say, because of a new measure to have street sweeping on
[9:36]Saturday.
[9:38]Now, it's the law.
[9:41]The city actually legislated this law, but it was not properly delivered
[9:45]to the citizens.
[9:46]Tomorrow, if you park on the street, can you be fined?
[9:50]No.
[9:51]The second group of scholars, they say, "You cannot be fined because
[9:56]that's unjust.
[9:56]That's inappropriate." Because you didn't know that it's illegal to park on
[10:01]Saturday.
[10:02]The law had not reached you.
[10:04]So the second group of scholars they say as long as the
[10:08]prohibition the has not reached us we don't know if cloning is
[10:13]haram we don't know if cosmetic surgery is haram we don't know
[10:16]if smoking is haram then we can assume that it's permissible if
[10:21]it turns out to be haram on the day of judgment we're
[10:23]off the hook will not punish us because the law didn't reach
[10:30]us the second group of scholars so when you examine The law
[10:35]of exemption at a purely intellectual rational level, you have two camps.
[10:41]The first camp says cautious.
[10:43]You have to exercise caution.
[10:46]Consider it to be haram unless you know it's halal because God
[10:49]has a right over you.
[10:49]So you always have to avoid taking risks.
[10:52]The second group of scholars, they say no.
[10:57]According to rational principles, we believe the law of exemption applies.
[11:01]Now this is at a purely intellectual level.
[11:05]But the question now is okay what does Islam say?
[11:08]Do we have any verses in the Holy Quran any hadiths that
[11:13]tell us if we're presented with a doubtful situation, unknown situation, there's
[11:19]a course of action for us?
[11:20]What do we do if we come across a new scenario in
[11:24]our lives that the hadith has not addressed before, the Quran has
[11:28]not directly addressed before?
[11:29]Can we assume it's halal or can we assume it's haram?
[11:36]So this brings us to the second dimension of the law of
[11:39]exemption and that is the religious dimension or the textual dimension.
[11:43]What does the Quran say?
[11:47]What does the hadith say?
[11:48]The majority of scholars they believe that the law of exemption applies.
[11:53]Anytime we don't know if something is halal or haram, we can
[11:57]assume it's halal.
[11:59]Why?
[12:00]Because we have a Quranic verse that proves that.
[12:03]And secondly, we have a hadith that proves that.
[12:05]So which verse can we hold on to to demonstrate the law
[12:12]of exemption?
[12:12]One verse is verse 15.
[12:18]Allah subhana wa ta'ala states Allah says, "I wouldn't punish you.
[12:33]We wouldn't punish you unless we send you a messenger." What's the
[12:37]spirit of the verse?
[12:38]What does a messenger do?
[12:42]A messenger delivers the laws of God to you.
[12:44]That's the role of a messenger.
[12:46]Takes the message from Allah, takes the law from God, and delivers
[12:52]it to you.
[12:51]So if you take the spirit of this verse, we understand from
[12:57]this holy verse that anytime we're presented with a doubtful situation, cosmetic
[13:02]surgery, is it halal or haram?
[13:04]Do we have any evidence that it's haram?
[13:07]No.
[13:08]There's no verse, there's no hadith from the prophet sallallahu alaihi or
[13:12]that would prohibit that.
[13:14]So in that case, we can defer to this verse and say
[13:19]Allah would not punish us if he's not sent us the law
[13:24]through a messenger.
[13:23]Therefore, we can safely assume it's halal.
[13:27]We're off the hook.
[13:27]God will not punish us.
[13:30]That is the basis for the law of exemption from the Holy
[13:38]Quran.
[13:35]Do we have anything clearer from hadith that can be the basis
[13:41]for the law of exemption?
[13:43]Yes, we have the famous hadith from the prophet sallallahu alaihi called
[13:52]hadith.
[13:52]The hadith of lifting.
[13:55]It's a very interesting hadith.
[13:56]In this hadith, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam states nine situations have
[14:06]been lifted from my um you're not responsible for them, you're not
[14:13]liable.
[14:12]For instance, if you make a mistake and if you forget you're
[14:19]fasting in the month of Ramadan, you come back from work and
[14:25]you forget that you're fasting.
[14:26]So you open the fridge and you see that delicious burger from
[14:30]the previous night sah and you eat it forgetting that you're fasting.
[14:37]Did you commit a sin?
[14:41]No.
[14:42]Is Allah subhana wa ta'ala going to hold you accountable for that?
[14:46]No.
[14:47]Enjoy that burger.
[14:49]Why?
[14:50]Because of this hadith.
[14:53]This hadith states If you forget and you do not deliberately make
[15:00]a violation, it's lifted from you.
[15:04]The burden is lifted from you.
[15:05]The sin is lifted from you.
[15:08]Another category of these nine is al this one's interesting.
[15:15]We know jealousy is a sin, right?
[15:18]It's fact it can be a major sin.
[15:19]As one hadith states, Jealousy devours your faith and destroys your faith
[15:31]just like fire devours wood.
[15:34]Jealousy is a major sin.
[15:38]But what aspect of jealousy is a sin?
[15:40]The feelings of envy in your heart is that sinful or acting
[15:47]on your jealousy.
[15:47]Acting on your jealousy is haram.
[15:51]If I am jealous of someone, I have feelings of envy and
[15:55]I go and I try to ruin this person's reputation.
[15:59]I try to make this person miserable.
[16:02]I make false accusations against this person.
[16:05]I try to block this person from achieving success.
[16:10]That's haram.
[16:12]That's the major sin.
[16:13]But the presence of jealousy in the heart in itself is not
[16:19]a sin.
[16:18]Why?
[16:19]Because of this hadith.
[16:22]The prophet says, "Allah has lifted jealousy from my ummah." Meaning, if
[16:25]you have jealousy in your heart, as long as you don't act
[16:28]upon it, Allah will tell you, "Okay, it's not good for you
[16:33]to have feelings of jealousy as a true believer.
[16:34]Purify your heart from jealousy, but I won't punish you.
[16:38]You can sit in your room, okay, and hate your successful cousin
[16:43]all you want.
[16:44]As long as you don't harm your cousin, Allah is not going
[16:47]to consider you sinful." Even though it's a vice, if you want
[16:53]to ascend the ladder of morality, purify your heart from jealousy, but
[16:57]at least it's not a sin if it's just contained in your
[17:01]heart.
[17:01]You don't show it on your tongue and you don't show it
[17:04]on your actions.
[17:04]So, this is one category that the hadith lifts.
[17:07]There's nine of them.
[17:10]One of the most important of them is the following statement by
[17:15]the prophet sallallahu alaihi.
[17:15]He states, that which my um does not know has been lifted
[17:24]from them.
[17:26]So anytime we are presented with a doubtful situation and we don't
[17:31]know whether it's halal or haram, we can refer to this hadith
[17:35]hadith of the lifting to say that Allah has lifted the burden
[17:41]from us.
[17:42]Cloning is it halal or haram?
[17:43]We don't know.
[17:45]The prophet says it's lifted.
[17:46]That means it's permissible.
[17:47]Allah will not consider you sinful if you engage in it, if
[17:50]you perform it, if you do it.
[17:53]So our scholars look at a hadith like that to derive the
[17:59]law of exemption or the law of permissibility.
[18:02]That's why many times you'll find a showing something isal and you
[18:07]ask him how do you know this isal?
[18:09]I don't see anything in hadith in Quran about that.
[18:11]He'll tell you the law of exemption.
[18:13]I don't see any proof, any evidence that it's haram.
[18:17]So I can cite this hadith and prove that it is halal.
[18:22]It is permissible.
[18:21]We're off the hook.
[18:24]Even if on the day of judgment it turns out that it
[18:25]was haram, Allah subhana wa ta'ala is not going to hold us
[18:30]accountable because it's lifted from us.
[18:32]So this is the textual scriptural evidence for the law of exemption.
[18:39]Now let's come to the application and this is where it really
[18:43]gets interesting.
[18:43]When it comes to the application of the law of exemption, there
[18:48]is one application that only a scholar can do and there is
[18:56]an application that the lay person can do.
[18:57]Let's examine the difference between these two areas.
[19:01]We have a hum, a ruling, and we have a subject.
[19:06]Let's make a distinction between these two.
[19:09]A ruling is if something is halal, waj mustab.
[19:15]We call these rulings.
[19:17]When it comes to a ruling, I want to know if this
[19:22]is halal or not.
[19:26]You have to be an expert scholar to apply the law of
[19:28]exemption and say there is no evidence that this is haram.
[19:33]So I will say that it is halal.
[19:35]Now why do you have to be a scholar?
[19:38]Because you have to go and see the hadiths and the Quran
[19:40]for you to say there is no evidence.
[19:45]If I'm a lay person and I have not studied the Quran
[19:46]and the tens of thousands of hadith that we have, how can
[19:50]I say cloning is halal?
[19:51]How do you know?
[19:53]Did you go and check 16,000 hadith in the book of kafi?
[19:55]Maybe there's a hadith that indicates it's haram.
[19:57]How do you know?
[19:58]So as a lay person when it comes to the ruling itself
[20:03]you cannot use the law of exemption and say ya the sayy
[20:09]taught us tonight anytime I doubt something is halal or haram just
[20:12]go and assume that it is halal bitcoin is it halal oral
[20:16]oral oral oral oral oral oral oral oral oral or haram yah
[20:17]I have the law of exemption that's something only a scholar can
[20:23]do because a scholar can investigate all the evidence out there once
[20:27]he sees that there is no evidence for cryptocurrency to be haram.
[20:32]The scholar will tell you it's halal by the law of exemption.
[20:37]So when it comes to rulings, only a scholar can apply this
[20:44]law.
[20:42]Yes.
[20:43]When you get to subjects, external subjects, all of you can apply
[20:50]this law.
[20:49]What's an external subject?
[20:52]I'll give you very simple examples.
[20:55]Let's say if we doubt whether this carpet here is negous or
[21:01]not, it's pure or not.
[21:01]Is this a ruling or is this a subject?
[21:05]You already know the ruling.
[21:08]If something is negous, you cannot pray on it for instance.
[21:10]Or if you touch it, your hand becomes negous if there's moisture.
[21:13]The ruling we know, but we DON'T KNOW WHETHER THIS external subject
[21:18]here is neg or not.
[21:20]This is not the role of a scholar to tell you if
[21:24]this is a neg or not.
[21:25]This is your this is your role.
[21:27]It's your responsibility.
[21:28]Another example, citing the moon.
[21:31]If you ask your merger, am I going to see the moon
[21:36]in Michigan?
[21:37]The mer will tell you this is not my business.
[21:39]You go and figure out whether you can see the moon or
[21:44]not.
[21:45]Try to see it or you can resort to astronomical calculations.
[21:47]If they tell you you can definitely see the moon, it gives
[21:53]you confidence.
[21:52]That's your responsibility.
[21:53]It's not my responsibility.
[21:56]I'll give you the hookum, the ruling, but whether there's a moon
[22:00]tonight or not, that's not the role of a that role is
[22:04]your role.
[22:05]It's the role of the community of your regional area.
[22:07]So when it comes to doubtful cases, you can apply the law
[22:15]of exemption.
[22:16]I'll share with you now five real life examples so we can
[22:20]appreciate the depth of this law.
[22:22]One very common example that many of you ask about.
[22:26]Let's say you've missed a few months of salah, but you don't
[22:32]know exactly how many months of salah you've missed.
[22:35]Is it two months?
[22:37]Is it two and a half months?
[22:38]Is it three months?
[22:41]Now you want to make up those missed prayers.
[22:46]How much do you have to make up?
[22:48]Two months, two and a half, or three?
[22:51]You know it's between this between this range.
[22:53]The law of exemption tells you the following.
[22:56]You do know that you definitely missed two months, right?
[23:01]So you're liable for that because you know you missed two months
[23:06]for sure.
[23:05]But do you know that you missed more than two months?
[23:09]You don't know.
[23:11]It's a doubt.
[23:11]You're not sure if you missed more than two months.
[23:16]What does the hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam in the
[23:20]hadith of the lifting say?
[23:21]The hadith of lifting says that which you do not know has
[23:27]been lifted from you.
[23:27]So the two additional weeks, the additional month that you doubt because
[23:31]you doubt it, you're not sure that you're liable for it, it's
[23:37]lifted from you.
[23:36]So you can apply the law of exemption and only make up
[23:40]two months of salah.
[23:41]You don't have to make up three months.
[23:43]and your evidence the hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam that's
[23:48]one very simple example same applies to fasting let's say there are
[23:52]some mothers who were pregnant they couldn't fast and then years later
[23:58]they don't know do I have 100 days of missed fast 120
[24:00]130 I don't know I didn't keep proper track of it in
[24:06]that case you can go with the lowest number the lowest estimate
[24:09]because you have certainty about the lowest estimate so you fulfill it.
[24:14]Anything more than that you don't know it's lifted from you.
[24:18]That's one example.
[24:19]Another example is if in if you're indebted to someone, you took
[24:25]a loan from someone and you paid back this person $500 and
[24:30]then you doubt, did I pay the full amount or no?
[24:34]Was it $500?
[24:37]Was it $600?
[24:36]Was it $800?
[24:38]You don't know.
[24:41]It's been many years.
[24:41]Maybe even the person passed away.
[24:43]So now you have to go and give the family of this
[24:47]person the money.
[24:48]But you really don't know whether you borrowed 500 or 700.
[24:52]What does the law of exemption state here?
[24:55]You have to pay back 500.
[24:57]You're not liable for more than that.
[25:00]And the proof is what?
[25:04]The law of exemption.
[25:04]So this is another application that is applicable to many people.
[25:11]Let me share with you two more interesting applications.
[25:14]One of them is about card games.
[25:18]Many of you play with cards right now.
[25:21]Some types of cards are haram and some are halal.
[25:25]Generally, scholars have said which card games are haram.
[25:30]Card games that you either gamble with or you bet with definitely
[25:36]it's haram to play any game that involves betting and gambling.
[25:39]But let's say you're not betting and gambling, but the card game
[25:43]that you are playing is a type of game that normally your
[25:50]society gamles with.
[25:51]Like for instance, what do you call these, you know, card card
[25:59]games that you find in casinos with the ace and the king
[26:02]and the queen?
[26:03]What do you call them?
[26:03]The solitire cards, you know.
[26:05]Okay.
[26:06]Poker cards.
[26:08]Can you play poker at home without betting?
[26:12]Without gambling?
[26:11]According to most scholars, you cannot.
[26:13]Why?
[26:16]I'm not gambling with it.
[26:18]I'm not betting.
[26:18]Still haram for you to play it.
[26:20]According to the vast majority of scholars, what is their reasoning?
[26:26]The reasoning is because it's a gambling game.
[26:28]These types of guards, cards like poker, they are used in society
[26:34]for gambling.
[26:33]So, it's haram for you to play them.
[26:37]Now, let's say we come to a card.
[26:42]We don't know if it's halal or haram.
[26:44]Do people gamble with this or not?
[26:46]Maybe some people do, maybe they don't.
[26:49]You don't know.
[26:49]What does the law of exemption here state?
[26:52]The law of exemption says any card game that you know for
[26:58]sure your society gamles with, it's a it's a game that people
[27:01]commonly bet on, that's haram.
[27:03]Anything that you don't know whether your society gambles with or not,
[27:11]bets on or not, assume that it is halal.
[27:13]So you can actually apply the law of exemption.
[27:15]This is one example.
[27:17]Another interesting example is music.
[27:20]The vast majority of scholars have said music that is suitable to
[27:27]entertainment gatherings like concerts for instance, any type of melody, tune, musical
[27:34]instrument that's normally used in those gatherings is haram.
[27:38]And if it's not a type of music that you normally find
[27:43]there, it's halal.
[27:44]One of the common messages I get like literally every other day,
[27:50]somebody sends me a YouTube link.
[27:51]Say it.
[27:52]Can you check if this is halal or not?
[27:54]Can you check the music and the singing and the nasheed?
[27:56]Is this halal or not?
[28:00]Please don't send such messages.
[28:00]Right?
[28:01]I don't want to keep exposing myself to potential music on YouTube.
[28:06]I'm giving you the ruling here.
[28:08]If you know that that type of music is a type of
[28:13]music that you do find in entertainment sessions, like when you ask
[28:17]some of your friends who unfortunately listen to music, okay, they'll tell
[28:23]you, "Yeah, this melody, this tune is the type that we find
[28:28]in concerts, in entertainment gatherings." If that's the case, it's haram.
[28:33]Don't listen to it.
[28:32]And then there are some types of classical call music.
[28:36]You know, they're not found in those gatherings.
[28:37]Okay, according to many scholars, they're halal.
[28:40]Let's say you're presented with a case that's doubtful.
[28:43]You don't know.
[28:45]You listen to it.
[28:48]You're like, I'm not sure if this is a type of music
[28:50]that's suitable for entertainment gatherings or not.
[28:53]What do you do in that case?
[28:56]What does the law of exemption state?
[29:04]That which you don't know has been lifted from you.
[29:11]You see how this applies?
[29:11]And this has many applications.
[29:14]Many, many applications.
[29:17]You buy shoes that's potentially leather.
[29:20]You buy a car, the car seats are potentially leather.
[29:24]And you don't know is this animal leather, genuine leather, or is
[29:27]this synthetic leather.
[29:29]What does the law of permissibility or exemption state?
[29:31]You don't know that this is animal leather.
[29:35]That's haram.
[29:36]Okay.
[29:35]Consider it to be pure.
[29:37]Consider this to be nonan animal leather.
[29:41]So this has so many beautiful applications in our lives.
[29:46]Now yes there are some areas in which you cannot apply the
[29:52]law of per permissibility, the law of exemption.
[29:54]Which area?
[29:55]When you know there's an obligation on you but you don't know
[30:01]how to fulfill it.
[30:02]A common question that I get say I did another a vow
[30:07]if Allah subhana wa ta'ala grants me victory and I pass the
[30:14]bar exam the MCAT the naplex if I pass it I am
[30:20]going to do a good deed so you make the vow after
[30:22]you pass the exam you forget what exactly you made an oath
[30:29]to do for Allah subhana wa ta'ala Did I promise to, for
[30:36]instance, donate $1,000 to the poor or to read five chapters of
[30:40]the Quran?
[30:41]Say it.
[30:42]I don't remember what my nither was.
[30:44]I do know that I definitely made a n.
[30:47]I'm sure of that.
[30:47]The obligation is on me.
[30:50]But I don't know whether I said I will donate $1,000 or
[30:53]I will read five chapters of the Quran.
[30:58]Can you apply the law of exemption here?
[31:00]No.
[31:01]Why can't you lie apply it?
[31:04]Because you do know you made a vow and you're obligated.
[31:06]Therefore, in this situation, what do you have to do?
[31:12]Sorry, it's it's a it's a tough one, right?
[31:13]So far, we've been lenient for you.
[31:16]Exemption.
[31:15]Everything's halal.
[31:16]Halal halal.
[31:18]Not this one.
[31:18]You have to do both.
[31:21]Why do you have to do both?
[31:22]Because you need to guarantee yourself that you fulfilled your ne.
[31:25]So in these types of areas, you cannot apply the law of
[31:31]exemption.
[31:30]So my dear brothers and sisters, when you look at the applications
[31:37]of this law, it's truly fascinating.
[31:38]And I just gave you a glimpse, the tip of the iceberg
[31:41]of how complex our laws are and how they beautifully guide our
[31:50]way.
[31:48]That's what the imams of Alam left for their followers in the
[31:54]time of occultation.
[31:54]when you don't have direct access to your imam.
[31:59]Yes, that's unfortunate.
[31:58]It's a trial.
[32:01]But Allah has given you the laws that clarify every subject for
[32:04]you.
[32:05]So, this is the second dimension which is the religious scriptural dimension.
[32:10]Let's get to the third application or dimension of this law and
[32:15]that is the social application.
[32:17]This one's very important.
[32:20]The spirit of the law of exemption is that if you don't
[32:24]have any evidence something is haram, it's not haram.
[32:30]Something is waj, consider it not waj.
[32:33]The spirit of this law when it applies to your relationships is
[32:39]never to be suspicious of people and accuse them without having evidence.
[32:48]This is one of the biggest trials that a believer goes through.
[32:54]My dear brothers and sisters, we human beings have the tendency to
[32:58]develop doubts about people.
[33:00]We're suspicious of them.
[33:04]We accuse them.
[33:03]We give our naps and ourselves the benefit of the doubt, but
[33:10]we don't give others the benefit of the doubt.
[33:14]Im Ali beautifully stated in a hadith that what destroys your faith
[33:22]is in another hadith.
[33:29]If you constantly have negative thoughts about others, suspicions, you doubt others,
[33:34]you accuse others, the Imam says you cannot really have a full
[33:39]religion.
[33:37]You cannot have a full dean.
[33:40]A believer is one who always gives others around him, fellow believers,
[33:45]friends, family members, the benefit of the doubt.
[33:49]Some people, they make a small mistake.
[33:52]We're very tough with them.
[33:55]We're very aggressive.
[33:56]We never forget that they committed that mistake.
[34:00]Is this fair?
[34:01]Allah wants me as a mu to always give the benefit of
[34:06]the doubt to my brothers and sisters.
[34:09]Literally make up excuses for them.
[34:10]It's okay.
[34:11]Why are we always assuming that people have bad intentions?
[34:14]Say it.
[34:16]My friend didn't invite me forar this year because he hates me.
[34:19]Because he has a plan to destroy my life.
[34:22]Maybe he forgot.
[34:24]Maybe his basement is not big enough and he just chose 10
[34:27]people randomly.
[34:29]Okay, maybe not randomly, but a little bit of randomness in there.
[34:32]Don't take it so seriously.
[34:35]We always question the intentions of one another.
[34:38]And I tell you, one of the reasons why marriages fail and
[34:42]relationships fail is because of lack of trust.
[34:46]When the husband starts to doubt his wife constantly, he doubts his
[34:54]her intentions.
[34:52]Everything that she does, he's suspicious of it.
[34:59]That destroys your marriage.
[35:00]When the wife keeps doubting her husband, one of the common questions
[35:07]that I get from spouses, say, "Can I spy on my wife's
[35:10]phone?
[35:11]On my husband's phone?
[35:14]I went through my spouse's phone and I discovered X, Y, and
[35:17]Z." Allah says in the Holy Quran, you have no right to
[35:22]spy.
[35:22]Even if it's your spouse, you think you own your spouse.
[35:24]You don't own your spouse.
[35:28]It's haram for you to go through the phone of your spouse
[35:30]without their permission.
[35:30]Haram, I say it haram.
[35:34]No law of exemption here.
[35:34]Sorry.
[35:35]No bar here.
[35:38]It's not lifted from you.
[35:40]Allah clearly states in the Holy Quran, don't spy.
[35:43]Don't spy on your family members, on your friends, on your loved
[35:47]ones.
[35:48]Give them the benefit of the doubt.
[35:50]That's what Allah wants from you, my dear brothers and sisters.
[35:55]Don't be so tough with one another.
[35:58]And believe me, many time we wrongly judge people.
[36:01]Many time we falsely accuse them and judge them.
[36:03]People have better intentions than we think.
[36:09]Sometimes they say one day a father, his daughter was struggling with
[36:15]her health.
[36:14]She needed medication, but he was broke.
[36:17]He didn't have the money to buy the medication.
[36:20]So he called his best friend.
[36:24]He told him, "Habibi, you're my best friend, and all these years
[36:28]I've been there for you.
[36:28]I need now $400 cash.
[36:32]My daughter is ill.
[36:34]I really need the medication." He told him, "Sure to I will
[36:40]bring you the money.
[36:40]Give me an hour." He's anxiously waiting.
[36:43]An hour passed.
[36:44]His friend didn't show up.
[36:49]So immediately, what happened?
[36:50]You open a window for Shan to keep whispering how evil he
[36:56]is.
[36:57]Why didn't he show up?
[36:58]He told me he'll bring the money.
[37:01]He didn't.
[37:00]He waited an hour and a half.
[37:02]His friend didn't show up.
[37:06]Two hours later, he called him.
[37:07]The phone's off.
[37:07]That's it.
[37:09]He took this as now this divine miraculous sign that my friend
[37:12]betrayed me.
[37:14]And he had all these ill thoughts against his friend.
[37:19]He was ranting and cussing at his friend.
[37:22]All these years I'm your friend.
[37:23]Now you go and disappear and turn off your phone.
[37:28]Well, as he's fuming and raging, 3 hours later, his friend shows
[37:35]up and he's barely able to breathe.
[37:38]It looked like he was, you know, in a hurry running.
[37:40]He told him, "Hhabibi, I'm so sorry to be late.
[37:44]I told you an hour, but I didn't have any cash to
[37:49]give you.
[37:47]I'm broke like you.
[37:50]The only thing I had was my phone.
[37:53]I went to the mall and I sold my phone.
[37:56]I thought it would take an hour, but it took longer than
[38:01]expected.
[38:02]I sold my phone.
[38:01]Here's the $400.
[38:05]Imagine how this guy felt.
[38:08]This is something, my dear brothers and sisters, that we do every
[38:13]day, every week, constantly with our loved ones, with our friends.
[38:16]Never judge anyone.
[38:19]You don't know what the circumstances of that person is.
[38:22]We don't know.
[38:25]Always be gentle with people.
[38:27]Give them the benefit of the doubt.
[38:29]Now, sometimes you'll tell me, say it, I gave this person the
[38:31]benefit of the doubt and that person took advantage of me.
[38:35]Sure, that happens.
[38:36]You don't think this happened with the imams, with the prophet sallallahu
[38:38]alaihi.
[38:39]That's your trial.
[38:39]Allah wants to elevate you.
[38:42]It's a trial for that person.
[38:43]Leave the rest with Allah subhana wa ta'ala.
[38:47]Don't be obsessed with the outcome.
[38:49]So when you apply the spirit of this law without evidence, my
[38:54]dear brothers and sisters, never pass a judgment on anyone in your
[39:00]life, you could be wronging that person.
[39:03]And that's a major sin in the eyes of Allah subhanahu wa
[39:05]ta'ala.
[39:06]That is the third dimension.
[39:07]The fourth application and dimension of the spirit of this law is
[39:12]when we constantly judge Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
[39:17]You know who's the most judged being in the universe?
[39:21]Not you.
[39:22]Some people think I'm the most judged person.
[39:26]Everybody judges me.
[39:26]Everybody accuses me.
[39:29]No, you're not.
[39:29]Who's the most judged person in the universe?
[39:33]Well, not person, but being.
[39:36]That's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
[39:39]Every single day, billions of people judge God.
[39:44]We go through trials.
[39:46]We go we go through difficulties and quickly we accuse Allah.
[39:50]Oh Allah, why did this happen to me?
[39:53]Oh Allah, you betrayed me here.
[39:54]You didn't stand with me.
[39:57]You didn't help me.
[39:58]And we experience that rage, that anger, that disappointment.
[40:00]Ya Allah, that was my DREAM JOB.
[40:03]THAT'S ALL I WANTED FROM YOU AND you didn't give it to
[40:06]me.
[40:07]And we attack Allah.
[40:06]We're constantly in attack mode.
[40:10]Ya Allah, this dream girl that I've been waiting for, I killed
[40:14]myself to marry her.
[40:15]You didn't let it happen.
[40:18]Well, initially, she's the dream girl.
[40:18]Sometimes, believe me, 3 months after the marriage, ya Allah, what happens?
[40:23]We quickly judge Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
[40:27]And the most difficult one is if you have a health crisis.
[40:31]If it's a chronic serious health crisis, many times we judge Allah.
[40:36]We attack Allah subhana wa ta'ala.
[40:37]We reject the will of Allah.
[40:41]And subhan Allah, recite dua.
[40:44]Why is this dua so beautiful?
[40:47]And we recite it every night in the month of Ramadan.
[40:58]Oh Allah, I do acknowledge that sometimes you delay something.
[41:04]You postpone some something.
[41:06]Not because you're not generous.
[41:07]Ya Allah, you are the peak of generosity.
[41:10]You are the peak of mercy and compassion, but because you know
[41:13]the outcome of things and you know this is not good for
[41:18]me.
[41:18]But I'm ignorant and I don't know and I keep accusing you.
[41:21]Oh Allah, oh Allah, forgive me for that.
[41:32]Ya Allah, I've not seen anyone who is more patient than you.
[41:37]Every day I challenge you.
[41:39]I don't accept your will.
[41:40]I don't give you the benefit of the doubt.
[41:42]But every single day, you continue to bless me.
[41:47]Every single day, you give me life.
[41:49]You protect me, my family.
[41:50]You give me new blessings that I never had anticipated.
[41:54]Indeed, Allah is the most generous.
[41:57]And in the month of Ramadan, we create that spirit of trust
[42:03]in Allah.
[42:05]Anything that happens, my dear brothers and sisters, there's goodness in it.
[42:09]They say there was a king in the past who was an
[42:14]atheist.
[42:15]He didn't really believe in God.
[42:17]He had a wazir.
[42:18]He had a minister who had full faith in God.
[42:22]Anything bad that would happen, the wazir would say, "Ishallah, it's good.
[42:29]There's some goodness in it." The king didn't like that.
[42:36]It agitated him.
[42:35]So one day the king was eating fruits and he was cutting
[42:41]some of those fruits.
[42:40]So he accidentally cut his finger.
[42:43]Especially in the past, knives were bigger and sharper.
[42:48]So he cut his finger.
[42:50]He started to panic.
[42:54]And his minister who believes in Allah, what did he say?
[42:57]He said, "Ishallah, there's goodness in it." The king was furious.
[43:03]How dare you say there is goodness in this?
[43:07]What goodness is there in my finger being chopped?
[43:09]I'll teach you a lesson.
[43:12]I'll teach you a lesson.
[43:14]So he ordered his guards to put this minister in prison.
[43:19]As he was being taken to the prison, the poor minister who
[43:23]believes in God, he said, inshallah, there's goodness in this.
[43:29]The king started to make fun of him.
[43:31]He said, "Look at this fool.
[43:33]I'm sentencing him to a life sentence in prison." And he says,
[43:36]"Ishallah, yell, go in the prison and enjoy all the that you
[43:42]want." A while after The king is going hunting.
[43:46]He had a habit of going hunting.
[43:50]When he went to hunt, this king lost his way and he
[44:00]was found in a Bedawin village with savage people who were pagans.
[44:07]So they arrested the king.
[44:07]He lost his way.
[44:08]And the caravan that was with him, he lost them in the
[44:13]jungles.
[44:12]So they arrested him and then they took him to an idol
[44:15]and there was a huge ceremony.
[44:16]He told them, "What's going on?
[44:18]What do you want?" They told him, "Today is our day of
[44:24]sacrifice.
[44:25]We sacrifice a human being to our idols." He told them, "I'm
[44:28]a king." Like, "King?
[44:28]What king?
[44:29]You're not in your territory.
[44:30]Sorry.
[44:31]We're gonna kill you." Before they decided to kill him, the chief
[44:37]of the tribe, he said, "We have to make sure that the
[44:41]sacrifice we offer to our gods, to the idols, they are complete.
[44:45]It has to be a full body with no defects.
[44:48]So can you please examine his body so we can see that?"
[44:53]They examined his body.
[44:57]They realized that he is missing a finger.
[44:59]So the leader of the tribe, what did he say?
[45:02]The chief saysamlaykumah.
[45:04]The chief said, "Sorry, we're not going to accept that.
[45:10]Bring somebody else." So they let him go.
[45:14]He went back and on the way he remembered the incident of
[45:20]him cutting his finger and it was the loss of this finger
[45:26]that saved his life.
[45:25]So he started to cry.
[45:28]He found faith and hope in Allah.
[45:30]Ya Allah, now I know why that happened.
[45:33]really there was in it.
[45:33]So he went back, he hurried to his kingdom.
[45:36]He brought the wazir, the minister, and he freed him.
[45:37]He told him, "I'm really sorry.
[45:40]What you said was true.
[45:41]There was goodness in that.
[45:42]Had it not been for that, I would have been dead meat
[45:46]right now.
[45:47]But I have a question to ask you.
[45:50]For years, I put you in the prison unjustly.
[45:53]And you said there is in it for me.
[45:56]I wasted your life for three years.
[45:58]What goodness was there in you going into prison?
[46:01]Can you tell me?
[46:01]He said, "Yes, I'll tell you." Remember, king, when you would go
[46:04]on hunting trips before you put me in prison, who would go
[46:08]with you?
[46:09]He said, "You would go with me." He's like, "Okay, if we
[46:12]were both arrested, you have a missing finger.
[46:15]They did not accept you as the sacrifice.
[46:17]If I were with you, what would have happened to me?" He
[46:19]told him, "You would have been the sacrifice." He's like, "Allah, put
[46:23]me in prison for a few years to protect my life." You
[46:27]see the in it every single day my dear brothers and sisters
[46:34]we judge Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and the spirit of the law
[46:37]of exemption is that never accuse anyone in your society or never
[46:41]accuse Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala there is goodness in what happens and
[46:46]there is goodness in people around you we ask Allah subhana wa
[46:52]ta'ala to illuminate our hearts and minds dear brothers and sisters inshallah
[46:58]Tonight we will begin the of we will be commemorating on six
[47:02]nights.
[47:03]So inshallah now in a few minutes we will begin the may
[47:10]Allah subhana wa ta'ala bless you all.
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