7- Forgiving Others - Commentary on Dua Makarim al-Akhlaq - Sayed Saleh Qazwini

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[0:00]smell r-rahmani r-rahim al-hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen or salat wa salam ala

[0:06]ashraf olymbia even more saline habib allah hello al-amin evil cozumel Mustafa

[0:12]Muhammad Ali beta IB not ba hurry in latina habala and homologa

[0:21]Haram Tahira ala modificated al karim allah alrahman alraheem holy laughs what

[0:30]morrible Marouf well I needed jaha Deen respected brothers and sisters Salam

[0:35]alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh as we continue with the beautiful DA supplication of

[0:43]imam zain al-abideen Ali Salim macadam and aflac the supplication of the

[0:50]Honorable traits and we discuss the important traits that a man a

[0:56]believer should have and these are the traits that we learned them

[1:04]from imam zain al-abideen and from the elevate and from the Quran

[1:09]because the religion of Islam and the Quran and the teachings of

[1:13]rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa LA and his holy progeny teach us

[1:21]that religion is not just about connecting with God but rather it's

[1:27]about living a happy life religion is a system of life and

[1:32]the purpose of religion is that it teaches you how to attain

[1:40]happiness in the afterlife and very importantly how to attain happiness in

[1:45]this life how should you live your life what should you do

[1:48]so that you will be a happy person so that you will

[1:53]be living without stress so that you will be living without anxiety

[1:59]without problems and one of the very important ways that we can

[2:04]all attain happiness is when we live at peace with those who

[2:11]are around us when we are at peace where there's no physical

[2:15]fighting no violence and at peace in a state of mind where

[2:19]I'm not holding a grudge against anyone where there's no hatred where

[2:24]there's no animosity between people because when we have hatred and we

[2:30]have animosity and we have problems with people that will create anxiety

[2:34]that will create stress that will create problems and that will even

[2:42]lead to a physical illness so the Quran the Quranic teaching in

[2:46]the teaching of rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa one of the very important

[2:51]teachings that the religion of islam stresses about is that we should

[2:56]not hold grudges against people is that we should forgive people and

[3:01]these are some of the very important teachings that the religion of

[3:08]islam a person who has faith it will be much easier for

[3:11]them to forgive than someone who does not have faith why the

[3:17]reason is because the person who has faith they believe that if

[3:21]they felt oppressed and they turned and you know they didn't really

[3:26]hold a grudge against someone and they forgave someone they believe that

[3:30]they will be compensated in the afterlife but the person who does

[3:35]not believe in the afterlife the person who does not believe in

[3:39]the acura this person they feel like this life is all that

[3:42]they have so they'll hold grudges they'll hold hatred they'll have animosity

[3:46]they'll be upset over petty issues because this is the only life

[3:50]that they're looking forward to but a person who believes that there's

[3:56]a there's an afterlife that we're going to be held accountable and

[4:00]there's judgement and there's paradise this person says it's okay if I

[4:04]lose out a little bit on this life it's okay if I

[4:05]forgive it's okay if I don't hold a grudge let me be

[4:09]at peace let me be at a ease a state of ease

[4:13]and a peace of mind in this life and in the axilla

[4:17]in the afterlife allah subhana wa ta'ala will compensate me for the

[4:20]troubles that i experienced in this life so this is why Islam

[4:23]and religion in general but Islam you see that there are many

[4:27]verses in the Quran many prophetic prophetic traditions that encourages encouraged us

[4:34]to be at peace with others to forgive others Allah says in

[4:41]the Quran in one verse and surah al-araf Hoda laughs ooh what

[4:46]marble Marouf what are evangeline a very key ingredient to living happy

[4:52]in this life show forgiveness enjoy kindness and avoid the ignorant hood

[4:59]enough meaning that if someone is forgiving if someone is seeking forgiveness

[5:04]if someone is trying to to you know say sorry for something

[5:09]that they have done forgive them let go of grudges Hoda laughs

[5:15]if someone is seeking off from you give it to them take

[5:21]take the off meaning take the path of forgiving other people second

[5:26]enjoin kindness what moral my roof my roof is something that is

[5:31]generally accepted and joined that do amaral we have a very important

[5:37]obligation an amiable Marouf when a yawn in Mongkok enjoining the good

[5:44]and joining kindness and forbidding evil this is a duty that we

[5:49]all have so enjoin kindness if you see someone not doing something

[5:52]correctly teach them show them the way when it comes to matters

[5:55]of life when it comes to matters of the afterlife as well

[6:00]we all have to constantly reform ourselves out of a ninja Halim

[6:04]and stay away from the ignorance people don't go and start bickering

[6:09]and start fighting and start getting putting yourself into a problem with

[6:13]those who are ignorant it's not worth it they're not worth your

[6:18]time Allah Subhanahu WA Ta'ala has given you the potential to achieve

[6:22]so much don't waste your time over petty issues we're out of

[6:25]a ninja hélène now am a messiah alehissalaam he says in the

[6:32]tafseer of this verse for the laughs what Marvel Maru for evangeline

[6:36]he says that rasool allah sallallahu rdu ali was disciplined by Allah

[6:42]and this is what sort of law says so Allah says add

[6:45]ebony Arab be my lord admonished me my Lord disciplined me and

[6:51]we have to take Rasul Allah as a role model so when

[6:56]Allah is speaking to us Allah giving Rasulullah this order we have

[7:01]to also take this order with this order and another hadith rasulullah

[7:07]sallallahu alehiwassallaam acara man o'clock and the ma the honorable traits with

[7:14]allah subhanaw taala what are the honorable traits what does allah subhanho

[7:18]wa taala look for any person in this life we respect people

[7:21]for their status for their wealth for the house they have for

[7:24]the car they drive for their position the honorable traits with allah

[7:30]subhanaw taala are very different Allah does not look at people the

[7:33]way we look at people sometimes we look at people from a

[7:36]materialistic mindsets allah subhanaw taala does not look at people in that

[7:43]in that matter in the macadam and o'clock and amah and tap

[7:47]for a member loumac the first honorable traits with allah subhanaw taala

[7:52]as if a person is willing to forgive those who have oppressed

[7:59]them when someone has oppressed you when someone has wronged you you

[8:03]say for the sake of Allah I will forgive this person for

[8:05]the sake of Allah I won't hold any grudges against this person

[8:12]and tat foo I'm man Valley mec what tussle man gotta act

[8:15]and you connect with the one who disconnects with you someone broke

[8:21]the bond with you you go and you try to build that

[8:23]bond and this is specially obligatory Rajab when it comes to family

[8:27]ties when it comes to lamb so let's rhyme so that's what

[8:32]Rahim ism is an obligation upon every single one of us meaning

[8:35]that if someone disconnected with you even if this person is your

[8:39]family member you have to do your obligation to not disconnect with

[8:45]this person you have to do the Salah so that means connected

[8:48]so let's ar-rahim Rahim is anyone who has shared a womb at

[8:52]one point in time with you me anyone from your relatives your

[8:57]blood relatives your family members say letter ahem you have to be

[9:01]connected so here Typhoo i'm Manville emic what tussle man a park

[9:05]you have to be connected not only with the ones who are

[9:10]kind to you you have to be connected with those who have

[9:12]disconnected with you this is the macadam in a clock and this

[9:15]is difficult time for I'm monatomic you have to forgive the one

[9:21]who has oppressed you how many of us can do that how

[9:22]many of us can connect with someone that has disconnected with us

[9:25]this is the macadam illa llah these are the honorable traits with

[9:31]allah subhanahu wata'ala what totally man hellenic and you give the one

[9:37]who did not give you the one who took from you these

[9:39]are this is what Allah subhana WA Ta'ala judges us my dear

[9:42]this is how Allah judges us Allah subhana Allah that looks at

[9:48]these a lot in the macadam and o'clock and of course we

[9:51]believe that was so lovely and be a little bait they are

[9:55]the highest of the earth lock surah Anam abort he says enema

[9:59]birth to Leo Tamara I'm a caramel o'clock I was verily sent

[10:07]to enhance and increase the Aflac with people and masala bla was

[10:12]the greatest this is why he was sent and he was commissioned

[10:16]as a mercy to mankind this is why Allah says about him

[10:19]when Mikhail Allah hooligan aleem in another verse in Surat al-ma'idah Allah

[10:25]subhana Allah says in the Quran fat for an home was Phi

[10:32]in Allah head bull marceline and forgive them and go easy with

[10:37]what people have done because Allah loves those who are marceline those

[10:42]who do asan those who do good to other people and another

[10:47]verse in Surat al Hedren Allah says in the Quran phosphorous off

[10:51]Hal Jamil forgive the gracious forgiving what is the soft hell Jamil

[11:00]immune minion Ali ibn ABI Taleb he says that a fear of

[11:02]this verse he says a soft hell Jamil who I love megaria

[11:07]table he says the soft hell Jimmy the gracious forgiving is when

[11:15]you forgive someone without making this person hear a word here and

[11:20]there sometimes we forgive other people but we'll throw a word here

[11:22]and there and we'll do something here and there now that's still

[11:25]good at least the person is forgiving but the true gracious forgiving

[11:30]is the one who says listen the one who tells themselves I

[11:35]don't I don't want I don't expect anything from this person because

[11:38]I only focus on allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala and serrata Terrebonne see how

[11:45]much the quran stresses on the matter of forgiving and being a

[11:50]person who does not hold grudges we're in tofu what does follow

[11:56]what tuck fill the end Allah have the food on Rahim if

[12:00]you forgive and you're gracious with other people and you you let

[12:07]go of the faults of other people find a lot of food

[12:09]online if you do that with people a loss of Hanoi China

[12:14]will treat you in the same way don't we all want Allah

[12:17]subhana Allah to forgive us don't we all want all what Allah

[12:22]subhana WA Ta'ala to let go of our wrongs that we have

[12:27]done similarly allah says if you do that allah has gone online

[12:30]and this is why there are many blessings and there are many

[12:34]benefits of forgiving other people a lot of people think that if

[12:41]I'm forgiving another person who has harmed me then I'm doing a

[12:45]favor to that person that I'm forgiving them but the reality my

[12:49]dear brothers and sisters when we forgive other people we're actually doing

[12:54]ourselves a favor you're removing the burdens you're removing the weights you're

[13:00]removing all of these negative feelings from your heart and it will

[13:05]change the animosity a feeling of animosity a sentiment of animosity and

[13:11]to love and this is what Allah says in the Quran well

[13:15]a tester will husana to Allah say yeah it fabbi let you

[13:20]hear for either levy by Nicola Boehner who are now it's on

[13:23]yeah no well you know I mean when you forgive it will

[13:28]change a relationship of animosity into a relationship of love into a

[13:35]relationship of compassion this is one it will one of the blessings

[13:37]is that it will remove the feelings of animosity and to love

[13:44]second is that allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala forgives those who forgive as we

[13:49]said allah subhanaw taala he is looking for he is the one

[13:52]who is the father the noob he's done who forgives us for

[13:57]our faults so if Allah sees that this person is forgiving other

[14:00]people then allah subhanaw taala is going to say I am more

[14:03]forgiving than this person and this person has this quality of forgiving

[14:07]other people then therefore this person is worthy to be forgiven of

[14:13]the sins that they have committed of all their faults another benefit

[14:18]is you will have dignity you will have honor when you forgive

[14:23]other people you will have respect in the hearts of people what

[14:27]sort of lalala how I leave you I didn't was forgiving this

[14:31]is why Allah so Allah was loved even the enemies of Rasul

[14:34]Allah they loved the Prophet they knew that he has the best

[14:41]manners the best pluck and they knew that they cannot accuse him

[14:44]of his manners they didn't like the message he was bringing some

[14:47]of them the message that all sort of LA was bringing it

[14:51]was going against their lives in their interest however they knew that

[14:54]or sort of la his character and his morale his morality was

[14:59]not questioned and most importantly Allah will love the one who forgives

[15:08]and you will be at peace with yourself now we see imam

[15:11]zain al-abideen re salam in this doha in the door of the

[15:16]honorable traits doha macadam in a flack he asks allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

[15:19]and of course this is a lesson for all of us he

[15:24]asks allah subhana wa ta'ala to give him the ability to forgive

[15:27]other people the imam ali salam he says in this part of

[15:32]the Doha Allah Azza muhammadin wa ala was a didney lien or

[15:37]are a famine roshani Binoche yhz man hegemony Bilborough wha FIBA man

[15:47]harmony bill battle whoa Oh kaffir man kata an Ibis Allah whoa

[15:56]Oh Holly Manor turbine e Allah Hosni vicar won an Oscar al

[16:01]Hashanah were overly an azalea seven key points and we will go

[16:06]through them the first of course the Imam Ali salami says Allah

[16:11]humma salli ala muhammad ahmad and we see that they ma'am each

[16:13]time he wants to begin a new a new da he does

[16:18]silhouette upon muhammad wa ala muhammad and there's a lot of blessings

[16:22]in sending silhouette upon muhammad wa ala muhammad and then he says

[16:26]was said did me leigh-anne or out of a man - honorable

[16:34]no say give me the grace that I can counter one who

[16:41]is this dishonest with me with advice someone yes Jenny someone is

[16:46]trying to fool me someone is not being genuine with me I

[16:49]allow me to be genuine with this person this is a beautiful

[16:56]beautiful Doha that the Imam ELISA Lam's teaching us and bringing to

[17:00]our attention that even though some people are not being genuine with

[17:04]you some people are fake some people in front of you they'll

[17:09]smile in front of you they'll say they'll say sir and things

[17:12]but behind your back their actions are different he says oh Allah

[17:16]give me the grace was said did knee lien or out of

[17:22]a man election even knows give me the grace so that I

[17:27]can counter the one who is dishonest with me with good advice

[17:30]let me be genuine with people when someone is cheating they're hurting

[17:35]themselves when someone is not being honest when someone is being fake

[17:41]when someone is being two-faced they're hurting themselves they're not gonna hurt

[17:45]you the important thing is that you don't go down to their

[17:49]level the important thing is that you be genuine with all people

[17:52]be clear let your what's apparent and what's hidden be clear some

[18:00]people there they have two faces they have two sides two dimensions

[18:04]the Imam Ali Salaam he says o Allah give me the grace

[18:09]that even with those people who are not honest with me let

[18:12]me be honest with myself and with other people and then they

[18:20]mom goes on yhz man hegemony Bilborough oh allah give me the

[18:25]ability to reward the one who forsakes me with goodness they do

[18:30]hadron meaning that they have neglected me they did not treat me

[18:35]the way I was supposed to be treated but oh Allah allow

[18:38]me to treat even those people who did not treat me well

[18:44]allow me to treat them with goodness what feeble man had I

[18:47]many build Bevan and allow me to repay the one who deprives

[18:56]me with free giving meaning that when I'm giving let my giving

[19:01]be for the sake of Allah let me not be doing people

[19:07]just reciprocating the actions of other people oh this person treated me

[19:10]bad I'm going to treat this person bad this person treated me

[19:13]good I'm going to treat this person good no let me wealthy

[19:16]by man Haram enabled Beth let me repay or let me reward

[19:22]the one who forsakes me with goodness and repay the one who

[19:26]deprives me with free giving let me be a free giver because

[19:31]allah subhanaw taala is not going to judge me on the day

[19:36]of judgment by the actions of other people Allah is going to

[19:39]judge my reaction Allah is going to judge me for my actions

[19:42]not for other people's actions so even if you give someone else

[19:48]even if someone treated you wrong and you forgive this person and

[19:52]you're compassionate Allah is going to treat you differently Allah is going

[19:57]to look at you for your own actions well okay I am

[19:59]Barnabas Scylla and let me recompense the one who cuts me off

[20:08]with Union meaning that even if people cut me off let me

[20:11]not be the one who cuts other people off isn't this how

[20:15]I sort of love us isn't this how the added baits were

[20:17]how many times was on a sort of luck persecuted attacked abused

[20:22]but a sort of La Sal Allahu alayhi wa at all times

[20:26]what sort of lie these were his o'clock people hurt the Prophet

[20:32]people abused the Prophet the people of Mecca the people of his

[20:36]own city they kicked him out they persecuted him they waged wars

[20:39]against Russell at last some of Maharani here on him but what

[20:44]did the Prophet do a sort of la sala Maharani who I

[20:48]have treated everyone with his own o'clock not their o'clock treat the

[20:54]beautiful saying it says treat people with your manners not with their

[20:58]manners meaning if they did something wrong they'll go they're going to

[21:01]be facing the repercussions of what they did but you do what

[21:05]you have to do well highly feminist a Bonnie and I Hearst

[21:11]a vicar and let me oppose the one who backed bites me

[21:14]with good mention of this person meaning that even if this person

[21:17]was backbiting me let me not be a reason let me not

[21:22]be a person who back White's two wrongs don't make a right

[21:26]so if someone did something wrong it doesn't mean that you have

[21:30]to always reciprocate in the same way well kind if I'm any

[21:34]tab any in a hostile dick even though this person is doing

[21:36]RIBA about me this person is talking about me but let me

[21:39]purify my heart Allah says in the Quran that the day of

[21:47]judgement Yama lion phenomenon when a balloon element at Allahabad bin Salim

[21:53]the day of judgement your wealth and your family and your children

[21:57]are not going to be able to help you what's going to

[22:01]help you on the day of judgment Allah and Allah Habib el

[22:04]ben salim except the one who goes to allah with a pure

[22:09]heart with a heart that is pure a heart that is at

[22:12]peace with at peace with Allah and at peace with itself and

[22:17]then my mom alehissalaam he says when Esther Alesana were overly were

[22:25]overly honest Seiya and give me the ability to give thanks for

[22:29]the good some people they do good to me maybe I forgot

[22:33]to thank them give me the ability to thank anyone who does

[22:39]good to me and then he says what are they honest saya

[22:41]and let me overlook the evil of people let me not be

[22:46]a person who just finds the faults in people let me be

[22:51]a person who sees the good in people who thanks people and

[22:53]who does not have any negative sentiments and hatred and grudges and

[23:00]their hearts now for us this may be just words but when

[23:07]it comes to actions it's very difficult it might be very easy

[23:10]to say yes forgive people but am I really going to be

[23:15]able to forgive someone who has hurt me but the Italian Salam

[23:18]imam zain and Abidine when he's saying this the island bait they

[23:24]this was their life and this is why we love the al

[23:26]Bayt this is why everyone loves the end bait because how many

[23:30]times they were oppressed and they kept forgiving they treated people in

[23:33]their own a flock not and be a flock of the other

[23:39]people in a hadith from imam zein Abidine he himself the one

[23:42]who is teaching us this doha he says alaikum he tells his

[23:48]shia his followers he tells them alaykum ba da la manna if

[23:52]someone entrust you with something make sure you you hold on that

[23:55]trust today a lot of people they'll come and they'll say oh

[23:59]this government is not a Muslim government let me take from this

[24:01]money let me do insurance fraud let me take from here and

[24:06]there or they'll just they'll take from people I'm you know I'm

[24:10]a man ma'am Zainab Denalis said I'm he says la cumbia de

[24:16]la manna anyone who trusts you with anything you have to make

[24:18]sure that you prove that you're a trustworthy person this is our

[24:24]solid Lamas Rasul Allah the kuffar of Mecca the of Mecca did

[24:27]not believe in him as a prophet but they used to call

[24:31]him a sadhaka I mean the truthful and the trustworthy my dear

[24:35]brothers and sisters this is how we spread Islam through our actions

[24:38]so then the Imam Ali sorry mrs.

[24:41]o alaikum ba da in Amana for when levy batha Mohammed and

[24:47]bil Haq Tina BIA he says I swear by the one who

[24:54]sent Rasool Allah Muhammad as a prophet as a messenger to the

[24:58]people low and apart Allah ibn Husayn ibn Ali ibn ABI Taleb

[25:02]alayhis-salam tamanna Nia and a safe Olevia katella be the teller who

[25:14]bear that day to who le he says you have to hold

[25:15]on your trust if someone entrust you with anything you have to

[25:20]be a trustworthy person and then he says I swear by my

[25:23]grandfather and the one who sent my grandfather meaning Allah if the

[25:27]one who murdered my father Imam and Hussein gives me the sword

[25:33]and he tells me hold on to the sword for me I

[25:35]will give it back to this person subhanAllah subhanAllah these are the

[25:42]Imams of the a debate on him Saddam he's teaching us that

[25:47]had that in Amana if someone trusts you with a cent or

[25:51]a dollar or a hundred dollars or a thousand dollars or anything

[25:54]it may be whoever this person is you have to be an

[25:56]honest person you can't be a person who breaks their promise you

[26:04]can't be someone who goes against their work even if this person

[26:08]is someone that you're not in the same ideology with this person

[26:10]Marwan abdel hakim a man who was an enemy to rasulallah his

[26:17]father was an enemy to the prophet and he was an enemy

[26:19]to Imam Amir al-mumineen a mammal has an imam husain and after

[26:24]a man person was killed years in medina there was a revolution

[26:28]there was a rebellion in medina marijuana Ben and Hakam was afraid

[26:32]he was afraid for his family and for his children so he

[26:37]was going to run away but where was he going to his

[26:40]children and his family in Modena he has no place to leave

[26:45]his family he's been persecuting people he found no house to leave

[26:49]his woman and his children other than the house of imam zain

[26:52]and a body in a lake sauna he knocks on the door

[26:56]of imam zain al-abideen and he tells him I'm running away and

[26:58]here are my woman and my children can they stay with you

[27:02]Ramzan hobden opens his door and he tells them let them come

[27:07]and they go and him and they say that the days that

[27:11]we spent with him I'm Zainab Dean were the best days he

[27:14]treated us very well even though Marwan Abdel Hakim and the family

[27:16]of Marwan they persecuted me a little bit now someone may say

[27:24]that this is too much why should I forgive the one who

[27:28]who has stepped all over me and the one who has oppressed

[27:33]me and the one who has abused me why should I forgive

[27:36]this person this means I'm going to allow this person to keep

[27:40]abusing me and keep oppressing me well we mentioned in the earlier

[27:44]in the earlier parts of this das a few sessions before that

[27:49]yes if someone is a volume if someone's an oppressor we have

[27:53]to stand against the oppression of this person but sometimes we're in

[27:57]a position where we can forgive and it won't hurt hurt us

[28:03]to forgive then during these positions we have to try to forgive

[28:05]because allah subhanaw taala loves those who forgive another very important point

[28:11]the Quran says while at 1000 10 Whizzer okra if someone oppressed

[28:15]you that doesn't mean you go and you take it out on

[28:19]their children and their family today some people they're not talking to

[28:22]- people are not talking to one another but this family he

[28:24]says you going to hate everyone in that family even if the

[28:29]other people had nothing to do with it this is not right

[28:30]this is this goes against the teachings of Islam we believe that

[28:36]for the sake of Allah it's okay to forget for the sake

[28:39]of Allah - it's okay to treat people with compassion with grace

[28:44]because Allah is the one who's going to judge us now we

[28:46]move on the Imam Ali Salaam he moves on to the next

[28:52]segment he says allahumma salli ala Mahalo knee mahalia Tercel hain wear

[28:58]Alba sneezy natal Mota Fein he says oh Allah bless Muhammad and

[29:07]his family and adorn me with the adornment of the righteous and

[29:12]clothed me with the ornaments of the pious meaning that let my

[29:17]clothes my what I adorn myself with let that be what the

[29:23]pious wear let that be what the righteous people wear now here

[29:27]this could be discussing two very important aspects one is more important

[29:32]than the other the first is the clothes yes let me wear

[29:38]the clothes and let my appearance be of those of the pious

[29:46]meaning let me be modest let me wear clothes of piety let

[29:51]me wear clothes that bring remind me of allah subhanaw taala some

[29:57]people they're wearing gold and jewellery and silver from head to toe

[30:01]that will slowly bring you away from the Econo and this is

[30:08]why it's haram for men to wear gold and silk now for

[30:10]women it's okay there's nothing wrong with that however for men it's

[30:16]Haram F for women of course it has to be worn in

[30:20]front of those who are your they're allowed to see the lady

[30:22]in front of strangers it becomes Haram it becomes zina however this

[30:27]is very important our appearance because people whether it's right or wrong

[30:33]people are going to judge you by your appearance a lot of

[30:37]people today they have the idea don't judge me don't judge me

[30:39]yes it's nice to say don't judge me but people are going

[30:44]to judge you regardless this is why they say when you go

[30:46]for a job interview you have to dress appropriately dressed to impress

[30:49]so same as when when you're when you go out helia to

[30:56]salah hain he says Mahalo nee be hey liya to Salah hain

[31:02]wear Albus knees in a tell mood today and let me have

[31:03]the adornment of the pious and let we have the adornment and

[31:11]the ornaments of the righteous and your clothes are very important indicator

[31:15]of what kind of a person you are and the hadith of

[31:18]rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ala men jab bellybutton FC may the

[31:27]mercy of allah be upon the one who stops the backbiting stops

[31:30]the backbiting of others towards themselves meaning don't do anything that will

[31:36]give people an excuse to back bite you sometimes people will backed

[31:38]by people because of the clothes that they're wearing don't give them

[31:42]that excuse just normal don't go and do something so strange don't

[31:50]be shy being so strange if it goes too far and the

[31:53]way that we dress it could become haram so we have to

[31:59]be very careful so here this is one aspect but the more

[32:02]important the first is the literal dress code the second is your

[32:11]lifestyle let your clothe yourself with the lifestyle of the pious meaning

[32:17]that let your clothes and symbolise what you cover yourself with and

[32:24]what beautifies you but let the lifestyle the way you live your

[32:27]life let that be the way you what you show people because

[32:35]your clothes it's it's what people will look at you with and

[32:37]they'll judge you through your clothes so here there's two aspects of

[32:41]this one is the literal clothing that you're wearing but the second

[32:46]with the imam ali said i'm trying to say is my lap

[32:48]and my manners and my demeanor that is also referred to as

[32:53]a type of clothing because allah subhanaw taala talks about the libous

[32:58]the clothing and the Quran Allah says in the Quran yab yab

[33:01]any Adam at the end zelner alaikum the bass and you re

[33:06]so at so at Sycamore Isha well Abbas otaku italica here Allah

[33:13]says there's two garments there's the literal garments that you're wearing and

[33:17]there's the garden of piety the garments which is a lifestyle that

[33:21]you're living the way you talk the way you speak the way

[33:27]your mindset is that is also an indicator of who you are

[33:29]so the Imam Ali said I mean he gives after he says

[33:34]this he gives a list of 23 things which people should have

[33:38]and their lifestyle and these are the honorable traits that a person

[33:43]should have that these are things that people will judge you with

[33:49]and these are things that define what kind of a person you

[33:51]are and beautify yourself with these things just like you beautify yourself

[33:55]with your clothes more importantly beautify yourselves with your manners with your

[34:02]loud some people might be wearing a $5,000 suit but they're a

[34:07]flock their manners are very bad their manners are not worth someone

[34:13]who's wearing you know someone a suit that's nice and it's not

[34:16]about what you're wearing but it's about your demeanor it's about your

[34:19]manners look at what sort of law look at the a debate

[34:24]they did not wear extravagant clothing but their memories alive until today

[34:27]why it was because of their lifestyle it was because of their

[34:32]meat demeanor it was because of their manners their attitude towards other

[34:36]people so the Imam Ali said I mean he lists 23 things

[34:39]which are very important in our life style in our demeanor he

[34:47]says the imam ali salaam he says allah humma salli ala muhammadin

[34:51]wa al mahalla nee mahalia to soil hain wa alba sneezy natal

[34:58]mata teen and then he begins to explain what it is this

[35:00]garment of lifestyle that a person should have he says Phoebus la

[35:07]la dia in spreading justice let me beautify myself let me have

[35:14]the garments of the person who spreads justice meaning that this is

[35:18]what's important let me be a person who tries to establish justice

[35:23]who deals with people with justice some people they want to have

[35:27]the good life for themselves but for other people it's okay if

[35:30]they're suffering is this right it's not right phoebus the lag work

[35:37]of Malave government health meaning and restraining my anger a person who's

[35:44]a mutt man who's a believer who has the garment of heylia

[35:49]to salah hain the garment of those who are the good people

[35:52]as a person who controls and restrains their anger well tie and

[36:01]never and quenching the fire of hate sometimes there's a fire when

[36:05]someone is angry when someone's upset when when something bad happened there's

[36:10]a fire that's in the heart that's going on let me be

[36:15]a person who who turns off the fire well fat and not

[36:20]era and quenches the fire of hate LaVon Allen Farakka and reuniting

[36:27]the people who are separated let me be a person who unites

[36:36]people let me be a uniter rather than a divider what Amir

[36:41]al-mumineen Ali ABI talib alehissalaam he says was Allah for that in

[36:49]vain hey your own men are Methuselah - ASEAN amirul mumineen he

[36:53]says if a person is able to bring two people together unite

[36:57]them this is the reward is greater than Salah and fasting all

[37:05]of the salon fasting so what one Allan Furka we meet someone

[37:09]who unites people not someone who divides there are some people all

[37:12]they do is divide they go in this circle and they cause

[37:16]a fitna they go here the cause of it and they go

[37:20]don't be that person be a person who brings people together who

[37:23]unites people well done and then for that what a slaw that'll

[37:29]bein and correcting the differences between people when you see people are

[37:34]divided instead of coming and instigating instead of coming and pouring fuel

[37:38]on the fire come and try to extinguish the fire come and

[37:42]try to bring people together well if sha Allah refer and spreading

[37:48]good behavior and Arvest from Marouf meaning spread the maroof spread the

[37:54]good behavior between people show people the kindness the love generosity being

[37:59]honest rather than showing people and spreading bad temperaments and bad attitude

[38:06]towards people was cetera ayah be a person who covers the faults

[38:17]of people someone made a mistake instead of coming and exposing this

[38:21]person cover up for this person and the hadith says that a

[38:24]movement gives the movement seventy excuses meaning that okay this excuse doesn't

[38:29]work this one doesn't work third one fourth one give 70 excuses

[38:34]this is the o'clock of the movement what sets RIBA well in

[38:41]Allah Arika beam I'll have mildness of temper temperament meaning be mild

[38:47]as they say be chill don't be someone who is always you

[38:52]know you you get aggravated and you get upset so so fast

[38:56]well lean be laying and be mild in your temper what a

[39:02]flail Jannah and lowering the wing of humility towards people especially to

[39:07]the momineen now the one who's not a movement no you're not

[39:11]supposed to be humble and humiliate but the the mock men especially

[39:16]Allah uses this with with the parents what fill the Lama Jenna

[39:23]had the limb in Obama will have the Jannah meaning lowering the

[39:26]wing of humility meaning that it's okay if your father tells you

[39:30]do this for me your father bosses you around your mother bosses

[39:33]your honor it's okay there's nothing wrong with that don't treat them

[39:40]as if they're you know you you're not gonna allow anyone to

[39:43]speak to you that even if a movement sometimes a believer they

[39:46]came and they did something that kind of upset you you didn't

[39:52]like it it it's okay be lower lower your wing to the

[39:55]mean to the believers wash nasira and the beauty of conduct meaning

[40:02]when people look at this person they say mashallah this person is

[40:07]living a good life this person is not doing wrong this person

[40:10]is not hurting other people what's a corner Lee and become this

[40:14]of disposition meaning the way you breathe the way you talk become

[40:21]there are some people when they talk they talk very calm they're

[40:24]not always yelling and shouting and upset with people what they even

[40:28]makalapa and the pleasantness in relationship when you have relationships with other

[40:35]be pleasant was sip then was ceptin favilla be the one who

[40:44]rushes towards advancing excellence meaning you have two to two friends you'd

[40:48]be the one who invites first it's okay you'd be the one

[40:52]who does does the better thing it's okay it's not gonna hurt

[40:55]you some people they have the attitude or I'm not going to

[40:58]say Salaam to this person until they say said option I'm not

[41:00]gonna invite this person until they invite me I'm not going to

[41:03]treat this person and this way until they truly know the moment

[41:06]is the one who was Septon Felina advancing towards excellence where he

[41:12]thought affable and preferring graciousness be gracious towards other people choose that

[41:20]over anything else choose to be gracious with other people whatever career

[41:26]and avoiding condemnation don't come and oh bring out the faults of

[41:30]this person and and keep condemning this person and and and call

[41:33]out and call people out for their faults leave that don't don't

[41:40]go towards their well if Val Allah really must the heck and

[41:44]be gracious even to the undeserving like the way a mom saying

[41:48]I've been treated Marwan moran was not deserving of it but he

[41:54]treated him in his own o'clock not in that lack of Marwan

[41:56]well old bill hak what nas and let me beautify myself with

[42:04]speaking the truth even in times of difficulty saying the truth and

[42:10]being honest is not always easy sometimes you say that you you're

[42:13]honest and it's going to hurt you like a Buddha a Buddha

[42:19]what sort of la sal allahu allahu ala he says the sky

[42:23]has not covered anyone and the earth has not carried anyone more

[42:26]honest than a Buddha Buddha was honest with himself a mother was

[42:31]honest with his Lord Abu that was honest with his community and

[42:34]this is why the authorities they did not like a Buddha this

[42:38]is why a Buddha was sent to die alone Andromeda because a

[42:43]Buddha he came and he stood against the establishment he stood against

[42:47]mahalia and then he stood against the third khalifa and then they

[42:51]kicked them out of medina why because he was honest so he

[42:59]says well old bill hak when has standing with the truth even

[43:01]if it's difficult a Buddhist stood with Amir al-mumineen when no one

[43:05]stood with them you know mommy Abu Dharr stood with the righteousness

[43:08]even though it was difficult and no one stood with the Huq

[43:12]what is that little hail where in cathode I mean only you

[43:21]were fairly making little of the good in my words and deeds

[43:25]though it may be much meaning that you did so much when

[43:29]you do so much good in your actions Belko well fairly in

[43:34]actions and then talk but belittle it don't come and say oh

[43:37]I did this and I did that say I didn't do much

[43:40]in the eyes of a lots nothing there's always room for improvement

[43:44]some people they come and they do one thing and they talk

[43:48]about it for ten years here he says what's the plan meaning

[43:52]lowering making little I'll tell you wet in Kath or even if

[43:58]it was a lot mentally were fairly through the actions and then

[44:02]he says where is thick Irish are we're in tell lemon totally

[44:09]were fairly and making much of the evil in my words and

[44:11]deeds though it may be a little for example you made you

[44:16]did something Harlem you did one of the small sense you looked

[44:18]at her arm you listen to her on you something Haram make

[44:22]a big deal out of it some people they go and they

[44:27]live their whole life Haram and then they come and they make

[44:29]up they say oh it's nothing it's nothing Allah is our hammer

[44:34]I mean now yes Elias our hammer rhyming but it is our

[44:39]task to if we have done something wrong we should exaggerate it

[44:42]so that we deal with it and if we have done something

[44:44]little minimize it so that you do more and this is what

[44:49]the Imam Ali said I'm strength to teach us what Mill Valley

[44:52]CAD liebe Doha la all let me have all of these qualities

[44:59]while I continue the obedience to allah subhanaw taala maybe I do

[45:03]one of these qualities but I'm disobeying Allah and another thing so

[45:07]he says perfect these for me through a continuous obedience to Allah

[45:14]subhana WA Ta'ala when is your mill Gemara and the attachment to

[45:17]the community some of us we think that oh I'm going to

[45:21]be good I'm going to be doing righteous but while I'm doing

[45:25]that I'm isolating myself I'm judging this person and that person I'm

[45:30]giving the better than thou attitude and I'm I'm breaking the community

[45:36]apart because I'm thinking I'm doing something good and this person's Cather

[45:40]of this person's monopolist person's this and that this is why extremists

[45:44]do he says when they zoom in jama be a person that

[45:49]unites the community together what laugh a little bit up and by

[45:54]rejecting the people of innovation meaning innovation and religion if someone comes

[45:59]and and add something to the religion saying Rasul Allah said we

[46:02]do this the Quran says this one the Quran was sort of

[46:06]light did not say that that's a Buddha doing something and attributing

[46:08]it to religion that's a bid on innovation that's Haram so I

[46:14]have to be someone who rejects the Buddha even though it might

[46:17]look good one of the Buddha one of the Buddha's innovations that

[46:21]goes on as Sonata taraweeh it looks good it looks very nice

[46:28]it's a prayer thousands of people they gather and they pray but

[46:30]this is a bit even armor he himself the one who started

[46:35]it says not melba dad this is a good innovation well it's

[46:38]an innovation we have to reject it we have to follow the

[46:41]religion the way rasoolallah and the way the Quran want and the

[46:45]way they added weights because they are representatives of rasulallah and they

[46:50]are they translate and they they give us the correct commentary of

[46:54]the quran wore off a little bit up one more stamina ready

[46:57]and more terror and those who act on their own opinions some

[47:02]people oh this this sounds nice this is nice and they come

[47:06]and they give their own opinion regarding religion religion is a plan

[47:10]religion is a way of life a system that Allah and the

[47:13]prophets and the anti debate they come and they teach us how

[47:17]but some people they come oh this sounds nice this looks nice

[47:19]and they come and they add to it so these are 23

[47:24]qualities that the Imam RA Salaam he says this these are Hellyer

[47:31]to salah and these are the adornment of the righteous individuals we

[47:35]ask Allah subhana WA Ta'ala to bless you all we ask allah

[47:39]subhanaw taala to make us from those who have the henrietta saliheen

[47:43]who are the ones who Mahalo Leaney behavior - Sal hain wa

[47:49]al businees inital muttaqeen this is the adornment of the pious and

[47:53]the Sangha hain was salam aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh

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