Homosexuality: Identity v Behaviour in the Quran (Part 2) - Dr. Sayed Ammar Nakshawani - Night 14

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[1:38]hello [Music] i hey [Music] [Music] the story of the people of

[2:24]lot and sodom and gomorrah in the 21st century the story would

[2:30]be known as the discussion of homosexuality in the quran the reality

[2:36]is that in the quran there is no term known as homosexuality

[2:43]nor is there a term as heterosexuality homosexuality and heterosexuality are modern

[2:55]day constructs where people identify themselves in relation to their sexual identity

[3:04]or their sexual orientation if you ask any muslim in the world

[3:11]show me the word homosexual in the quran it doesn't exist if

[3:16]you ask any muslim in the world show me the word heterosexual

[3:21]in the quran it doesn't exist terms such as gay and lesbian

[3:24]don't exist in the quran these are terms that in reality have

[3:31]been part of our society since the 19th century onwards where people

[3:39]through one sexual revolution after another begun to define themselves according to

[3:47]their sexual orientation notice in the quran the paradigm was never that

[3:53]a person identifies themselves by their sexual preferences if you look even

[4:01]in our modern day terminology you may hear someone saying that person's

[4:04]but that's only related to nabi there's no term in the quran

[4:11]for example where allah subhanahu wa says that group x are lotis

[4:16]or group y are mithline there's no terms like that in the

[4:22]quran because the paradigm in the quran was to focus number one

[4:26]we only have male and female number two we have behavior of

[4:34]male behavior of female number three sex is neutral you can either

[4:39]guide it towards that which is positive or that which is negative

[4:44]there is no term in the quran that tells you that when

[4:48]you look at the homosexual community there is no community in the

[4:51]quran like that the quran does not recognize a human being identifying

[4:57]themselves by their sexual preferences the quran does recognize however there is

[5:04]a male and a female that are created and those male and

[5:09]females when they come together they cannot just come together according to

[5:13]their own whims and desires there are certain laws associated with what

[5:19]a male can look at what a female can look at who

[5:23]a male can touch who a female can touch when a male

[5:27]gets married when a female gets married a male's hijab a female's

[5:35]hijab male foreplay female foreplay male sexual intercourse with the female female

[5:40]sexual intercourse with the male when can it be done when can

[5:45]it not be done the biggest mistake we can make in the

[5:51]muslim world is by falling into the trap of sexual revolutions in

[5:57]the last couple of hundred years in how we respond to these

[6:04]discussions the world we look at today identifies a person by their

[6:08]sexual orientation no such thing in the quran allah mentions thakkar allah

[6:13]mentions it male and female even though we see that as a

[6:19]natural relationship one may argue the majority of hell is going to

[6:26]be made up of people who were in natural relationships but went

[6:29]past the lines and the barometers which were set because sometimes someone

[6:34]might give the impression that a person who has been in the

[6:41]same gender relationship or behavior is gonna be the one who makes

[6:45]up what hellfire is reality is do you agree with me that

[6:47]most people who are in male female relationships have done the most

[6:55]haram someone says male female is natural who said to you that

[7:00]everything that's natural means it's moral are many things which are natural

[7:05]it's natural for me when i was playing football in my teens

[7:10]to want to go for example with my local club when after

[7:13]the match we go to the showers it would be natural for

[7:16]me to go and have a shower but is it moral that

[7:19]all of us guys are naked in the shower you finish playing

[7:25]football sunday morning the pitch has made you as muddy as anything

[7:28]what's natural for me to go to the shower is it moral

[7:33]that all of us are standing in the showers completely naked islam

[7:37]sets the law for that i want to look at a male

[7:41]and a female having sex on the internet male and female we

[7:47]said supposedly is natural then why is it haram to look at

[7:51]that i am with my wife and i want to have physical

[7:52]relations with my wife this night but i want to insert a

[7:57]foreign object into my wife male female is natural so what's the

[7:59]problem here what many made the mistake in or did not identify

[8:07]properly was that the quran has no such thing as the gay

[8:12]community or the lesbian community the quran says that we created you

[8:18]male and female you are able to do things which with each

[8:22]other which are haram and you're able to do things with the

[8:24]opposite gender which is haram we are here to guide the way

[8:34]that sex is made pleasurable for you if a male and female

[8:38]for example are together and the male wants to masturbate themselves in

[8:42]front of their wife what could be the problem if my wife

[8:47]is in front of me and i want to have relations with

[8:50]my wife with what is known today as anal sex or entering

[8:52]from the back passage this is something problematic does the quran discuss

[9:00]for example different positions of sex therefore continuing from last night about

[9:09]homosexuality homosexuality as a term is nothing to do with islam homosexuality

[9:15]we discuss it in the context of today that there is a

[9:19]community of people who believe that there is nobody in the relations

[9:22]we can relate it to the quran but the quran has no

[9:24]term for homosexuality because the quran never identifies you by your sex

[9:30]preference the quran identifies you you are either male or female but

[9:33]there are many things which you can do which can end up

[9:37]destroying you and there are things which you can do which can

[9:39]end up in procreation can end up in you surviving can end

[9:45]up in you finding happiness with one another some things are natural

[9:49]some not all things are natural for example become moral and so

[9:53]therefore there's a discussion of if something is natural is it always

[9:56]moral i got to know this girl at university i want to

[10:00]marry i want to marry her but you know what we're just

[10:01]going to go out for a few years before i marry her

[10:04]it's natural male female but does it become moral for me to

[10:07]go out with her before marriage therefore islam when it discussed what

[10:13]we know today and in the last couple of hundred years as

[10:16]homosexuality never use that word because it said you as a human

[10:22]are not defined by your sexual preferences you're a male or you're

[10:25]a female and you have a conscience what islam focused on was

[10:29]behavior not identity the world today focuses on identity not whether the

[10:35]behavior is right the main thing is what's my identity and you'll

[10:38]see a lot of people now in their identity right straight bi

[10:44]gay so why are you going down the uh identity room what's

[10:47]your behavior your behavior is personal why tell the whole world that

[10:50]this is what i love it's all personal and that's why nabi

[10:53]allah if you look at this final section of his discussion with

[10:59]his people he's trying to make it clear to them that their

[11:04]behavior is the problem he never ever calls them gay he doesn't

[11:08]call them homosexual let's focus on your behavior your group of males

[11:12]and what you're doing is going outside the boundary look in surah

[11:16]26 my dear brother sisters at home surah 26 because what i

[11:19]want to try and show in today is the quran discusses all

[11:22]forms of sexual behaviors for males and females nothing called for example

[11:28]in today's terminology the gay community or the lesbian no sometimes the

[11:32]female or the female sometimes the male or the man sometimes a

[11:35]male were they female look in surah 26 all of you verse

[11:38]160 onwards bismillah they belied who they belied the messengers that were

[11:57]sent the messages that were sent to the people of lot they

[12:04]belied them lord asks them a question will you not guard yourselves

[12:13]guard your behavior against evil he doesn't turn around and say you

[12:18]become gay even if a person does that act why are we

[12:23]now going into placing them with a bit of title there's a

[12:26]behavior pattern which they've done which has exceeded the limits he's trying

[12:30]to make them return to a god consciousness with their behavior there

[12:36]are people who think sometimes how would sodomy feel or how would

[12:42]it be if i sodomize someone there are people who actually think

[12:45]about even anal intercourse with their partners it's not like people don't

[12:51]think about this doesn't group them as gay there is no term

[12:55]gay in the quran let's look at your behavior be called conscious

[12:59]where are you headed with this the passage that you are entering

[13:04]is not a passage that was created for that if we all

[13:10]just take a step back here we're the main area of the

[13:17]behavior of male male relations the entrance point is always known mainly

[13:20]as an exit point for most things and forgive me viewers at

[13:28]home for touching on certain sensitive words but at the end of

[13:33]the day if we want to look at the passages within the

[13:37]human being there is a difference between the vagina of the female

[13:41]and the anal passage complete difference between the two one is able

[13:46]to have some sort of lubricant produced the other one requires you

[13:51]to find some sort of lubricant before entrances is made so if

[13:57]you're going to talk to me about evolution of the body of

[14:00]the human we still haven't got past that problem that is there

[14:03]where most human beings recognize listen this entrance is for procreation simple

[14:08]as that other entrance we know very well is normally known as

[14:11]an exit entrance you want to get rid of things where are

[14:13]they being get rid of so therefore if you're going to enter

[14:16]there even without wearing contraceptives what's going to happen there's going to

[14:19]be bacteria everywhere what's then going to happen what's going to happen

[14:23]if you're promiscuous never says to them oh you people who are

[14:26]gay no no why why are you bringing these terms gay and

[14:29]lesbian terms which came 250 300 years ago or even more recently

[14:34]in sexual revolutions why we going down that route our model is

[14:37]not identity our mother's behavior any i am unto you a trusted

[14:50]apostle i'm trying to advise you that what you're doing even if

[14:54]you weren't people of god all religious this type of sodomizing is

[14:59]something which is unacceptable this act that you're performing fair god obey

[15:06]me i don't ask nothing from you i'm not here because i'm

[15:10]making any profit in you enter the males of the creatures doesn't

[15:24]call them gay behavior is the problem we're not going to fall

[15:29]for the trap that you've got dominate with a new group no

[15:35]no behavior you enter their mails they said the problem the quran

[15:40]has isn't that you go with a male because you might find

[15:43]a male you love there's no issue the problem is rape if

[15:47]it's rape why the next verse and you leave what allah has

[15:57]created for you of your wives so what is he saying to

[16:02]them okay you know what why you guys go to mails go

[16:03]rape your wives he said why are you going to mails when

[16:07]god has created for you females meaning what meaning the only categories

[16:12]in the quran when it comes to this discussion are male and

[16:18]female behavior what trap can we fall into the trap that you

[16:22]know what so-and-so identifies as gay and therefore we have to give

[16:28]in no you have formed these things recently whereas for us we've

[16:32]discussed these things over a thousand years ago as male and female

[16:35]behavior if lord's problem was them was rape why is he saying

[16:40]and you leave your wives alone meaning that there is a partner

[16:44]god created for you known as the female from the very start

[16:46]we started with adam and with eve it started like that you

[16:51]could come to me later and say other arguments but we all

[16:55]know that it starts with a male and a female bel anton

[17:01]coleman ah doon this is very interesting another focus on behavior you

[17:04]are people who are what gay you are people who are lesbian

[17:10]no you are people who are transgressing the limits don't transgress there's

[17:17]a limit of behavior and by the way this is not to

[17:22]be hypocritical because slowly i'm going to come to the verse in

[17:25]the quran which tells the male when you're with a female also

[17:28]there's limits islam wasn't about saying that it's gay lesbian islam was

[17:35]about saying what it's about behavior lord if you don't stop talking

[17:45]like this if you do not allowing us to have our rights

[17:49]if you dare to trample on our rights we live in a

[17:53]world of rights we have a right to sodomize who we want

[17:56]whether it's consensual because you know some people say the problem here

[18:00]is because non-consensual no male with male can never be accepted according

[18:05]to scripture of course someone watching this who doesn't agree with the

[18:08]quran is completely up to you i'm not going to lose sleep

[18:10]on what you believe you're not going to sleep on what i

[18:11]believe i'm talking this to those who are interested in scriptural reasoning

[18:18]we'll expel you anyone who differs with our rights as a community

[18:23]of men who want to sleep with men we will kick them

[18:28]out of the country no no this is not today i'm talking

[18:33]in the story here not in 2021 no no i'm saying here

[18:37]here not in 2021.

[18:38]here if you dare to say anything then you are homophobic and

[18:45]archaic and backward no not now no i'm saying here this story

[18:50]and this story i mean not now i am of those who

[19:20]abhors your behavior i'm not interested in what you identify that doesn't

[19:24]interest me you could come up with a million movements we are

[19:26]this way no no your behavior male with a male whether you're

[19:33]an evolutionary theorist or you believe in intel intelligent design what's happening

[19:38]in that passage how did we reach that stage deliver me and

[19:52]my family from what they do except that old woman who was

[20:01]of course his wife then we destroyed the others now you know

[20:11]when the quran says we destroyed we sent earthquakes we overturned i

[20:15]don't get scared about these things i don't worry i'm not scared

[20:20]about these things what i hope it would give an indication is

[20:24]to those who have entered the world of such behavior patterns and

[20:29]believe that islam hasn't got or the quran hasn't got an issue

[20:34]with it remember we said here's behavior we never said what group

[20:38]you belong to habibi anyone who does this goes to men instead

[20:41]of the female that is haram however you justify it i feel

[20:49]it's natural for me i was born like that that behavior is

[20:54]a behavior which is haram a person may have a trial i'm

[20:59]not gonna deny where you need support you need help because you're

[21:05]feeling that i don't know why is it that there's this attraction

[21:07]there how do i stop this behavior there's a group out there

[21:12]saying to you don't just stop it call yourselves one of us

[21:15]it's not a behavior it means you're an identity it's or answer

[21:19]never is it an identity if it was we would have put

[21:23]a word for it therefore male male was a problem although not

[21:33]mentioning female female directly in the quran one of the communities where

[21:37]there was an overflow of female female sex you see if the

[21:44]problem with with same gender relations was rape and the story of

[21:49]lord how does a female rape another female so why is islam

[21:52]against a person who identifies today as lesbian how do you rape

[21:56]another a female with female didn't they say that it wasn't it

[22:02]wasn't the problem that they were with males it was because they

[22:05]were raping males if they found someone they loved there's no problem

[22:08]if rape is the problem why does islam forbid female female where's

[22:12]the rape there in the quran there is one community according to

[22:19]imam sadq had many ladies who used to have physical relations with

[22:24]each other today it's called lesbian and islam would have no such

[22:28]thing in islam we have the law of the behavior of a

[22:30]female with another female that's it surah 50 verse 12 my dear

[22:38]brothers and sisters at home surah 50 verse number 12 we're introduced

[22:43]to a group of people in the quran but it doesn't say

[22:52]the females and other females slept with each other what is identified

[22:57]today as lesbianism but i'm sure when you read about this in

[23:04]your research my dear brothers and sisters you will come across a

[23:08]group of people who are known as what who are known as

[23:15]arrests [Music] means some sort of well there's a belief that there

[23:33]was a group of people a prophet came to them they didn't

[23:36]listen to this prophet some of them even say that they were

[23:38]worshiping a particular tree and when that prophet probably maybe judah the

[23:43]son of jacob some mentioned han valens when that prophet told them

[23:48]to stop watching that tree they dug a well and buried him

[23:50]in that well what was imam assad's opinion about the way these

[23:52]people used to behave amongst the things they used to do females

[23:55]used to sleep with females and females used to sleep with females

[23:58]also in the period of who and the period of the story

[24:02]of some people imagine that was just male male no females used

[24:07]to sleep with females today they call it lesbianism islam never called

[24:10]it lesbianism islam never allowed you to identify with a group who

[24:12]do it islam said it's a behavior where you're going excessive someone

[24:18]says so therefore male male male female there's a problem male male

[24:22]and female female they said there's a problem even male female does

[24:26]the quran allow any male and any female who meet each other

[24:31]to have sex straight away what is one of the clearest laws

[24:34]in islam where a male and a female cannot have sex before

[24:37]marriage what do we call it in english fornication we call it

[24:41]in arabic zena surah 17 surah 17 my dear brother and sisters

[24:47]let's go on the journey of how male and female can also

[24:50]transgress the boundaries our problem in islam when it comes to sex

[24:56]isn't to look at gay and lesbian and say this is all

[24:59]this no male female can also transgress the boundaries surah 17 verse

[25:04]number 32 of the quran interesting ayah all of you know the

[25:10]ayah what does it say in do not approach adultery fornication because

[25:21]islam doesn't allow sex before marriage and islam doesn't allow for example

[25:27]if a person person's married and they have a relationship on the

[25:31]side without there being the legal contracts that are there so here

[25:35]when it says doesn't say well for example don't go near zinna

[25:41]beware of the things that could lead you because we're all weak

[25:44]as humans our behaviors may overtake us do you agree i don't

[25:47]care how strong you are you're alone with somebody else nobody else

[25:52]in that room someone said but say no this is male female

[25:55]you said male female is natural not everything that's natural is moral

[26:00]to urinate is natural but if someone came and stood in the

[26:03]middle of this hall right now and started urinating does that make

[26:06]it moral but it's natural to say it but allah created me

[26:10]and i have to urinate but there has to be what morality

[26:14]as well so here male female zinna not allowed pre-marriage and that's

[26:24]why you know something very interesting your day or your nikah is

[26:29]so interesting because you literally need literal okay if i'm going to

[26:33]be very very precise in islamic law if you just simply say

[26:38]she says for example the watch took nfc and you say that's

[26:40]it no need for mawlana no need to give him a tip

[26:43]no need for anything sorry all mawlana's out there who i've ruined

[26:49]your summer literally all that needs to be said for you to

[26:53]become legal you're like saying i'm not understanding you said male females

[26:57]natural why do i need to say those words or say it

[26:59]has to say for example says that there is a guidance that

[27:14]i provide to sexual behavior in every way this is not just

[27:18]a relationship of two bodies it's a relationship of two souls there

[27:21]is a right for the male and a right for the female

[27:25]a right for the husband and a right for the wife so

[27:32]what should can have seen the lady says the man says that's

[27:37]it yes someone might hear us you might hear all of that

[27:46]you don't need to go all over there i agree that mahar

[27:47]say those couple of words that's it by islam said there's a

[27:50]spiritual edge now both of you in the eyes so what's the

[27:55]difference between zinna and marriage one of them is animalistic one of

[28:01]them is what is that no one's watching let's just do this

[28:04]the other you're thinking of god first than you something grows within

[28:08]you a conscience grows within you so therefore for us premarital sex

[28:13]is it something which is allowed premarital sex no and that's why

[28:17]the quran has some harsh verses on this have you got sora

[28:20]24 verse number 2 number two yeah sort of 24 verse 2

[28:24]you'll see that allah subhanahu wa ta'ala looks at straight away the

[28:32]female and the male adulterers but you said to me male and

[28:39]female is natural so why is god got a problem god says

[28:41]i set the laws for what's natural and what's moral doesn't matter

[28:46]male female there are ways to do things otherwise you ruin families

[28:50]you ruin marriage you ruin communities how many times when you hear

[28:56]someone you found out this guy was this guy's sister what does

[28:58]it do to the family what does it do to the community

[29:02]in our communities we have the saying when when when you're getting

[29:07]married they'll come to you and say this there's some praise of

[29:10]like you know we came from the door not from the window

[29:14]and he used to always baffle me why is this guy saying

[29:17]we came from the door not from the window because the worst

[29:20]thing is when you find out someone sneaks to get to know

[29:23]your daughter from the window but at least he came from the

[29:27]front door okay respect he came he's good because there's a respect

[29:31]etiquette azania 24 verse 2 how many times you have to do

[29:41]what you have to whip the ones who commit zina adultery but

[29:49]say in a male female what's wrong i found this girl i

[29:53]traveled got her number what's wrong there is a particular direction in

[30:00]which sex is guided this one here these two let's say are

[30:04]unmarried of course this is in an islamic state i'm talking if

[30:09]it was uh you know islamic state even has its own conditions

[30:12]which requires its own discussion but let's say for example we're discussing

[30:16]and you need witnesses of course you can't have just someone saying

[30:18]hey bro i found out that these two are doing this let's

[30:21]get a whip and whip all of them that can't be done

[30:27]okay so therefore pre-marriage can a person pre-marriage have a relationship now

[30:35]interesting that even in the prophet's time there was a discussion about

[30:40]the temporary marriage because there's a reality that if a person passes

[30:47]adolescence for example at age of 14 and they they get married

[30:52]at 24.

[30:53]those 10 years what do you do we know there's an overflow

[30:57]of sexual desires and so in the quran you do find that

[31:05]god discusses the temporary marriage and that's why the companions or the

[31:10]prophet peace be upon his family used to engage in the temporary

[31:12]marriage in the time of the prophet peace be upon his family

[31:15]this is not a shia i believe because most time you hear

[31:18]the word only associated with the shia do you agree although now

[31:21]you hear about zawajian orphans but let's say originally you guys are

[31:30]this you're the sons of mother and so on so forth but

[31:32]no muslim can deny in the time of rasulallah the companions used

[31:37]to engage in temporary marriages some of these guys were not married

[31:42]and they would engage in a temporary marriage when they're away from

[31:46]home they ask the prophet what do we do are we castrate

[31:47]ourselves or do we and he would even say to them even

[31:52]get married for a few days and so many allude to the

[31:57]fact that before the permanent marriage something that can be done is

[32:01]the temporary marriage if you look for example in surah 4 24

[32:05]in surah 4 24 there is this discussion when it comes to

[32:18]the line famous okay those who you have enjoyed for a certain

[32:28]period give them their dowries as a fixed reward because if a

[32:41]person engages in the temporary marriage they have to pay a dowry

[32:45]unless the person who they're with for example may wave the right

[32:49]but what you found here is that in the quran this even

[33:02]to be with somebody for a day two days three days god

[33:10]has set a law male or female what's interesting therefore is that

[33:17]he begins the guidance for the males and the females guidance of

[33:24]behavior islam doesn't have heterosexual islam doesn't have homosexual islam has male

[33:29]female and this is the guidance of their behavior so we have

[33:34]premarital sex approaching fornication someone says but you said premarital sex it's

[33:38]not allowed so mota is zinna hold on a minute firstly if

[33:43]the companions were doing it now either i've got a problem with

[33:46]the companions doing it i don't think we want to go down

[33:50]that route someone says the companions engaged in the mother yes but

[33:54]then it was prohibited if you're saying it was prohibited by rasulullah

[34:03]give forth your proof because there are certainly discussions of the second

[34:07]caliph himself saying that i am the one who has banned this

[34:12]although it was practiced in the time of the prophet seemingly practiced

[34:16]in the time of the first caliph he's the one who bans

[34:19]this if you want to take the hd head of the second

[34:25]caliph on issues like this on issues such as um taraweeh again

[34:27]there's always a way of trying to fit these back to rasulallah

[34:31]somehow or the other but the second caliph even in the issue

[34:34]of the three talaq there's so many areas in which you found

[34:37]that he has his ichthy had but you cannot deny that the

[34:44]companions did not get engaged in they got engaged in what are

[34:47]engaged i mean they took part in temporary marriages of course just

[34:50]because the temporary marriage is halal it doesn't mean it's wajib there

[34:55]are some people who say i am anti-mother firstly when you say

[35:01]i am anti that then you're questioning god's command you can't say

[35:08]i'm anti-mota you can say however the practice of mata in some

[35:11]ways was abused that is okay you're giving a survey of how

[35:13]for example some things were done in the wrong way that is

[35:17]understandable no doubt in the same way salah and its practice leaves

[35:20]a lot to be desired by some muslims in the same way

[35:23]there are other acts like hajj where some muslims really don't perform

[35:25]hajj they just go do things just you know like it's a

[35:28]obstacle course okay so pre-marital what do we have pre-marital sex is

[35:36]something which is not allowed unless there is a particular contract that

[35:42]is agreed can i have sex with my partner if she's on

[35:46]her periods look what i said we have to discuss this but

[35:48]say it now what's wrong with you she's a female i'm a

[35:53]male you said male male male and female female no no even

[35:58]male female sex while someone is on their period is haram where

[36:02]sora 2 verse 2 2 2 easier surah for all the brothers

[36:09]and sisters at home to insha allah go to surah 2 verse

[36:14]2 2 2.

[36:19]they asked you concerning menstruation it's interesting how rasulallah what you want

[36:26]to ask him like you know today you're worried to ask mawlana

[36:31]about the menstrual cycle the men won't even ask but islam islam

[36:33]wants to talk about the menstrual cycle judaism spoke about menstrual cycle

[36:36]christianity spoke about the you know the menstrual cycle or the period

[36:39]um but some of them were very harsh on ladies you know

[36:43]like lock them up you know there are parts of india there

[36:45]are parts of india until today where they lock up someone in

[36:50]a cave when they're in their period that is disgraceful look i

[36:55]know someone on their period might you know they they could be

[36:59]in a certain mood at certain times even there are ladies who

[37:02]in their monthly saga might say to you that this is really

[37:04]hurts it's difficult it's it's it's pressure but for allah you lock

[37:11]someone in a cave in india until today you wouldn't think it's

[37:15]2021.

[37:15]amongst the jewish community they would isolate the person with their period

[37:21]no islam no yes period you know there are people in the

[37:31]world who still have sex with ladies and their periods because with

[37:37]sex if there is no limit the level of what they would

[37:45]say is kinkiness or pleasure can get to a level where there's

[37:48]no limit even you don't mind watching somebody with your own wife

[37:52]you just watch them and it turns you on to see somebody

[37:57]with your own partner you can't go towards them until they are

[38:12]cleansed because there is a particular method of hustle for somebody who

[38:19]comes out islam it's precision on every single aspect of your life

[38:24]you see other religions sometimes say why can't muslims marry from other

[38:27]religions other religions take certain things as a culture we have a

[38:30]precision on even walking into the bathroom allah and leaving how you

[38:36]perform ablution how you perform look at this ayah a whole discussion

[38:39]about the menstrual period or even after the pregnancy for example that

[38:44]period as well you enter them as what as god has ordained

[38:52]there's a particular way in which you enter in sex what that

[39:00]also means in one angle is that allah has made certain passages

[39:03]acceptable other passages not allah is the one who guides us god

[39:08]guides us with our sexual behavior because god knows the human being

[39:13]if they want to fantasize they'll say in your periods i want

[39:16]you because sometimes a person's sexual energy overflow takes over them they

[39:21]want to have sex and their wife says i'm on my period

[39:24]there are some people say i don't care even on your period

[39:28]so the quran had to reveal an ayah otherwise until today there

[39:32]are people who want that type of fantasy someone says you said

[39:39]that male male because of sodomy and anal sex you said that

[39:44]that's not allowed in the quran allah says enter your woman as

[39:49]you please next verse verse 223 for you enter your tilth as

[40:02]you please if the problem is anal sex or sodomy when it

[40:09]came to om lord how comes allah says enter them as they

[40:12]as you please in shia law i remember allah bless his soul

[40:21]in the last years of his life put an obligatory precaution that

[40:26]even if your wife enjoys it still i don't allow it and

[40:31]the majority of scholars in the shia school when they look at

[40:37]traditions they certainly find that the imams talk about its reprehensibility to

[40:39]the extent one of the imam says we would not do it

[40:43]and in the in the in the non-shia schools there are many

[40:46]non-shia for example who will talk about the fact that it's completely

[40:50]haram but then the debate comes on this ayah the ayah says

[40:56]they are award tilth for you but doesn't mean that you just

[41:03]because they are tilt for you and enter them as you please

[41:04]that doesn't necessarily mean anal intercourse and mind you even when i

[41:13]say all of these things i'm talking god's quran i'm not talking

[41:15]said ahmad so therefore if someone has a problem with these wordings

[41:19]or someone has a problem with these discussions ask your lord why

[41:23]he's discussing having sex with females in their menstrual cycle or entering

[41:26]them as they please first ask allah don't ask me he says

[41:29]this book in the problem is when we never discuss these things

[41:36]our youth said the quran is boring when they see these things

[41:41]they realize the quran is for every day enter them as you

[41:48]please can also be questions concerning sexual positions i want to enter

[41:55]my wife vaginal intercourse vaginal intercourse can be male facing down towards

[42:02]the female the female facing down towards the male the female for

[42:06]example turning her back on the male this is exactly what happened

[42:12]with this verse meccans used to enjoy all sexual positions medinians were

[42:18]affected by the jewish community only one position male looking down on

[42:23]the female the meccans were like listen we don't have to have

[42:29]sex in the same position all the time you don't have to

[42:34]have in the same position all the time you can sometimes change

[42:37]it up a little bit when i talk like this in modern

[42:42]day society there are studies about how marriages are saved because of

[42:45]these things so the meccans are telling the medinians the meccan man

[42:50]wants to have sexual intercourse with his wife by a different position

[42:53]maybe today instead of me looking down at you you could look

[42:58]down at me medina we don't do you know there are still

[43:00]muslim ladies in the world today when it comes to things like

[43:04]oral sex for example they still believe oh this is not allowed

[43:07]even though you find the imams openly discuss it so here the

[43:14]verse was revealed your wife are a tilth for you they are

[43:18]the ones who are fundamental in the procreation but to procreate you

[43:23]don't need to only look down at her like that it's still

[43:26]the same vaginal passage because i know some of you might look

[43:32]at that and say anal intercourse therefore should be permissible but this

[43:35]ayah is saying about the different forms for the passages can the

[43:44]wife masturbate her husband yes can you as a muslim even if

[43:47]you're with a girl masturbate yourself in front of the girl no

[43:50]can you finish yourself off for that girl no that is something

[43:55]which is not allowed where is masturbation in the quran surah 23

[43:59]someone says the masturbations and the quran is impossible surah 23 verses

[44:04]5 until six and gods actually talked about the the minoon because

[44:09]the sword is called aptly surah 23 verse number five god's talk

[44:13]about the minoon and then in verse number five of surah 23

[44:18]he talks about the minion being you don't need to guard your

[44:31]private parts from your wife because she's your wife or those who

[44:36]your right hand possess means your slave okay your slave girl which

[44:40]we'll come to in the future now is discussing what does this

[44:45]mean then the quran says so accept your wives or your right

[44:49]hand possession meaning i have to guard my private parts except if

[44:53]i'm with my misses if i'm not with my misses can i

[44:59]play with my private parts until i ejaculate no i cannot so

[45:03]this ayah according to imam was what the ayah which made clear

[45:07]that masturbating is forbidden this is a discussion of identity are there

[45:12]a group of people out there who you are called this is

[45:14]that community that's that community that's the there's no such thing and

[45:22]you know we're all trying to hold in our fast it's very

[45:26]close to the time of iftar there may be groups of people

[45:33]who identify like that but islam said no it's a behavior so

[45:36]what do we have now we have masturbation how about now you

[45:40]know i read the report in new york a guy wants to

[45:44]marry his daughter in new york there's a man who wants to

[45:47]marry his daughter someone said with male male relations they say what's

[45:59]the problem if it's two consenting adults okay what's the problem if

[46:04]a father is consenting and his daughter's consenting where does it end

[46:07]where does it stop a father 47 daughter 23 they want to

[46:16]get married to each other if you're saying the criteria for sexual

[46:18]behavior is me the human and you're saying it's all about consent

[46:22]what if the two consent to each other would you accept incest

[46:25]incest is disgusting why is it disgusting why a father loves his

[46:36]daughter love not rape loves the daughter our father enjoys company of

[46:41]the daughter our father says we live in a society there's no

[46:45]need for all of this utilitarian morality we make up what's moral

[46:51]the quran even alluded to incest it knew that there will be

[46:53]people who want to have relations with their children sort of iv

[46:57]verse number 23 god said it doesn't matter male female again i'll

[47:02]show you a behavior of male and female and again we'll make

[47:06]it clear to each and every one of you what's allowed and

[47:10]what's not allowed yep can it be more clear to come your

[47:18]mother's that means a boy with his mom can they have a

[47:23]relation everyone at home please focus on this a boy with his

[47:29]mother can they have relations but it's a male and a female

[47:43]daughters are what haram for you god why are you discussing this

[47:49]in the quran god the quran should talk about other subjects god

[47:54]why are you discussing taboo subjects in the quran allah ya allah

[47:57]where is your allah ya allah where is the modesty why are

[48:00]you discussing these things in the quran because god knew very well

[48:03]unless the behavior patterns between a male and a female unless you

[48:08]guide them the human will destroy society do you think incest doesn't

[48:15]happen in the world of course it does but they're just waiting

[48:18]for a day to say it that there will be an incestual

[48:21]community or you're an you're an ancestral and don't sit there at

[48:27]home and say to me it won't happen we fought 50 30

[48:29]50 50 years ago it was disgusting to see some things now

[48:33]they're called so what's there to put the idea that in 50

[48:35]years time these things will not be called that father in new

[48:38]york said i love my daughter i want to spend time with

[48:42]her what's wrong some people on the youtube what were they saying

[48:46]disgusting disgusting disgusting disgusting why disgusting you just allowed a group of

[48:50]people who in the past you used to say were disgusting you

[48:53]allowed to do anything they want so why should this be allowed

[48:56]the behavior islam focused on further than that islam said your own

[49:02]children be careful about even how close they get to you and

[49:08]you get to them surah 24 fascinating ayah surah 24 verse number

[49:15]58 of the quran it's such a fascinating ayah because i don't

[49:22]think many people think about these things you know how when we

[49:27]were kids we were always told knock before you come in why

[49:29]were we told knock before you come in not either because our

[49:34]parents are just knocked out and they just need to rest all

[49:37]because even though you're my child there's got to be times where

[49:44]i'm not going to be dressed properly there are still humans in

[49:46]the world who will walk around their house naked just because they've

[49:55]got kids completely naked what's this rise of pedophilia saying i'm not

[50:02]understanding it why is there a rise of pedophilia why is there

[50:05]a rise of sexual abuse in the showers all naked at home

[50:10]doesn't matter she's my kid i'll let why did the quran talk

[50:17]of we have a horror there are certain parts muslim or non-muslim

[50:19]there are certain parts of the body that bikini extend it a

[50:24]little bit those bras keep them on this this this this look

[50:26]what it says in surah 24 verse number 15.

[50:33][Music] those who have not reached puberty must seek permission from you

[50:45]three times in the day when they want to come to you

[50:50]before salat and fajr they have to seek permission before they enter

[50:52]that room you and the husband you and the wife whatever it

[50:56]is you're in the bed they knock before they enter they could

[50:59]come in they could see certain things those things are not meant

[51:03]to be seen at that young age or maybe in some cases

[51:05]at any age you know in some countries you have a siesta

[51:12]sleep you know mid midday one o'clock until four o'clock that time

[51:18]they also have two women after in the night you want to

[51:23]come to our mommy and daddy's room you knock before you enter

[51:32]these are three hours for you our award three periods where there

[51:38]has to be a particular privacy god that's my child it's my

[51:48]child are you telling me that i can't walk around naked from

[51:51]my child there may be people at home like i've never done

[51:53]that there are some who have because they're like too young even

[51:57]someone says now what if i become balik you become violent becomes

[52:02]more obvious that there's more hijab there is now even boundaries they

[52:18]have to knock even more but sometimes people thought because she's young

[52:21]let her come in when me and you are under the bed

[52:23]who cares what she sees no it affects the eyes i saw

[52:28]that i go what's that i saw dad's this i saw mom's

[52:33]this and sadly what if someone takes advantage when they discuss these

[52:35]things how many were affected sadly by pedophiles believe you me there

[52:40]are people in this world whose sexual behaviors towards the direction is

[52:44]because of abuse when they were younger not because they believe in

[52:46]what they're doing and that's why when i heard there's a organization

[52:50]online my dear brothers and sisters at home strong support dot co

[52:56]dot uk by brother ali jafari brother ali jafari went through intense

[53:02]trial with his own sexual behavior what happens if someone has overflow

[53:11]of sexual energy and strong support starts to talk to those people

[53:16]because we have in our communities a lot of people whose sexual

[53:20]behaviors have made them uncertain because of things they've experienced or because

[53:25]of things they've seen and may allah bless those people out there

[53:31]who face such trials because we don't know what they've seen and

[53:38]that's why the judgment of everyone's with allah and indeed in this

[53:46]month the overflow of sexual desire led a man to kill another

[53:53]man in his in the 19th of ramadan so therefore when the

[53:57]quran sought to look at all of these and then the bait

[54:02]went further people started to ask the elevate okay i'm a male

[54:06]i'm with my misses can i insert foreign objects into her to

[54:08]make her pleasure imam says haram foreplay are we allowed imam says

[54:15]very good so therefore the late even expanded on this so put

[54:21]the quran and the albeit with each other they highlight to you

[54:22]don't come to me with identities which you've now constructed just focus

[54:27]on the male focus on the female there are some things which

[54:30]are extreme one way or the other stay in the middle bring

[54:33]each other mutual pleasure thank you all so much we have a

[54:37]sister and mozambique who is missing we pray to allah for her

[54:41]and her whole family that she is found very soon i ask

[54:44]all of you in this holy month of ramadan that allah returns

[54:47]all of those who are missing back to their families and that

[54:51]allah of all of our beloved especially our dear beloved brother who

[54:59]passed away rahim allah [Music] [Music] [Music] imam hussain development and relief

[55:50]foundation is running its famous ramadan food basket appeal previous years we

[55:56]were able to collect and feed thousands of struggling families this year

[56:00]we want to provide 10 000 food baskets to the impoverished families

[56:04]of iraq each basket contains essentials such as rice flour meat vegetables

[56:12]lentils dried lemons oil tea and dates for 20 pounds you can

[56:16]provide a family of four with one basket for up to 10

[56:20]days 60 pounds will cover for the whole month of ramadan take

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