28 - Quranic Tips For Dealing With Difficult People - Sayed Saleh Qazwini

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[0:00]Muhammad elevated Salama to be accepted for your blessings Sunday one of

[0:46]the greatest trials and tests that people face in life they are

[0:53]not necessarily tests with God in terms of their prayers and in

[0:59]terms of their fasting and their Hajj and their religiosity but they

[1:04]are tests with other people sometimes there are other people that could

[1:10]destroy your life for you there are other people that could insult

[1:14]you there are other people that could harass you and abuse you

[1:21]and bully you and this becomes a test for some people some

[1:26]people this is what bothers them in life it's not their relationship

[1:31]with God they have everything it's good everything is clear but their

[1:37]problem in life is when it comes to other people's insults other

[1:40]people's harassment and abuse intimidations and we see that many of the

[1:49]righteous people this is their test in life you go and you

[1:53]look at the prophets of Allah they were harassed they're a prophet

[2:00]of God but they were harassed and abused and assaulted and sometimes

[2:06]physically assaulted and many times verbally assaulted Allah says in the Quran

[2:13]that bani Israel they used to kill the prophets Allah says oh

[2:33]one group of people they would reject them they would accuse them

[2:40]of being liars and another group they would kill they would kill

[2:45]them and we see that this is something that is very common

[2:51]this is something that has been ongoing where groups of people the

[2:55]meaning the Believers they have been assaulted and abused Allah says in

[3:03]the Quran the kofar they make fun of the Believers they make

[3:20]fun of them they insult them they give them names bad calling

[3:25]names and they they make fun of them and they laugh at

[3:30]them and also we see that was also subject to these harassments

[3:35]rasulullah he used to be physically attacked they used to throw rocks

[3:43]and stones and trash at him at times and they started resorting

[3:48]to also he used to be verbally assaulted and they started resorting

[3:53]to physical assault but of course Allah says in the Quran Allah

[3:58]shows us that God was the number one supporter of rasulullah and

[4:03]there's a lesson for us that if we are going through difficulties

[4:09]in life know that God has your back know that Allah is

[4:13]watching you and Allah will protect you but you just have to

[4:21]have that faith that Allah will protect Allah says in the Quran

[4:26]Allah says we know these harassment and these verbal assaults this breaks

[4:34]your heart they're not just it's not just you as a person

[4:43]they're attacking their attacking the signs of Allah but before you or

[4:54]rasulullah many other prophets were assaulted harassed and abused but they were

[5:05]patient for the accusations for the assaults until the victory from Allah

[5:11]came to them and another verse Allah tells the prophets we know

[5:19]that the words that they say the assaults that they have this

[5:26]hurts your feeling this really hurts you and then Allah tells him

[5:32]if you want God to support you then do test me do

[5:38]praise hand prostrate to God and when you prostrate that will help

[5:51]you and support you now my dear brothers and sisters the Quran

[5:55]and the religion of Islam is not just a book of laws

[6:00]where pray fast go to Hajj this is the rules of what

[6:05]we need to do the religion of Islam is a religion of

[6:08]morality the religion of Islam is a religion of Ethics the religion

[6:13]of Islam is the religion of teaches us how to deal with

[6:16]one another how to converse with one another sometimes it teaches me

[6:21]how to deal with difficult people if someone is harassing me if

[6:27]someone's abusing me if someone's assaulting me what should I be what

[6:30]should I do what is my role because the religion of Islam

[6:37]is a religion to live by and the of a Believer the

[6:41]manners of a Believer they they Define who you are as a

[6:47]person this is why rasulullah he says verily the reason why I

[6:55]was sent was so that I could increase and enhance the greatness

[6:59]of the the great manners of people in society and we see

[7:07]that as Muslims the religion of Islam teaches us to fix our

[7:12]clock to smile on the face of others to be kind to

[7:19]say salaam to mend the ties not break the ties there are

[7:22]some people they just want to cause division they come you heard

[7:26]what this person was saying about you you heard what that person

[7:29]was saying they come and they try to destroy relationships Islam teaches

[7:34]us that that is one of the greatest acts of sinning someone

[7:37]who doesn't amima someone who comes and tells other people you heard

[7:41]what they were talking about you or someone who does gossip Reba

[7:48]backbiting these are all acts of sin and they are great sins

[7:51]in fact Allah says that shaytan shaytan his job is to cause

[8:00]Division and so division in society he tries to sow division between

[8:03]a husband and a wife Between Brothers Between a father and a

[8:06]son between neighbors between friends community members of he tries to create

[8:21]animosity between people and the religion of Islam tries to create love

[8:27]and a healthy relationship because at the end of the day our

[8:32]religion teaches us that we are all equal today in many societies

[8:39]you see divisions based upon race based upon income based upon nationality

[8:45]based upon what passport you're carrying two people one person has a

[8:49]passport the other doesn't you see this person is treated in one

[8:51]way another is treated in another way based on religion these are

[8:57]all wrong these are all wrong Allah says verily you have been

[9:13]created from male and female and made into Nations and tribes so

[9:16]that you get to know one another not so that you fight

[9:20]with one another so now when we look at the religion of

[9:23]Islam when we look at the Quran we see it gives us

[9:30]tips it gives us away a formula a life plan on how

[9:36]to deal with people and sometimes dealing with people is the biggest

[9:41]test in life it's not my relationship with God it's not my

[9:47]Salah it's not my zakat it's not my I have no problem

[9:48]with that sometimes I'm tested because of people what this person said

[9:53]to me how this person was looking at me how this person

[9:56]treated me in public and this becomes something that really breaks people

[10:00]breaks people I know some people they say you know what I'm

[10:05]never going to step foot in the Masjid why because people were

[10:08]looking at me people said something to me sometimes people you find

[10:12]friends or Brothers cousins they don't talk to one another why because

[10:18]of the way one was treating one another and this is Haram

[10:21]this is Haram Allah does not just look at you for your

[10:26]prayers and your worship Allah looks at you for the words that

[10:29]you utter for how you deal with other people now how do

[10:33]you deal with difficult people we look at the religion of Islam

[10:37]it gives us some tips we will go through some of these

[10:38]verses in the Quran these verses of etiquettes and manners and dealing

[10:42]with people because they're very very beneficial for us to live a

[10:48]life in dealing with difficult people and also in fixing ourselves teaching

[10:56]ourselves what are the real of the religion of Islam one if

[11:00]someone is speaking to you in an ill way someone speaking to

[11:06]you in a bad way the religion of Islam says you have

[11:14]to reciprocate with Salam reciprocate in a peaceful manner don't escalate the

[11:22]problems Allah says in the Quran describing the meaning the real servants

[11:42]when they walk they walk with humility they walk with humbleness they

[11:49]don't see that they're better than other people and when someone who's

[11:53]a jahil someone who's ignorant they come and they say something trying

[11:57]to put them down is the motto of Islam every time we

[12:06]see one another the first thing that we have to say is

[12:10]and live a lifestyle of Salam meaning a lifestyle of peace and

[12:16]this is what the religion of Islam teaches us sometimes people unknowingly

[12:21]they insult you sometimes people unknowingly they hurt your feelings they do

[12:27]things that upset you this happens all the time maybe you're driving

[12:31]and someone comes and cuts you off maybe it was on accident

[12:38]maybe something happened but you see some people right away they just

[12:41]you know they just want to start fighting with everyone they start

[12:45]throwing things they start cursing and they get very angry you have

[12:50]to calm down when they walk they walk with humbleness it's okay

[12:57]Salama and when someone else is talking to them in a demeaning

[13:06]way they reciprocate with Salaam because we don't always know what is

[13:15]exactly in the hearts of other people Allah says [Music] do not

[13:21]always assume the worst in people the Hadith says that A man

[13:28]gives another man 70 excuses 70 excuses meaning someone for example they

[13:32]walked by me they didn't say salaam they walked by me they

[13:34]looked at me in a way maybe this person had a stomachache

[13:38]maybe this person had a problem maybe this person was busy something

[13:45]was occupying their mind give them excuses and here we see rasulullah

[13:50]and the island this is their this is where their shines it

[13:57]is said that one day rasulullah he was helping out a lady

[14:02]in Mecca and she didn't know this was rasulullah she didn't know

[14:05]this was prophet Muhammad he was helping out this lady and this

[14:09]is in Mecca so she sees him I sent some thank you

[14:15]she sees him and she he helps her out she sees he's

[14:20]young so she tells him after he helps her out she tells

[14:22]him I saw that you helped me and I wanted to thank

[14:27]you I wanted to show appreciation to you for what you did

[14:31]but I don't have money to give you I'm an old lady

[14:33]I don't have anything to give you but I have a piece

[14:36]of advice I want to give you he tells her what she

[14:40]tells him there's this lunatic there's this crazy man his name is

[14:43]Muhammad he's going around telling people I'm a prophet and follow me

[14:47]and believe in me as the prophet of God be careful from

[14:49]him I I saw that you're a good person so I'm giving

[14:53]you this advice be careful from him rasulullah tells her I am

[15:00]Muhammad and what have they told you about me this is who

[15:03]I am this is what my religion teaches me to take care

[15:06]of people she tells him you're Muhammad he tells her yes she

[15:11]says the nightmare witness that you're a messenger of God I bear

[15:13]witness that you're a prophet of God because this is a lack

[15:18]of a righteous person and through your clock through your good manners

[15:24]when someone says something bad to them they say salaam they try

[15:30]to de-escalate the problems another very important lesson tip from the Quran

[15:39]the first is to say salaam the second is to not get

[15:47]angry immediately there are some of us sometimes we get angry very

[15:52]quickly very quickly we get angry and we we become upset and

[15:57]anger is it's you know it ends up hurting everyone if someone

[16:01]gets angry frequently in the family they end up hurting the other

[16:07]people and who's the number one person that they hurt themselves themselves

[16:11]because sometimes you work so hard you try to build something you

[16:18]try to build a good relationship with one minute of anger it

[16:20]could burn all the bridges it could burn and destroy everything that

[16:24]it took you a lifetime to build no one wants to be

[16:30]around an angry person no one wants to be even this person

[16:32]is kind smiling their whole time but sometimes this person you know

[16:39]they just suddenly blow up and when someone is like that people

[16:42]don't want to risk it no one wants to risk being around

[16:44]that person and Allah describes the meaning and the Quran there are

[16:59]those who give in Easy times and difficult times that's one but

[17:03]another point in dealing with people is mean it means those who

[17:12]bring down their anger someone upset me someone said to me something

[17:18]you try to control your anger and this is not easy control

[17:25]your anger is not easy because sometimes it's out of control it's

[17:29]sometimes it needs exercise it needs you to work on it but

[17:35]look at the imams look at the imams of the Albert Imam

[17:41]one day he goes to the Masjid and he's praying and as

[17:48]he is leaving the Masjid a man comes to him and he

[17:52]tells him they call you zainil abedin they call you the adornment

[17:56]of the worshipers you are the worst of the worst worshipers and

[18:01]then he begins to curse and use all of the foul language

[18:08]did not hurt anything he he was a man who was so

[18:18]peaceful a man who was loved and appreciated by everyone even some

[18:21]of those people who did not like Imam Ali they loved him

[18:24]his grandson but look this man he comes to him and he

[18:29]begins to curse at him he smiles and sometimes when someone angers

[18:42]you don't respond back very quickly give it some time give it

[18:46]some time think about it the imami takes a few moments he

[18:52]smiles and then he tells him I thank you for what you

[18:56]said because if what you said is true about me then thank

[19:02]you for bringing me awareness to that and I ask Allah to

[19:06]forgive me if what you said is the truth and if what

[19:11]you said is not the truth then I ask Allah to forgive

[19:15]you the man began to cry the man he saw look he

[19:22]was just trying to harass and abuse and Bully and assault the

[19:25]Imam look how the Imam reciprocated I bear witness that you are

[19:33]from the progeny you are the grandson of rasulullah and then the

[19:39]man said no you are perfect nothing that I said applies to

[19:45]you I was given money I was given I was offered one

[19:49]thousand dinars they told me go and try to anger zainability if

[19:54]you anger him we will give you the money the Imam he

[19:59]smiles he tells him you don't need to do that if you

[20:02]need money come to us and we will give you and he

[20:03]orders for them to give him he orders for them to give

[20:10]him money this is and those who control their anger Salaam his

[20:34]name is al-qadam because it means the one who's able to control

[20:38]their emotions and this is a very serious issue and then right

[20:46]after Earth and those who forgive other people this is also a

[20:51]very important quality in the religion of Islam in dealing with difficult

[20:55]people first you say salaam you try to de-escalate and then you

[20:59]lower you bring down your anger and third try to forgive other

[21:05]people this is what the religion of Islam teaches us try to

[21:08]forgive now who do I have to forgive forgive those people when

[21:14]it comes to a personal issue we're not saying forgive someone who's

[21:17]the enemy of God and the one who is the enemy of

[21:21]the prophets and the enemy of the no these people deserve the

[21:24]Latina from Allah meaning they deserve less Mercy from Allah however someone

[21:30]who it's a personal issue personal issues especially if you you're both

[21:35]mini and you're both Believers you're both Muslim then it's not worth

[21:39]causing a problem Allah loves those who do Hassan and the one

[21:49]of the greatest ways of doing Hassan doing a favor to another

[21:54]person is by forgiving them and another verse Allah says [Music] meaning

[22:04]if someone came and gave you an excuse take it from them

[22:09]don't come and say you know what no this person this and

[22:13]that try to accept the excuse of other people and enjoying the

[22:20]good and leave the jahelin don't spend too much time with people

[22:24]who are toxic don't spend too much time with people who are

[22:30]only harassing you and abusing you yes sometimes you have to draw

[22:33]a line Islam doesn't tell me oh this person is destructive and

[22:36]this person is is constantly harassing me and abusing me and I

[22:40]have to always go and be smiling and no also don't do

[22:44]that draw the perimeter don't allow people to overstep but when it's

[22:49]personal then you could also forgive forgave the people of Mecca also

[23:02]Allah conquered Mecca and they all came one of them was Hamza

[23:04]one of them was Washi the one who killed Hamza the uncle

[23:10]of the prophet why she came he wanted to join Islam some

[23:14]of those people who were waging Wars The Battle of badrin they

[23:18]waged it against the prophets now they come and they they're under

[23:25]the mercy of the Prophet now the prophet is the more powerful

[23:28]person he tells them what should I do they tell him you

[23:33]are our brother now they remember now they remembered rasulullah is their

[23:37]brother rasulullah is from the same family tribe is them he tells

[23:42]them I will tell you what Yousef told his brothers go I

[23:52]have nothing no grudges I don't hold anything in my heart against

[23:59]you and he tells them go you're all free and these individuals

[24:04]Washi these individuals who are fighting the prophet they were in all

[24:09]the battles against the prophet rasulullah tells them go this is the

[24:14]clock of Islam another very important lesson in dealing with difficult people

[24:22]is that if someone did an act of Injustice against you does

[24:29]this mean that you should do the same against them no no

[24:35]someone might say why they they did something to me I should

[24:40]do now yes we have a ruling of a sin and eye

[24:45]for an eye and a tooth for a tooth but sometimes maybe

[24:50]the act of Injustice was different we should not stoop down to

[24:56]the level of the oppressors to the level of those who are

[24:59]the wrong doers Allah loves those who are above Allah says Allah

[25:18]says apply Justice even with people who are bad says for example

[25:24]someone came and stole something from you someone is your enemy you

[25:30]don't like this person now some people they applied Justice only to

[25:34]the people they like but if someone they don't like someone who

[25:38]have they have a different point of view with they don't apply

[25:41]Justice to this person then they they go over all of this

[25:43]person's rights not giving this person a single right that's also wrong

[25:51]do not allow the evils of certain people to take away the

[25:58]adalah from you you should always apply Justice to the good person

[26:01]and to the bad person there were people that were that were

[26:07]insulting him but he would apply Justice to them rasulullah a man

[26:12]comes and accuses the prophet of stealing something from him another man

[26:16]accuses Imam Ali of stealing the armor from him goes to the

[26:21]judge even though he is the head of the government he goes

[26:25]to the judge because he wants to establish justice he doesn't say

[26:29]I don't they're wrong and I know for sure that I'm right

[26:31]and I don't need to go to the judge and another verse

[26:38]Allah says maybe someone was doing someone was difficult with you someone

[26:43]was doing something wrong that doesn't mean that you go and you

[26:46]do the same you know in some countries they have a tribal

[26:49]mentality say for example someone got in a car accident and they

[26:55]ended up they ended up killing the son of a person someone's

[27:01]son got killed in a car accident the other the tribe of

[27:05]those who were killed they go and they killed the son of

[27:09]the Killer this is called meaning this is a crime this is

[27:17]wrong but that doesn't mean you go and you do another wrong

[27:19]it doesn't make it right and this happens in some tribal Villages

[27:25]and tribal countries where people think like that when he conquered Makkah

[27:33]one of the companions the the prophet was marching into Mecca and

[27:38]the people of Makkah they were all watching they were just fighting

[27:40]the Muslims just a couple years ago now they're all watching one

[27:45]of the companions he took the he took the flag of the

[27:49]Muslims and he began to March into Makkah and he began to

[27:54]yell shouts today is the day of Bloodshed today is the day

[28:01]we're going to take your woman as sabaya as prisoners of War

[28:05]as soon as he heard this he said no no no we

[28:10]don't do this he gives the flag to Imam alien took the

[28:13]flag and he began to say [Music] is the day of rahma

[28:22]today is the day of Mercy today is the day that the

[28:27]woman will be respected and honored and this is what Islam did

[28:30]this is what the religion of Islam brought but you see this

[28:36]was embodied by those who followed the real of Islam there were

[28:41]some who claimed to be Muslim there are some who say they

[28:45]are Muslim but they did not follow the clock of Islam after

[28:49]the death of the prophets individuals came to power and they started

[28:55]causing the most gruesome and cruel actions in the name of Islam

[28:59]who killed Imam Hussain was killed in the name of the Quran

[29:04]in the name of the religion of Islam the very grandson of

[29:06]the prophet by yazid the father of yazida he killed so many

[29:12]of the sahaba so many of the companions in the name of

[29:16]the religion of Islam it is said that when he rebelled against

[29:22]he set camp in where where I believe that was the location

[29:32]of the battle and the farat the Euphrates passes through there so

[29:36]they CA the army of Maui they went and they covered the

[29:42]farat meaning not allowing Imam alien the people of Imam I need

[29:48]to have access to the river so when people when people saw

[29:52]that Imam Ali reached the Euphrates and they had no place to

[29:55]Camp they were thirsty and they had to camp in the desert

[29:59]the same thing is many years later they told him who was

[30:06]against Imam Ali he tells him wow yeah he tells him you

[30:08]think was going to die out of thirst and let 90 000

[30:12]people an army of 90 000 die out of thirst he said

[30:18]we're going to keep them thirsty the same way uthman died thirsty

[30:24]as if Imam Ali had anything to do with the murder of

[30:28]Atman so Imam Ali his people they reach and they see that

[30:31]the Army is covering the farats the Euphrates and they can't drink

[30:34]the water he stood and as a general now here Islam teaches

[30:43]me peace but peace with those who are at peace with me

[30:47]but if someone is not at peace then no you have to

[30:48]defend yourself and here it's a life and death issue he gave

[30:54]a powerful sermon in one part of it he says he says

[31:03]quench The Thirst of the swords with blood and you will drink

[31:09]the water and he he got them energized and they say that

[31:15]that night he was walking next to the tents of his people

[31:23]of his companions and he heard them saying they were saying they

[31:39]block us from and we have Ali and we have the Huda

[31:44]we have the guidance and we have the Salah and we have

[31:46]the sayam I am foreign they entered and they were able within

[32:14]within a very short time span they were able to take over

[32:19]the farat now the army of they don't have access to the

[32:23]farat so some people they come to Imam Ali some of his

[32:27]people they come and they tell him let's do the same thing

[32:29]that they did to us they didn't give us water so now

[32:32]we should not give them water and the battle will end right

[32:36]away because they're going to die out of thirst they're not going

[32:38]they're going to have to give up says we don't do that

[32:43]he says give them a part of the farat and let them

[32:46]have access to drink another very important quality that the Quran teaches

[33:01]us in dealing with difficult people is not to make fun of

[33:04]people some people they have a habit if someone I disagree with

[33:09]this person then I'm going to make fun of this person I'm

[33:11]going to call this person names I'm going to curse at this

[33:15]person I'm going to say many things that are wrong Allah says

[33:27]you don't make fun of people thinking you're better than them and

[33:34]women should not make fun of other women and then and you

[33:44]don't give names to other people some people they just want to

[33:49]give a name you know even though it's not a bad name

[33:51]but it's a name that that person does not like to be

[33:54]called they come and they call this person that name and then

[33:57]Allah says so here don't curse at people in the Battle of

[34:08]in the Battle of uh sophine versus some of the companions they

[34:17]were saying bad words and the people who are with heard this

[34:21]and he says he says I don't want you to be individuals

[34:28]who have foul mouth he says say what they're doing say what

[34:34]they're doing there's nothing wrong with that but to use foul language

[34:39]that brings you down and then he says instead say [Music] instead

[34:44]say oh Allah protect our blood and their blood meaning stop the

[34:49]Bloodshed bring peace between us and guide them out of the wrong

[35:00]this is one point and the sixth and final point that we'll

[35:06]mention is in dealing with difficult people sometimes you need to stop

[35:15]that cycle a bully is going to continue bullying and bullying and

[35:19]bullying sometimes you say salaam is going to continue bullying you're patient

[35:22]they're going to continue bullying you need to stop the cycle how

[35:26]do you stop the cycle you go and you punch them in

[35:32]the just kidding no what you do is you follow what the

[35:37]Quran is saying what does the Quran say the Quran says the

[35:43]good deed is not equal to the bad deed repel the evil

[35:53]with what because it will turn if you repel evil reciprocate evil

[36:07]with good it's going to turn a relationship of animosity into a

[36:12]relationship of love and compassion and then Allah says not everyone could

[36:19]do this this is difficult only those who have patience and those

[36:30]who have been meaning great luck meaning they're blessed by Allah this

[36:37]is very difficult someone is cursing at you and you come and

[36:44]you reciprocate the same way in one of the battles the prophet

[36:58]was out and he was in a valley and the Muslims they

[37:04]were separated from the prophet and suddenly a a flood came started

[37:08]to flood you know if if you've been to these dry countries

[37:13]like right now Arabia it starts raining within moments you have a

[37:17]flood it creates a flood because the Earth it doesn't it doesn't

[37:19]suck in the water right away so the prophet he was somewhere

[37:24]far from the Muslims and suddenly it started raining and there was

[37:28]a flood so the prophet was separated from the Muslims and he

[37:32]was laying he was washing an out his clothes or something he

[37:37]had it hung and he was laying under a tree suddenly one

[37:41]of the enemies comes he grabs the sword and he tells the

[37:47]prophet who's going to save you from me now who's going to

[37:49]save you from me he has The Sword and the prophet does

[37:52]not have the sword the Hadith says right away rasulullah said Allah

[37:56]God will save me as soon as he said Allah the man

[38:00]he tripped and he fell rasulullah took the sword now the man

[38:05]the Hadith says he tripped and fell because pushed them he he

[38:10]the man fell the prophet took the sword and he tells him

[38:15]who's going to save you from me the man he said he

[38:19]was going to kill the prophets but the when the prophet tells

[38:25]him who's wrong to save you from me he tells him your

[38:27]generosity and your grace so Allah tells him go the man he

[38:35]says I bear witness that you're a messenger of God he goes

[38:38]to his people who they were fighting the Muslims he comes and

[38:41]he tells them I came back from the most generous and honorable

[38:45]person he had the chance to kill me after I tried to

[38:50]kill him and I felt then he had the chance to kill

[38:51]me and he let me go my dear brothers and sisters this

[38:58]Islam if we truly follow the Quran then we will be guided

[39:02]to a much happier lifestyle and out with for ourselves and for

[39:06]in living with other people and dealing with other people we ask

[39:11]Allah to make us from those who benefit from the Quran the

[39:14]Quran is full of lessons morals we have to try to benefit

[39:18]from them Allah Allah [Music] [Music] [Music] for all of those who

[40:51]have contributed to these programs and sponsored these programs throughout the holy

[40:57]month of Ramadan and also inshallah read for sure Friday will be

[41:02]eight for the followers of said father so there will be a

[41:05]Salah here at 9 00 am inshallah for the followers of Saint

[41:11]father for the other Scholars the thedine of the other Scholars we

[41:15]have to wait inshallah there is a chance that the Halal will

[41:20]be cited so we want everyone to try to look for the

[41:21]to try to look for it in that case then the followers

[41:27]of said the followers of said sistani the followers of all of

[41:33]the other Maharaja who who have a different View it will be

[41:36]on um it will be on Friday as well and the Halal

[41:40]will be in the sky so there's a chance of citing it

[41:44]if we cite it everyone will be together if it is not

[41:45]cited then one group will be on Friday and one group will

[41:51]be on Saturday and Allah accepts from you all the zakat zakata

[41:54]inshallah I will be repeating this every night fifteen dollars per person

[41:59]fifteen dollars per person if you know family if you have people

[42:04]that you know and you want to send the money to them

[42:07]send it to them send send it to them especially if you're

[42:12]sending it overseas you want it to arrive by the day of

[42:17]Eid so send it from now so that arrives on the day

[42:18]of Eid if you don't have anyone you don't know anyone we're

[42:22]going to put a box here then we will inshallah send it

[42:24]to whoever we see qualifies for it

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